THE FORUMS

Friday

Fucked up my flights to Vegas so I grabbed one for Saturday (am writing this in the airport on 4 hrs sleep. After you have a good night with no sleep and you're a zombie somehow you still have this "I'm the shit" glow about you, I'm sitting in starbucks facing all the oncoming walking traffic and just staring at hos. Relaxed eyes. Fuck me I love girls).

Meetup with the crew, game times.

Stuff that is worth mentioning that I normally don't mention --> I will start talking to whoever as fast as I can in the night. Walking to the bar on the street some group of 8 people outside a picture frame store, ask (yell at them) if there are going to a sweet party etc, just open the vibe up, get talking.

// This is important even though I don't harp on it. Get talking

Three girls that smell like incense walking to the bar. They dont want to tell me where they are going but they are giving me that girly aloof shit, aka reacting like a girl who reacts to a player. Better than the "friendly" responses a chode who sucks would get but yeah.

Get in the bar, chat w/ the boys. Decide its time to talk to strangers, open a 3 set, two ugs and a dude, just talking bullshitting. Leave them.

Back to crew and Matt281 opens a hottie brunette. Being a solid wingman I wait 15 seconds and approach her equally hot friend and pop on that with "hey I'm going to chat with you while my friend hits on your friend". Super solid, low key opener, gives you plenty of time to work and build up shit a bit more slowly than the point, who are you shit which is more polarizing but also very fun.

This goes really well. My girl cant hear anything and shes gullible as fuck so I have to tone down the sarcasm and "fuckign with you" vibe and do a "friendly and cool" approach. Giving her a healthy dose of shit, she apologizes a lot. She just moved back into town. She looks good. "You seem sweet but that's probably a facade and you're actually a .. freak". She laughs and kinda hesitates and I plow over it. Good to throw in some spice and sex in the mix, glossing over it quickly.

I'd put her at a very solid 8/8.5. Numbers. Stoked to see this girl.

// Sidenote: been keeping many of my numbers alive with the intention of meeting up on nights out if nothing is super solid. This girl is hot enough to call and see if shes dateable.
We attempt to move them to the next spot but after they hit the bathroom they have decided it's girls night. Totally cool with us, it's early. Matt281 sets up a day2. I tell my girl I'll call her. She says good, I hate texting. I tell her I have that shit too. She says "great, you'll never hear from me". "That's fucking awesome". We laugh.

Seriously, I love it.

Fuck texting.

Pop into a three set, one had been eyeing me earlier. Open about how there's a something that looks like a tranny. We try to figure it out. My girl decides she wants to thumb wrestle. "She wins" then I destroy her, LAUGH IN HER FACE and turn half the bar on me while doing so, and then "she wins again" apparently.

These girls are ridiculous. We talk about some shit and within a minute the brunette is like "I just eat lots of pussy". I look her dead in the eyes, smiling a super charming smile, and say "me too, we have so much in common" with zero reaction. Hold it. Hold it. They blow up laughing, my girl grabs my chest.

Shes talking about how pussy should taste like fruit and honey. How they were just doing a modeling show and thats why her eyelashes are huge. I grab her and .. beg... "oh god please give me your number, I've always wanted to ... meet... a ... model". Blows up laughing blahbalha.

I grab them both in my arms, three way hug. My girl is like "I dunno Kara, maybe we should both fuck this guy".

Like a fucking boss I am DOWN. This is a huge change internally. It is simply something I could see myself doing now, and I'm not saying that as a way of bragging but simply as a truth --> I could see a threesome happening this year and it would just be fun.

They both look up at me and I look down at them still in my arms. "Let's do it". "Do you think you could handle that?" "Yeah, I do."

My girl hesitates, the brunette is salivating. My girl blows out of it and pawns her friend off to me which isn't happening.

Get my girls number and shes like this isnt going to work im older im not going to pick up blahblahblahablha and I say "thats cool put my number in your phone".

// One of the biggest lessons I'm learning over and over in the game is that ACTIONS and WORDS are different. And that being persistent is AROUSING and ATTRACTIVE and DEMONSTRATES HIGH VALUE. In the same way that not reacting to the what the fuck face at the beginning of the set demonstrates persistence, so does ignoring her bullshit because I know that she actually wants to meetup / is trying for my validation.

// The ideal "frame" for this is "that's cool, I'm just going to keep on going for what I want though". #Foreshadowing

Grab the brunettes number too so I can ditch them. Matt281 wings the whole time like a champ. We head to a different bar. Brunette wanted to follow but we take a side street to ditch them.

Texting that black hottie from Monday to meetup. Shes in a different part of the city but is down to come party.

Get into the next bar. Out enough where I know all the bouncers. Like that.

Stunner standing by a table of people. There's a slow song on. Walk up immediately "will you slow dance with me?"

LIKE A BOSS. Love this shit, open with ANYTHING and MAKE IT FUN.

We slow dance middle school style. Girl is quite stunning, more of a social 9 than my personal 9 but still. Platinum blond, hot body, verrrrrrry social. We are both opening strangers around us bullshitting. Socialite power-couple.

Take us to the bar to grab us a drink. It takes forever (good) so we get to bullshit a bunch. She's got a low voice, not my style, but whatever. Shes hippyish, sings jazz, thats "her life" when I ask "what's your deal Kate".

Matt281 walks by and gets in my ear "fuck you I was gonna approach first" and then I get the pimp-nod from Adjunkie. Love you guys. They take off for more adventures I can only assume.

We bullshit a bunch, its chill, flirty. She looks over at her friends and sees that they are getting up, she says wait hold up I need to make sure they dont leave my shit.

Cool, bye.

Like a total chode I just stand there and wait for 30 minutes while she talks to a bunch of people and keeps socializing.

Errrr.....

I mean I hit on the girl next to me because I'm a fucking whore douchebag pimp machine.

"Your polka dots match my underwear. Look".

I lift up my shirt and show her my red polka dotted boxers.

"My mom got them for me. We match. I'm Cat".

Lolololol

"I know who you are. You hit on me a bunch on okcupid and then you kissed my friend in XYZ bar even though she had a boyfriend".

Lolololol

I laugh. Girl tests me reeeeeeally hard. Gives me that look like "who the fuck do you think you are". I just stand there and take it patiently.

Like Owen says, when a girl tests you you can interpret it two ways: 1) she dislikes you, 2) shes reacting to the fact that she knows you could fuck her.

I'm patient, smiling, laughing. "Yeah that sounds like me. Blhablahabla". Qualify her. Who are you? Chode interview questions.

She calls me a pervert. "You're a pervert aren't you". I look at her. What the fuck is a pervert, seriously, do I look like I molest children? I'm a nice man.

Her: "How much do you think you're a douchebag out of ten".

"...I'm a solid 8."

Hahahhaha

We are laughing a bunch now obviously. I'm like "girl you are actually a total sweetheart aren't you". "No I'm the biggest bitch of all my friends". "No you aren't. I bet you love your friends and family, you like kids, you like cute little animals and shit. You're a good person".

She smiles at me, coming out.

Shes "blunt" with me. We talk about being honest. "Honestly I want to tell you that I want to kiss you but you're going to give me that what the fuck douchebag look... but too late huh".
"I'm not kissing you in the bar".

DINGDINGDING

Lots of testing. I meet the girl who I kissed. She's fucking hot. Nice :)

I ignore the friends because she is, no need to befriend if I dont have to. We are posted up at the bar. She finishes her drink. I offer to buy us drinks (omg i suck at the game). We just stand there talking for 40 minutes while the bartenders ignore us.

Girl is 5'4'' blondie with a gorgeous good girl face, hips, and some delicious tits.

She's smart. She tells me she has a double helix tattoo on her foot. I stop the bullshit and look at her dead in the eye, slow her down. "That's cool as fuck. I like that. I'm into nerds".

"I'm such a nerd hahaha"

Solid as fuck kid. REAL qualifying is so so so good, you need to do it like .. once and literally that's enough. She has to SEE that genuine authentic "seriously I like that part of you" vibe in your eyes, and slowing shit down for a second and stopping the flirty bullshit (fluff) to take it there makes shit soooooooooo solid.

Getting texts from that black hottie askign where to meet. Fuck. Ignore, hope I don't lose her in the process.

Keep shit up. Shes impressed with me, so is her friend, that I didn't walk off after she deliberately bitched me out at the beginning. Points.

// JUST STAY IN SET, FUCK. Learn this every weekend.

And here is where I make THE DECISION: I'm going to take this girl home and fuck her.

// This is the BIGGEST realization I'm having over and over. It's that INTENTIONALITY and LEADING comes from an INTERNAL CERTAINTY about AN OUTCOME YOU WANT TO BRING

ABOUT.

// CERTAINTY IS WHAT MAKES HER COMFORTABLE. It builds trust and makes you an authority.

// You are DETACHED from that outcome, you do NOT NEED IT. But you structure your interaction TOWARDS that outcome. This comes up later in better detail.

I have been seeding food because I'm hungry. Her friends leave her, she tells them it's cool. In my head I'm like this is done.

Lights come on. I look at her. She looks at me. "Still interested?" (I'm joking). "You're hideous." "You have no idea".

"Let's go, finish your drink". "Are you trying to get me drunk?" "Yes. And taco-d". She pounds her drink. "Okay let's go".

Take us to my after hours taco shop. I push her against the wall on the walk over. She fucking mouthrapes me. It always surprises me how much girls get turned on mentally and their mouthraping abilities. I pull back for a second and she like, just yeah she mouthrapes me a lot. I get hard and she understands how that works.

She's good at it.

// Being caught up in the moment with this other blondie I fucked on Wednesday who I genuinely really like.. it's crazy getting out and meeting a bunch of new hotties, having a blast, pulling some girls in, kissing etc.. it just kinda makes you realize that even the best part of that one thing isn't NECESSARILY unique. That there is SO MUCH CHOICE out there.

// Don't want to act out of a FEAR of commitment but feel like part of me was acting out of a feeling of NEED when it comes to my feelings for this girl. Grabbing some new ones makes me realize what parts of that relationship are valuable and which parts I'm just sorta emotionally moved by in the moment. It's good.

Grab us two beef tongue tacos. I tell her it's hot that she likes it. When we're in line she gives me shit again (loudly because shes calibrated to the bar) that I'm a pervert who goes around kissing her friends. I respond by telling her that shes a good kisser. The dude in front of me laughs out loud. I love these stories. I really do.

"We're leaving, my place" as we stand up. She doesn't respond, I don't feel the need to give some reason.

On the street we're kissing, she takes off her high heels and I see how short she is and I fall in love a little bit.

Shes like "okay I need to take a cab home". "I'll drive you home". "You're okay to drive?" "I only had that one drink with you, so yeah".

She hesitates. "No I should go home". "Okay that's cool". And I just chill out, patient.

// The difference here is that I MADE A DECISION AND IM GOING TO BURN IT DOWN.

// So while my behavior seems to communicate "I'm okay to let you go" my intention is "I want to hang out at my house". This is very important because in this sense I'm actually calibrating my "okay you can leave" to KEEP HER THERE. To give her space so she can make the decision to come home with me on her own, to not pressure her.

She hesitates and stays and tonguefucks me. I try to hail us a cab. It's full. She turns back again: "Okay really I have to go, I had fun tonight, call me later". "Okay cool."

She just looks at me expectantly. I look back at her with that same intention: "I want you to come home with me and keep hanging out but if you have to go, I respect that".

Shes like "....okay so um... bye". I just stand there patient, smiling.

She starts to walk off. She looks back and I grab her and kiss her. Shes like "okay I'm going to grab a cab now" and I say "okay cool, I'm going to wait with you, cute girl alone at 2am on the street, kinda what I have to do, you know."

Super solid. Just giving her time. Letting her decide.

We wait another minute and I'm like "look we're going to my house, I'm driving you home ten minutes after".

"Are you sure you dont have to give me a ride".

"Yeah I want to keep hanging out with you".

"Okay".

And suddenly a cab appears.

We get in and she IMMEDIATELY MOUTHRAPES ME HARD. It's like the compliance itself and leading turned her on like crazy. Sorta like when a girl is down to fuck and starts ordering drinks, same kinda deal, she takes a step forward with you and escalates accordingly.

I chat the cabbie like a fucking boss. Dudes if you don't do this.. you are fucking up. It's always solid to show the "I'm a normal person" side of yourself and this is a great opportunity, especially because cabbies and cashiers and people like that are normally treated like shit by drunk idiots at night (yay sober, self-actualized beastmode).

My house. Make out everywhere. Slow. Pull her hair. She moans really good. Ugh. Try not to overdo that one because I know it turns her on so much. Get her blouse off. Shes feeling my stomach. Sweater off. Put her hand on my cock. Rubbing her hot pussy through her jeans. Fuck.

Stand her up. Love this. Stand her up and push her into the wall. That alone is hot as fuck. Get my thumbs in her hips, holding her there, fragile and helpless in that submissive way girls love. Take her hands, push them up on the top of the wall. Take my shirt off.

"You are so hot".

Awww girl.

Rub it, kiss her, take her fucking hot ass tits out, her nipples hard and poking through her padded bra. Ughhhhhhhhh

She gets cold, throw a blanket around her. Pick her up wrapped up in it, throw her on my bed.

Shes like "I want you"

Me: "I want you"

"I want you too but I cant"

"Okay"

Keep going.

"I want you but I cant, really".

"Cool"

"No, Cat, like.. I can't".

She looks at me in that certain way. Fuck. That time of the mouth.

"I got it".

"Okay, but I really want to. You turn me on"

I take my dick out. "So do you".

She gives me the best fucking blowjob I've had in awhile. I lift up her hair to watch her eat it up. God. I blow it in her mouth, I cum hard. Hard.

My jaw is still clenched after shes swallowed it all, shes just looking at me in ecstacy.

"You are hot"

"You are amazing"

She's in my arm, we are giving each other little kisses as she rests there.

I give her a ride home at 4am.

I drop her off at her apartment complex. She points it out. I look at it.

Realize I've already fucked a girl who lives here this year. That I'm dating a different girl who lives 3 blocks away. And that in 4 hours time I will wake up, go to the airport, fly to vegas, and spend two nights straight partying listening to the best electro DJs in the world, beast all week, and then meet Owen and Jeffy for my first bootcamp.

Damn.

THIS PIMP SHIT IS THE SHIT.
-Cat

Tuesday

Cherish with blondie.  Epic fucking.  

Wednesday

Go out at 8pm and meetup w/ black girl from last Monday.  She is at a bar, knows the bartender, who is cool.  We bullshit a bunch, its good, actually a lot more real talk than not.  I'm not exactly feeling her personality but ohhhh my goodddddd she has some big tits and I cant help but stare.  

Eventually the bartender gets off work and we all chill.  Turns out I like the bartender way more, hahaha.  We have a bunch in common, I call him my evil twin.  

We bounce to another bar and basically its just me and the dude bullshitting with her spectating.  Normally shes used to all the attention from dudes, its very obvious, so doing this puts her in her head, very reactive, I can feel it.  Anyway this sorta turns the experience for us both because now theres this undercurrent of sexuality somehow, kinda cool, hard to explain.

Bounce at 11 to meetup w/ AdJunkie.

4 set on the street, situational open.  Do the names thing.  I'm fucking solid.  I get the girls name that I like.  I look at her GFs, I throw my arm around one and point to my girl and say "I like Eva".  They all giggle and freak out etc.  I walk with them for a bit as they go to the bar but since Im meeting my friend elsewhere I tell them I gotta go and will find them.

Go to the next spot.  No AdJunkie.  Sit down with a 7 and bullshit.  Her friend comes they fucking love me, then a dude comes, they all like me.  Its chill but Im not interested in them I guess.  Writing this now I should just go for it anyway, whatever, no reason not to try to fuck a 7 at the end of the night.  

Text adjunkie and go back to the bar where that first set is, talk to gameandwatch and adjunkie and bopsko (forgot your handle man but you know i love you) then reapproach that four set.  Im wayyyyy in.

I handle two of the girls while the other two are being pimped by some random dudes.  My girl is like "we need to find my girlfriend a guy".  I text the boys who have left and gameandwatch heads back. 

I call one of the friends a bitch as a tease but it blows up.  She wants to leave and my girl wants to stay but she puts all teh socail pressure on her being like "do you actually like this guy?" with the wtf face after Im like "Eva and I like each other, seriously, its okay".  Pull was looking totally on, shes fucking into it.  Then they disappear, happens.  I number close and we makeout for a second and she bounces.  

Gameandwatch shows up right as they leave, sorry bud, but instead we both hit on the two hottest girls there, two 9s.  My girl has the tightest body, gorgeous face, awesome fake tits, beautiful skin, and she smells good.  She loves it all.  

What we do right: we dont treat these girls differently.  Gameandwatch and I will start to dance, fuck around with each other, just HAVE FUN, and BE COOL (aka normal around high social value).  They get to see our awesomness.

THey go to the bar to grab a drink.  Gameandwatch wants to go for the number so do I.  We both head back in a minute or two later.  I move mine around the bar a bit.  Go for number.  She has a boyfriend.  For five years.  Who keeps texting her.  I tell her I'm evil and her boyfriend will hate me.  She loves it but no go.  I believe her about the boyfriend, it was fucking on, I felt very entitled and relaxed and .. turned on.  When Im not as entitled I have a harder time just enjoying her sexuality as a very hot woman because I'm in my head.  Instead I'm all over her and getting hard.  Rad.

We keep talking and its very very good, go for number ago no dice.  Its cool.  I look over and it seems like we're ready to bounce, I tell my girl "Stay gorgeous Rebecca".  "You stay cute Cat".  Awwwww!

// I'm not sure what to do with this shit because it IS VALIDATION and I dont want to seek it but on the other hand its INTERNALL PROOF THAT THESE ARE THE GIRLS IN MY REALITY NOW.  Getting complimented on being hot from a 9 in the bar with a boyfriend is kinda crazy in one vein of thought but honestly it felt .. right.  So sweet.  Might ask Owen about this.

Head home at 1amish.  Text black hipster girl on the way back.  She texts back at 2am.  I seed pull once more.  She calls and texts at 4am.  I call back and try to get her over.  No dice.  I end up sleeping fuckign 4 hours because I have to wake up for a conference call in the morning.  

Oh well :)

Loving life, beasting hard, summertime is gonna make every night a good night here.  

Peace ya'll
-Cat