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BORN INTO ROYALTY - wear the fucking crown!
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#21
GaryBusey

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This is kinda off topic but your post got me thinking.

When it comes to Identity I have found more and more how our identity is only a concept in our own heads. It is dependent on thoughts that we identify with and the thing is that our thoughts can change drastically very fast. For example these chodes that you mention, perfect example. They are all ego but when they get a mad rejection they go crying. Weak identity.

The thing is to develop an identity that is not dependant on external factors and that moves you closer to your CORE day by day.
ambiguity wrote:

GaryBusey wrote:
Eric symbolizes the responsible and humble side of yourself whereas Vinnie symbolizes the rockstar-sucess-with-women side.

A way to look at this and entitlement in general is that you need to responsively look within and tell yourself that you are enough and that you are the best you you could possible be. Upon realizing and living this any kind of "result" becomes an afterthought.
ambiguity wrote:
More then anything, the forum doesn`t need another bloke handing off any more fucking theories. I however was watching some Entourage and I heard this awesome convo that I thought I would share.



Ari Gold: All right, here's what you do. You deal with talent the same way that you deal with women. You have to make them believe that they need you more then you need them.
Eric: He doesn't need me that much.
Ari Gold: Of course he doesn't need you. You're fucking worthless. I could get a million morons to come in here and do the job. That's not the point.
Eric: Then what is the point, Ari?
Ari Gold: The point is that he is an insecure fuck, like all beautiful-but-handed-everything-on-a-silver-platter people. He doesn't trust anyone in this world but you. You've been born into royalty, baby. You know it. Now you just gotta be thankful and wear the crown.


Seriously, a lot of fucking guys have no clue how insecure really beautiful people are. Like I have said before, I was rolling with some models this past year, small time actors, club promotors, and so on. The so called, ``high value`` people. Its all a fucking joke. Seriously, you can meet someone off the corner with more value then some bloke club promotor or ```model.`` The point is that, when you get to know people, you see a different side of them. I can tell you first hand, a lot of these girls despite ``model`` status or guying putting them on a pedestal still lack a strong sense of self worth.

As a man, you should have that strong sense of entitlement; that born into royalty mentality.


If your porking girls, good for you. There is a difference though in pulling random girls vs. the girls you want. This shit is so effortless.

2010 coudn`t have been better for me in terms of girls, finances, travel, business, & pleasure. smile

The year is closing out. What have you accomplished this past year? For me, I have did quite a bit but, I still have a shit ton of things to do in the near future. Along the way, you got these little reality checks. For me, the Law of Least Effort was one of them. This stuff is free flowing energy. Its amazing what bringing a little passion to your interaction does for you. That is all the value you need. The funny thing is that, a lot of guys think they need to do this or that, that it needs to be brilliant or eloquent, the perfect script to win over the stunner. The reality is that, women are fucking a lot of losers along the way. Lose the thinking cap.

WEAR THE FUCKING CROWN
!

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Good analysis man. I think a lot of times people seek that "success" but, they get it and then, there is something else to desire or seek. One sec, you are a winner cause, you got the girl but, when you don't, you go to shit. I seen that on Jersey Shore. Sitch fucks up and gets blown out. Get acts like a fool and gets no play. Go figure. Its so deceiving when people watch this shit, thinking ego is cool, and try to emulate this guy or be like that but, again, its always about self. Then again, try putting a show about being centered or "enlightened." Good luck with that. People want to watch the Real Cancun or Jersey Shore; Entourage, the adventure, pulling, hot fucking girls, and lots of blow jobs. Anything to escapate the mundanity that is "life."

2010 couldn't have been better but, there was a lot of casualties as well as loss. Its all in your outlook. Watching Flawless, you hear Tim snap out and kick guys out of hit hotel. One sec, he thinks his night was shit but, then, changes his mind thinking of the adventure he had. Its weird too cause, I watched how my time in NYC went, flings, instant make outs, a hand ful of pulls, and other times, its nonexistent as if you are two different people. The more you try to encapsulate the past or relive it, you lose it. It evades you. Its so paradoxical.

Still, of the hand full of pulls, the girl at the Jets game stood out. Why? She was energetic and bubbly beyond being stunning. The crown was on - it was spitting fire; complete Lording. Not quite beasting, tossing girls around like a rag doll with her dad in the stands. It was just smooth.

The samething when it comes to the instant date just over a week or so ago. The thing too is that, in these moments, I feel more myself then ever. There is no trying. Everything is in sync and aligned naturally. It feels fucking awesome but, the trick is to bring that same philosophy to the table when things are in utter chaos. That is another level of game all together.

It is these moments that I feel more alive. It makes it all worth it.

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#22
ambiguity

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GaryBusey wrote:
This is kinda off topic but your post got me thinking.

When it comes to Identity I have found more and more how our identity is only a concept in our own heads. It is dependent on thoughts that we identify with and the thing is that our thoughts can change drastically very fast. For example these chodes that you mention, perfect example. They are all ego but when they get a mad rejection they go crying. Weak identity.

The thing is to develop an identity that is not dependant on external factors and that moves you closer to your CORE day by day.

A lot of fathers are beta males. My father is a beta male as well but, I don't adopt that way of being. I have always had women in my life. They come and go as they choose but, I don't chase. I replace. Women chase me. They pick me up. I don't search for it. It comes to me. Your identity is your self concept and with that comes, your sense of self worth which ties into entitlement, and your beliefs, values, etc. So many guys want stunning women but, the problem is that, they want the girl for more of a self enhancement as oppose to relating to her world and showing a sort of relation and connection between the two of you. I am not chasing anything or anyone nor or ever. If you haven't seen the Scwarzenegger video, definitely watch it. He talks about the looks, the body type, and so on. The same applies to being good looking. There will always be other good looking guys but, the mind is so powerful and it is a tool. It should be put to use or other wise, it runs wild. Anything in this world that you want is yours for the taking. You do have to give your all and do your best but, still, there must be balance. Again, its paradoxical but, it is how it is. Arnold is a role model for me and much of all this gets touched on there. The man had a strong sense of entitlement, the visualizing himself as being a champion, a block buster movie star, a politician, future director, producer, & former womanizer. The difference in success comes down to the ones with certainty vs the guy with the "maybe" mindset. If your hitting on girls and you question your worth, your already hurting yourself before you opened your mouth. Personal development is key. "Game" mindset is loser talk. Its co-dependent upon outcome which is why its prone to failure. FOr there to be Game, there are winners and losers. With that said, "I am a winner." There is no question about that. I am already a success and no amount of money, sex or stunning women can enhance or alter or change that. Good stuff.

I will be adding to this thread as time goes on.

Ps: I seen the Ozzie quote in your signature. "I drop the girl. BOOM FUCK, next set." I remember this happening to me with the hottest girl in the club on Australian day. Its the same as boxing when you get dropped or in hockey when you get body checked. It sucks, it hurts but, this too will pass. Get up, walk it off, and do your thing.
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Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
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brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
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#23
ambiguity

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Another realization that hit me most recently is that, seeking the adventure is more approval seeking. Wanting to bring the adventure is cool and all but, you already are an adventure in yourself. There is no need to try to bring it. You are it. She feels it. She complies. Other wise, your the dancing monkey.
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Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#! Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.


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#24
GaryBusey

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Very well put. I like to put it this way: Playing games is for girls to worry about.
ambiguity wrote:

GaryBusey wrote:
This is kinda off topic but your post got me thinking.

When it comes to Identity I have found more and more how our identity is only a concept in our own heads. It is dependent on thoughts that we identify with and the thing is that our thoughts can change drastically very fast. For example these chodes that you mention, perfect example. They are all ego but when they get a mad rejection they go crying. Weak identity.

The thing is to develop an identity that is not dependant on external factors and that moves you closer to your CORE day by day.

A lot of fathers are beta males. My father is a beta male as well but, I don't adopt that way of being. I have always had women in my life. They come and go as they choose but, I don't chase. I replace. Women chase me. They pick me up. I don't search for it. It comes to me. Your identity is your self concept and with that comes, your sense of self worth which ties into entitlement, and your beliefs, values, etc. So many guys want stunning women but, the problem is that, they want the girl for more of a self enhancement as oppose to relating to her world and showing a sort of relation and connection between the two of you. I am not chasing anything or anyone nor or ever. If you haven't seen the Scwarzenegger video, definitely watch it. He talks about the looks, the body type, and so on. The same applies to being good looking. There will always be other good looking guys but, the mind is so powerful and it is a tool. It should be put to use or other wise, it runs wild. Anything in this world that you want is yours for the taking. You do have to give your all and do your best but, still, there must be balance. Again, its paradoxical but, it is how it is. Arnold is a role model for me and much of all this gets touched on there. The man had a strong sense of entitlement, the visualizing himself as being a champion, a block buster movie star, a politician, future director, producer, & former womanizer. The difference in success comes down to the ones with certainty vs the guy with the "maybe" mindset. If your hitting on girls and you question your worth, your already hurting yourself before you opened your mouth. Personal development is key. "Game" mindset is loser talk. Its co-dependent upon outcome which is why its prone to failure. FOr there to be Game, there are winners and losers. With that said, "I am a winner." There is no question about that. I am already a success and no amount of money, sex or stunning women can enhance or alter or change that. Good stuff.

I will be adding to this thread as time goes on.

Ps: I seen the Ozzie quote in your signature. "I drop the girl. BOOM FUCK, next set." I remember this happening to me with the hottest girl in the club on Australian day. Its the same as boxing when you get dropped or in hockey when you get body checked. It sucks, it hurts but, this too will pass. Get up, walk it off, and do your thing.

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Change but your mind on what you want to see, and all the world must change accordingly." -  A Course in Miracles
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#25
ambiguity

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I totally agree brah. Not sure what the key is though. Feeling a lot of guilt. I am pretty much out of control at the moment. Not sure what the answer is. Originally, I was planning to post pics of my Spring Break get away when I return home in the next bit, pics, videos of hook ups but, I am not looking to be the next Zyzz the king of Rsdn.
GaryBusey wrote:
Very well put. I like to put it this way: Playing games is for girls to worry about.
ambiguity wrote:

GaryBusey wrote:
This is kinda off topic but your post got me thinking.

When it comes to Identity I have found more and more how our identity is only a concept in our own heads. It is dependent on thoughts that we identify with and the thing is that our thoughts can change drastically very fast. For example these chodes that you mention, perfect example. They are all ego but when they get a mad rejection they go crying. Weak identity.

The thing is to develop an identity that is not dependant on external factors and that moves you closer to your CORE day by day.

A lot of fathers are beta males. My father is a beta male as well but, I don't adopt that way of being. I have always had women in my life. They come and go as they choose but, I don't chase. I replace. Women chase me. They pick me up. I don't search for it. It comes to me. Your identity is your self concept and with that comes, your sense of self worth which ties into entitlement, and your beliefs, values, etc. So many guys want stunning women but, the problem is that, they want the girl for more of a self enhancement as oppose to relating to her world and showing a sort of relation and connection between the two of you. I am not chasing anything or anyone nor or ever. If you haven't seen the Scwarzenegger video, definitely watch it. He talks about the looks, the body type, and so on. The same applies to being good looking. There will always be other good looking guys but, the mind is so powerful and it is a tool. It should be put to use or other wise, it runs wild. Anything in this world that you want is yours for the taking. You do have to give your all and do your best but, still, there must be balance. Again, its paradoxical but, it is how it is. Arnold is a role model for me and much of all this gets touched on there. The man had a strong sense of entitlement, the visualizing himself as being a champion, a block buster movie star, a politician, future director, producer, & former womanizer. The difference in success comes down to the ones with certainty vs the guy with the "maybe" mindset. If your hitting on girls and you question your worth, your already hurting yourself before you opened your mouth. Personal development is key. "Game" mindset is loser talk. Its co-dependent upon outcome which is why its prone to failure. FOr there to be Game, there are winners and losers. With that said, "I am a winner." There is no question about that. I am already a success and no amount of money, sex or stunning women can enhance or alter or change that. Good stuff.

I will be adding to this thread as time goes on.

Ps: I seen the Ozzie quote in your signature. "I drop the girl. BOOM FUCK, next set." I remember this happening to me with the hottest girl in the club on Australian day. Its the same as boxing when you get dropped or in hockey when you get body checked. It sucks, it hurts but, this too will pass. Get up, walk it off, and do your thing.


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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#! Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.


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ambiguity

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Awesome example of the sort of sense of entitlement anyone with "success" incorporates. I tried to find the specific board room scene regarding Brad Pitt interrupting everyone for "a cup of tea, English style." The movie is a pure example of the sort of success entitlement brings you. 

The coffee shop scene where he wows the girl is pretty "chode" but, it works and is again why "what you say," doesn't matter nor is what you do. More emphasis on where it comes from is of an even higher importance.

Awesome!  thumbs up
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#! Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.


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ambiguity

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Lateralus2 wrote:
Hell ya, I feel you be a KING. Id rather be a King than a prince but thats for another thread.
Whatever works for you mate!
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#! Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.


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Adam!

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I've just read this whole thread.

I think you bring a different perspective to this forum and that there are a lot of things to take away from this.

A lot of guys don't have standards when it comes to women. I can think of many friends who've settled for someone. I could have been one of them but it's not for me.
 
I want more - someone who is an equal.

Thanks
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#29
ambiguity

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Your welcome mate.

You just have to be your own man.

I've learned so much here. Its funny to cause, guys come at me calling me a Jeffy Fan boy.

When I first created my account, found the community, I saw a video of Jeffy.

I called him out saying, it was prety much 15minutes straight of bragging about how great he is.

Then again, a good portion of my posts do the samething.

Post about pulling SMOKE SHOWs, picked up, celebrity look alike comments from the girls, and just wild nights out.

I've also noted my own cognitive dissonance and manic lows.

I do my best to add to the value here but, I am only one man, and I have yet to figure it out.

I love RSDs message of the presupposition that you assume attraction from the get go.

I've learned a lot from Jeffy, Tyler, Alex, Ozzie, Brad, Tim, and the RSD crew.

I do not follow anything though and I do portray my own way of being.

I am not regurgitating Ecky or being another carbon copy.


Vamp wrote:
I've just read this whole thread.

I think you bring a different perspective to this forum and that there are a lot of things to take away from this.

A lot of guys don't have standards when it comes to women. I can think of many friends who've settled for someone. I could have been one of them but it's not for me.
 
I want more - someone who is an equal.

Thanks


Guys send me a pm quite frequently wanting tips on Game.

What nobody tells you is that, you are already enough from day one.

You just dont know it yet, all you got to do is wear the fucking crown.

Your born into royalty.
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#! Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.


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ambiguity

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bump
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#! Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.


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