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Good luck man. Hopefully you get to where you are trying to go.
No, man, don't go...
Your point number 3 is completely false. The desire to have sex is a PRIMAL instinct, not an egotistical one. Our bodies tell us to have sex, RSD is about listening to the body and forgetting the mind. If you're constantly analysing everything, you need to start again.
You also said that you don't believe anyone has core confidence, that too, is just you resisting and probably why you're not getting anywhere.
I'm not saying I'm going to achieve core confidence any time soon, but I KNOW that it's possible and so should you.
keb
P.S. if you're feeling happy that someone replied to your post, you have a lot of work to do mate.
You also said that you don't believe anyone has core confidence, that too, is just you resisting and probably why you're not getting anywhere.
I'm not saying I'm going to achieve core confidence any time soon, but I KNOW that it's possible and so should you.
keb
P.S. if you're feeling happy that someone replied to your post, you have a lot of work to do mate.
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I don't give a damn what anyone thinks of me.
take hotseat and stop reading rsdnation
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RSD Misinterpreted: A Series of Posts on Popular RSD Ideas and How I Used to Misunderstand Them
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
I don't think the advice here is paradoxical.
Just lose your ego while thinking that you are the coolest motherfucker on the planet and developing extreme self-love...
Just lose your ego while thinking that you are the coolest motherfucker on the planet and developing extreme self-love...
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People come and go from the forum for various reasons. Keep going out, keep checking out the front page for instructor posts, and persist man.
I highly recommend a bootcamp + hotseat if you can gather the funds -- an extremely rewarding experience!
Good luck man.
I highly recommend a bootcamp + hotseat if you can gather the funds -- an extremely rewarding experience!
Good luck man.

nebuR
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Join Date: 10/07/2010 | Posts: 266
Probably no-one really cares, I sure as hell wouldnt if some random posted some shit on leaving the forum or whatever. Im not really writing
this for you, but more for myself to finally "let go" and make an end of it.
Havent been here for so long, just couple of months, I think all this self improvement and pickup stuff is really really good, but what I dont
like is the extremely paradoxical nature in RSDs teachings but also, and especially on this forum. Maybe its good if you take a bootcamp and
can get more straight forward help, but as a newbie loging onto this forum or watching blueprint = u wont learn much practical and it will
slow down your process, atleast thats what I think it did for me.
Me as a newbie need practical straight forward advice, I know that field is king and thats where you learn, Im out 3 times a week atleast, but
the theory Im reading I wanna read and understand to speed up the process, not slow it down, which this has done to me.
Im also become very addicted to RSDnation, I dont know why, because the advice you get here is very often.. not good at all, but you can read
these posts which will make you feel good for the moment, then you go out and you think "damn, this shit gives me absolutely nothing".
The amount of good advice on here is also extremely bad, atleast in my eyes, I remember a friend of mine told me to not hang on this forum when
trying to develop to be better with girls, because the advice is shitty and comes from KJs, thats what he said, I should have listened to him
because following alot of what have been written here, Ive only become self consious and it has made my game worse.
1. Guys dont believe you when u finally make progress, u will get answers like "pics or it didnt happen", or "u kj!" only because the stuff u
have done to game the girl doesnt fit into their "this is how game should be done" - reality, and they will flame you.
2. When guys give advice, its coming from guys who are SUPER experienced with girls and doesnt even have to think about it anymore, and just blow
it of as "nonsense" or "mental masturbation", u will get answers like "just fuck her" or "just be cool" - like from guys like Jeffy, for example.
OR the guys who give advice aint good AT ALL, they have just read too much fucking theory and have became a RSD fanboy shouting out EXTREMELY paradoxical
advice that he have read somewhere and never ever have tried out for himself.
3. RSDnation really have took away some of my motivation to become good at this, I cant really put the finger on what it is, but its like "man, nothing
matters anyway, in 100 years u will be dead so who cares what happends... just be happy, dont feed your ego" etc. Guess what? Wanting to hook up with alot
of girls IS a part of an egoistic thought, u cant deny it. YES its about having great sex or whatever, but it is ALSO AN EGOISTIC THOUGHT, u wanna be
seen as a pimp, u wanna get more friends and be seen up to, in every mans mind there is something that says "become something special", and thank god we
have that drive. Well alot of people on here is trying to shut that down. "Verbals doesnt matter, dont worry about that", "quick verbal wit and tooling
guys doesnt matter, just walk away", "looks doesnt matter, dont be too conserned with that", "making money doesnt matter" etc etc etc. Well Im in this
for PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT, I WANT to become as social skilled as humanly possible, i WANT to make alot of money, I WANT to look great, I WANT to be able to tool
guys if neccesary, its a fun thing to do.
4. Everything that seems to matter to alot of ppl on here is "core confidence", but no one can really tell you what it is, no one can really define it, and the
truth is, there is probably no on one here or in the whole wide world who actually has it.
Anyway, I guess some moderators will probably take this shit down as fast as possible because its not good for your marketing strategy, I dont care
really, just wanted to state my opinion before I leave.
This isnt really supposed to be some kind of hate thread at all, maybe some of you guys will see where Im coming from and maybe change the way you respond to ppl
and your attitude just to make this place better, as I said, I love this PU and self development thing, and I wont quit my process, Ill just join
another forum and company who I think is way better suited for me at the place Im at right now, maybe not 2 years from now, but sitting here as a newbie
it certinaly is.
Ill not ask some moderators to ban me or some shit (maybe they will do anyway after this thread lol), its way too easy to get past that shit, just log onto a proxy
website or something like that. But I will block the rsdnation forum with both my webreaders mozilla and internet explorer.
Maybe Ill be back someday more experienced and with more knowledge to share, no idea, but the fact that Ive gone from a normal dude who dont really have problem getting
friends or the attention from some girls in my social circle, to a guy who is fucking overanalyzing every social interaction, anxious and obsessed with an internet forum
is a warning sign, thats why Im leaving.
Some of you might see yourself in what Im writing, the majority will probably just laugh and hate on me, I guess Its all good, no one of you doesnt even know who I am
in real life so.
Oh well, thats about it.
Byebye guys