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aBnarf

aBnarf

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Join Date: 10/20/2008 | Posts: 386

 hello all

i'm 24 and live in san diego. i pretty much do all day game at malls/around where i live/colleges and get drunk and go out on fri/sat nights.

i have been going out everyday for the last 3 months. i've been living off poker for the last 6 years so i have time for day game.

as of right now i can get numbers pretty easily. i am getting better at getting girls to meet up with me again. my day 2s are lacking right now. practice practice practice

virgin until 21. 19 lays. 1 gf. i'm not looking for a gf right now

goals for this year? 20 lays. 
















i had 3 D2s last week.


girl #1 was 20. i met her at the mall. got her number earlier in the day and made plans to smoke at my place that night. she drove 30 mins to see me. we talked about smoking then going to grab some food. we smoked and she didnt want food anymore.

i live 2 blocks from the bay, so i like to take walks and start kino by the bay. i asked her if she wanted to go for a walk, but she didnt cuz she only had a t shirt on and it was cold out. so we just ended up sitting on the couch talking/watching tv/playing video» games for 3hrs

i asked her questions like what shes good at, what she likes about herself, whats her fave part of her body, where she likes to be touched and she literally could not answer any of these questions. so at like midnight i gave her a jacket and we went for a walk. i held her hand. got to the bay she sat on my lap our faces were close. came back to my place and laid down together under the blanket and made out. i wasn't pushing all that hard. she wouldnt let me under her clothes and then she left like 30 mins later.



girl #2 was 18. met her at the mall. got her number. met up with her about 2 weeks later. i asked her if she wanted to "kick it" tonight. she said sure as long as i tell her what we are going to do. so i said we would walk along the bay/beach. she drove about 30 mins to see me too.

i give her the french double kiss hello cuz shes from france. show her my place. she drops off her bags in my room and we go for a walk. shes eating an apple from when she got out of the car. she finally finishes her apple and we hold hands during the walk. about 2 mins later she lets go of my hand and stops and gets in front of me. she asks what i meant by "kick it" because to her "kick it" means we were going to have sex» and shes like because we aren't going to have sex» because i dont know you. then she asks did you think we were going to have sex»? i was pretty caught off guard and was just like uhhh yea (oops). she talks about it for a bit and ends up getting really nervous and starts rambling and then asks if shes weirding me out i say yea and shes like yea i'm just going to stop talking.

we continue walking and i start truth or dare. her first question for me is if there was a hot naked girl in a bathroom on a plane would you have sex» with her. im like of course. she says but what if shes really loud. i say well ill put my finger or something else in her mouth to keep her quiet. she seemed impressed by the answer. so i ask her fave position. she doesnt know what they are called but describes it and i tell her to demonstrate for me but she doesnt want to. her next question is if i like cats or dogs more. so we stopped playing truth or dare.

15 mins into the walk she talks about how americans are bad kissers. so i stop her and pull her in for a kiss, but no go. then like 20 feet later shes still talking about kissing so i stop her again and try to pull her in for a kiss, but no go again. so we get back to my place and there are 3 guys on the couch and theres nothing in my room other than my bed. so i tell her to get her bags and she leaves. i guess i should have tried one more time for something in the bedroom ooooops.




girl #3 is 22. i had a really solid/fun day game approach with her. she texted me after that she was shocked and was wondering if that just happened. so we made plans to meet up later that night. so i told her meet at my place at 9 and theres a spot in the back for her. shes like what bar are we going to we can just meet there. so im like parking isnt the best near the bar and i live a few blocks away. shes like i know your area really well i can find a spot. i say ok lets compromise, you can pick me up here and we will drive to the bar together. she texts back saying she was just joking with me and wanted to see what i would do and will meet me at my place at 9

she wouldnt give me a hug at the end of the set during the day, but as soon as i meet her i give her a big hug haha. she comes in and i show her my place and room. 3 guys are sitting on the couch playing video» games again. she meets then and we take off for the bar. we didnt hold hands. she was doing most of the talking/question asking. it was refreshing. we get to the bar and get our drinks and sit next to each other on a bench. we play murder marry shag, she's bi and we talk about what we like in girls.

she asks me if im dating a lot of girls. (i think i fuck up here) i say define dating (cuz i do date, but its not like i fuck any of em lol) so i tell her that im not looking for a gf and she completely agrees and we make fun of my 22yo roomy who is talking about getting married. then she asks again if i date alot and i just say sure. she gave me a bunch of compliments. liked my eyes, and how relaxed i was and that she likes that i do whatever i want.

we were sitting next to each other but not touching much. i guess i should of done some whispering. so we go to the touch screen and play some photo hunt. (its a game where you get 2 pics and have to find 5 differences) so we high 5 after every round. i start rubbing her leg a bit. we both finished our 2nd beer and we were sitting right next to the door and she was talking about walking on the beach. so i say kind of abruptly lets go. so we head out.

grab her hand and start walking back to my place. i ask her how much she weighs lol dno why. i say i want to pick her up. she resists at first but then i pick her up and tell her 125 and she weighed 127 and said i got it wrong lol. then i give her a piggy back ride. the conversation was flowing all night without trying. so we are like a block away from my place and i had to get her back in so i ask if shes good at massages and she just says no. then we get to my front and shes just like im going to take off. we were talking about how she has to be somewhere at 930am. so i gave her a hug and she went home.



0/3 any other tips besides stop being a vag and touch and escalate and go after it more? ty
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aBnarf

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 went to the mall today with my wing for about 3 hours. i did about 30 approaches. my goal for going out is to get a date for that night or the next night.

i go pretty direct. i try and see what they are doing tonight/later within the first 2 minutes. i got a bunch of bfs today and always

i want to learn how to handle 2 and 3 sets better. also i want to be able to approach mother/daughter sets more often. 
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This is how I do my day2's/meetups/powwows/funtimez with women:

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I read something about ManWhore and how he would kiss the girl on the cheek whenever they start the date up.

This is what I do now:

*walk in, and see girl*
"LAURA" - full smiles and Breaking Rapport tonality and extremely loud
*She looks and smiles*
*I go in, put my arms around her waist and give her a kiss on the cheek*
*I pull back and look into her eyes while still being close to her and give her a compliment*
Usually it's something like, "You smell good" "You look hott/cute" or "I like your eyes"

Something like that. It sets the tone off RIGHT from the start.

*****Oh yeah, whenever I meet a girl somewhere, we meet up, I do the above, and we immediately venue change****** I usually say, "Okay, grab my hand...we're going on an adventure".

Times I have NOT done this, I have been VERY fucked. I'm becoming almost superstitious that I could just do this and be completely lazy for the rest of the Day2.

But once you set the frame off right, the key is just maintaining that balance where you know when to keep touching the girl and you stop touching her (let it breathe)

Escalate it to sex from that point on. 

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It just seems that you're falling into "going on walks an playing 21 questions game" when you should just be chatting the girls up to your house and giving them a ride on your cock. It's just a matter of getting sexual. 

I hope that helps some

-AR
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aBnarf

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 i appreciate the tips a lot. thanks!

i've never really tried putting us into roles. that seems like it's pretty effective. any ideas how do start messing around with roles? i'll try it out today in a few hours. that will be my goal for today.

also, what is the best way to upload audio clips of my day game sets? as of right now i have to go into windows movie maker and then put it on youtube, but that is a pain in the butt.

i can't wait to go on another date and try this stuff out! 
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goals: touch more during the day, get in their space, and set up roles for day2s.

results:[/font] was only there for 2 hours or so. did about 20 approaches. moved closer to a few girls. felt great overall

- number closed 2 girls in a 2 set and had them racing to see who would text me first, but i didn't end up getting any texts i dno. i should of stayed longer and realized this.

- opened a girl with a high five during the name exchange and she stuck out her hand to shake so i took it and played thumb war, but went back to lame conversation after. is that ok? got her number and made plans for tomorrow.

- # closed an 18yo. i looked her in the eyes and gave her 2 genuine compliments during the set and she looked flustered a bit. maybe i should do that more.

- # closed a mexican girl. i normally get girls to put my number in their phone and then call me, but this girl wouldn't so i took hers down. she seemed suspicious of me for some reason.

- # closed a girl who told me she had a bf after my opener, but held my hand for a bit after the high 5. didn't say anything about it after and i held my frame pretty well and she was very accepting. we made plans to hang out tonight. 

negatives: didn't set up any roles, didn't approach a mother/daughter set i saw, didn't do much touching




can't wait for my recorder to come in on weds so i can put up some clips of approaches. 

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 oooooooooops.

i met this girl at the mall about 2 months ago. i went very direct. she was very impressed with my boldness. tried to hang out with her the next night, but it didnt work out. she invited me out a few times, i asked her to hang out a few times since we met but we never ended up hanging out. she texted me on xmas and new years. finally last night she texts me she will be at the bar a few blocks away from my house. 

she texts at 745 she was going to the bar. i didnt get back to where i live (where the bar is) until about 1045.

1045 me- im heading back home now. what are you up to
1115 her- just hanging with friends.
1125 me- at the bar right? ill walk over in a bit 
1150 her- yeah
i thought i would be able to find her, but wasnt all that sure what she looked like
1210 me- im here. where are you
1215 her- im dancing

this girl was pretty. so i expected her to be there with a big group and some guys. turns out she was with 2 ugly 200+ lb friends. so i didnt want to seem like i was just there for her so i took my time?????? or should i have met her sooner???

so i run into her on the dance floor. she sees me i give her a hug and we start dancing. we dance for a minute and she pulls me away and wants to talk cuz she barely knows me. my hands were around her/holding her hands. she let go and said i barely know you and you are all over me. 

so we chat for a bit and shes like asking me what i do for work and some other boring questions and giving me shit for not talking much. so i ask her what her favorite color is in a joking tone. then shes like my friends are right there and they are my ride. so i her to go tell them that you will be ok with me. then i re-assure her again. she goes and talks to her friends comes back and tells me that shes leaving with them. i try to tell her that she will be fine with me, but she said she barely knew me. (i was probably visibly upset at this point rolling my eyes) she commented on me rolling my eyes. so im like ok bye and gave her a hug.

walked out the place and then ran into her on the outside because we took different exits. talk to her again and she sits down on the wall while her friends are like 10ft away waiting to leave and gives me one more chance to get to know her or something. i didnt know wtf i was supposed to say and felt the pressure. i tried to tell her again that i'd give her a ride home, but no dice. so i just walked away and she left with her friends.

was i supposed to do something different? grrrrrrrr
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 day game

goals: touch more, set up roles for dates, get closer, have fun.

results:
i went out solo for the first time in a while. i did some approaches, but was pretty nervous. i did a bunch of approaches and nothing went well. then i went to a different mall and met up with a wing. then the ball started rolling, but still never really felt like i had that good of a set. was still kind of nervous from being solo for like 2 hours. got like 5 numbers or so

negatives:
didnt touch at all except for one thumb war in target. no roles. missed a bajillion sets cuz i wasnt being pushed by a wing. was nervous all day and used my back up/boring questions a lot. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CocCSNBUyYE my best set of the day i guess. it was in the supermarket. i did 3 approaches there. 2 didnt go so well. i need to stop saying ummmmm

should i be posting more failures? is there an easier way than youtube? its fairly annoying uploading clips
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Try tindeck.com for audio upload
That chick seemed very down, boring interview convo but she was giggling at any ole shit.
Keep the audio coming man, how do you record it?
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-oasis- wrote:

Keep the audio coming man, how do you record it?
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002MAPSQM/ref=oss_product 

i keep it in my jacket pocket
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 today was my worst day in like 2 months and it was beautiful out. i set too high of a goal for myself today and i guess it got overwhelming. 

i went to a new college and it was pretty small and dead. i opened 2 there. didn't go anywhere. 

went to my normal mall and did 1 approach then decided to come home and play zilean!nullnull  
my favorite league of legends hero and get drunk


i've been averaging 20-30 approaches for the last week. dno what happened
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 You have a good voice, I like it.. it's kinda sexy
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