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Ok theres two ways you can go. theres the logical way, which is to end it and move on for the better of BOTH of u (and you need to see a psychologist so you dont ruin the next relationship)
ORR theres the getting her back way. either way involves you seeing a psychologist. dude let me tell you that I was exactly the same way as you, stll am to some degree. but im seeing a pro about it because our behaviour will ruin every single relationship and NO ONE will want to be with someone like that.
if you follow these steps, you will have a chance with her. texting her twice was already a mistake.
you need to STOP ALL CONTACT WITH HER for at least two weeks. IF she contacts you, you say "im really upset about my behaviour and im getting mental help so that my future relationships arent jeopardized". if she continues to interact with you YOU MUST SHOW HER THAT YOUVE CHANGED/ ARE CHANGING. i.e. no more retarded behaviour. the rest will come back together smoothly
if she doesnt contact you during the two weeks, you could wait another week and then text her something like "hey hope your doing OK. i was really upset about my behaviour and im seeing someone about it so i dont jeopardize any future relationships" and she may be like "great good for u im happy now me alone" if she does this or somehting similar, DO NOT REPLY AND DO NOT CONTACT HER. within 2 weeks she will call you.
that is all.
ORR theres the getting her back way. either way involves you seeing a psychologist. dude let me tell you that I was exactly the same way as you, stll am to some degree. but im seeing a pro about it because our behaviour will ruin every single relationship and NO ONE will want to be with someone like that.
if you follow these steps, you will have a chance with her. texting her twice was already a mistake.
you need to STOP ALL CONTACT WITH HER for at least two weeks. IF she contacts you, you say "im really upset about my behaviour and im getting mental help so that my future relationships arent jeopardized". if she continues to interact with you YOU MUST SHOW HER THAT YOUVE CHANGED/ ARE CHANGING. i.e. no more retarded behaviour. the rest will come back together smoothly
if she doesnt contact you during the two weeks, you could wait another week and then text her something like "hey hope your doing OK. i was really upset about my behaviour and im seeing someone about it so i dont jeopardize any future relationships" and she may be like "great good for u im happy now me alone" if she does this or somehting similar, DO NOT REPLY AND DO NOT CONTACT HER. within 2 weeks she will call you.
that is all.
This is extremely apologetic which is just no good when it comes to this.
Where's the -WTF-LOL-FUCK-OFF-BEEEACH attitude!? Being cooler than the girl, she should be the one making a thread like this to get you back.
Focus on all your good qualities and all her bad ones and tell her you're glad because you don't want a girl who isn't clear and ignores you, tell her she's a bitch for that and thanks for making you see what you don't want in future. The only way she could get you back is if she became the one proving, explaining and qualifying herself to you and if you feel like she genuinely meant it.
Stand by the shit you've said and done don't be "understanding" or sympathetic because you got angry at somethingshe did.
THE MOAR SHIT YOU TAKE THE LESS PUSSY YOU GET.
Where's the -WTF-LOL-FUCK-OFF-BEEEACH attitude!? Being cooler than the girl, she should be the one making a thread like this to get you back.
Focus on all your good qualities and all her bad ones and tell her you're glad because you don't want a girl who isn't clear and ignores you, tell her she's a bitch for that and thanks for making you see what you don't want in future. The only way she could get you back is if she became the one proving, explaining and qualifying herself to you and if you feel like she genuinely meant it.
Stand by the shit you've said and done don't be "understanding" or sympathetic because you got angry at somethingshe did.
THE MOAR SHIT YOU TAKE THE LESS PUSSY YOU GET.
Pretty much.
The gent has it bang on. Your doing a long distance relationship TS. She is out with her friends. Instead of giving her space and having her come to you, you are pestering her with her friends. This post highly illustrates that your obsessed with her and at worse case scenario, your interest level superseded her interest level in you. If this wasn't the case, we would not be having this discussion. In your predicament, I wouldn't have "chilled" with my mate. I would have chatted up some birds at the club outside the VIP, in the smoking section, in the que, in the streets, etc I get my flirt on in and outside a relationship. The problem is that, you lost your edge. You like most men think that, getting the girl means its time to wear sweat pants and act like your on vacation.
Mate, you are in for a reality check. Life is about to smack you upside the head. If life doesn't, women will. My point is that, if you are an attractive, out going, confident man that attracts women naturally, not reading some rubbish from a book or on a website and then, regurgitating it back like people do with Ecky on the forums. I am saying, its not GAME TIME sometimes or when you feel like your in "state." Its always FUCKING GAME TIME. In the club, at work, on break, in college, university, purchasing xmas gifts, etc. No excuses. The same is no different when in a relations. My moral code of ethics governs me from cheating however, unlike women who can show up without a shower, messy hair, scrubbed out, and she'll still catch the dick. In a relationship or outside a relationship, women will always have more suitors and orbiters then you and without effort. Women aren't on forums reading about how to pick up men. At best, they read cosmo which is a little more politically correct and socially acceptable in society. So, I am not saying cheat on your gf. I am saying, chat up the girls. If you chatted her up street approach pick up (which I highly doubt was how you met your gf), this shouldn't be any different then say when your in a relationship. Your a friendly, out going, socially dynamic sort of guy. You exude confidence and emit a high frequency of positive energy. Your always on. You've missed the mark.
What to do? Bang a bunch of girls. Go mingle and chat up birds. Get at SMOKE SHOWs. Step it up. Remove all contact with your ex. No FB, MYSPACE, Twitter, BBM, MSM, email or any contact what so ever. No calls, no texts, no nothing. Likely, you know some of the same people. She sees, hears, knows you got women in your life, your not being a little pussy, wimpering about what she is doing in her life, waiting on her every whim, you may win her back. Be the man. Stop the neediness. It chases women away. Stop being up in her grill and trying for her attention. A lot of guys these days are a poor excuse for a man. A lot of guys need to grow a pair of nuts and man up with women. Its funny. At one time, women were in the kitchen and on their back in the bedroom. Now a days, you got women fucking around, cheating on guys, and guys begging for attention. Its absurd and pathetic. Someone is going to lead. If you are a "yes man," some women may be okay with that for a bit but, long term, she will get bored of it. Call it weird but, women want to hear "no." They want you to say No. If your always saying yes and jumping through her hoops, she wont respect you. She is out having fun with her friends and your nagging and bugging her. If it is a long distance relationship, she should be as happy to see you as you are. Let her show it and hold back being overly emotional. I pulled some girl right after I came home from spring break. The funny thing was that, she picked me up. I hadn't been there 5minutes. Upon our second time out, she literally was making jokes of all the guys who had did all these overly elaborate cheesie ass things likely that they had seen out of a movie to win a girl over. Spilling your guts out to a girl makes you look like a joke. I assure you, there are women out there laughing about some of the shit men do to try and win them over. Don't be some girls joke. Girls, women in general, they actually want a guy who gets it. You know what i mean?
The gent has it bang on. Your doing a long distance relationship TS. She is out with her friends. Instead of giving her space and having her come to you, you are pestering her with her friends. This post highly illustrates that your obsessed with her and at worse case scenario, your interest level superseded her interest level in you. If this wasn't the case, we would not be having this discussion. In your predicament, I wouldn't have "chilled" with my mate. I would have chatted up some birds at the club outside the VIP, in the smoking section, in the que, in the streets, etc I get my flirt on in and outside a relationship. The problem is that, you lost your edge. You like most men think that, getting the girl means its time to wear sweat pants and act like your on vacation.
Mate, you are in for a reality check. Life is about to smack you upside the head. If life doesn't, women will. My point is that, if you are an attractive, out going, confident man that attracts women naturally, not reading some rubbish from a book or on a website and then, regurgitating it back like people do with Ecky on the forums. I am saying, its not GAME TIME sometimes or when you feel like your in "state." Its always FUCKING GAME TIME. In the club, at work, on break, in college, university, purchasing xmas gifts, etc. No excuses. The same is no different when in a relations. My moral code of ethics governs me from cheating however, unlike women who can show up without a shower, messy hair, scrubbed out, and she'll still catch the dick. In a relationship or outside a relationship, women will always have more suitors and orbiters then you and without effort. Women aren't on forums reading about how to pick up men. At best, they read cosmo which is a little more politically correct and socially acceptable in society. So, I am not saying cheat on your gf. I am saying, chat up the girls. If you chatted her up street approach pick up (which I highly doubt was how you met your gf), this shouldn't be any different then say when your in a relationship. Your a friendly, out going, socially dynamic sort of guy. You exude confidence and emit a high frequency of positive energy. Your always on. You've missed the mark.
What to do? Bang a bunch of girls. Go mingle and chat up birds. Get at SMOKE SHOWs. Step it up. Remove all contact with your ex. No FB, MYSPACE, Twitter, BBM, MSM, email or any contact what so ever. No calls, no texts, no nothing. Likely, you know some of the same people. She sees, hears, knows you got women in your life, your not being a little pussy, wimpering about what she is doing in her life, waiting on her every whim, you may win her back. Be the man. Stop the neediness. It chases women away. Stop being up in her grill and trying for her attention. A lot of guys these days are a poor excuse for a man. A lot of guys need to grow a pair of nuts and man up with women. Its funny. At one time, women were in the kitchen and on their back in the bedroom. Now a days, you got women fucking around, cheating on guys, and guys begging for attention. Its absurd and pathetic. Someone is going to lead. If you are a "yes man," some women may be okay with that for a bit but, long term, she will get bored of it. Call it weird but, women want to hear "no." They want you to say No. If your always saying yes and jumping through her hoops, she wont respect you. She is out having fun with her friends and your nagging and bugging her. If it is a long distance relationship, she should be as happy to see you as you are. Let her show it and hold back being overly emotional. I pulled some girl right after I came home from spring break. The funny thing was that, she picked me up. I hadn't been there 5minutes. Upon our second time out, she literally was making jokes of all the guys who had did all these overly elaborate cheesie ass things likely that they had seen out of a movie to win a girl over. Spilling your guts out to a girl makes you look like a joke. I assure you, there are women out there laughing about some of the shit men do to try and win them over. Don't be some girls joke. Girls, women in general, they actually want a guy who gets it. You know what i mean?
This is extremely apologetic which is just no good when it comes to this.
Where's the -WTF-LOL-FUCK-OFF-BEEEACH attitude!? Being cooler than the girl, she should be the one making a thread like this to get you back.
Focus on all your good qualities and all her bad ones and tell her you're glad because you don't want a girl who isn't clear and ignores you, tell her she's a bitch for that and thanks for making you see what you don't want in future. The only way she could get you back is if she became the one proving, explaining and qualifying herself to you and if you feel like she genuinely meant it.
Stand by the shit you've said and done don't be "understanding" or sympathetic because you got angry at somethingshe did.
THE MOAR SHIT YOU TAKE THE LESS PUSSY YOU GET.
Where's the -WTF-LOL-FUCK-OFF-BEEEACH attitude!? Being cooler than the girl, she should be the one making a thread like this to get you back.
Focus on all your good qualities and all her bad ones and tell her you're glad because you don't want a girl who isn't clear and ignores you, tell her she's a bitch for that and thanks for making you see what you don't want in future. The only way she could get you back is if she became the one proving, explaining and qualifying herself to you and if you feel like she genuinely meant it.
Stand by the shit you've said and done don't be "understanding" or sympathetic because you got angry at somethingshe did.
THE MOAR SHIT YOU TAKE THE LESS PUSSY YOU GET.
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.
Girlfriend situations can be tough to deal with sometimes. I've been with this girl on and off for about 4 years now. The most recent "break up" was about a month ago. We're still "friends" and she's got a b/f and I'm moving on also. But it's like after you've been with a person for some time, it can be extremely difficult to just "let go".
I suggest do this: put her on the backburner, don't text or call for 2-3 weeks. Go out, take massive action, take a bootcamp, meet other people and chicks. Then let the chips fall where they may, you have to realize that if she's being a bitch ALREADY, she'll be MORE bitchy if you stay in a relationship. This is a scientifically proven fact, that the more woman thinks "she's got you" the more of a bitch she becomes to you. If you truely enjoy her company and "cherish" her, just keep her around for booty call sex or friends with benefits relationship. Make sure you don't tell that TO HER, of course, just play it like all options are on the table and GO PERSUE YOUR DREAMS and meet other women.
I honestly can't think of a better and more balanced way to handle this, where there's no massive amounts of pain and "dump the bitch" finality.
I suggest do this: put her on the backburner, don't text or call for 2-3 weeks. Go out, take massive action, take a bootcamp, meet other people and chicks. Then let the chips fall where they may, you have to realize that if she's being a bitch ALREADY, she'll be MORE bitchy if you stay in a relationship. This is a scientifically proven fact, that the more woman thinks "she's got you" the more of a bitch she becomes to you. If you truely enjoy her company and "cherish" her, just keep her around for booty call sex or friends with benefits relationship. Make sure you don't tell that TO HER, of course, just play it like all options are on the table and GO PERSUE YOUR DREAMS and meet other women.
I honestly can't think of a better and more balanced way to handle this, where there's no massive amounts of pain and "dump the bitch" finality.
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High self-esteem (and resulting beliefs and vocal projection from that) = the single MOST important piece of the game, from which everything else stems. Draw the good feelings from within, feel brave enough to experience happiness and awesomeness about yourself on an ongoing and consistent basis, feel truely ENTITLED to 10's, make yourself validated internally (approval or rejection by other people does not alter your awesomness), bring the party and be loud as fuck (borderline obnoxious vocal projection at clubs). It is your birthright to feel entitled to and to expect all the best life has to offer. It doesn't matter what everyone else thinks about you. http://www.rsdnation.com/node/186628/forum
Ryan Bootcamp, Nov 19-21, 2010, Washington DC
Ryan Bootcamp, Nov 19-21, 2010, Washington DC
OLD SCHOOL ADVICE: Go out and fuck 10 other girls.
already got one lol
nah yea.. i did that .... trust me... i got a facebook message from uknown user last night (since she was trying to get at me back when i deleted her off facebook) saying this is for your closure.. i do not wnna be with you.. im going to change my number...(even though i have not blown her up.. which is very odd) and good look with your life... blah blah blah.... so i said "ok.. well it was your loss.. and im doing me and always will.. i dont need this bullshit.. if you love someone. while i was in the club... i left a last voicemail saying all that shit... i fucked up when i left the club cuz then i started that drunk texting... but it was straight... cuz i realized it now and thats what i know now.... i know im not gonna talk to her... fuck her... and fuck love honestly... il get broads and money and thats all i need... by the way... the night before my first thread.. i was at the club with 2 girls and her best friend saw me saying " oh i wont tell her anything" .. "yea shes gone"... i just smiled.. i knew that was the mind game that made me snap yesterday and made me start doing threads... because i called her yesterday.. fuck man.. this is ridiculous... i need to get over this girl NOW
Awesome post, I just got out of a 2 year relationship 4 months ago. It's still hard but you definitely got to man up. Thanks Ambiguity, it's always good to be reminded that guys can't be emotional bitches. I've been there so many times. I don't have much to say to the OP other than I know where you're at. If your own life isn't together then get it together. Since my relationship, I'm banging 3 new chicks, hitting the gym 5 days a week, and moving in a month to another city to start a job (finishing University in Dec.). Just keep in mind as you meet new girls that it will be awhile before you find the same sort of "connection". Enjoy the new ones in the meantime. I wish you the best, it definitely isn't easy.
Pretty much.
The gent has it bang on. Your doing a long distance relationship TS. She is out with her friends. Instead of giving her space and having her come to you, you are pestering her with her friends. This post highly illustrates that your obsessed with her and at worse case scenario, your interest level superseded her interest level in you. If this wasn't the case, we would not be having this discussion. In your predicament, I wouldn't have "chilled" with my mate. I would have chatted up some birds at the club outside the VIP, in the smoking section, in the que, in the streets, etc I get my flirt on in and outside a relationship. The problem is that, you lost your edge. You like most men think that, getting the girl means its time to wear sweat pants and act like your on vacation.
Mate, you are in for a reality check. Life is about to smack you upside the head. If life doesn't, women will. My point is that, if you are an attractive, out going, confident man that attracts women naturally, not reading some rubbish from a book or on a website and then, regurgitating it back like people do with Ecky on the forums. I am saying, its not GAME TIME sometimes or when you feel like your in "state." Its always FUCKING GAME TIME. In the club, at work, on break, in college, university, purchasing xmas gifts, etc. No excuses. The same is no different when in a relations. My moral code of ethics governs me from cheating however, unlike women who can show up without a shower, messy hair, scrubbed out, and she'll still catch the dick. In a relationship or outside a relationship, women will always have more suitors and orbiters then you and without effort. Women aren't on forums reading about how to pick up men. At best, they read cosmo which is a little more politically correct and socially acceptable in society. So, I am not saying cheat on your gf. I am saying, chat up the girls. If you chatted her up street approach pick up (which I highly doubt was how you met your gf), this shouldn't be any different then say when your in a relationship. Your a friendly, out going, socially dynamic sort of guy. You exude confidence and emit a high frequency of positive energy. Your always on. You've missed the mark.
What to do? Bang a bunch of girls. Go mingle and chat up birds. Get at SMOKE SHOWs. Step it up. Remove all contact with your ex. No FB, MYSPACE, Twitter, BBM, MSM, email or any contact what so ever. No calls, no texts, no nothing. Likely, you know some of the same people. She sees, hears, knows you got women in your life, your not being a little pussy, wimpering about what she is doing in her life, waiting on her every whim, you may win her back. Be the man. Stop the neediness. It chases women away. Stop being up in her grill and trying for her attention. A lot of guys these days are a poor excuse for a man. A lot of guys need to grow a pair of nuts and man up with women. Its funny. At one time, women were in the kitchen and on their back in the bedroom. Now a days, you got women fucking around, cheating on guys, and guys begging for attention. Its absurd and pathetic. Someone is going to lead. If you are a "yes man," some women may be okay with that for a bit but, long term, she will get bored of it. Call it weird but, women want to hear "no." They want you to say No. If your always saying yes and jumping through her hoops, she wont respect you. She is out having fun with her friends and your nagging and bugging her. If it is a long distance relationship, she should be as happy to see you as you are. Let her show it and hold back being overly emotional. I pulled some girl right after I came home from spring break. The funny thing was that, she picked me up. I hadn't been there 5minutes. Upon our second time out, she literally was making jokes of all the guys who had did all these overly elaborate cheesie ass things likely that they had seen out of a movie to win a girl over. Spilling your guts out to a girl makes you look like a joke. I assure you, there are women out there laughing about some of the shit men do to try and win them over. Don't be some girls joke. Girls, women in general, they actually want a guy who gets it. You know what i mean?
The gent has it bang on. Your doing a long distance relationship TS. She is out with her friends. Instead of giving her space and having her come to you, you are pestering her with her friends. This post highly illustrates that your obsessed with her and at worse case scenario, your interest level superseded her interest level in you. If this wasn't the case, we would not be having this discussion. In your predicament, I wouldn't have "chilled" with my mate. I would have chatted up some birds at the club outside the VIP, in the smoking section, in the que, in the streets, etc I get my flirt on in and outside a relationship. The problem is that, you lost your edge. You like most men think that, getting the girl means its time to wear sweat pants and act like your on vacation.
Mate, you are in for a reality check. Life is about to smack you upside the head. If life doesn't, women will. My point is that, if you are an attractive, out going, confident man that attracts women naturally, not reading some rubbish from a book or on a website and then, regurgitating it back like people do with Ecky on the forums. I am saying, its not GAME TIME sometimes or when you feel like your in "state." Its always FUCKING GAME TIME. In the club, at work, on break, in college, university, purchasing xmas gifts, etc. No excuses. The same is no different when in a relations. My moral code of ethics governs me from cheating however, unlike women who can show up without a shower, messy hair, scrubbed out, and she'll still catch the dick. In a relationship or outside a relationship, women will always have more suitors and orbiters then you and without effort. Women aren't on forums reading about how to pick up men. At best, they read cosmo which is a little more politically correct and socially acceptable in society. So, I am not saying cheat on your gf. I am saying, chat up the girls. If you chatted her up street approach pick up (which I highly doubt was how you met your gf), this shouldn't be any different then say when your in a relationship. Your a friendly, out going, socially dynamic sort of guy. You exude confidence and emit a high frequency of positive energy. Your always on. You've missed the mark.
What to do? Bang a bunch of girls. Go mingle and chat up birds. Get at SMOKE SHOWs. Step it up. Remove all contact with your ex. No FB, MYSPACE, Twitter, BBM, MSM, email or any contact what so ever. No calls, no texts, no nothing. Likely, you know some of the same people. She sees, hears, knows you got women in your life, your not being a little pussy, wimpering about what she is doing in her life, waiting on her every whim, you may win her back. Be the man. Stop the neediness. It chases women away. Stop being up in her grill and trying for her attention. A lot of guys these days are a poor excuse for a man. A lot of guys need to grow a pair of nuts and man up with women. Its funny. At one time, women were in the kitchen and on their back in the bedroom. Now a days, you got women fucking around, cheating on guys, and guys begging for attention. Its absurd and pathetic. Someone is going to lead. If you are a "yes man," some women may be okay with that for a bit but, long term, she will get bored of it. Call it weird but, women want to hear "no." They want you to say No. If your always saying yes and jumping through her hoops, she wont respect you. She is out having fun with her friends and your nagging and bugging her. If it is a long distance relationship, she should be as happy to see you as you are. Let her show it and hold back being overly emotional. I pulled some girl right after I came home from spring break. The funny thing was that, she picked me up. I hadn't been there 5minutes. Upon our second time out, she literally was making jokes of all the guys who had did all these overly elaborate cheesie ass things likely that they had seen out of a movie to win a girl over. Spilling your guts out to a girl makes you look like a joke. I assure you, there are women out there laughing about some of the shit men do to try and win them over. Don't be some girls joke. Girls, women in general, they actually want a guy who gets it. You know what i mean?
This is extremely apologetic which is just no good when it comes to this.
Where's the -WTF-LOL-FUCK-OFF-BEEEACH attitude!? Being cooler than the girl, she should be the one making a thread like this to get you back.
Focus on all your good qualities and all her bad ones and tell her you're glad because you don't want a girl who isn't clear and ignores you, tell her she's a bitch for that and thanks for making you see what you don't want in future. The only way she could get you back is if she became the one proving, explaining and qualifying herself to you and if you feel like she genuinely meant it.
Stand by the shit you've said and done don't be "understanding" or sympathetic because you got angry at somethingshe did.
THE MOAR SHIT YOU TAKE THE LESS PUSSY YOU GET.
Where's the -WTF-LOL-FUCK-OFF-BEEEACH attitude!? Being cooler than the girl, she should be the one making a thread like this to get you back.
Focus on all your good qualities and all her bad ones and tell her you're glad because you don't want a girl who isn't clear and ignores you, tell her she's a bitch for that and thanks for making you see what you don't want in future. The only way she could get you back is if she became the one proving, explaining and qualifying herself to you and if you feel like she genuinely meant it.
Stand by the shit you've said and done don't be "understanding" or sympathetic because you got angry at somethingshe did.
THE MOAR SHIT YOU TAKE THE LESS PUSSY YOU GET.
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Maybe it's my fault. Maybe I led you to believe it was easy when it wasn't. Maybe it's my fault that you didn't see that my failure gave me strength. That my pain was my motivation. Maybe I led you to believe that it was a God given gift and not something I worked for, every single day of my life. Maybe I destroyed the game or maybe you're just making excuses.
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. You've got to shoot to score.
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. You've got to shoot to score.
I don't know if you've come to this decision already or not, but DO NOT FUCKING DO IT WHAT SO FUCKING EVER!
I had a girlfriend that I broke up with multiple times, and we both fought to keep things together at different times, but it just wasn't worth it. Work on YOU. Don't worry about girls, don't worry about relationships, don't fucking worry about anything but YOU, YOUR career, YOUR improvement, and YOUR enjoyment(besides family of course). Maybe YEARS down the road things will be better, but for now you've got to make a man capable of a relationship out of yourself, first and foremost.
P.S. I read bits and pieces of that giant wall of text, so forgive me if I'm a little off.
I had a girlfriend that I broke up with multiple times, and we both fought to keep things together at different times, but it just wasn't worth it. Work on YOU. Don't worry about girls, don't worry about relationships, don't fucking worry about anything but YOU, YOUR career, YOUR improvement, and YOUR enjoyment(besides family of course). Maybe YEARS down the road things will be better, but for now you've got to make a man capable of a relationship out of yourself, first and foremost.
P.S. I read bits and pieces of that giant wall of text, so forgive me if I'm a little off.
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"It's a game filled with little peaks of success and long plateaus. You go a bit further each time, but more walls lay ahead."-Chance
bro.. she has no friends.... her friends live in orlando where i met her.... and they all like me... just one is kinda jealous and wanted to fuck me ... she was a good girl.. i just made some mistakes and became emotional about them because they do it seductively and slowly!!!.... ive been figuring out... dont give your heart to any girl.. only the one you marry.. my dads persian.. my moms rican... my dad always tell me men think with their mind and girls think with their hearts... and back to the friends.. she does not chill with people in tampa.. mabye from class that i dont know about.. but shit i already know... but.... so she might be comin over here to otown alot ... and she might see me with some bitch at the club.. which i usually do... hopefully the jealousy trick works HAHA
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