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December 9th, 2016
Handsome's Story Part II: Noon
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Handsome’s Story Part 2: Noon


Introduction

What you are about to read are detailed (some not so much) entries of my second year of hitting it up with girls. There were some times of constant improvement, other times where I was stagnant and yet others where I took time off and returned later. I made an effort to jot down as much as I could remember from nights out or previous nights if I missed them. In retrospect it's unlikely anyone but myself will actually go through these journals but I plan to go through every single entry years from now where banging a girl is as simple as breathing. These entries serve as solid markers that goals can and will be achieved, all it takes is time and practice. There are some adventures, some epic stories, (some boring shit), but some valuable lessons. Enjoy

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July 29 2010

I’ve been gone for a little while, took a week and a bit off to go hiking and chill for a bit, tonight was my first night heading out in a while. I was out solo, just chilling after watching Kick Ass with the family. Funny movie, but it was time for a state change.

I felt pretty normal going out, I was dressed comfortable and had less of a gamey vibe about me. I’m really feeling Brad’s two articles (1 & 2) where talks about ego and self esteem and narrows down the key beliefs to:
1. I am the highest value/coolest guy in the world, and since attraction = value, every women is attracted to me.
2. Every woman is an EXTREMELY sexual being, and since they are all attracted to me…
SEX IS INEVITABLE!
I like this, simple, straight forward and easy to remember. I do feel like a lot of it similar to Tim’s vibe about the delusional belief that you are the coolest man on the face of the planet and such, but this shit somehow rings truer for me, something about expressing your true self as the coolest… Good shit.

My blowouts weren’t that bad, I held my state pretty consistently and felt like I believed in myself. I impressed myself with my positive persistence in a few cases. I don’t know what it was, but it was different and felt good. I made out with one girl after her friend licked my chest… it was more of a bite than a makout, but fun either way.

Girl: I can’t… I have a boyfriend
Handsome: Me too, no telling (goes for makeout)
Girl: Hahahaha, nooooo
Handsome: You’re right, this is a club, lets act like adults
Girls: What?
Handsome: (goes for makeout… success)

I opened up some of the hottest girls in the club, one of whom I spoken to a few months back who’s definitely a ‘girl about town’ I see her out a lot. She’s gotta be 6’2 with blonde hair and a beautiful face. I escalated on her and her friend and had a great vibe going until some dudes pulled her and her friend back into the VIP area… gay.

I noticed I moved around a lot. It wasn’t so crowded and so I did a lot bouncing around in the club. Overall I had a good time, not a lot of false acting or gaming (a little here and there). I could probably bring the voice up a bit, but escalation seemed natural once I was in a talkative mood, and set it on from the start

One great thing was that I basically just chatted to anyone. This really helps take the pressure off of getting social and having to ‘open’. When I did get talkative and in a good mood, my openers ranged from indirect (in the beginning), to roleplays, and eventually just saying hey or just introducing myself. Most flowed nicely. It was a nice night, not a lot of pressure, felt good.
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July 31 2010

I realize I quite regularly go through a massive state change when I go out. I don’t usually pregame, in fact I’m usually doing some uber-chill and barely involving any talking like watching a movie, and when I hit the club I basically have to swap ends.

I was actually on fire getting into the club tonight. Long line? No problem. Walked right up through the VIP line and handed the bouncer my ID, no questions asked. Awesome. Second line for the actual club comes up, I roll up behind some girls, bouncer takes my ID.

Bouncer: All good

Haha, this shit rocks.

I started chatting to guys and girls to get in the talkative mood. I find this really helps in the beginning. There’s something to be said about starting off your night with a bang and hitting the hotties, but right now I’m liking warming up a bit to get in the flow of things.

Gradually my sets got better and better and I had a long interaction with a hot 29 year old girl. It ended poorly, I blew myself out for asking before escalating for some odd reason. She was also sceptical because of my age. I need to either start lying about my age or act more mature… or both.

There were quite a few decent sets where I recovered off a weak entry and had a nice interaction. One mixed set I entered I had some shitty opener I just spat out and the whole set just stared at me oddly. I kept plowing and eventually the blonde started opening up a bit. I introduced myself to everyone, another girl and a tall black guy. As soon I focused on the blonde the guy start pushing me away and telling me she’s not interested. I kept going. The second girl tries to cockblock me by telling me she ahs a boyfriend, I call bullshit and they both giggle and I go to the blonde again. People around us start moving around so I grab the blonde and attempt to isolate her. My arm goes for the claw and the black wrenches my arm off her shoulder and throws it off and start yelling at me.

I look him in the eye. He’s about a foot taller than I am and bearing over me. He keeps yelling while I stay silent. He raises his voice but I can still barely here him. The blonde starts to push him away and is telling him to be nice. He settles down for a minute.

Handsome: (to blonde) Who is this creepy man?
Blonde: Oh, he’s a friend, he’s acting weird though

I start gaming up the blonde again and that’s the final straw for the dude. He starts screaming at me with other people staring to see what’s going on. The girls vanish and I just chill there staring at him. After a while he kind of looks at me to see if I’ve been listening.

Handsome: No disrespect dude, have a good night
Guy: You heard what I said
Handsome: No I actually didn’t
Guy: You heard what I said
Handsome: … (walks off)

That incident shook up my state a bit but I fired off a couple more approaches before the night ended. On my way out I watched a couple of other fights break out and got a great one on camera. Seemed like a lot of testosterone in the club tonight…

There were some decent sets over the night. I had some fun, more fun than staying in. I need to be more aggressive and have more drive for sex and the actual girl. I need the dominance to really command the set and more intent to show that I’m there for a reason. This is linked to the maturity vibe I also need to develop.
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August 1 2010

I flew into Vegas for the summit and met up with Jack Hammer, one of Owen’s instructor assistants who’d I be rooming with for the week. I had actually originally planned not to go out since Sunday is traditionally my rest day but Jack Hammer convinced me to head out with him and some of the RSD boys to XS. I’d never been of legal age in Vegas and I assumed the club – any club we went to would be dead. Shit was I wrong – I’m glad he pulled me out with him.

We roll up to this huge fucking club, if you haven’t been, you walk into a large lounge area with VIP tables and beyond it is a huge pool, a few bars, a casino area and a second level balcony. I was honestly shocked at the size and scope of this place. As a side note, there were hot bitches EVERYWHERE, some in bikinis from the afternoon pool party – tons of gorgeous girls just waiting to be hit on. I was in love.

There was a party vibe in the air. I don’t remember a lot of the incident of the night, I do remember talking my way into the one of the VIP areas for free drinks and to chat to some cuties. My tiredness seemed to disappear and I bounced around the club in frenzy.

I winged with Jack Hammer in a couple sets – this guy is the fuckin man. Early on in the night I’m talking to some girl and I turn and see him holding some smoking hot girl in a headlock and making out with her, she looked like she wanted to fuck on the spot. He sees me and gives me a little nod. Dominant man. He also loves black girls.

We chatted to some cute girls from Brazil, and both ended up making out with our respective girls. This was the first time I think I’ve really winged successfully with another dude. They bounce off to go to the bathroom and I find another chick and start making out with her almost right away. Turns out I didn’t give the girls enough time to leave, my girl was still there watching it all go down, and I think they knew each other. I might have fucked that one up but I was too pumped to care.

I open some more sets, bounce around and end up making out with some other girl. Three in one night and all pretty hot. I felt good. No pull, but headed to the hotel happy. Sunday night and I was already loving Vegas. This week was going to be the shit!
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August 2 2010

Hit XS again tonight and I was more frenzied than last night. Made out or kissed four girls over the night – including a tall, hot L.A. blonde. I was basically bouncing around the venue amusing the shit out of myself and having a good time. There were RSD guys everywhere pouring out from the summit and it actually made a significant difference in the club environment.

Handsome: Hey what’s up?
Girl: Oh thank god you’re normal!
Handsome: …
Girl: There’s short men everywhere trying to talk to me, I don’t know what’s going on

A little while later we were making out. Good shit.

I persisted hard for a couple sets. Dealt with a Swiss girl for a long time before ejecting. Sometimes I think if the frame isn’t set correctly in the beginning it’s a fucking uphill battle to move anything forward and it’s a better use of time to restart with a new set.

I tried for a quick pull after talking to some girl I made out with after 10 minutes but got a ton of resistance and she eventually ran off. I realized that I rarely actually go for the pull and usually am very short term focused. I had some issues dealing with the friends and actually trying to extract her in general. Good lessons for the future.

A funny thing about Vegas clubs is they’re like literally 50% VIP areas and sometimes when you’re chatting to girls in the roped off areas you get removed by the bouncers. Weak shit because a lot of the really hot girls get pulled into the bottle service tables. Luckily the clubs here are filled with beautiful women.

Another useful thing that I learned a bit later on in the summit is not to escalate too hard unless you’re prepared to go for the pull shortly after. A few sets I demonstrated too much interest too early and as a result had the interactions burn out or become predictable. Another way to solve this is through venue changing after a makeout or rapid escalation in order to reset the frame and not cause attraction to fizzle.

Fun night, pushed through my tiredness and really hit shit hard. Probably the most makeouts I’ve had in one night so far. Vegas is sick.
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August 3 2010

Pulled a girl from Pure tonight – seemed simple as fuck. I’m pretty sure it had something to do with watching Alexander’s video of the bathroom pull a few hours before. It was so basic, the only challenging thing was being patient.

I hit up Pure around midnight and of course found the club overrun with RSD boys practicing their shit. This only made it easier. Almost every set I opened was eager to talk to me just because I seemed normal and chill by comparison. The club was pretty sick itself. Upscale, big terrace overlooking the strip and not so much VIP that it left you crammed.

I opened a few sets to get warmed up with some other guys and eventually landed into a three set with my buddy.

Handsome: Vegas!!! (high fives)
Girls: Yay!!
Handsome: You’re from L.A.
Girl: How do you know?

Whatever bullshit etc. We introduce ourselves and get the vibe flowing. My buddy drops away after five minutes to chase some other girl but I stick around because my girl is receptive. They move to meet a friend and she invites me to come with, only a few meters away, but cool. Meet this chill Aussie who’s the boyfriend of one of the girls. Turns out their all figure skaters.

I’d like to explain what happened over the next couple hours, but it seems like nothing. Physical rapport, chilling and not overt escalation, just kissed her a few times and just was patient. That was actually the most challenging thing the entire night, just being patient for the night to end. Luckily her friend got creeped out and pissed at all the guys hitting on her so being the leader of the group she decided they were leaving, naturally I came along. As we’re leaving the friends know exactly what the fuck is up and are basically telling her to go with me.

LeaderGirl: I think you should go check out the Venetian with him [real subtle]
FigureSkater: Haha…
Handsome: It’s cool, we’ll ride back with you

In the car ride home my girl starts bitching about her shoes.

FigureSkater: I think I need to go change into my sandals when we get back

Excuse to pull, taken care of her. Zero gaming at this point, she’s taking care of everything. We roll up to their hotel, and get out, the friends stop at the bar, I tell her we’re going to find her sandals. We ride up the elevator and roll into her room. She takes off her shoes, I push her onto the bed…
***

We scrabble around to find our clothes. My shirt smells like sex because we were fucking on top of it. We get dressed and slowly work our way back downstairs. I feel happy and uber chill. I say hey to friends and bye to the girl and work towards the exit. Just as I’m about to leave she runs up and in some sort of desperation takes my phone number and tries to make sure we’re going to hang out again. I give her the number and tell her I need to find my friends.

Grab a cab to see if I can make it back to Pure but it’s closed so I take a cab back to the Venetian and crash into bed. Nice night, so easy and simple. She took care of everything. This is the way it should be.
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August 4 2010

So tonight was Surrender and I’ve got to say this one was one of the sickest clubs I’ve been to. It seems that each night the nightclubs just got more and more epic. This one had only opened up a few months ago and was similarly themed to XS, pool, couches, gambling, dance floor with a nice blend of inside and outside. And of course, hot girls everywhere.

A lot of the instructors were out hitting up girls as well as RSD guys. I started getting going and cracked a few sets. Something new I tried that actually got me to eject out a few sets was screening for a ONS, something Alexander had spoken about during the day. Normally I’d just push any set until it either died or went somewhere but now a few times I left just because the girl was engaged, married, or had some other valid excuse that wasn’t worth my time pursuing. I’d still go hard but I didn’t feel like I was losing out if I made the decision to leave.

A lot of these girls had some strong personalities, which was a bit new for me. Competing with VIP parties and minor celebrities was a whole new level and it impacted me a bit I the beginning. Some sets I just couldn’t really get anything out of because my value seemed so low in contrast. It’s mostly in my head, but was still a bit of mindfuck during the club time.

One of my favourite sets was when I saw a group of girls huddled together. I walk right up, duck under their arms and join the huddle.

Handsome: Hey, I wanted to be part of the group

I get stares and shocked, amused looks. I start chatting to the girl beside me and then realize one of the girls is more receptive. I’m going in hard. The shit tests start.

Girl: How old are you?
Handsome: I like you too
Girl: Noo, hold old are you actually?

I lied about my age and still got the “oh my god, you are way too young” but kept going.

At this point I’m not really sure what’s happening with the friends but there's a lot of activity around me. I ignore and keep talking to my girl. Despite her resistance, we’re still getting closer. She’s gorgeous, easily one of the hottest girls I’ve spoken to. Her friends start pulling her away.

Handsome: Wait!

I pull her into me, kiss ensues before the friends leave. One of the most beautiful women I’ve kissed. Loved it.

I go open another set and end up hand in hand with the girl with another RSD guy chatting to one of her friends. They need to go find their friends so we head to the dance floor. I fucked up here and didn’t protect the buying temperature I had with my girl. I start talking to some dude while they start getting their buying temperature pumped by other dudes and dancing etc. I go in for the pull way too late and end up walking with the group and a few other dudes, all of trying to pull the girls home. They know they have all the attention and are just looking for the next place to party. My girl’s sort of into me but sees Jack Hammer and runs over to him. Jack Hammer sees what’s going on and looks at her.

Jack Hammer: No, go away
Girl: But I like you
Jack Hammer: I like cock, not vagina

The girl looks confused, I start laughing. She keeps persisting with him while he stubbornly tells her he likes cock. Funny ass shit.

I eventually get fed up with the whole thing and head back to the hotel. A few thoughts I had were that I need to remember to protect the buying temperature of the girls I hit on as well as to ping less and express more. I opened the hottest girls I could find in the club and let the interaction stale out because I was reacting to them way too much.

I also need to focus on making my goal to pull the girl, not just makeout. This mind shift will help the process because I’ll be actively moving toward extracting the girl rather than just kissing her. This is a cool little sticking point I didn’t realize I had until tonight. Just switch the goal to sex, less attraction pumping, more chilling.

As a bonus, I shattered a limiting belief I had that I’m too young, even if I lied a bit about my age to some of the girls I spoke to. Hot women still want you no matter what your age.
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August 5 2010

Tonight was Tryst. Decent club in my opinion, not as fun as XS or Surrender though. As per usual the club was packed with the Summit Crew and some Instructors. The night was decent, I worked through a few sets being more persistent than usual, upping my tolerance and continuing to plow forward. There were two set where I was in there for literally 15 to 20 minutes working to move the interaction forward with zero response or feedback from the girl. Great monologue practice, but really fucking frustrating, the lesson here was too say more outrageous shit to get the girl reacting.

I got eclipsed by Brad as I was hitting on an Irish girl. You wouldn’t know it from his speech, but his tonality in the club is seriously fucking loud and commanding – as he preaches. My girl scampered off after him… of course I didn’t do much to stop her.

One of my issues over the night was either entering the set too hard or too laid back. The first one I overdid it and scared the girl off, in the second scenario I’d just drift into boring conversation land. Yucky.

I met eyes with a cute Mexican girl and went to talk to her. Went well, I was super chill and didn’t say much, just laid the pressure on her. She took my number because she had to find her friends, but was immediately text me. We met by the bathroom. Makeout. I chill with her a little more, meet her friend and then lead her to the exit as the night starts to wind down.

I pull her outside and keep making out with her and try to get in a cab but she puts her foot down.

Girl: No, no, I can’t, my friends
Handsome: Come on, sko
Girl: I’ve got to stay here

We go back inside and I stick by her. She starts telling me how nice my eyes are and I have a flashback to the Swedish girl I pulled in Stockholm who said almost the same shit verbatim. She keeps talking and then mentions she’s a virgin.

Ah. This explains the massive resistance.

I keep going, keep trying but no luck. She is trying to get me to meet up with her tomorrow, but I’m refusing. RSD Summit and going out tomorrow are more important. I say goodbye, and kiss he once more and then she leaves with her friends.

I look for some more girls but find none of quality. Meanwhile my phone fills up with text messages from her trying to get me to meet her tomorrow. At one point she asks what I would have done if she had come home with me.

Handsome: I like you, I wanted to sleep with you

I get no response for a little while and then she sends me a text

VirginGirl: Let’s meet tomorrow

I pause and consider it. No. I’m not going to. I feel this pickup shit is more important… There must be something wrong in my head, passing up vagina for more information. Meh.

Funny night, I’ve received four or five texts daily from this girl even though we never met up again. Silly shit happens in Vegas.
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August 6 2010

Tonight was weird because I found I ran some of the best game I’ve run a few two sets, but I only made out with one girl later on, who I just opened with nothing and made out. Funny lesson here, I can run the sickest game and the girls will love me but I can do shit all and still make out with a girl. I might have had more luck with the two sets I opened with a wing, but that’s just an excuse.

One of the things I could have done better was make a direct SOI and get the girl interested or not. I was going hard, flirting and having fun but never really put my balls on the line and said something overt. I don’t know if it’s necessary but I think it might have helped cement the girl to me instead of letting her be eventually whisked off by her friend after 20 or 25 minutes. I might have been a little hyper, but gold was coming out of my mouth.

I did a few fear sets where I opened a couple making out or a guy and a girl who were obviously together. Worked on staying in the set for 2 minutes (Ozzie’s presentation idea) and pushed myself a bit.

There were a few sets where no matter what I said, it didn’t hook. I guess I was more reactive or something but the girl just never really invested. I need to arouse her by saying something provocative and get her adding to the interaction or else I’m just going to be used for my personality and then discarded when someone else comes along.

I felt comfortable tonight, like I just needed to tweak certain shit and I’d be good. Rather plain night, but the club was cool, and I had a good time. Felt like a plateau, but I’m fine with that.
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August 7 2010

Last night out in Vegas, and after seeing five of the top places, I decided to hit XS for a third and last time. After waiting for what had to be longer than an hour and a half in line, I entered the club. Huge, packed full of people and a good DJ spinning. I felt happy. Time to hit some hot girls.

I start walking and cracking open sets. Owen and a few of the other instructors are in the club doing likewise. Jack Hammer is talking to some cute black girl. I wander close to the VIP area and see a smoking hot woman, we lock eyes.

I step close to her, so close so that she has to take a step back.

Handsome: Hey, whatsup?

We start chatting and I’m mostly rambling about myself. I get asked my age and I lie, I tell her I like older women, than that I’m a narcissistic asshole. At one point she says something along the lines of: “ok, slow down” and I listen. I stop gaming so hard and chill and the interaction moves forward. I don’t remember if it was at the summit or somewhere else where I heard that the girl will actually tell you what she wants you to do such as touch her, relax or something else. I think it’s a sign she likes you and doesn’t want you to do something stupid. Anyhow, some rich dude whisks her into his VIP section I wave goodbye and walk off.

A minute later I’m talking to some dude, just being social and she appears on my peripheral vision. She runs up to me, grabs my head and makes out with me for a second and then runs off. The dude just looks at me shocked and then I keep talking. Funny shit.

I immediately spot my next set, a girl is looking at me from a few meters away. I approach and sit beside her and it’s on, 30 seconds later we’re making out. Another RSD dude is chatting to her friend and I’m trying for a quick pull. She’s not having it though, she likes making out but thinks I’m too young and isn’t really in for it. Her friend’s encouraging her but all my plowing is still getting nothing. I probably should have chilled more but it might have released the tension.

I start hitting up more girls, talk to a two set of tall Aussie girls and plow through the bullshit from the friend. I stick in there, but the girl is in kind of wander mode and I’m finding it tough to get her attention on me. I keep going until some other dude who knows them pulls them into his VIP area. Gay.

Few more sets, a girl asks if she can makeout with me after I game up her friend, I say no, she’s a fatty. I feel kind of weird. I wander around in conversation-land for a little while. I think I often come across as cute, not manly which is okay, but not enough to be pulling girls consistently. I need more breaking rapport tonality, high value traits and masculine polarity here. I’d also eject if the woman I was talking to was engaged whereas in the past I’d just neglect to notice and keep going. It helps if you’re screening for a ONS.

The end of the night rolls around and I feel for the first time, the fury, which Tim talks about. I start hitting up girls hardcore going for the pull. I can feel the energy building inside me. I find some cute Irish girl and leave the club with her, keeping the energy high and her focus on me. We’re walking hand in hand and going. I’m working on bringing her back. I tell her to kiss me on the cheek, steal a kiss from her by flipping my head and then keep going. It’s nice but her friends catch up and another dude they’re with pulls her away. I persist but they’re locked in the group now and she waves goodbye.

Fuckkkk.

Head home. I feel like I’ve been cockblocked by fat rich men and their VIP sections the entire night, but it was still a ton of fun. Seven days straight partying and I’m worn out but happy. Immersion at the summit. Solid, solid week, but I need a rest.
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August 12 2010

First night back in the hometown. Shit sucks. I’m out with friends, do almost no approaches and feel like a tool in front of my friends. But fuck it. If I’m that weird guy, I don’t give a shit. Only problem is I’m half assing it, I don’t want my friends to see my blowouts so I’m acting like a chode. Bullshit. I need to get my shit together. Solo can suck sometimes, but I think it’s my best option, especially with no wingmen. Sucks though after seeing what was possible in Vegas. Ah well. I want to keep going.
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August 14 2010

I was feeling very chill after a quiet day but I decided it was necessary to head out since I hadn’t really been out doing anything in almost a week. My vibe carried over to the club, when I arrived I could literally feel the energy of the venue. I felt it, relaxed and went with my own vibe, low key, relaxed and chill.

I wander around for a bit, open my first set and get blown out right away. I open my second set and have a chodeversation which is fine for the warm up. Stuck in there a while, just being friendly and slowly getting talkative and then I peaced to find a new set. I walk up to the bar and see a cute girl.

Handsome: Your purse is taking up space at the bar
Girl: Oh, sorry, I-

She looks at me, unsure whether to laugh or be angry, I calibrate and smile. She relaxes instantly and the tension floods from her face.

Handsome: You weren’t sure if I was joking were you?
Girl: Haha, no
Handsome: It’s cool, could you imagine if I just picked your bad up and threw it away?

Conversation seems so plain but seconds later we’re close, our heads touching. We’re joking and flirty and she’s coming closer to me. A few minutes later she’s curled up in my arms and we’re kissing a bit, but not enough to break the tension. I meet her friends, and then back to her. She takes my number because she’s leaving. I gently urge her to stay but my heart isn’t in it. She’s disappears. I just didn’t care enough to go for it.

A run through some more sets, almost all of them are opening, I open rather direct usually spotting the girl, stopping her and saying “Hey, what’s your name?” I get in some okay, interactions, including a Ms/ Universe contestant but I eventually slip into friend zone. They like me, but my initial sexual from my approach fades and I go into friend zone. I’m not dancing monkey, I’m not entertaining, but I’m good to be around, but my intent isn’t there. I might be afraid of losing the set or else I would be burning it to the ground. I just need to keep making a few SOIs or getting her to test me so that she knows I’m there, she knows I’m a guy, and she knows I want to fuck. The chill vibe is great, but I need to ensure I’m moving the interaction toward sex.

As I’m writing I just remember now, the key is physicality! The reason the girl who I made out with hooked so well is because I was physical from early on using head to head, hugs and other shit. The other sets had almost no touching. Fuck, it seems obvious now, but I can blend that chill vibe with getting physical with girls and get way more sexual intent conveyed. Good shit.

I’m glad I went out, feeling a bit bummed Vegas is over with and I think I’ve got a bit of a cold from the week, but the night out was nice.
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