THE FORUMS

Sunday

We beast after hotseat because beasts beast.

Theres a really cute girl seated with another girl and a guy at the burrito place we all eat at afterwards, explicitly talking game the whole time.  

Do something, do anything.

"Hey so I know this is super random and I'm totally interrupting you guys but I had to stop you and tell you you are so cute."

Girl lights up.  I am nervous but am with the moment.  The other two stare at their food, and all three of them are clearly more embarrassed than I am.  But its good.

"Thanks, I just broke up with my boyfriend today so thats really nice to hear".

We swap names.  I'm feeling the energy and bounce outside.  I then head back in a few minutes later to do it justice knowing that its solid.  Get her number, shes way down.  The dude is like "you have balls".  Rad.  I do have balls.

That was a tough one but I'm glad I went for it.  Again: do something, do anything.  This girl is going to hang out with me and I'm going to fuck her.  All because I did something.  Exchange texts after etc.

Head to a bar even though we expect nothing.  Bullshit w/ Boskap and Adjunkie while Dave7 runs off.  We find him in set with 4 girls, pimpin.  

Dave7 is a pimp.  He gets his shit done.  

Stay in this for awhile.  I choose mine quick.  I decide that I'm going to dance with her.  I stand up and put my arm out, hand of god her.  She stands up with me and we slow dance.  Adjunkie stands up his girl and slow dances too.  We are in a random dive bar at like 9pm slow dancing with basically the only girls in there.  One of the other girls goes "god you guys are like casanovas in here".  

Hilarious.  

Beastmode never sleeps.

Numbers.  My girl likes me.  Its chill.  Shes got awesome tits, not huge, just like.. perky, hot.  Shes a normal chick, will run my "real" game more with her, prob day2 her for a short date to remove pressure etc, doubt shes used to dating.  We did the numbers thing etc.

Then I head off to cherish.  I blow it in my girls mouth.  She has the hottest lips, I watch them.  

Damn.

Wake up next to some legs.  She runs off to brush her teeth.  I throw on some clothing.  She just casually walks through my living room naked.  

My animal brain thinks the following: 1) hot naked blond girl in living room, 2) tackle her.

I do.  Shes giggling like made.  Shes so fine.  God.  This girl is so fine.  Fuck again.

Work.  And beast once more.  Will post up tomorrow, its 3:48am on a Monday night, and I work.

Love this shit so much.  I love pick up.  I love women.  I love becoming a fucking MAN a fucking BOSS who TAKES LIFE WITH MY HANDS AND OWNS THAT SHIT.

It feels like my movie and that's a really good feeling, if you don't already know.  Go for it.

Cheers
-Cat

Monday

Head out for our awesome monday night spot. Three set on the street. Point. You. Are cute. Who are you. They keep walking and I turn and yell I'm not going to chase you guys but I had to say it. She yells back you are kinda cute too. They slow down but dont stop. I start to walk but they keep walking as we talk so I stop again. Then it's solid so I walk up. Gameandwatch runs and grabs the friend, Adjunkie wings the dude. Champs. My girl is into it, 5 minutes, numbers. Texting her today.

// This one didn't seem like it would stop but BE PERSISTENT and DONT CARE. This is a winning combination. Aloof persistance. Have fun with it.

Insane line to get in to club, crazy, they are doing this to create buzz. We chat a 5 set of fiesty ass azns. We are all barking at each other. Then hop in front a few people to talk to some dude who wanted a ciggy off me so I can talk to his women who are both 9s. They are intimidated by the fact that its two dudes, and then me approaching them. These dudes are big and alpha but they recognize game and handle their shit, keeping their girls but not making it into a big deal. This is the exact behavior I want to emulate. Was good, I felt myself hesitate and then I went for it. Building my willpower. This as a hard approach, it didnt work but whatever, glad I did something / anything.

// I'm using a LOT more push, especially on girls who I can tell think they got it and/or are validated by my approach.

Get in, start to beeeeeast.

First one, blondie, soooo hot. Get in front of her. She tries to move to the side. Move in front of her, laser eyes, smiling. Who are you. Shes what the fuck facing me so hard. Means I am qualified to fuck her. It's a formality according to Alex (via adjunkie). Word. This pops open and hooks very hard because of the big test first thing. Solid. Girls a 9. I fucking pimp this girl so hard. I love spewing verbal pimpery. Remember absolutely zero of what I say but its hilarious and so fun. She has to go and I tell her I'll find her. Getting loose, then she sees me walk by and slaps me across my chest. I should've grabbed her. I dont see her again.

// Dunno how to judge this one: its a warmup in the sense that im getting going but it hooked hard and shit. It was early. Should've gone for number is the lesson. Didnt see her again. She was very very hot and used to be picked up. I owned her with my game though. This is the "I want to fuck the warmup" set.

// My macro momentum is very high these days and my effort is fucking insane. It's baller. I feel like a champ.

Some 9, shes like 6'3'' model looking, with a dude next to her. These are the ones I'm working on. Hold the eyes through the wtf face, then she smiles and shows me the ring. I bullshit with the dude who is cool. It's kinda tight that these naturals who are like 6'4'' and huge and 30 are giving me mad props, like.. genuine props, game recognize game shit.

Then theres the 10. Six foot in heels. She has this grey loose shirt on, her stomach exposed, wearing skin tight black pants and red heels. You see a girl like this once a month in Seattle.

Get the fuck in her way. Eyes. Major what the fuck face. I keep it. They want to move through me. I keep the eyes and start walking back. Her friend is still what the fuck facing me, I briefly intro to her. Then back. Who are you. Names. Then she gives me the "nice dog" pat on the chest aka "nice to meet you".

Dead in her eyes, smiling: "Do not ever fucking do that to me again. Hahahaha. Seriously, never again".

She blows the fuck up. PUSH FOR THE WIN MOTHER FUCKERS. Holy SHIT this was insane for me and god damn it turned it IMMEDIATELY. Breaking through the shit. Would I have just pushed a 10 like that congruently a month ago? No. Effort to step the fuck up. This alone was the tightest thing I do all night. Majorly rad. My push is getting calibrated, playing with that.

The friends still get me, fuck. She was walking to a booth with her drink. She eventually "girls night"s me. I tell her I'll find her later, she is staring in my eyes, she says okay, smiling.

Feels good to BREAK THROUGH ENTITLEMENT and act how I want to act. #myMovie

Approach an 8 at the bar, smooth. Feel myself speaking more than I need to, can feel it. So I stop. Instead of saying yes I nod. I wait. I let her work. Directly learned from bootcamp. Chill.

I end up in this for 30+ minutes, seeding pull, logistics seem good, move around a whole bunch, she offers to grab us shots. Seems like its gonna work out for the evening so in my mind I'm just like "time is my ally, let this breathe".

Then burly chode friend shows up. I let it breathe, not threatened. Dude tries hard to be cool. I just smile and let him create awkward social tension. Grab her attention when I want. Dont try just be attractive.

We go to the dancefloor. He pulls her off the dancefloor immediately. I reapproach and he blocks me, I get in his face, calm and collected and present. I try to cool him down and tell him to back off we like each other, go do his own thing. He physically restrains me and I dont let him, move him away, then go again. GOING HARD MOTHER FUCKER I WANT THIS SHIT.

He tells me to stop, that shes here with three other dudes and "its not going to end well for you". She seems to have turned as well so I call that quits, I put in the effort.

// I'm more and more willing to put myself through these situations. This sounds less glamorous than my normal shit where I hook and she'll wander off and maybe I'll see her again.

// I'm committed to burning this shit down. No way out approaches. Potentially getting in fights to learn this shit. Increasing my learning curve dramatically. But it does look bad, it looks like I suck from the outside.

// I'm learning to not give a fuck. To seriously just not give a fuck at all. So fucking what it looks bad. I dont give a shit, I'm going to try to fuck this girl even if it looks bad. Fuck it.

// I think this is a huge step forwards for me. I don't want validation from "good results". I validate myself from PUSHING INTO MY EDGE and FOLLOWING THE PROCESS.

// So I fucking killed it.

Some tall ass black chick hits on me and I ditch her. I hit on a shorty with her friends, she doesnt seem to understand how this works so I backturn her, she keeps looking at me the rest of the night. I go back in a bit but not hard enough. I try to pull her away from friends no dice. Whatever. Could've put more effort into this one.

Bounce out right before everyone leaves for street game.

// One big thing from bootcamp is to endure through the night to do street game. Street game is tight, I think I have a natural ability to do it well that comes from my comfort doing daygame street approaches. You can add more physicality at night too. And people are organizing to afterparty, grab food, its easy to pull or move them, whatever.

First approach sticks hard. Walk up after overhearing her say I'm single. Hug her "now you're not".

Without going into tons and tons of detail I stick with this one, her friend gives me tons of shit but I turn her and shes telling me to get this girls number. Shes not totally my type, not very curvy, but after feeling her up my dick gets hard so whatever. Shes a woman, I'm a man, it's that simple.

I spit bullshit verbals at her and she punishes me for it but I laugh it off and it becomes a joke, nice. Pull her around a corner to "grab food" but its closed so I kiss her. I tell her she sucks. We do it again, its much better. Rad.

Find her friend, figuring logistics. Tell her to ditch her friend. Tell her I'm going to see her later. Then go for the shameless pull "you're coming home with me tonight".

// I'd rather go for it and fail than not go for it and never know. Rad

Pull her closer down the street, more makeout. It's feeling good. Do some clever logistical handling, tell her shes too drunk to drive, I'll drive us to my house, feed us and send her off. Shes like I cant leave my friend.

// I should've yelled at her to ditch her or grabbed the friend and told her to get a ride with one of the dudes she was flirting with. Instead I say she'll be fine. It's my job to "make it fine" for her to go home with me, e.g. handle logistics. This is a good reminder. I am learning a lot. Jesus, this was a monday by the way.

Again. No dice.

Walk to her car and drive back to hotdog stand. They grab street meat. I pass. She gives me shit about it. I dont give a shit.

She gives me a ride home. As things are slowing down and the pull isnt happening I know to go real with her and kiss her on the cheek and shit at goodbye. I'm gonna text her right now because I haven't yet.

I debrief with Adjunkie and Dave7 for a hour. I love debrief be it with Owen, Jeffy, Adjunkie, Dave7 or anyone in the crew. Like writing up field reports, you LEARN A LOT FROM LOOKING AT WORK WORKED AND WHAT YOU COULD'VE DONE DIFFERENTLY. And dudes with different experience can offer whole new paradigms of actions to take. Rad.

Some of the things I'm doing right that are going to pay off huge in the next 6 months:
-- Insane effort
-- Willingness to completely humiliate myself, get beaten up, whatever, to burn it down and push it to the bitter end. Force the issue every time
-- Staying out after close to do street sets (I almost pulled because of this tonight, great reference experience).
-- Using push a lot more
-- Calming down, chilling out, talking less, forcing her to participate via eye contact and that assumption of value
-- Approaching the hottest girls in the venue every night no matter what. I approached a ten and four 9s

Also want to mention that it was rad meeting Dave7. He's a perfect example of where you can get in this shit. He is good and only getting better and his dedication is unreal. If you want to see where you can start and where you can go, read his shit.

Dave it was great hanging out with you man, wish we had more time, our beasting was fantastic -- always fun to go out with dudes who take action and are competent. I'll be out in Austin within the next 6 months no doubt. Stoked.

And for the rest of you: start wherever you are and DO SOMETHING, DO ANYTHING. It's worth it.

Crazy ass Monday night.

Some ho messaged me on okcupid today after I hit her up, she has big tits, I pushed it insanely sexual, my other day2 flaked so I'm meeting this new one and going to fuck her tonight. Numbers and plans to meet. Have exchanged about 6 sentences each.

I heart sex-positive women.

Love the game, love life, love you.
-Cat