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ME-VS-ME JOURNAL TO BEING ME
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Why don't you get some wings? You might remember that when I started going out with wings my game got a lot better, and a lot more fun. ;)
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I don't have wings. The couple of guys who know about pick up are a lot older than me or are just not that fun to hang out with. When I go out with my friends it's better sometimes.. cause I can talk to them but then again I feel the temptation to just chill with them and do nothing (cause I am afraid to approach and I want to use them to get good emotions..which almost never works.. cause I often fall into the trying to impress mode and my friends are a bit dicks sometimes).

Successful night is when I approach and stay in the group a while, also when I am sober doing it. I would not count asking for time as a success or approaching when I am noticeably drunk. 
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 Well.. it's not easy to get wings here. "wings"..sounds funny.. like I want to fly or smth. As I said, the ones I do know, there are about 3-4 of them, they are all older than me, like 10 years older.. so.. the things they talk about and their sence of humor is very different from mine. They are more like the mystery method dudes also so I don't like that also. I think the best influence would be a guy who just goes out to have fun, hasn't really heard that much about pu but is willing to chat up girls and is overall a positive person.
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Me-vs-Me wrote:
 Well.. it's not easy to get wings here. "wings"..sounds funny.. like I want to fly or smth. As I said, the ones I do know, there are about 3-4 of them, they are all older than me, like 10 years older.. so.. the things they talk about and their sence of humor is very different from mine. They are more like the mystery method dudes also so I don't like that also. I think the best influence would be a guy who just goes out to have fun, hasn't really heard that much about pu but is willing to chat up girls and is overall a positive person.
Yeah, totally. But do you know a dude like that ?

If no, then you don't really have the choice. Me neither with my "wings" it's not pure love. But, we want the same thing.

Try it out bro and see what happens !
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Hang out with those dudes for a little while, and then you will probably meet other dudes through them who you like more. That's happened to me countless times. Just take what you can get right now and stop making excuses ya know?
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13/02/2012
Real-Manu + hot girls panties

Went out today, drank couple of beers, was pretty drunk, not utterly drunk but like.. had a good swizzz in me. Watched Real-Manu game. Then.. went onthe town by myself.. the bars were fcking empty. Talked to two girls, one was from my choir, other was her friend. It was pretty nice convo.Her friend was giving me shit, I just owned her :D

Then went to the club, pretty empty, did not talk to girls, taked to 3-4 dudes. Better than nothing.

On the way back home found a pair of girls underware on the street. Some really hot panties.. I think I am a pervert or smth.. but it feltfunny as hell.. they were really hot panties and judging by the size of them.. from ahot girl :D Haha.. that is so wrong. Still funny. I have now new pair of underware :D 

Fuck, tomorrow..I really want to talk to some hot chick and try to take it as far as possible. It's valentines day..fck, I am horny :D
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hahah dude you are keeping the underwear? what if a male stripper used it? lol
good luck tomorrow
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Thanks! Fuck no, no male stripper uses panties hot as theese :D yeah that would be my new peacocking item, when talking to a girl I randomly take out these panties from my pocket as if I had acidentally found them :D
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Props to you for going out alone ! That shit ain't easy.

You really took the panties ? Are you going to do stuff with it or something...?

:P

Gross^^
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Dude.. I was drunk.. :D it was mad funny to me.. on so many levels.. like.. why the fck were they there, why am I picking them up, why do I keep them, am I perv?, just.. funny :D I'm gonna wear them when I go to the gym. I'm an attention ya know.. :D

I'm gonna go out alone today also. It's kinda scary.. I think I am going to drink 2 beers at the start. Watched assloads of freetour videos.. 

Main things to keep in mind:

Nobody notices you and nobody cares what you are doing. 

I am enough, I don't need to impress anybody. Trying to say funny shit is trying to impress and thus not believing I am enough.

HAVE FUN!

Approach girls and give yourself validation after it. Goal is to approach and have fun.. nothing on my mind and then to deal with shit tests after. Shit test = opportunity to have more fun by bringing out my creative side and giving me content to humor myself.

Self-image is worthless and.

Some girls will like me and some will not. It's ok. Approach as long as you find the ones that DO like you. Some girls will like me el naturale!
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14/02/2013
Valentines day

My previous Valentines days have been me feeling pitty for myself and thought how big of a loser I have been for not having girls. Anyways, this time I decided to go out and approach girls.

I went out alone, on the way to downtown I asked one girl what the time was.

I went to the park and drank two beers there. There were two girls sitting on a bench. I went to them with situational opener and continued talking to them. Ironically they were the best set of the night. They were pretty stupid and not attractive but I was like whatever. They were nice to me at first and stuff but the more I started self amusing the more they did not like me. This set was the one I was able to self amuse myself the most.. they did not like it, they were stupid.. not bc they did not like my humor but cause of the stuff they were talking about. Not judging, I could care less but just to remember myself that it was not my "fault" they went cold on me. I talked to them about 15 minutes..?

After that I walked on the street and two girls (drunk) were walking towards me. I opened them with situational opener. They were pretty and friendly. I talked to them about 5+ minutes. It was the theme of the night: I was able to talk.. make couple of jokes but nothing that would have made me laugh hard..and the girls were all friendly at first (cause of my looks) but after that.. they got bored or just I wasn't being fun enough.

Then I went to a club. I opened two girls there after having a long eye-contact with one of them. It was pretty goodat the start but again..the more time passed..the more they lost interest. They were pretty, I talked tothem about 10 minutes maybe..and then danced with them about the same ammount of tim. I was again, pretty chill, talked stuff that came to my head.. but still not self amusing.Some humor but nothing that would have made me laugh hard..+ a big mistake in this set was that I did not have the balls to do anything physically with one of the girls on the dance floor. I danced with their group but I did not dance 1-1 with one of the girls. It was really gay. Then at one point I just left.

Sat on the couch and opened one girl who was sitting next to me. She ignored me to max. Whatever.. everybody do not have to like me and I do not have to like everybody.

Then I met one pu dude in downtown accidentally. We hung out together after that. Found out that the dude has a phd in biology. Anyways, he opened 3-4 or more girls but nothing stucked more than half a minute. I was speechless, he was talking, I was just standing there.. already feeling like there's no point opening anybody cause it would be semiakward conversation in witch the girl will lose interest.

I was just not able to get in state tonight. I feel bad about it. I feel like I can only get girls when I am in good mood/state and I am not able to get in state when I want. Hitting state happens randomly after some uber mental masturbation or really random drunk times.

I felt like I had a lot more to write here. Maybe tomorrow I will remember something more.

I will need hit state..OR other way to be good is to have my current verbal skills + good physical escalation (would work only on girls that like me before opening them thou).

The good: I approach and stayed in sets for nice ammount of time. I was not in state but I still managed to approach.
Things I learned: self-amusement is not enough, I need to FEEL the amusement in myself.. otherwise it's not fun for me or to the girls.

Fuck, how will I get in state..?
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