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Cat, any tips or resources on step 3 ("texting sweet shit")?
I would say you really want to calibrate your texts to your style and who you are.When I said "text sweet shit" I literally mean like.. "nice, cute shit".
So for instance, I've been using this as a same night follow up and its great for me:
"Hey girlname, it's Cat the guy that hit on you in ________[insert where you hit on her]_______, romantically. It was cool meeting you, you're adorable. Have a great rest of your night, I'll hit you up soon :)"
This produces a lot of "awww thanks Cat it was nice meeting you too" type reponses.
But as you know if Jeffy were to write that it would be WEIRD. So you need to stick with your style.
What I suggest is you get to something you feel genuinely solid about and USE IT EVERY TIME. This lets you ISOLATE THE VARIABLES so to speak. And it takes away the "how should I treat this one" shit. Instead its just YOU EXPRESSING YOURSELF HOW YOU DO and you let the chips fall where they may. If she doesnt like that I send her a sweet text, she can fuck herself. I'm not going to change who I am for her.
This "polarizing attitude" is hard to grapple with when I was first starting out but trust me, just go for it man. You will micromanage way less and take all the anxiety and overthinking that can often happen, esp if that girl might be a little bit out of your entitlement zone.
So yeah, find something you like and stick with it so you can work on improving the beginning of the interaction etc.
And at the same time don'nt take any of this advice as dogma, if you want to switch shit up, do it man, this game is about feel. So with that being said, I suggest you keep it simple and focus on the more important parts of picking her up (part 1). This is true of me and everyone --> if you make the initial meeting awesome, everything else falls in line more easily.
Hope this helps man.
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Boskap I think the other reason why its actually BETTER to do chode conversation than "pimpery" conversation is because a chode conversation translates to a day2.
You can pimp the shit out of some girl but if you don't have that normal conversation, she doesn't "know" that she can actually be "normal" or "out of the club" with you.
So if you DO pimp the fuck out of the girl and its just way high energy shit then I do suggest you reconnect w/ that girl in that same environment and then make it real. But if you can do a chode conversation then the day2 is much more realistic, it just feels like an extension of the first meeting.
I find this formula to work reeeeally well for getting consistent dates:
1) Normal friendly cool approach, a bit of game but MOSTLY calm, relaxed, getting to you know you stuff. Joke lightly about her questions to you and don't reveal too much, let her ask a bunch of questions.
2) "Girlname, this is cool, I want to see you again" and then whatever number exchange you like to do.
3) Light texting that night, mostly sweet shit, and then again the next morning/afternoon.
4) Call within 2 days of meeting. Light conversation, cut it off after 10-20 minutes depending on the emotional pacing of the chat. Seed "alright Girlname, you're awesome, we gotta kick it sometime" and depending she will suggest to make plans then or you can leave it vague like that.
5) Text a bit, then make plays to day2.
6) On the day2, kiss early, be relaxed, physical. Talk about REAL SHIT. I find that this has DRAMATICALLY improved my results in terms of "speed". Pull and go for close or get it the next time.
I get a lot less consistent day2s off of a higher energy approach where I'm just "dominating the interaction". In those cases they tend to lead to a one night stand or nothing. Those are more "adventure mode" and this is more low key, wow this guy is amazing I want to see him again shit.
Some of my thoughts.
I'm sure I'll rethink all of this within 6 months but that has worked well for me so far.
Cheers
I agee with this a lot my dude. Also - now that I think about it - regular talk is way more effective in the long run than pimp talking because AT SOME POINT you need to be relaxed, chill, and to talk to her like a normal human being. You cant talk pimp forever - eventually the act must be dropped. You can pimp the shit out of some girl but if you don't have that normal conversation, she doesn't "know" that she can actually be "normal" or "out of the club" with you.
So if you DO pimp the fuck out of the girl and its just way high energy shit then I do suggest you reconnect w/ that girl in that same environment and then make it real. But if you can do a chode conversation then the day2 is much more realistic, it just feels like an extension of the first meeting.
I find this formula to work reeeeally well for getting consistent dates:
1) Normal friendly cool approach, a bit of game but MOSTLY calm, relaxed, getting to you know you stuff. Joke lightly about her questions to you and don't reveal too much, let her ask a bunch of questions.
2) "Girlname, this is cool, I want to see you again" and then whatever number exchange you like to do.
3) Light texting that night, mostly sweet shit, and then again the next morning/afternoon.
4) Call within 2 days of meeting. Light conversation, cut it off after 10-20 minutes depending on the emotional pacing of the chat. Seed "alright Girlname, you're awesome, we gotta kick it sometime" and depending she will suggest to make plans then or you can leave it vague like that.
5) Text a bit, then make plays to day2.
6) On the day2, kiss early, be relaxed, physical. Talk about REAL SHIT. I find that this has DRAMATICALLY improved my results in terms of "speed". Pull and go for close or get it the next time.
I get a lot less consistent day2s off of a higher energy approach where I'm just "dominating the interaction". In those cases they tend to lead to a one night stand or nothing. Those are more "adventure mode" and this is more low key, wow this guy is amazing I want to see him again shit.
Some of my thoughts.
I'm sure I'll rethink all of this within 6 months but that has worked well for me so far.
Cheers
I feel like nowdays you just need normal guy to girl talk, with some flirting mixed in to make the girl remember "Hey! We're making normal convo but I think youre cute". You truly have confidence if you hook up with girls just based off of regular talk. Most guys in the community are scared of this. They feel they need some line or some crazy action. How do normal people get together and date? Think about it....
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Sunday
Wake up and etc from Saturday night, kick this girl out at noon, kick around my house reading, cleaning up shit.
Meetup with this girl I met .. last friday? I don't remember which friday it was, anyway, it was my last approach, two minutes, it turned out after battling on text for a bit.
Girl is fucking gorgeous. When I met her it was raining and she had a rainjacket on with it over her head and she has these bangs and shit, and tits, and long ass legs, like literally almost as long as mine, and shes 5'2'' (AHH I LOVE SHORT GIRLS).
She has this helllllllla seductive slow lingering eye contact fuck my life. And shes wearing this shirt with a bunch of skin in the back and it was silk and you could see through it and fuck. So stacked, this one. Gorgeous face, big ass eyes staring at you wanting you and shit, damn.
Same shit, "get sweatshirt", she is comfortable in my pad (this is an interesting thing to pay attention to and its different for different chicks and kinda meaningful). Decide to drive us a cool ass bar because it's raining, sit on a couch together, and talk.
I tell her before we enter the bar I'm going to kiss her and shes like maybe and I just look at her like "literally, you have no idea what you are dealing with". She tells me I'm very forward when I am grabbing her legs and shit. She keeps looking at me for so long and it fucking turns me on so much, so I'm also bringing up the boner she is causing in conversation. // I've been using more verbal sexual talk and its fucking cool. Its insane to finger a girl outside her jeans for the first time and shes fuckign soaked, its badass.
Talk about kissing she is like not in the bar and I'm like we'll see if you are good.
She is nervous on the kiss so I just walk another block and then give her another chance and we figure that shit out quickly and I'm bonerriffic. I can also rock wood from just talking about sex these days. #sexual momentum
Get back to my house. Its on. She is soaked. Its so hot.
She stares in my eyes the whole time we do anything besides kiss. I finger her up against the wall. She keeps whispering my name while moaning, its fucking hottt.
Haha I'm reading through this field report (which I dont normally do when I write them) and basically all I'm saying is "shes fucking hot" "it's badass" "i have a boner". Hahaha. Yes. I dunno if this a reflection of my mindset these days or what but I'm amused. ANYWAY
Get on the couch and she straddles me and I say you shouldn't do that. She's saying she has to go in between whispering my name and grinding me.
I'm like cool and take my dick out.
Tada!
Verbatim she says "I can't look at it or else I won't stop" AND DOESNT. FUCK. She touches it for a second.
Points for taking my dick out though motherfucker. I TAKE MY DICK OUT WHEN I DAMN WELL PLEASE, PLEASE.
I walk her to her car, sadface, and I'm like I want to see you again and she says thats up to you. And I'm like fuck yes in my head. Haha
AHHHHHHHHHHH WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON THIS SHIT IS INSANE FUCK
She had the best titties again, and since I've now seen two of these last whatever new girls since I've written the reports I can safely say that MY MIND IS TRICKING ME INTO THINKING EACH ONE IS THE BEST maybe because it loves variety.
I love variety. I love these girls. They get what the fuck is up. And they are all about it.
Bonertimes
-Cat
Wake up and etc from Saturday night, kick this girl out at noon, kick around my house reading, cleaning up shit.
Meetup with this girl I met .. last friday? I don't remember which friday it was, anyway, it was my last approach, two minutes, it turned out after battling on text for a bit.
Girl is fucking gorgeous. When I met her it was raining and she had a rainjacket on with it over her head and she has these bangs and shit, and tits, and long ass legs, like literally almost as long as mine, and shes 5'2'' (AHH I LOVE SHORT GIRLS).
She has this helllllllla seductive slow lingering eye contact fuck my life. And shes wearing this shirt with a bunch of skin in the back and it was silk and you could see through it and fuck. So stacked, this one. Gorgeous face, big ass eyes staring at you wanting you and shit, damn.
Same shit, "get sweatshirt", she is comfortable in my pad (this is an interesting thing to pay attention to and its different for different chicks and kinda meaningful). Decide to drive us a cool ass bar because it's raining, sit on a couch together, and talk.
I tell her before we enter the bar I'm going to kiss her and shes like maybe and I just look at her like "literally, you have no idea what you are dealing with". She tells me I'm very forward when I am grabbing her legs and shit. She keeps looking at me for so long and it fucking turns me on so much, so I'm also bringing up the boner she is causing in conversation. // I've been using more verbal sexual talk and its fucking cool. Its insane to finger a girl outside her jeans for the first time and shes fuckign soaked, its badass.
Talk about kissing she is like not in the bar and I'm like we'll see if you are good.
She is nervous on the kiss so I just walk another block and then give her another chance and we figure that shit out quickly and I'm bonerriffic. I can also rock wood from just talking about sex these days. #sexual momentum
Get back to my house. Its on. She is soaked. Its so hot.
She stares in my eyes the whole time we do anything besides kiss. I finger her up against the wall. She keeps whispering my name while moaning, its fucking hottt.
Haha I'm reading through this field report (which I dont normally do when I write them) and basically all I'm saying is "shes fucking hot" "it's badass" "i have a boner". Hahaha. Yes. I dunno if this a reflection of my mindset these days or what but I'm amused. ANYWAY
Get on the couch and she straddles me and I say you shouldn't do that. She's saying she has to go in between whispering my name and grinding me.
I'm like cool and take my dick out.
Tada!
Verbatim she says "I can't look at it or else I won't stop" AND DOESNT. FUCK. She touches it for a second.
Points for taking my dick out though motherfucker. I TAKE MY DICK OUT WHEN I DAMN WELL PLEASE, PLEASE.
I walk her to her car, sadface, and I'm like I want to see you again and she says thats up to you. And I'm like fuck yes in my head. Haha
AHHHHHHHHHHH WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON THIS SHIT IS INSANE FUCK
She had the best titties again, and since I've now seen two of these last whatever new girls since I've written the reports I can safely say that MY MIND IS TRICKING ME INTO THINKING EACH ONE IS THE BEST maybe because it loves variety.
I love variety. I love these girls. They get what the fuck is up. And they are all about it.
Bonertimes
-Cat
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Cat I think if I ran your game I would be crying myself to sleep every night and jacking off with my tears as lube. Not that I don't do that already.
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Seattle Bootcamp Alumni June 14-16 2012 Tyler / Jeffy
I took LSD for the first time on Friday.
I had a sick lunch with a dude I met through Matt281 on the forums, he's a very successful sales rep and we talked pickup and biz. Cool ass dude.
I break up with my cherish in full. I kiss her on the way out. She makes it clear she still wants to fuck me. We both agree we need some time apart to lose the connection we'd both been building (when we couldn't put it together). She's headed to therapy on Monday to begin working on her commitment issues and I truly wish for her wonderful results. I think she has a long way to go (given that I was the first BF she told about her deep personal issues) but the fact shes starting now is what is amazing. Go her. Best breakup I've had, coming from total love, honesty, and openness.
Then I take acid. Wow.
Just.. Wow. Was one of the most beautiful experiences I've ever had.
I meditated for 40 minutes during it. Also: wow.
I spend a good 7-9 hours in thought. About leaving behind my cherish. About what's to come. About beginning a new chapter in my life.
It was .... perfect. Truly. Deep contemplation, connectedness with my self, my purpose, what I want.
I'm still not entirely sure. But what I've realized, especially through seeing Owen's new video about execution, is that I need to step it up. Really step it up. Shift gears.
There is pain in this. I think I need to leave people behind. But really, I think that I just need to spend more time with those who are on the same path. It's not about leaving people behind, but it is about focusing on those that are going up, that will motivate me and show me amazing things and be an inspiration to ME.
I'm going to go out a lot over the next few months. I'm going to be single for a good stretch.
I think I want to see where my potential lies in this pickup shit. Figure out how to do the one night stand thing, or something close to it, tons of dates, lots of sex, lots of new girls. See if I enjoy that style, or if a monogomy is really what I like.
It's a huge time for change in my life. A letting go and a welcoming.
Thank you all for being a part of my journey. Truly.
To new beginnings.
-Cat
7 months later I gotta say:I had a sick lunch with a dude I met through Matt281 on the forums, he's a very successful sales rep and we talked pickup and biz. Cool ass dude.
I break up with my cherish in full. I kiss her on the way out. She makes it clear she still wants to fuck me. We both agree we need some time apart to lose the connection we'd both been building (when we couldn't put it together). She's headed to therapy on Monday to begin working on her commitment issues and I truly wish for her wonderful results. I think she has a long way to go (given that I was the first BF she told about her deep personal issues) but the fact shes starting now is what is amazing. Go her. Best breakup I've had, coming from total love, honesty, and openness.
Then I take acid. Wow.
Just.. Wow. Was one of the most beautiful experiences I've ever had.
I meditated for 40 minutes during it. Also: wow.
I spend a good 7-9 hours in thought. About leaving behind my cherish. About what's to come. About beginning a new chapter in my life.
It was .... perfect. Truly. Deep contemplation, connectedness with my self, my purpose, what I want.
I'm still not entirely sure. But what I've realized, especially through seeing Owen's new video about execution, is that I need to step it up. Really step it up. Shift gears.
There is pain in this. I think I need to leave people behind. But really, I think that I just need to spend more time with those who are on the same path. It's not about leaving people behind, but it is about focusing on those that are going up, that will motivate me and show me amazing things and be an inspiration to ME.
I'm going to go out a lot over the next few months. I'm going to be single for a good stretch.
I think I want to see where my potential lies in this pickup shit. Figure out how to do the one night stand thing, or something close to it, tons of dates, lots of sex, lots of new girls. See if I enjoy that style, or if a monogomy is really what I like.
It's a huge time for change in my life. A letting go and a welcoming.
Thank you all for being a part of my journey. Truly.
To new beginnings.
-Cat
WORD UP.
And thanks to all you homies who are out banging the guns with me every week, I love you guys, you guys are fucking beasts and its insane how much we've improved since we all met, it's simply insane.
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Pics or it didnt happen ;)
Thanks for the continued inspiration and showing whats possible.
Us down in austin are trying to rep it as hard as you seattle maniacs.
Thanks for the continued inspiration and showing whats possible.
Us down in austin are trying to rep it as hard as you seattle maniacs.
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I just want to enjoy amazing girls. Crazy what sort of journey ive embarked on pursuing this quest.
My adventures in Dallas - 2013
My adventures in Austin - 2012
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com
My adventures in Dallas - 2013
My adventures in Austin - 2012
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com
The girls are hotter in austin everyone knows that be jealous up in seattle when it's raining and cold hahahahahahahaha.
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The girls are hotter in austin everyone knows that be jealous up in seattle when it's raining and cold hahahahahahahaha.
The girls here are really hot. Ive never been to a city with so many hot girls everywhere before Austin. __________________
I just want to enjoy amazing girls. Crazy what sort of journey ive embarked on pursuing this quest.
My adventures in Dallas - 2013
My adventures in Austin - 2012
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com
My adventures in Dallas - 2013
My adventures in Austin - 2012
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com
jesus man, I get a boner reading your reports, at this point.
You're killing it beyond anything, man. I gotta get out to where you and dave live and hit it with you guys at some point. I'd learn a thing or two.
As always, keep killin it.
You're killing it beyond anything, man. I gotta get out to where you and dave live and hit it with you guys at some point. I'd learn a thing or two.
As always, keep killin it.
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The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
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