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Outer game?
The best outer game tip i can give you is just to think: "How do i have fun in this situation?"
The rest just comes naturally from there, with state.
But here are nonetheless a few of the things that you can use as crutches to do just that:
Something i like to do is to take any subject and think "what would make this absurd and adventourous?"
So for instance. I'm talking about boats, and sailing. Then i can say. "Someday, I'm gonna build the biggest fucking boat in this city. It'll be built out of old beer bottles, and I'll bring friends on cruises to denmark"
Or we'll be talking about the weather (such a boring topic) and then you can say: I just think the weather is so boring, i wish we had hurricanes or tornadoes more often. Then I'd buy a big ass umbrella and go flying"
Something else you can do is to say just the obvious, but in a way that makes it special. "This is the best fucking beer i've ever had! It's like life, only tapped onto a brown bottle, and it makes you slightly more drunk than the last one"
It doesn't make sense, but then again, that's where the fun lies.
Other things to practice of course:
Loud voice, Eye contact, vomiting words, and a key one which is brevity (Keeping it short, not like this post)
Hope that helps ;)
The rest just comes naturally from there, with state.
But here are nonetheless a few of the things that you can use as crutches to do just that:
Something i like to do is to take any subject and think "what would make this absurd and adventourous?"
So for instance. I'm talking about boats, and sailing. Then i can say. "Someday, I'm gonna build the biggest fucking boat in this city. It'll be built out of old beer bottles, and I'll bring friends on cruises to denmark"
Or we'll be talking about the weather (such a boring topic) and then you can say: I just think the weather is so boring, i wish we had hurricanes or tornadoes more often. Then I'd buy a big ass umbrella and go flying"
Something else you can do is to say just the obvious, but in a way that makes it special. "This is the best fucking beer i've ever had! It's like life, only tapped onto a brown bottle, and it makes you slightly more drunk than the last one"
It doesn't make sense, but then again, that's where the fun lies.
Other things to practice of course:
Loud voice, Eye contact, vomiting words, and a key one which is brevity (Keeping it short, not like this post)
Hope that helps ;)
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Only outer game I swear by is "Qualification"...
It's become an extension of who I am in so many forms that it would be best to just search through my posts... (I think I talk about it in "1,000th Post")
Most of my interactions lack actual conversations an when I speak it's either purely self-amusement or me qualifying in some way shape or form...
- True screening where I'm actually figuring things out that I actually have a standard for
- High Energy Qualification
- Asserting Boundaries (one of the craziest experiences was walking away from the hottest chick I ever seen because she forgot my name and her chasing after me saying "no, no, now why are you going to do that?"
- Setting Frames revolving around her winning me over
I'd go as far to say that, this is the main reason why I was good with women in 08, nowadays it's just because I'm the most fun guy to be around in that moment. But back when all I'd do was roll up an casually screen chicks, it produced VERY CONSISTENT results to the point where I assumed I learned everything there was to learn when it came to this stuff.
It's become an extension of who I am in so many forms that it would be best to just search through my posts... (I think I talk about it in "1,000th Post")
Most of my interactions lack actual conversations an when I speak it's either purely self-amusement or me qualifying in some way shape or form...
- True screening where I'm actually figuring things out that I actually have a standard for
- High Energy Qualification
- Asserting Boundaries (one of the craziest experiences was walking away from the hottest chick I ever seen because she forgot my name and her chasing after me saying "no, no, now why are you going to do that?"
- Setting Frames revolving around her winning me over
I'd go as far to say that, this is the main reason why I was good with women in 08, nowadays it's just because I'm the most fun guy to be around in that moment. But back when all I'd do was roll up an casually screen chicks, it produced VERY CONSISTENT results to the point where I assumed I learned everything there was to learn when it came to this stuff.
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vomiting words
I dont think storytelling is even necassary to make out with and sleep with girls. A good VIBE goes a long way.
Cool skill tho in relating to people.
Check out a post by pua REWOK called "thoughts from a 5 year pua veteran" (or something like dat) on this board. Very simple and breakdown of the basics of his game. I love that one and can relate to the shit he is saying. The power of being relaxed for example.
Game is mostly about making the girl invest into you. I dont think its that important what techniques you use, at long as it works to make her invest. Some techniques will be more congruent WITH YOU. Some guys are more cocky, other dudes are more warm etc.
Every technique is fucking DESIGNED to spark interest so the chick invests more time and energy into that player and becomes more emotionally invested and attracted.... and when the time is ready the player goes in for the kill. Qualification is very important tho i think.
Its good to know the psychology behind it (Value-attraction-compliance-making her invest- rationalisation-increased value etc).
Cool skill tho in relating to people.
Check out a post by pua REWOK called "thoughts from a 5 year pua veteran" (or something like dat) on this board. Very simple and breakdown of the basics of his game. I love that one and can relate to the shit he is saying. The power of being relaxed for example.
Game is mostly about making the girl invest into you. I dont think its that important what techniques you use, at long as it works to make her invest. Some techniques will be more congruent WITH YOU. Some guys are more cocky, other dudes are more warm etc.
Every technique is fucking DESIGNED to spark interest so the chick invests more time and energy into that player and becomes more emotionally invested and attracted.... and when the time is ready the player goes in for the kill. Qualification is very important tho i think.
Its good to know the psychology behind it (Value-attraction-compliance-making her invest- rationalisation-increased value etc).
Here you go hombre:
http://www.rsdnation.com/brad/blog/million-dollar-mouthpiece-never-run-o...
http://www.rsdnation.com/brad/blog/million-dollar-mouthpiece-never-run-o...
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Do nothing which is of no use - Miyamoto Musashi
Take what is useful - Bruce Lee
Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do - Bruce Lee
Take what is useful - Bruce Lee
Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do - Bruce Lee
^ thanks man.
nebuR
Senior Member
Join Date: 10/07/2010 | Posts: 266
My stickinpoing is my outer-game tho, my "conversation skills" and gaming in groups, or even having a converation 1on1 with a girl. What kind of outer game would u recommend practising with? Storytelling? Disqualificatin? Push/Pull? What?