THE FORUMS
i haven't had sex in a while. maybe like 2 months or so. so i pretty much just want to fuck anything right now so i can get some confidence back + know its possible.
i went out today and got a few numbers. 1 number i thought went pretty well on some decent kinda fat girl. i put my number in her phone and we took a picture together so she had a pic of me. we made plans to hang out tonight, but she didn't pick up when i called.
i approached A LOT. a lot more girls than i used to. i'm still having problems hooking + girls don't know why i'm talking to them.
i recorded some today. i feel like i am still a little "salesy" from my old job when i am talking with these girls. sometimes i lose my intent of wanting to fuck them.
i don't have a place or a job yet. i really need to get on top of that right now. so i can't really spend money or take girls back to my place. thats always in the back of my mind. i feel like when i get that shit straightened out everything will be much easier as well.
other than that just a lot of quick interactions. a lot of bfs
i'm getting better. i'm going to do way better than i did last year
i went out today and got a few numbers. 1 number i thought went pretty well on some decent kinda fat girl. i put my number in her phone and we took a picture together so she had a pic of me. we made plans to hang out tonight, but she didn't pick up when i called.
i approached A LOT. a lot more girls than i used to. i'm still having problems hooking + girls don't know why i'm talking to them.
i recorded some today. i feel like i am still a little "salesy" from my old job when i am talking with these girls. sometimes i lose my intent of wanting to fuck them.
i don't have a place or a job yet. i really need to get on top of that right now. so i can't really spend money or take girls back to my place. thats always in the back of my mind. i feel like when i get that shit straightened out everything will be much easier as well.
other than that just a lot of quick interactions. a lot of bfs
i'm getting better. i'm going to do way better than i did last year
__________________
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/176674?#comment-680003 - my day game journal
well i'll tell you one thing, you're def in the right place to bounce ideas. I consider myself to be successful with internet marketing, and cat is a business owner. There are literally hundreds of guys on here that run successful business in one way or another that stemmed from passions and other things. I'd hate for you to leave when I get up there(since you were the main one who inspired me to move there) when I visited san diego over the summer that clenched it for me, but i've only recently gained the same mindset you have to set goals and work hard to accomplish shit so I totally understand that you have to do whats best for you.
thanks wooooooooo
i'm in san diego right now. i was in austin, tx for a while. so i just got back here. staying on a friends couch until i find a job/place to stay.
i learned a lot from my ex-job. i sold cologne and perfume anywhere and everywhere to anyone who had money on them for the last 6 months. we worked from 830am to about 10-12pm EVERY DAY, later on weekends. in san diego i was making about $100 a week. in austin i was making about $250/wk. i worked a fucking shit load and didn't make much. i'm super glad i did it though. i learned so much. i know how to get things that i want. i know how to deal with people better. i have a lot more confidence. i'm a way better person. i'm more driven. i'm a lot stronger emotionally. i'm a lot more of a postive person. i feel like i can do anything i want.
you know how like kobe bryant, lebron, whatever anyone successful? they are successful for a reason. because they work the hardest and they want it the most. before this job, i never even thought about that. it literally never crossed my mind. now i realize that to be successful you have to fucking work at it and go after what you want. the job always pushed me to my limits and made me realize that anything is possible, to think bigger. the job pushed me to make goals and to make a plan to achieve them. i never really had any goals before that. i kind of just went through life like whatever. especially when i was playing poker. i just played poker to make money without any direction. i did make a goal of running a half marathon and i did it and did pretty well at it.
it's nice to have freedom again. it's nice being able to go to the gym again. it's nice being able to go on date again with girls! there are a lot of jobs out there, but they will always just be jobs to me. now i have drive + determination + a goal. i really love girls and i really love day game. i want to turn a hobby into a way of making money - like i did with poker. i know it's going to be hard. i know i'm going to have to put in a lot of hard work, but it is what i want to do with my life.
so right now i have to figure out how to do that. i don't know if i want to stay in san diego or move to ny. my family lives in ny. my dad lives in brooklyn and he will pay me a few hundred/wk to watch after my grandfather. that would be a perfect opportunity to do some day game in the city. i really do like it in san diego. so i'll see what kind of job i can get and what kind of place and see how the situation is. the weather is still a lot nicer over here for the time being
i don't have a place or a job yet. i really need to get on top of that right now. so i can't really spend money or take girls back to my place. thats always in the back of my mind. i feel like when i get that shit straightened out everything will be much easier as well.
i'm in san diego right now. i was in austin, tx for a while. so i just got back here. staying on a friends couch until i find a job/place to stay.
i learned a lot from my ex-job. i sold cologne and perfume anywhere and everywhere to anyone who had money on them for the last 6 months. we worked from 830am to about 10-12pm EVERY DAY, later on weekends. in san diego i was making about $100 a week. in austin i was making about $250/wk. i worked a fucking shit load and didn't make much. i'm super glad i did it though. i learned so much. i know how to get things that i want. i know how to deal with people better. i have a lot more confidence. i'm a way better person. i'm more driven. i'm a lot stronger emotionally. i'm a lot more of a postive person. i feel like i can do anything i want.
you know how like kobe bryant, lebron, whatever anyone successful? they are successful for a reason. because they work the hardest and they want it the most. before this job, i never even thought about that. it literally never crossed my mind. now i realize that to be successful you have to fucking work at it and go after what you want. the job always pushed me to my limits and made me realize that anything is possible, to think bigger. the job pushed me to make goals and to make a plan to achieve them. i never really had any goals before that. i kind of just went through life like whatever. especially when i was playing poker. i just played poker to make money without any direction. i did make a goal of running a half marathon and i did it and did pretty well at it.
it's nice to have freedom again. it's nice being able to go to the gym again. it's nice being able to go on date again with girls! there are a lot of jobs out there, but they will always just be jobs to me. now i have drive + determination + a goal. i really love girls and i really love day game. i want to turn a hobby into a way of making money - like i did with poker. i know it's going to be hard. i know i'm going to have to put in a lot of hard work, but it is what i want to do with my life.
so right now i have to figure out how to do that. i don't know if i want to stay in san diego or move to ny. my family lives in ny. my dad lives in brooklyn and he will pay me a few hundred/wk to watch after my grandfather. that would be a perfect opportunity to do some day game in the city. i really do like it in san diego. so i'll see what kind of job i can get and what kind of place and see how the situation is. the weather is still a lot nicer over here for the time being
i don't have a place or a job yet. i really need to get on top of that right now. so i can't really spend money or take girls back to my place. thats always in the back of my mind. i feel like when i get that shit straightened out everything will be much easier as well.
__________________
HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE'S BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACK!!! Yeeeeyaaaa!
Too bad you were too busy when I came down man, hopefully we can go out next time I'm there. I just went 3 pulls for 4 days, my game is getting obnoxious. That's a sick first day back.
Too bad you were too busy when I came down man, hopefully we can go out next time I'm there. I just went 3 pulls for 4 days, my game is getting obnoxious. That's a sick first day back.
__________________
"One of the illusions of life is that the present hour is not the
critical, decisive hour. Write it on your heart that every day is the
best day in the year. No man has learned anything rightly, until he
knows that every day is Doomsday"
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
FR's detailing my progression
critical, decisive hour. Write it on your heart that every day is the
best day in the year. No man has learned anything rightly, until he
knows that every day is Doomsday"
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
FR's detailing my progression
HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE'S BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACK!!! Yeeeeyaaaa!
Too bad you were too busy when I came down man, hopefully we can go out next time I'm there. I just went 3 pulls for 4 days, my game is getting obnoxious. That's a sick first day back.
WTF????????? since when haha. how did that happen. good shit Too bad you were too busy when I came down man, hopefully we can go out next time I'm there. I just went 3 pulls for 4 days, my game is getting obnoxious. That's a sick first day back.
__________________
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/176674?#comment-680003 - my day game journal
HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE'S BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACK!!! Yeeeeyaaaa!
Too bad you were too busy when I came down man, hopefully we can go out next time I'm there. I just went 3 pulls for 4 days, my game is getting obnoxious. That's a sick first day back.
WTF????????? since when haha. how did that happen. good shitToo bad you were too busy when I came down man, hopefully we can go out next time I'm there. I just went 3 pulls for 4 days, my game is getting obnoxious. That's a sick first day back.
__________________
"One of the illusions of life is that the present hour is not the
critical, decisive hour. Write it on your heart that every day is the
best day in the year. No man has learned anything rightly, until he
knows that every day is Doomsday"
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
FR's detailing my progression
critical, decisive hour. Write it on your heart that every day is the
best day in the year. No man has learned anything rightly, until he
knows that every day is Doomsday"
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
FR's detailing my progression
http://tindeck.com/listen/ztdq oh it looks like they changed the site around and now you have to download it? thats gay
you can definitely hear the lack of confidence in my voice compared to my old shit. you can tell i'm pretty rusty and not really used to fucking random girls.
at the time it seemed like it went pretty well, but listening to it, i know i have a lot to improve on.
i called later, but she didn't pick up or respond.
you can definitely hear the lack of confidence in my voice compared to my old shit. you can tell i'm pretty rusty and not really used to fucking random girls.
at the time it seemed like it went pretty well, but listening to it, i know i have a lot to improve on.
i called later, but she didn't pick up or respond.
__________________
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/176674?#comment-680003 - my day game journal
Seems like you were a bit too dancing monkey with her and your rapport is also super high compared to your old shit where you're just chill and normal.
It's time to get back into the game man! i got a journal too. you motivate me. i'm about to record my shit too when i get a more portable recorder. i have my ipad that can voice record but that shits weird carrying it while approaching girls lol
It's time to get back into the game man! i got a journal too. you motivate me. i'm about to record my shit too when i get a more portable recorder. i have my ipad that can voice record but that shits weird carrying it while approaching girls lol
__________________
Awesome, she seemed charmed by the end but I'm not sure. It sounds like you could be louder and I would have made specific plans.
__________________
"One of the illusions of life is that the present hour is not the
critical, decisive hour. Write it on your heart that every day is the
best day in the year. No man has learned anything rightly, until he
knows that every day is Doomsday"
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
FR's detailing my progression
critical, decisive hour. Write it on your heart that every day is the
best day in the year. No man has learned anything rightly, until he
knows that every day is Doomsday"
--Ralph Waldo Emerson
FR's detailing my progression
ya i listened to a bunch of my old shit last night. it's definitely a lot more calm with a much better vocal tonality.
i went out again today. i let a lot of girls slip by me which hasn't been happening the last few days. i still need to get better hooking. i'm going to focus on hooking and not worry about opening direct because i don't have a problem going there after they are hooked. towards the end of the day i relaxed a bit more and i feel like that definitely helped.
i got a number from a pretty hot girl. she actually texted me back woop woop. said she's hanging with friends tonight though
i had one very good approach. i was getting some food at the supermarket. i said hello to this girl when i first walked in and she said hello back. i saw her again at the cashier. then i saw her one more time walking in front of me and
me: you keep looking at me
her: you keep looking at me
me: you are very nice to look at
her: *smiles*
we chatted for a bit. i was VERY relaxed. all i could think about was fucking her and felt my penis tingling. i wanted to kiss her, but we were in vons. (next time i should just go for it) our eye contact was strong. we both had nothing to do, but we both don't have an apartment right now. she's 32 and from columbia. she just got back to sd is in the process of getting a place. she lives on a boat because she is in the coast guard. if i had a place, we probably would have had sex. so i just took her number and told her we should hang out sometime when we both have a place.
on the job front, really really really good news today. i have an interview at AT&T on friday. he said as long as i know the shit he gave me to know i'll have a job
i went out again today. i let a lot of girls slip by me which hasn't been happening the last few days. i still need to get better hooking. i'm going to focus on hooking and not worry about opening direct because i don't have a problem going there after they are hooked. towards the end of the day i relaxed a bit more and i feel like that definitely helped.
i got a number from a pretty hot girl. she actually texted me back woop woop. said she's hanging with friends tonight though
i had one very good approach. i was getting some food at the supermarket. i said hello to this girl when i first walked in and she said hello back. i saw her again at the cashier. then i saw her one more time walking in front of me and
me: you keep looking at me
her: you keep looking at me
me: you are very nice to look at
her: *smiles*
we chatted for a bit. i was VERY relaxed. all i could think about was fucking her and felt my penis tingling. i wanted to kiss her, but we were in vons. (next time i should just go for it) our eye contact was strong. we both had nothing to do, but we both don't have an apartment right now. she's 32 and from columbia. she just got back to sd is in the process of getting a place. she lives on a boat because she is in the coast guard. if i had a place, we probably would have had sex. so i just took her number and told her we should hang out sometime when we both have a place.
on the job front, really really really good news today. i have an interview at AT&T on friday. he said as long as i know the shit he gave me to know i'll have a job
__________________
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/176674?#comment-680003 - my day game journal
aBnarf
Respected Member
Join Date: 10/20/2008 | Posts: 385
i'm in san diego right now. i was in austin, tx for a while. so i just got back here. staying on a friends couch until i find a job/place to stay.
i learned a lot from my ex-job. i sold cologne and perfume anywhere and everywhere to anyone who had money on them for the last 6 months. we worked from 830am to about 10-12pm EVERY DAY, later on weekends. in san diego i was making about $100 a week. in austin i was making about $250/wk. i worked a fucking shit load and didn't make much. i'm super glad i did it though. i learned so much. i know how to get things that i want. i know how to deal with people better. i have a lot more confidence. i'm a way better person. i'm more driven. i'm a lot stronger emotionally. i'm a lot more of a postive person. i feel like i can do anything i want.
you know how like kobe bryant, lebron, whatever anyone successful? they are successful for a reason. because they work the hardest and they want it the most. before this job, i never even thought about that. it literally never crossed my mind. now i realize that to be successful you have to fucking work at it and go after what you want. the job always pushed me to my limits and made me realize that anything is possible, to think bigger. the job pushed me to make goals and to make a plan to achieve them. i never really had any goals before that. i kind of just went through life like whatever. especially when i was playing poker. i just played poker to make money without any direction. i did make a goal of running a half marathon and i did it and did pretty well at it.
it's nice to have freedom again. it's nice being able to go to the gym again. it's nice being able to go on date again with girls! there are a lot of jobs out there, but they will always just be jobs to me. now i have drive + determination + a goal. i really love girls and i really love day game. i want to turn a hobby into a way of making money - like i did with poker. i know it's going to be hard. i know i'm going to have to put in a lot of hard work, but it is what i want to do with my life.
so right now i have to figure out how to do that. i don't know if i want to stay in san diego or move to ny. my family lives in ny. my dad lives in brooklyn and he will pay me a few hundred/wk to watch after my grandfather. that would be a perfect opportunity to do some day game in the city. i really do like it in san diego. so i'll see what kind of job i can get and what kind of place and see how the situation is. the weather is still a lot nicer over here for the time being
i don't have a place or a job yet. i really need to get on top of that right now. so i can't really spend money or take girls back to my place. thats always in the back of my mind. i feel like when i get that shit straightened out everything will be much easier as well.