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Keep it up man- do you go out solo a lot? It def. helps with longterm growth.
thanks, and rarley ever, something I plan on doing though. how long have you been on your sober solo challange? __________________
"It is one thing to study war
and another to live the warrior’s life."
—Telamon of Arcadia,
mercenary of the f i f th century B.C.
" Nobody knew I was done. Nobody cared[...]Next morning I went over to Paul ’s for coffee and told
him I had finished. “Good for you,” he said without looking up. “Start the next one today.”"
-Steven Pressfield
"It is one thing to study war
and another to live the warrior’s life."
—Telamon of Arcadia,
mercenary of the f i f th century B.C.
" Nobody knew I was done. Nobody cared[...]Next morning I went over to Paul ’s for coffee and told
him I had finished. “Good for you,” he said without looking up. “Start the next one today.”"
-Steven Pressfield
34 days. It's solid
I am going out with wings sometimes now though.
I would get sober dude... going out while drinking etc.. leaves us far too vulnerable to the crazy ups and downs of the game.
I am going out with wings sometimes now though.
I would get sober dude... going out while drinking etc.. leaves us far too vulnerable to the crazy ups and downs of the game.
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The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
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The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
thats dope, I read about how you explained it to your parents also. pretty much how my parents handled it.
I am still scared of that, something I will try though.
Day 20: get together
-so its me my 2 buddies, my other buddy and his girlfriend, a girl whos the friend of the girlfriend and a friend of my buddies
-not many people 3 guys are single me, my buddy and his friend. and of course the girl. they all want her, I kinda do also just because theres no options. but shes like a 6 maybe a 7 bec theres no one else.
-she shows them more attention throughout the night, w/e, I pulled her to be alone but I know when the kiss ant happening so I just say lets go before it gets akward.
-I throw up because iv been sick and drank some nasty 80% alchy, I dont know what proof that is for you americans
-I tell people because I dont like to hide my weakness, the one guy makes fun of me and shit. (I was being nice to him and not choding him out because hes my buddys friend but hes fucked now)
-I still feel rattled from throwing up, I go have a chat withmyself downstairs and decide to start building state from skratch
-I dance, I yell, I talk with my buddys im back
-we all go hotubbing, my one buddy leaves, thats one down
-my buddy and his girl leave the hot tub, thats three down
-the girl is always sitting on me, she comes back to me after she gets pulled away. I am ignoring friend of friend the whole time, he doesnt register in my mind, sometimes ill just say, Im not answer that and make him look like a douch. I dont want to be mean but he pissed me off. he feel sinsecure, hes rubbing her feet while she rubbs her ass on my dick. fuck off little man, I dont say that but he dipps and walks home because he knows hes beat.
-me and my best buddy are left with her, a bylaw officer comes by, so we go take a shower together... all 3 of us :P
-but from the start and in the hotub, iv been trying ot makeout with her and shes not having it, aprarently she has a boyfriend and is commited. she likes us but she wont have any of it.
-we all shower, me and him kiss her body, feel her up. try and makeout with her but no makeout.
-she leaves says its too much and trys to analyze why were doing it. I try to shut her logic off but no go.
-we all go to the bed, my buddy passes out, I dont know when to give up so I keep trying, she has to go in 40 mins, eventually I get it so that we can graze lips but not kiss and I steal some kisses and she lets me feel her up but lmao just a waste of time.
-w/e we wake up, shes gone, me and my bestest buddy walkhome and laugh about itt.
I am still scared of that, something I will try though.
Day 20: get together
-so its me my 2 buddies, my other buddy and his girlfriend, a girl whos the friend of the girlfriend and a friend of my buddies
-not many people 3 guys are single me, my buddy and his friend. and of course the girl. they all want her, I kinda do also just because theres no options. but shes like a 6 maybe a 7 bec theres no one else.
-she shows them more attention throughout the night, w/e, I pulled her to be alone but I know when the kiss ant happening so I just say lets go before it gets akward.
-I throw up because iv been sick and drank some nasty 80% alchy, I dont know what proof that is for you americans
-I tell people because I dont like to hide my weakness, the one guy makes fun of me and shit. (I was being nice to him and not choding him out because hes my buddys friend but hes fucked now)
-I still feel rattled from throwing up, I go have a chat withmyself downstairs and decide to start building state from skratch
-I dance, I yell, I talk with my buddys im back
-we all go hotubbing, my one buddy leaves, thats one down
-my buddy and his girl leave the hot tub, thats three down
-the girl is always sitting on me, she comes back to me after she gets pulled away. I am ignoring friend of friend the whole time, he doesnt register in my mind, sometimes ill just say, Im not answer that and make him look like a douch. I dont want to be mean but he pissed me off. he feel sinsecure, hes rubbing her feet while she rubbs her ass on my dick. fuck off little man, I dont say that but he dipps and walks home because he knows hes beat.
-me and my best buddy are left with her, a bylaw officer comes by, so we go take a shower together... all 3 of us :P
-but from the start and in the hotub, iv been trying ot makeout with her and shes not having it, aprarently she has a boyfriend and is commited. she likes us but she wont have any of it.
-we all shower, me and him kiss her body, feel her up. try and makeout with her but no makeout.
-she leaves says its too much and trys to analyze why were doing it. I try to shut her logic off but no go.
-we all go to the bed, my buddy passes out, I dont know when to give up so I keep trying, she has to go in 40 mins, eventually I get it so that we can graze lips but not kiss and I steal some kisses and she lets me feel her up but lmao just a waste of time.
-w/e we wake up, shes gone, me and my bestest buddy walkhome and laugh about itt.
__________________
"It is one thing to study war
and another to live the warrior’s life."
—Telamon of Arcadia,
mercenary of the f i f th century B.C.
" Nobody knew I was done. Nobody cared[...]Next morning I went over to Paul ’s for coffee and told
him I had finished. “Good for you,” he said without looking up. “Start the next one today.”"
-Steven Pressfield
"It is one thing to study war
and another to live the warrior’s life."
—Telamon of Arcadia,
mercenary of the f i f th century B.C.
" Nobody knew I was done. Nobody cared[...]Next morning I went over to Paul ’s for coffee and told
him I had finished. “Good for you,” he said without looking up. “Start the next one today.”"
-Steven Pressfield
lol I commited to my climb today __________________
"It is one thing to study war
and another to live the warrior’s life."
—Telamon of Arcadia,
mercenary of the f i f th century B.C.
" Nobody knew I was done. Nobody cared[...]Next morning I went over to Paul ’s for coffee and told
him I had finished. “Good for you,” he said without looking up. “Start the next one today.”"
-Steven Pressfield
"It is one thing to study war
and another to live the warrior’s life."
—Telamon of Arcadia,
mercenary of the f i f th century B.C.
" Nobody knew I was done. Nobody cared[...]Next morning I went over to Paul ’s for coffee and told
him I had finished. “Good for you,” he said without looking up. “Start the next one today.”"
-Steven Pressfield
OFF to OSHEAGA MONTREAL TOMORROW, time to kill it.... hipsters, booze, drugs, smokes, lots and lots of people and amazing music.
its really my time to bring all this together and let go of anybullshit mental restraints because I am ENOUGH. I have put in the effort and will put it in again, I will pull, I will fuck, I will party, I will have fun. DO or DIE, then when I come back I need to get back on track. but for now, ima just let my self go and do what I need to do to pump my state.
its really my time to bring all this together and let go of anybullshit mental restraints because I am ENOUGH. I have put in the effort and will put it in again, I will pull, I will fuck, I will party, I will have fun. DO or DIE, then when I come back I need to get back on track. but for now, ima just let my self go and do what I need to do to pump my state.
__________________
"It is one thing to study war
and another to live the warrior’s life."
—Telamon of Arcadia,
mercenary of the f i f th century B.C.
" Nobody knew I was done. Nobody cared[...]Next morning I went over to Paul ’s for coffee and told
him I had finished. “Good for you,” he said without looking up. “Start the next one today.”"
-Steven Pressfield
"It is one thing to study war
and another to live the warrior’s life."
—Telamon of Arcadia,
mercenary of the f i f th century B.C.
" Nobody knew I was done. Nobody cared[...]Next morning I went over to Paul ’s for coffee and told
him I had finished. “Good for you,” he said without looking up. “Start the next one today.”"
-Steven Pressfield
OSHEAGA MONTREAL!! + going out the same day I get home
Night one
-we get there at 12am and go out to check the town
-we just kinda scope the place out, hit a couple pubs, do a few baybe aproaches
-then we start walking to get food, which means STREET GAME :P I love street game
-high fives to pump my state, find a girl, pull her in, fat friend trys to pull her back, good wing men block it
-Try for the makeout, no, be a boss, yess makeout
-get the number and hope for prospects later
Day one/Night two
-Wake up, get some nice food, get alchy and suplies for today
-drink alot of vodka redbull, have myself a five hour energy
-were all jacked up, get in the subway, meet some pretty cool girls
-we stay with them for a bit, more approaches, me mroe groups, more approahces moreeeeee
-fuck, I start feeling dizzy, realize im dehydrated hard, get really stuck in my head and feel super sick,
-everyone is feeling pretty bad because of the sun and dehydration. the event didnt have enough waterstations
-I see people passing out everywhere and being carried out
-I dont balckout eazy though so I fight it and finally get hydrated, THE SHOWS WERE AMAZING like BOMB, Florence I loved
-get back to the hotel, we force our selves out but were sooooo tired
-we basically just have a beer do an approahc and call it a night
Day two/Night three - big day
-Wake up, hydrate, no vodka
-get breakfast, get our shit together, head out
-get into the festivle, see the group from yesterday, we jam with them for a bit, my bro makes out with the hottest one.
-girl follows us for a while but then dip, I enjoy snoopdog, to the max, I am having trouble approaching, stuck in my head
-I just do simple appraches non threatening, non sexual Its fucking gay
-were standing waiting for an artist to come on, I look over and this girl is looking at me... done
-I know its love, I walk over real slow, get up close, we just stare at eachother, little chit chat, makeout, she says love I say love lol
-get back to the hotel, pre drink a little, were going to get bottle services with some girls my bro knows
-get in the club, find them, drink like crazy and have tons of fun
-Then I find out olympic girl is in montreal so I tell her to come, (Now this in itself is a story so I wont go to far into it, but basically I was a huge bitch and couldent handle a girl that wasnt going to react to my physicality and I couldent just accept she liked me and I self sabatoged, learnt a bunch of things from it but still fucked up)
-Make out with one of the girsl were with, I wingman my bro and his buddy, its there turn tonight I distract the boring ugly one, they dont get anywhere, we stay up till 6 am
-finally go home and go to bed
Day Three/Night four
-wakeup pretty late, were tired, go get food watch the olympics for a bit and get to see girls weightlifting history, 151kg clean and jerk.... she snatched it, beastly russians
-head over to the festivle, get high, party hard, see the blackkeys live, dont really do to much
-the shows ends pretty quick, its 10ish, and the lineup to get to the subway is epic, takes forever we get back at 12ish
-my bro and his buddy dont wana go out, I freak out a bit and I realize I dont have to go out everynight, but I realize some things I need to work on
THINGS I NEED TO IMPROVE
-going out solo
-having indiffrence to her showing me intrest, this way if shes interested and just not showing it, I dont blow it up
-being able to hold a conversation loger with a girl
-scouting logistics
-faith in myself and my abilities
THINGS I KILL AT
-HUGS LOVE SPINS, PHYSICALITY
-eye contact, vulnerability
Day four/Night five
-Drive all day back home, sleep, get high, eat durign the car ride
-get home, say hello to my parents, my buddies pick me up to go out for food etc.
-we get food and beer, have fun with the waitress and just pump eachother up
-I convince my one buddy to go out with me, we go to phils, I am having a shit of a time, my stomach hurts, I am about to throw up, I keep getting blown out
-all good, just take it slow, I dance, start enjoying myself, do some little approaches, see a girl I know, get blowen out a few more times, do a hard approach with one girl two guys
-approach the hottest girls in the club, there foreign, they love me, I leave set to early, not enough entitlment
-mehh, I feel better just appraoching, dancefloor, dancing, see a girl make eyecontact, I keep it, she points at me, I pull her in
-head to head for a bit, dance, eyecontact, nudge into the makeout, hard makeout, get the number, keep dancing
-people are leaving and its getting kinda dry, so me and my buddy taxi home, Im glad I went out and kept to it anyways
Night one
-we get there at 12am and go out to check the town
-we just kinda scope the place out, hit a couple pubs, do a few baybe aproaches
-then we start walking to get food, which means STREET GAME :P I love street game
-high fives to pump my state, find a girl, pull her in, fat friend trys to pull her back, good wing men block it
-Try for the makeout, no, be a boss, yess makeout
-get the number and hope for prospects later
Day one/Night two
-Wake up, get some nice food, get alchy and suplies for today
-drink alot of vodka redbull, have myself a five hour energy
-were all jacked up, get in the subway, meet some pretty cool girls
-we stay with them for a bit, more approaches, me mroe groups, more approahces moreeeeee
-fuck, I start feeling dizzy, realize im dehydrated hard, get really stuck in my head and feel super sick,
-everyone is feeling pretty bad because of the sun and dehydration. the event didnt have enough waterstations
-I see people passing out everywhere and being carried out
-I dont balckout eazy though so I fight it and finally get hydrated, THE SHOWS WERE AMAZING like BOMB, Florence I loved
-get back to the hotel, we force our selves out but were sooooo tired
-we basically just have a beer do an approahc and call it a night
Day two/Night three - big day
-Wake up, hydrate, no vodka
-get breakfast, get our shit together, head out
-get into the festivle, see the group from yesterday, we jam with them for a bit, my bro makes out with the hottest one.
-girl follows us for a while but then dip, I enjoy snoopdog, to the max, I am having trouble approaching, stuck in my head
-I just do simple appraches non threatening, non sexual Its fucking gay
-were standing waiting for an artist to come on, I look over and this girl is looking at me... done
-I know its love, I walk over real slow, get up close, we just stare at eachother, little chit chat, makeout, she says love I say love lol
-get back to the hotel, pre drink a little, were going to get bottle services with some girls my bro knows
-get in the club, find them, drink like crazy and have tons of fun
-Then I find out olympic girl is in montreal so I tell her to come, (Now this in itself is a story so I wont go to far into it, but basically I was a huge bitch and couldent handle a girl that wasnt going to react to my physicality and I couldent just accept she liked me and I self sabatoged, learnt a bunch of things from it but still fucked up)
-Make out with one of the girsl were with, I wingman my bro and his buddy, its there turn tonight I distract the boring ugly one, they dont get anywhere, we stay up till 6 am
-finally go home and go to bed
Day Three/Night four
-wakeup pretty late, were tired, go get food watch the olympics for a bit and get to see girls weightlifting history, 151kg clean and jerk.... she snatched it, beastly russians
-head over to the festivle, get high, party hard, see the blackkeys live, dont really do to much
-the shows ends pretty quick, its 10ish, and the lineup to get to the subway is epic, takes forever we get back at 12ish
-my bro and his buddy dont wana go out, I freak out a bit and I realize I dont have to go out everynight, but I realize some things I need to work on
THINGS I NEED TO IMPROVE
-going out solo
-having indiffrence to her showing me intrest, this way if shes interested and just not showing it, I dont blow it up
-being able to hold a conversation loger with a girl
-scouting logistics
-faith in myself and my abilities
THINGS I KILL AT
-HUGS LOVE SPINS, PHYSICALITY
-eye contact, vulnerability
Day four/Night five
-Drive all day back home, sleep, get high, eat durign the car ride
-get home, say hello to my parents, my buddies pick me up to go out for food etc.
-we get food and beer, have fun with the waitress and just pump eachother up
-I convince my one buddy to go out with me, we go to phils, I am having a shit of a time, my stomach hurts, I am about to throw up, I keep getting blown out
-all good, just take it slow, I dance, start enjoying myself, do some little approaches, see a girl I know, get blowen out a few more times, do a hard approach with one girl two guys
-approach the hottest girls in the club, there foreign, they love me, I leave set to early, not enough entitlment
-mehh, I feel better just appraoching, dancefloor, dancing, see a girl make eyecontact, I keep it, she points at me, I pull her in
-head to head for a bit, dance, eyecontact, nudge into the makeout, hard makeout, get the number, keep dancing
-people are leaving and its getting kinda dry, so me and my buddy taxi home, Im glad I went out and kept to it anyways
__________________
"It is one thing to study war
and another to live the warrior’s life."
—Telamon of Arcadia,
mercenary of the f i f th century B.C.
" Nobody knew I was done. Nobody cared[...]Next morning I went over to Paul ’s for coffee and told
him I had finished. “Good for you,” he said without looking up. “Start the next one today.”"
-Steven Pressfield
"It is one thing to study war
and another to live the warrior’s life."
—Telamon of Arcadia,
mercenary of the f i f th century B.C.
" Nobody knew I was done. Nobody cared[...]Next morning I went over to Paul ’s for coffee and told
him I had finished. “Good for you,” he said without looking up. “Start the next one today.”"
-Steven Pressfield
DURRRR... I need to start working on after the makeout game, iv master the get the makeout
Day w/e - hooka+houseparty+phils
-the boys are back in town
-were jacked up, we get our drink on, take a buss
-get our drink on and smoke on at hooka, im feeling good
-walk over to the hosue party, get jacked up there, its dying down, people are going to other partys
-we head over to phils, get in, super drunk, couple approaches, approach a 23 yearold
-who are you, blah blah, she asks my age, I always say one year older, so 20, she trys to shit test me
-I rip that shit up, shes in love, makeout, spins, dance, im drunk, she just kinda wanders off
-taxi home, wake up and do it again today but hopefully alot more sober
Day w/e - hooka+houseparty+phils
-the boys are back in town
-were jacked up, we get our drink on, take a buss
-get our drink on and smoke on at hooka, im feeling good
-walk over to the hosue party, get jacked up there, its dying down, people are going to other partys
-we head over to phils, get in, super drunk, couple approaches, approach a 23 yearold
-who are you, blah blah, she asks my age, I always say one year older, so 20, she trys to shit test me
-I rip that shit up, shes in love, makeout, spins, dance, im drunk, she just kinda wanders off
-taxi home, wake up and do it again today but hopefully alot more sober
__________________
"It is one thing to study war
and another to live the warrior’s life."
—Telamon of Arcadia,
mercenary of the f i f th century B.C.
" Nobody knew I was done. Nobody cared[...]Next morning I went over to Paul ’s for coffee and told
him I had finished. “Good for you,” he said without looking up. “Start the next one today.”"
-Steven Pressfield
"It is one thing to study war
and another to live the warrior’s life."
—Telamon of Arcadia,
mercenary of the f i f th century B.C.
" Nobody knew I was done. Nobody cared[...]Next morning I went over to Paul ’s for coffee and told
him I had finished. “Good for you,” he said without looking up. “Start the next one today.”"
-Steven Pressfield
The after the makeout game is moving them around game.
If you can approach, makeout (intent), move them (leading/logistics), then you are at pulling and end game.
Pretty sweet man, shit dont gotta be hard
If you can approach, makeout (intent), move them (leading/logistics), then you are at pulling and end game.
Pretty sweet man, shit dont gotta be hard
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The after the makeout game is moving them around game.
If you can approach, makeout (intent), move them (leading/logistics), then you are at pulling and end game.
Pretty sweet man, shit dont gotta be hard
move around and ask logistics, check. goal for tonight :p If you can approach, makeout (intent), move them (leading/logistics), then you are at pulling and end game.
Pretty sweet man, shit dont gotta be hard
of course then I have to pull ;)
__________________
"It is one thing to study war
and another to live the warrior’s life."
—Telamon of Arcadia,
mercenary of the f i f th century B.C.
" Nobody knew I was done. Nobody cared[...]Next morning I went over to Paul ’s for coffee and told
him I had finished. “Good for you,” he said without looking up. “Start the next one today.”"
-Steven Pressfield
"It is one thing to study war
and another to live the warrior’s life."
—Telamon of Arcadia,
mercenary of the f i f th century B.C.
" Nobody knew I was done. Nobody cared[...]Next morning I went over to Paul ’s for coffee and told
him I had finished. “Good for you,” he said without looking up. “Start the next one today.”"
-Steven Pressfield
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The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha