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Detour's No porn and no wanking thread
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detourxl~

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This is a random fun thread. you will not find the answers you are seeking here.

I have a porn addiction, yes my child I have a porn addiction.

I am going COLD TURKEY. No masturbating and no porn for THREE MONTHS. Yes three fucking months. The only time I can cum is inside a girls vagina and in a girl's mouth.

DAY 1

No wankage. No pussy. Didn't go out. Kept up with Zone diet. Natasha texted to say "she's not celibate anymore" - crazy bitch. Macafee working baby, can't access porn site.
Onwards soliders...
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ALEXANDER BOOTCAMP REVIEW - Oslo, September 2011 http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200440

POST BOOTCAMP JOURNAL - holding myself accountable, seeing how far I can go. http://www.rsdnation.com/node/201364
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detourxl~

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DAY 2

I was searching for this thread and I thought the mods deleted it! In my head I was gonna email them and ask them to put it back up cos I will include some field reports and lay reports as well my no wank no porn challenge.

Slept like fucking SHIT last night, don't know if it's due to no wankage or simply due to the fact I packed so much in the day. Sleeping well is so key to achieving a lot in life and healht. I researched that shit. S came round last nite, we didn't go out - discussed gameplan for 2011.

P is coming round today - I really need to decide whether to keep her as friend (I've never really had good female friends before, it either ended in relationship or awkwardness in past) or bang her. When I was at my peak with chicks last year (based on ego confidence) it didn't enter my mind as I had ridiculous abundance I never had before. Now as I've gone pure natural - I'm dry as a prune :-)

I think what's gonna happen with this no wnakage no porn, chicks will become my only sexual outlet, and as a result I will end up banging all sorts of chicks that I probably wouldn't in the past (e.g. "I'm too good for her).

A note on ego based confidence:

At my peak last year using outer game tactics (Feb 2010 to June 2010) - I had pure abundance. I remember I met an awesome Asian chick off cold approach club, we had a day 2 then arranged to meet on Friday round mine. She texted asking if her friend could come round (it was not a threesome situation type of text). I literally wanted her to come by herself so I could fuck her then she could fuck off back home, so I basically told her to fuck off, then got another asian chick round the next day and fucked her instead. Was seeing three girls at a time and was solid in the field - though no SNLs. Of all these girls that I saw and went a day 2s, none of them were mingers - most of you lads would be happy to have them as girlfriends, none were models (which is what I aspire to by the end of this year). I chose what women were in my life, and if I wanted some more I would simply go back out and get a new squad. Those days are gone my friend ...

It's funny that ego based confidence can really make you quite attractive. Cos you really think you are the shit, then the girls obviously think that. One problem I had with the tactics was that, I wasn't ahppy and I had RAGING inconsistency - one night I was aswesome, one night I was chodey mcnumbnuts. And I relied too much on the material - I didn't feel like I was offering myself. Anway I moved over to RSD natural game based in inner game and ... my results PLUMMETED downwards. I've not pumped a chick since September.

When you go natural, it really reveals all these insecurities that you never knew you had and were compensating for with an ego based confidence. So despite poorer results I'm perservering, cos I really think by systematically tackling my insecurities I am investing in a great future. My self-esteem is slowly shining through. This is the year I really put my penis in a lot of chicks. Was discussing with S last night that I probably will need to drop my standards (I only approach the hottest chicks - and currently am getting 0% of them). Maybe it's an ego thing, who knows? We'll find out. "You need step over a few Ange's to get the models"

Yesterday a lot of esoteric RSD concepts clicked for me - so I'll probably post something on main forum, as I need to write this shit down.

So far so good with the no wank no porn challenge, early days yet though. 88 days to go, it will be interesting.
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MY PRE BOOTCAMP JOURNAL - a very honest account of a guy trying to transform this area of his lifehttp://www.rsdnation.com/node/176546

ALEXANDER BOOTCAMP REVIEW - Oslo, September 2011 http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200440

POST BOOTCAMP JOURNAL - holding myself accountable, seeing how far I can go. http://www.rsdnation.com/node/201364
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keboses

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Dude, I'm in.

88 days to go? Sounds good, keep this thread running, I need the motivation.
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Cat

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Yeah dog.

Get some leverage around the fact that enjoying beautiful women often is amazing.  Focus on that shit.  

Don't run away from your sexuality, fuck.  Just get in a good enough place that when you're having a great time with a girl you can go there, lead yourself there and her there, and you can share that shit via penis in vagina.

Dun run away from pain, run towards pleasure, man up to the pain.

This thread should be called "Detours 30 day challenge".

Feeeel me?  SItting around not getting off isnt being proactive, going out and solo cold approaching is.
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detourxl~

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DAY 3

No wankage, no pussy.

Can't believe people are actually reading this thread!

Anyway re: taking action, you're hundred percent right re: 30 days challenge. Trust me I know what I'm doing - doing a 30days challenge and approaching women everyday is really not hard for me. i've reached the indifference threshold. I have some bigger deeper issues to fix first. Namely this fucking issue which I've probably had for the last 14 years. I've never had an addiction (that I've known of) before, this is the first time in my life that I'm getting over an additction. And no fucking about - cold turkey baby! To me this shit is harder than any 30 day challenge. If I can get through this (which I fucking will), I can get throught enything. Will be keeping up field work anyway as that's mandatory.

come back in about 30 - 60 days - then that shit will be VERY INTERESTING. Cos my balls will be exploding I suspect - and I probably would have fucked some munters out of biological need. We shall see anyway ... onwards ... 87 days to go.

PS = @ Dieselboy - that was beautiful
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MY PRE BOOTCAMP JOURNAL - a very honest account of a guy trying to transform this area of his lifehttp://www.rsdnation.com/node/176546

ALEXANDER BOOTCAMP REVIEW - Oslo, September 2011 http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200440

POST BOOTCAMP JOURNAL - holding myself accountable, seeing how far I can go. http://www.rsdnation.com/node/201364
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 I did this for 4 months last year. Its not that hard. The hardest part is about 2-3 weeks in where you wanna bang ever chick you see--then you settle down and get used to it and its not a big deal.

beworn, you'll explode so frick'n fast when you do come... so so frick'n fast. I once even exploded when a girl was grinding on me on the dance floor.... http://www.rsdnation.com/node/130372
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olio

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 I'm doing no-fap 2011. So far so good.
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deadzior

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I wanted to post 2 days ago right after op, haha I'm glad that I didn't take the challenge :D
anyway I'm in nao ;p 
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 howdy Detourx

how is it cumming along? :p

love ya
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I tried once and after 2 weeks I ejaculate during a dream. There is nothing bad in masturbating, everyone do that
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detourxl~

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DAY 4

No wankage no pussy.
What the fucks wrong with you cunts?! Why are you reading a thread about a guy who's struggling to get over his porn addicition! Fucking voyeuristic sadists what chu talking about

Had a 3 minute sudden burst of feeling super horny this AM. I put a condom on my cock (I'm training myself to use condoms as well cos I don't like using them), and reached for the fleshlight - thought it wouldn't fit in at first. I want to rewire my brain to enjoy more than wanking. Boss asked me what I thought of his department - I wanted to tell him  it was the fucking biggest pile of shit place I've ever worked and I can wait to get transferred next year (I work in a new dept. every year) - just said some watered down shit about how it could be improved. He gave me good feedback, said I'd be very successful in my career ... he's a fucking does he not know that I am destryoing my ego. That shit doesn't mean anything to me. Cuint,

@SirKonstantine – I’d fucking love to explode in a girl in 30secs :-) I wouldn’t give a fuck. I want to get back to when I first lost my virginity I came in 5 minutes. At the moment, I would not be able to cum inside a woman. Pusst doesn't turn me on. I can cum if I wank myself hard then cum in her mouth. I can cum within 1-2 mins while watching good netporn. THAT IS VERY WRONG – I just thought that’s what most guys thought as well. 4 months – you are animal. This article that was posted on main forum said you have to cut porn and wanking completely, and the body resets itself.
Looking back sometimes I was out, and sex was available and instead of pushing for it, I would rather go home and wank to some net porn (cos that turns me on more). Anwyay, it’s cool I’ve noticed the pattern now and can do something about it. Looking back the reason I got into game was purely ego (look at me, I can pull girls - whereas before I was useless), now ego is rapidly fading - the reason for getting good at game is to actually enjoy sex with women more than anything. This is that 90 day process of realignment to go back to normal.

@Pebstains – Hey man! Good to see you here bro. I have a feeling I might have cost you a few pulls when we were out cos I didn’t push to take the girls to sex, but I'm sure you’ve more than made up for it now anyway . I’m dry as a prune baby - life on the plateau is interesting. Think you should post your diary on here - the guys on here (not that I've met anyone of them to verify) actually come across like they pull a lot of decent chicks (not munters)
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MY PRE BOOTCAMP JOURNAL - a very honest account of a guy trying to transform this area of his lifehttp://www.rsdnation.com/node/176546

ALEXANDER BOOTCAMP REVIEW - Oslo, September 2011 http://www.rsdnation.com/node/200440

POST BOOTCAMP JOURNAL - holding myself accountable, seeing how far I can go. http://www.rsdnation.com/node/201364
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