THE FORUMS

October 23rd, 2017
GF all over a dude at the bar..shall I leave and go back to beastmodez
Your rating: None
Bookmark and Share
#21
Buii

Buii

Senior Member

Join Date: 07/31/2008 | Posts: 136

Holland wrote:

She's retarded if she thinks grinding and being all over a guy's dick (without kissing) is normal in an exclusive relationship.[/b]I would never kiss an other girl while i´m in a realationship, but i dance with girls, i make them horny, i rub my dick at their asses, i rub their pussys and for the most girlfriends it´s ok.
__________________
Turtles upon Turtles...
Login or register to post.
#22
ambiguity

ambiguity

Trusted Member

Join Date: 10/28/2009 | Posts: 5330

FeelsGreat wrote:

ambiguity wrote:
Even worst is the fact she isn't even apologetic. In the future, avoid bar stars, the ones getting polluted, and out of control drunk at bars. Fun to fuck but, not wife material. Its just the tip of the iceberg bro. The titanic sunk from an iceberg. So did this relationship. If you reflect back, in due to, I am willing to bet, you will have missed some red flags, those little incidents that may have been allowed to slide. Typically, scarcity mindset can set in, and you can make exceptions to your standards of what is acceptable - but then, you are more responsible for the further slide and emotional vomit you find yourself in. My apologies on the awful situation you find yourself in but, 2011 will bring forth a variety of girls. Step into the unknown, put down the sham of a relationship, and the security blanket it provides. Go back into the wild, hit on the girls, and create the life style you want to live as well as the man you want to be.
I agree x1000

If this is an actual exclusive relationship she is obviously NOT afraid to lose you and doesn't respect you. Get out there and push your limits again man, dismiss this girl.

It sucks to cause, a natural, PUA, instructor, or anyone could have this sort of shit happen to them. Anyone that says other wise is lying to you.

Still, I work towards increasing the probability of success. That is all we or anyone can ever do.

I like Jeffy's emphasis on that "unreactive" thread I put up ages ago suggesting that, if she crosses the line, she is out. NO EXCUSES.

I really wish and would hope RSD diversifies and actually puts out something in regards to relationship management.

Picking up random bar skanks is easy. Having a intimate relationship when you are physically, emotionally invested, and attached adds an entirely different dynamic.

Still, I will disregard her like my memory is bad if a girl crosses the line.

As men, nobody ever said it was going to be easy. Sometimes, you just got to take it on the chin, pick yourself up off the floor, dust yourself off, and walk it off.

No point hating her, hating women, and or wasting any effort on it any more. Her actions reveal her interest level as well as motivation.

I heard Tyler on Askmen.com. I have followed Doc Love before and I am curious about his "System." I like alot of what he has to say and to be quite honest, I read that shit long before I ever found the community.

I saw it like men's cosmo lol only, about pulling and stuff.

Playmate, I feel for you bro but, its time for tough love. You need to take a walk man. This is unacceptable behavior from any girl in your life unless of course, you accept it.

@ Jeffy - I am sure, when you are ready, the forum would love some after thoughts on relationships, dating, commitment and such.
__________________
Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#! Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.


Login or register to post.
#23
jlaix

jlaix

Instructor | Trusted Member

Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 8752

 My thoughts right now, having gotten out of a relationship in June and trying to be all nice guy with these girls, is... FUCK THAT I AM GOING BACK TO PURE EVIL. 
Login or register to post.
#24
ambiguity

ambiguity

Trusted Member

Join Date: 10/28/2009 | Posts: 5330

jlaix wrote:
 My thoughts right now, having gotten out of a relationship in June and trying to be all nice guy with these girls, is... FUCK THAT I AM GOING BACK TO PURE EVIL. 
Good stuff man. If you end up coming out with articles, I am willing to bet everyone on the forum including myself would be after that. Pulling randoms or girls within my social circle and cold approach is no problem but, relationship management is another story so, indepth after thoughts here are appreciated. Any guy going through that sort of shit or what you have gone through (treading lightly), its just not cool but, as a man, all we can really do is take it on the chin, and keep going. Pouting or hating women is unattractive, and it doesn't help you or anyone pull. The same can be said about butt hurt threads man. I just do my part in not taking it personal and keep on going. Looking forward and not backwards. Always keep moving. Still, I would love to hear or see some articles man or a write up when you get a chance bro. Cheers!
__________________
Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#! Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.


Login or register to post.
#25

Jaffar

Respected Member

Join Date: 11/04/2007 | Posts: 778

+1 - On coming out with articles, no matter how much experience you've had in the relationship side of things I'm sure it'd come from a different angle.

Jaffar.
ambiguity wrote:

jlaix wrote:
 My thoughts right now, having gotten out of a relationship in June and trying to be all nice guy with these girls, is... FUCK THAT I AM GOING BACK TO PURE EVIL. 
Good stuff man. If you end up coming out with articles, I am willing to bet everyone on the forum including myself would be after that. Pulling randoms or girls within my social circle and cold approach is no problem but, relationship management is another story so, indepth after thoughts here are appreciated. Any guy going through that sort of shit or what you have gone through (treading lightly), its just not cool but, as a man, all we can really do is take it on the chin, and keep going. Pouting or hating women is unattractive, and it doesn't help you or anyone pull. The same can be said about butt hurt threads man. I just do my part in not taking it personal and keep on going. Looking forward and not backwards. Always keep moving. Still, I would love to hear or see some articles man or a write up when you get a chance bro. Cheers!
__________________
Warning:  This is f@#$ing Sparta.  Don't die a coward. RSD - Inner Circle:  TORONTO Chapter  - An RSD Social Club for Toronto and Area locals.  Social events, self-development, city to city outings, general mayhem.  Check us out at...  www.rsdnation.com/toronto. Some recent RSDTIC events:  www.rsdnation.com/node/190215/forum
Login or register to post.
#26
Sketchyyy

Sketchyyy

Respected Member

Join Date: 06/13/2009 | Posts: 593

Manwhore wrote:
 She was able to turn it around and make it your fault 'cuz you're a puss.  She saw her opening and took advantage.

If she didn't ALREADY know this was a possibility, she wouldn't have done shit like this in the first place.  Girls don't fuck around like this on a guy who's solid.

You caught HER grinding on some dude and you were SO weak her and her friend were able to turn it back on YOU?  C'mon dude.  Don't let that shit happen.  You have to be tough.. not even tough.  Your mind is already set.  That's it.


(My roomie says if you ever need a wing he will play broadway musicals on his keyboards)
Exactly, 

My advice, leave her. Get back in the game. You've got a lot to learn.
__________________
You ain't seen nothing yet.

Follow me on Snapchat (SnapSocialGuru) and learn how to create stories that will have people coming to you


[1/4] The Snapchat Guide to Game: How to create a captivating story
Login or register to post.
#27

Jaffar

Respected Member

Join Date: 11/04/2007 | Posts: 778

 OP, set your standards.  But you already have or you wouldn't be pissed.  Enforce your standards..

Don't kid yourself, she knew 100% it was a huge risk, and 99.9% chance not to be ok.

It's completely clear she thinks she can get away with it or doesn't care.

You want someone who acts like this you're settling.

Leave or you might as well castrate yourself.

Be a Man.  Enforce standards in your life.

You don't, nobody will.

Jaffar.
__________________
Warning:  This is f@#$ing Sparta.  Don't die a coward. RSD - Inner Circle:  TORONTO Chapter  - An RSD Social Club for Toronto and Area locals.  Social events, self-development, city to city outings, general mayhem.  Check us out at...  www.rsdnation.com/toronto. Some recent RSDTIC events:  www.rsdnation.com/node/190215/forum
Login or register to post.
#28
PlayDate

PlayDate

Respected Member

Join Date: 02/01/2009 | Posts: 450

Sketchyyy wrote:

Manwhore wrote:
 She was able to turn it around and make it your fault 'cuz you're a puss.  She saw her opening and took advantage.

If she didn't ALREADY know this was a possibility, she wouldn't have done shit like this in the first place.  Girls don't fuck around like this on a guy who's solid.

You caught HER grinding on some dude and you were SO weak her and her friend were able to turn it back on YOU?  C'mon dude.  Don't let that shit happen.  You have to be tough.. not even tough.  Your mind is already set.  That's it.


(My roomie says if you ever need a wing he will play broadway musicals on his keyboards)
Exactly, 

My advice, leave her. Get back in the game. You've got a lot to learn.


Real shit by both of you guys. Cheers

What would you done in this situation manwhore, or sketchyy, since you have the same mind set. I didn't do shit, I just stood there and listend to them bitch.

I could have bitched back, but didn't see the point.
I honestly was getting semi pissed off by her neediness etc, as you can see in another thread.


And to all the other dudes, yes this was an exclusive realtionship, I stoped seeing my fuck buddies when we started dating.
I fucked random girls for a year and a half, and was out 3-4 nights a week proir to this. I didn't date before beacuse the girls didn't seem solid to me, thought this one was.

--Jeffyyyyies, the real question is....." WWJD"...and I don't mean Jesus . Or more like, what would you havee done.


FUCK, i just realized I am going to be single for spring break in FL NOW

BAHHH EPIC, and along with 4 freshman level classes I am taking, and I'm a 6 year senior....everything works out in the end.


This thread needs a theme song....fucking love this track.

__________________
"At the end of your life what have you've got except memories? That's it. And then poof. You know, we're all just passing through. You really do have to be selfish. You really can't love anybody else unless you're Goddamn in love with yourself. Be delusional. Be really delusional. Consciously, I know I'm not the best looking guy in the world, but when I walk into a room I'm so convinced I'm good-looking that I *will* go home with your girlfriend. " Gene Simmons


Login or register to post.
#29
PlayDate

PlayDate

Respected Member

Join Date: 02/01/2009 | Posts: 450

Jaffar wrote:

Leave or you might as well castrate yourself.

Be a Man.  Enforce standards in your life.

You don't, nobody will.

Jaffar.

Beautifully Said

cheers
__________________
"At the end of your life what have you've got except memories? That's it. And then poof. You know, we're all just passing through. You really do have to be selfish. You really can't love anybody else unless you're Goddamn in love with yourself. Be delusional. Be really delusional. Consciously, I know I'm not the best looking guy in the world, but when I walk into a room I'm so convinced I'm good-looking that I *will* go home with your girlfriend. " Gene Simmons


Login or register to post.
#30
PlayDate

PlayDate

Respected Member

Join Date: 02/01/2009 | Posts: 450

FeelsGreat wrote:

ambiguity wrote:
Even worst is the fact she isn't even apologetic. In the future, avoid bar stars, the ones getting polluted, and out of control drunk at bars. Fun to fuck but, not wife material. Its just the tip of the iceberg bro. The titanic sunk from an iceberg. So did this relationship. If you reflect back, in due to, I am willing to bet, you will have missed some red flags, those little incidents that may have been allowed to slide. Typically, scarcity mindset can set in, and you can make exceptions to your standards of what is acceptable - but then, you are more responsible for the further slide and emotional vomit you find yourself in. My apologies on the awful situation you find yourself in but, 2011 will bring forth a variety of girls. Step into the unknown, put down the sham of a relationship, and the security blanket it provides. Go back into the wild, hit on the girls, and create the life style you want to live as well as the man you want to be.
I agree x1000

If this is an actual exclusive relationship she is obviously NOT afraid to lose you and doesn't respect you. Get out there and push your limits again man, dismiss this girl.


For sure, and for the fact that I KNEW she needed massive attetion, fuck she TOLD me she did. And that i couldn't give her all my time, beacuse
1. I don't want to
2. I shouldn't have too
3. My number one priority is not her, its me.

And too the guys that would let her do this shit...really...you'd let a chick your invested in as much as I was.....pull shit like that? I mean fuck I could see if your banging a bunch of chicks on the side. But thats not how I roll when I date.
And no this is not my first realtionship, I've had many, ranging from 3 years....to a month or so
__________________
"At the end of your life what have you've got except memories? That's it. And then poof. You know, we're all just passing through. You really do have to be selfish. You really can't love anybody else unless you're Goddamn in love with yourself. Be delusional. Be really delusional. Consciously, I know I'm not the best looking guy in the world, but when I walk into a room I'm so convinced I'm good-looking that I *will* go home with your girlfriend. " Gene Simmons


Login or register to post.