THE FORUMS

January 16th, 2018
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Saturday

I've been organizing a weekly basketball game and played for 3 hours off and on.  Feels sick to put 10-12 people together regularly.  Makes me realize ROLES like that are suited for me.  I'd be a good party organizer, a good film director, a good CEO.

Eat, smoke pot with my friend and jam with him on the guitars.  

Get a text from old cherish.  Homie leaves, I shower and wash my dick, and get laid twice.  Pretty basic, she just kinda interrupts our bland and meaningles conversation to kiss me, puts herself in my arms, I take off her top, she starts to suck my dick, we go fuck in the bedroom.  

I ask her if she's seeing me tonight because shes fighting with someone and she says yes :)

That's why she'd almost come over a few times in the weeks before but not until now.  Basically she pushed this guy on labels, he said what I would say lol, she said okay then and fucked me.  I think that's totally cool :)

We hookup again and she pillow talk s'more.  She accuses me of pushing us into sex for our first time.  In my mind I'm like "GIRL IVE READ THE FIELD REPORT YOU ARE TRIPPING".  Hilarious.  I recall the whole night to her in almost perfect detail and shes starts laughing like oh shit yeah... hahaaha oh yeah that's right.. yeah well I did just start sucking your dick yeah but... well okay.  

Was fun.  We're gonna hang out again before I leave.

Lesson:  humans, myself included, act from emotions/automatically primarily and "reasoning" secondarily.  

Positive:  one of those super physically and creatively exhausting days, endorphens and sore knees, the weed and playig guitar, the sex, all this physical sensation and expression, a very sensory day.  Great day! :)

Sunday

Wake up to a text:  "On a scale from 1-10 how inappropriate is it to drunk text you".  I write back some shit in the AM and she writes "I tried googling "how to recover from an unrequited drunk text" but nothing came up."  Then "you ready for me?".

She comes over at 230, I make us tea, we make out, we get naked, we fuck each other soooooo good.  Ughhhhhhh hahahahhah

When you hold a girls legs back and push her whole body into the bed from her legs and spread her wide open and fuck her hard, you can see her whole body getting fucked god damn.  Youre seeing that happen and then also her lips so you put your finger in her mouth and she starts sucking it.  

I get so turned on by that I just compulsively start going down on her and fingering her.  Shes like WHAT THE FUCK and grabs the back of my head and grinds against my face.  JESUSUSUSUSUSUSUS

Get back up, back in her shes soaked, choke her, she says "yeahhh...." then grab the back of her head and pull her hair and her body and flip her over and fuck her from behind.  As you can imagine, cum explosion.

Giggle fest again, not sure why she does but its pretty cute so whatever man.  Was kinda dirty sex.. 

Talk talk talk, are you flexible enough to fit in my suitcase, you should write me a letter... 

Then she says "sometimes I think about you when I'm not with you.." or something like that.  And immediately freaks out at herself and gets super self conscious.  Im laughing and grab her and kiss her and tell her "I like you too".  She just wants to know.  Pretty cool.  

Afterwards when we're lying there I'm just watching her body too, touching her skin and hair and stuff, talking to her close to her face.  Thats how you pillow talk btw if you havent done that.  Shes all self conscious still and I slap her ass and yeah round dos.  She gets on top this time and away we go

She takes off at 6, I wash my face off and go and do family christmas shit!  Hahah

Lesson:  the sexual dominance thing isn't a role play or some act, it comes from being 1) uninhibitied and 2) having had sex enough to understand what is actually arousing to HUMANS, specifically girls and myself in my own case.  You have to have both parts.  For me, with this girl, I do have both and it's really awesome.  And she is exactly right there with me.  So...

Positive:  the hottest, most congruent fucking I've had in my life so quickly.  I have never felt in my head with her and can tell shes the same with me.  Holy shit it's awesome.

More slutty adventures to come my friends, I've made a checklist for Colombia and I've checked it twice :)

Luhz u
-Cat
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harrah

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Dude nice man! A few things exactly I agree:

- my old (?) Regular back in Vancouver accused me of just fucking her on 1st day: she pretty much described or day 2 as " went to park, then grocery store, then to mine and fucked" Lol girl that's not what happened yooooo, and I told her my fr and she was like oh yeaaah n she giggled n shit.

-about being dominant and masculine. I love being the man. Recently I'm always slapping girls ass in clubs or dates or wiie fucking. I love dominating and Manny girls love getting choked n face slapped n dirty sex. I'm that guy who can make them feel to be a woman. Evey girls need a real man:)
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ozbuckley

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Join Date: 02/22/2010 | Posts: 124

Hey cat I love your diary here bro. So much value!

id love to hear an audio field report or audio post from you. It'll be cool to hear your vocal vibe and get a sense of your style verbally

thanks man

oz
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Cat

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More on "rough" sex

Green texts from my new cherish and the previous sunday we had together.

She told me she saw the bruise marks on her neck at work in the bathroom mirror, realized it was from me choking her (safely kids & with permission), and got really wet, remembering the sex.



Blue from new tindarrrr



Then she replies "My weakness".

Notes:  This is something you do if you 1) are congruent with it, 2) know shes cool with it, 3) and CALIBRATE to it by testing stuff LIKE IT.  

So you HAVE TO PULL HER HAIR FIRST and see if she likes that.  You HAVE TO SLAP HER ASS FIRST to see if she likes that.

Really you dont have to at all but you SHOULD know where you are so you can escalate CONGRUENTLY and SAFELY.  With sex like this you want it to feel "correct".  

I would never ever ever fucking ever want a girl to say anything other than that I'm a stud in bed and super sweet and fun.  And part of the intense sex involved some rough shit where you are actually choking her.  

Think of it like a really intense sensory thing you both can do. Like an ass slap or kissing someones ear or her putting your dick in her mouth or her grinding her on your face.  You put your hand on her neck and fuck her with your hand there, applying varying degress of pressure.  

For her it is super vulnerable, for me... idk its a masculine impulse just like all of this shit is now at this point.  Same with grabbing the back of her hair when you kiss her or pulling her by her hair down into the back of the bed and then making the fuck out.  

I like these girls who want to get dominated and like.. give up their safety to you completely.  They are 100% vulnerable to you when they are on their back getting fucked with your hand holding-ish their neck.  That's intense.  Treat that situation with respect and when it happens realize how fucking awesom the sexual chemistry is (if its congruent).  She is "giving herself" to you in a very real way.  

NOT FOR LITTLE BITCHES

DRINK RESPONSIBLY

-Cat

PS.  Do not fucking do something stupid.  Treat everyone you meet, especially these girls, with respect.  This isn't about 'choking' this is about an aspect of human sexuality that is TRUE IN THE RIGHT SITUATION.  Be congruent to that situation and it will come out naturally.  
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To anyone that reads this, please ask me some questions and I'll try to answer them all in a short audio Q&A.  Happy to just respond to you oz

ozbuckley Wrote:
Hey cat I love your diary here bro. So much value!

id love to hear an audio field report or audio post from you. It'll be cool to hear your vocal vibe and get a sense of your style verbally

thanks man

oz
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henritank

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Question: 
Do you think that smoking weed actually doesnt harm you but actually chills you out without negative side effects? I've been fucking amazed
at your view at life, your positivity and game, but one thing I noticed that you were constantly smoking some pot. I dont smoke, but I know from
a lot of people that smoking makes them lazy and they use it as a way to numb their feelings instead of going into the feelings and accepting. But
you seem to not do it as a way to escape, but just because it helps you and doesnt have negative effects? Because you do meditation and shit, 
and you really seem focused on your life and accepting your feelings, so I just want to know why you keep doing weed, considering your whole
self confidence should be great enough to give it up if its not beneficial.

Question:
What was it that first got you to really motivated to stick with pick up and not be like most dudes, who know about and try to apply some shit, 
but eventually give up? 

Really inspired by you, Cat, would be nice if you take some look into my field report(TANK) and give some advice as well. 
Love,
TANK
 
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some great lessons in here!!

 
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Question: 1) How do you see your life philosophy changing as you get older? Do you expect any paradigm shifts? 
                 2) What's the one most important aspect of having a successful life for you? 
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ozbuckley

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Cat, thanks for doing this man :)

1. What is your morning routine? ...are there any little mind tricks you use at the start of the day to get you in the right frame of mind?

2. What do you know now about women now that you wish you knew 2 years ago?

3. How do you approach your dates (day two's)? ...do you have standard conversational topics/threads that you routinely find useful for creating a fun, playful, and arousing situation?

Thanks bro! Appreciate it lots!

Oz
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Cat

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Q&A 

http://vocaroo.com/i/s138eRVs37Od


Question: 
Do you think that smoking weed actually doesnt harm you but actually chills you out without negative side effects? I've been fucking amazed
at your view at life, your positivity and game, but one thing I noticed that you were constantly smoking some pot. I dont smoke, but I know from
a lot of people that smoking makes them lazy and they use it as a way to numb their feelings instead of going into the feelings and accepting. But
you seem to not do it as a way to escape, but just because it helps you and doesnt have negative effects? Because you do meditation and shit, 
and you really seem focused on your life and accepting your feelings, so I just want to know why you keep doing weed, considering your whole
self confidence should be great enough to give it up if its not beneficial.

Question:
What was it that first got you to really motivated to stick with pick up and not be like most dudes, who know about and try to apply some shit, 
but eventually give up? 


1) How do you see your life philosophy changing as you get older? Do you expect any paradigm shifts? 
2) What's the one most important aspect of having a successful life for you? 

1. What is your morning routine? ...are there any little mind tricks you use at the start of the day to get you in the right frame of mind?

2. What do you know now about women now that you wish you knew 2 years ago?

3. How do you approach your dates (day two's)? ...do you have standard conversational topics/threads that you routinely find useful for creating a fun, playful, and arousing situation?

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