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December 7th, 2016
Bootcamp changed my life - Next Phase - Nathan
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theraguu!

theraguu!

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Join Date: 03/31/2009 | Posts: 442

The past few months of my life has been the most amazing/emotional/insane time of my 36 years. I want to first give credit to Brad for really setting me on the right path during my first bootcamp (Summer 2009). While I had some success through my social circle, I've only cold approached a few girls prior to that experience. Brad opened my eyes to the possibilities and really got the ball rolling. I'd also like to extend a huge amount of gratitude/appreciation/admiration for Nathan and the Resurrection Crew. If you get a chance to read my bootcamp / after bootcamp experience in my sig below, you'll see a crazy transformation. From a guy that was still timid of approaching anyone (again, relying soley on a huge social circle) to having chicks cry in bathrooms because I won't fuck them to girls fighting over for attention in a parking lot to getting involved in some serious inner swinger circles. Wow, just wow. This by no means a brag... for some of you guys that deal with crazy crap like this on a daily basis, you know what seems exciting at first becomes somewhat annoying with frequency. My point is... HOLY SHIT. What a transformation... if Tyler would have said 'Look dude, follow this path and you'd have more girls in your life than you could even manage'  2 years ago, I would have told him he's full of shit. FULL OF SHIT. I was just never *that guy*.  I was fortunate because I hung out with some very cool bands in NY.. and every so often, something would fall on my lap. Those days are over, I know I'll never have to worry about not finding quality girls.

I've been off the board for about a month. Some crazy crap went down with my swinger ex g/f (which look, I knew what I was getting into from the start) 2 days after Christmas. Boo Hoo... I was down for about 4 days and went on a fking spree. I just didn't care.. day approach, karaoke bars, plenty of fish.. I just decided to see how far I could push things. Wow, it's amazing how attraction works when you have absolutely no concern on the outcome. In that period of time, I met a pretty freaking kickass girl. She's a Bolivian chick that is MY 10. Look, some guys talk about taking relationships a day at a time, I'm probably closer to hourly. I don't know what's going to happen by time this letter is even complete, but I'm going to try something new... monogamy. I dig this girl and I'm willing to see where it goes. If it's not what I want, I have absolutely no worries about finding someone else.. it's not a question of 'finding girls' anymore. After the training thanks to RSD, it's more like just going out and having cool ass girls enter your life.

So I plan to continue the self improvement, I plan to still hit the bars (Drama, it's on bro).. I plan to meet amazing girls and have a freaking great time with the interactions. I'm just really happy with where I am in my life. Bootcamp really had less to do with the girls and more to do with who I am. Every area of my life is on the upswing. I still plan to frequent the boards, I even plan to continue the swinger series (sorry for the delays, huge lifechanging events lately).  Thanks to everyone that's helped me on this journey.  Nathan, life changing my friend.

Raguu
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Swingers, Unicorns and Lesbians - Oh My http://www.rsdnation.com/node/167961

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thebrave

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Join Date: 02/05/2011 | Posts: 70

 Inspiring and motivational espicially for newbies like me. You're 100% correct its less about girls and all about who you are.
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Nathan!

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Excellent brotha  let's catch up sometime soon
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theraguu!

theraguu!

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Thanks bro. I'll drop you a text in a few and just posted a field report from Valentines Day. Divebars, they're like my personal Disney Land.
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Excellent brotha  let's catch up sometime soon
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Calavera

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theraguu! wrote:
From a guy that was still timid of approaching anyone (again, relying soley on a huge social circle) to having chicks cry in bathrooms because I won't fuck them
WOW! GOAL OF LIFE to have this.

Calavera
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tycho!

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 Hahah, now you've given me high expectations
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I don't see how bootcamps can change a persons life. Someone summerize that shit for me.
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I don't see how bootcamps can change a persons life. Someone summerize that shit for me.
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theraguu!

theraguu!

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The bootcamp was the catalyst, I took massive action afterwards. 

I'll tell you the scariest part about Nathan, the debrief. He told me stuff about myself, my barriers, my tendencies I didn't want to hear. If you read my bootcamp experience, you'll see it wasn't all sunshine and rainbows. He said this is it.. and he was 100% on the mark. It was those little things that set all kinds of crap in motion and not just in pickup. My business is stronger, my health is dialed, my workouts are now habit... just all around improvement. I took the advice and made it happen for myself.

Life changing? I could never go back to the way it was before the last bootcamp. Even the fking thought of it makes me cringe just a bit. I'm not sure if that helps, but that's my take on it.
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I don't see how bootcamps can change a persons life. Someone summerize that shit for me.
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Austin BootCamp with Nathan - Sept 2010 http://www.rsdnation.com/node/164840

30 Day Challenge after Austin Bootcamp http://www.rsdnation.com/node/165161

Swingers, Unicorns and Lesbians - Oh My http://www.rsdnation.com/node/167961

Brad BootCamp - August 2009

====== "You just got blown out by a guy in a 10 dollar dragon force t shirt" - Two Step
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It reminds me of the time when I learned to walk.
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