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M.iracle

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Just finsihed reading the great buisness sucess story of "Colours" and combined with the greatt game success of my boy "TspongT" I have decided to start my own blog/field report....I wont call it specifically a field report because although I will post stuff on my development in the game I also want to post my development as an indivual as my inner beliefes and strength begin to develop as I  become more successful in life in general..

START..

I;ve always wanted to be succesful from a young age always dreamed beyond the average person, although I never really been the smartest kid, nor have I had any direction to take. But one thing I;ve always noticed in myself is that my beliefs are very strong, sometimes the thoughts are soo far fetched that my own close friends and family say that Im just a talker and a dreamer and laugh, because most of the time I never really have a concrete path on how am going to obtain these things...but high percentage of the time from some random event I usually end up getting what I wanted....I've never understood this until this summer when I did some serious reading on the strength of the mind, how just powerful making a decision is....it completely blew my mind and I started drowning myself in this material and it was like almost everything that happened in my life that I could never explain was explained...it was crazy...and thats when I suddenly introduced to this networking/affliative marketing company

But since starting this buisness I;ve realized two things, in order for me to succeed and be ridicoulously successful I must develop the strictess dicipline, and cut off anything that is going to prevent me from achieving it. At the same time I have to engage in activites that will help me develop the tools necessary to push through the journey. Game is definatley one, meeting random people, cold appraoches, power of controlling a conversation, reaching a level where rejection has 0 effect on me etc. Gym, for obvious reasons, the dicipline, developing the metnality where if I just do nothing I cant expect the results and even if I do go to the gym unless I progress every single day by doing one more rep or adding a bit more weight, there wll be minimal results...School is another, because although I will be using close to nothing i;ve learnt form the textbooks, just the process of learning will allow me to develop new skills faster, it will broaden my range of thinking and keep my mind open, as well as the credibilty education gives you even though that degree doesnt mean much in terms of progress you make in the workforce.

I've made tremendous gains from the gym, and the buisness me and my two close friends have started is starting to take on exponential growth, mainly due to the fact that it is completely brand new to the city.

But Game is something that has intrigued me and come to the forefront most recently...

THE PROFESSOR..

One of my boys that I have started going out with, TSpongT, was a guy I knew in high school, we were never close or anything due to our conflicting personalities, I was always the joker/dumbass/somewhat cocky kid in highschool, I was always doing dumb things for laughs, I never wanted attention I just enjoyed laughing and having a good time as much as possible. TspongT was a reserved kind of guy, heavy in MMA and pretty jacked at the time, he and my other boy Jonhizzle grew tight during and after high school, we use to have some pretty heated exchanges back in the day, due to my short temper and inability to control my emotions, and both their highly effective teasing techniques, I actually enjoy looking back on that because its funny how much we've changed just over the last 2-3 years...

To make a long story short, TSpongT went from the quiet, somewhat a hater kind of guy, to an outgoing, always looking to have a good time, solid pickup artist...It was incredible the first time I saw him since we left highschool and I thought I had more "game" than him even though I had no knowldege of what "game" actually was....I never went out much maybe once every month, and even then I would be statisfied with a small conversation with a girl and a dance...pretty beta....then one night my jonhizzle tspont and another close friend of mine went out and we were just playfull trash talking about how much girls we'd talk to or w.e ...and as soon as we hit the club TspongT started macking ...getting a group of girls number on the street, in the club....all I had got was a solid grind and makeout and I thought I was a boss....very sad loll

My boy jonhizzle and TspongT started winging each other this summer and both their games improved, jonhizzle started coming out if his shell and TspongT was on another level, picking up bargirls, 9/10s, hot blondes you name it, but not only that, the guys's change in his inner self is the most noticeable hes always laughing I rarely hear him talk ill of someone, hes mad chill...But i was never drawn to game as much as he is it because all I knew was I could talk to some girls, when I did go out, I had an enjobaly night majority of the time and I was happy.

But with the new buisness came communication skills, how can I develop into this alpha buisness owner, huge entreperuner with inadequate communication skills. Game offers me the opportunity to do this....and the rewards are pretty solid.

Desicion..

I wil be honest Game will not be my number one priority but  it will be an activity I will engage in very often. I see it more than an opprotunity to bang hot chicks, the change internally, dealing with rejection, the progression, controlling emotions, going through the lows and the highs, learning how to just be around a women which I now think is very important. I;ve seen through tooo many personal experiences of men's inabilty to deal with women and the mental stress it puts on a relationship...my parents have just gone through a divorce (which is a good thing)...but it was due to the fact of my dads inabilty to be open with my mom and my moms natural women;s instincts to try and constantly take control ...and all the guys I now that have been in terrible relationships, from white knighting, to being a complete man slave because the girl has all the power and decison making in the relationship...

So from today on...the vow has alrady been taken, the journey ahead set, the personal demons ready to be slayed, the success at the end, leaving the past behind, the relationships I have agreed to end, the crazyness, the epicness, the people I will meet and everything in between...all of it will be in this report....I know Im going to look back on this years from now and laugh at alot of the things I did, maybe even shed a tear at some of them...but at the end of the day it wont matter because I have burned every bridge that gives me an escape route out of what I want to accomplish, its this dream and only this I will work towards....

and so it begins...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BirIEDYrw0Y
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GAME: Thursday Nov. 18th

This was my third straight thursday out with my mentor TspongT, the first thursday was terrible didnt appraoch anything for three hours, saw no opportunity *BS*, the approach anxiety was crazy, the following thursday was a complete 180, appracohed as much as I possibly could did very well in terms of holding a conversation but did very little in terms of escalating anything...so that was my goal this time.....escalate

Drank a little, and TspongT took me to a new spot one of his boys were bartending, I wanted to go back to our regular thursday spot but I immedialtey erased that out of my head, no way was I going to let the venue stop my from making progression. We get in line TspongT opens a set of three girls  two of them were solid 7.5's one was an 8 ...I just hang back a little and wait for an openning...nothing big happens so we move on...get into the club and it is a solid setup....but its prety much dead

We walk around a bit...get to the dance floor and I see nothing to approach cause most of them are dancing...TspongT approaches a hot blonde I post up at the bar...he introduces me to his boys after, and goes and opens a group of 3 or 4, I didnt want to jump in cause he looked like he was doing solid, and I didnt want to fuk it up....he comes back and says he needed me to wing...FFFFFKKK lol...then one of his friends come, shes not bad hes talking to her in front of me and she keeps glancing over, didnt know wether I should interrupt or not...

suddenly he introduced us and left....I pounced at my first opportunity to start the night, introduced myself and started talking about random stuff, suddenly got into the topic of hockey, blah blah...I grabbed her hand and saw a ring..
"so who are you married to.."
her: "no one yet...but I have a bf"

fuk evrytime I hear this it throws me off....grabbing the hand i find works highlly effective for me, its something I fall back often most of the time the girls will be wearing rings or bracelets so its easy for me to start up a conversation on that....plus the grabbing the hand is a good test for me, if they let me hold it ill keep holding it for a while.

So after that the conversation died off...

TspongT decided we'll go to our regular spot since the place was not that live....get to our regular spot and we start approaching...TspongT starts talking to a girl he knows I move on...I see this short busty blonde walking towards me and not looking away i squeeze both her cheeks and she grabs my waist, I comment on her clothing saying its not part of the theme of the night, she asks me the same thing...I dont get to reply because he friends pull her away...w.e on to the next...

walk around nothing big...we post up on the patio for a bit, I meet one of my boys, but leave quickly I want to stay focused, me and TspongT post up in the patio for a bit then back at the bar, I see this tall blonde coming down, I stop her and comment and grab her earrings, she laughs  we're pretty much in each others faces...i shoudl have gone in for a makeout but didnt, she left, i was somehwat mad at myself for not escalating...

I have this irritating habit of swearing when i mess up...ill be walking and then realize what i missed out and go...FFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK.......lol TspongT hates it.

I pull the same move on another random girl and we just stare at each other for a good 10-15 seconds....but i leave I dont know why....I see another girl and grab her hand she was mad chill and cute, starts talking about what each ring means, suddenly says the one on her fourth finger is in remeberance of her dead parents....needless to say it killed my vibe, i felt terrible, said i had to go and bailed lol

TspongT decideds we'll go pack to the first place since his boys are their, we get back to the club/bar and its prety much the same, I say hi to his boys, their funny as hell, and go upstairs...and i see this sexy blonde by herself at the bar and I immediatley make a beeline for her....

before I go on i owe this to TspongT i would never even think about appraoching a girl like this but the small of amoutn of confindence Ive gained definatley helped....I used tspong's classic opener

"EYY whoo are you"...
her: "I dont know you"
me: "yes you do...."
her: "whats my name then.."
me: "you're cute as hell..."
her: *touches my cheek* "nice try..."


I use the "claw" that TspongT taught me 5 minutes ago, and it works perfectly, she grabs me and we're in each others faces, she tells me her name, i tell her mine, we start talking about school...i immediatley change the subject to keep the conversation in line with the sexual attraction we've just developed, start talking about random shit, she start talking about how shes becoming a bartender....we actually talked about my buisness for a while lmao soo epic...i take out my phone cause its ringing and TspongT is calling, i ignore *sorry bro*, and she starts giving me her number....we start talking about more random stuff while litelrally two centimerters from each others faces....she asks if im on drugs at one point, I dont answer right away just stare straight in her eyes i feel her body completely relax and its as though she just gave in...i say "no.." very slow...and she laughs and starts talking about her car...i dont even answer, i jsut grab the back of neck and she turns around and starts grinding...i slowly attempt to turn her back around and she asks ...

"do you have a gf"
me: "maybe.."

and perfect timing...TspongT shows up and comes up and tells her that she doesnt want to be with me cause im bad news....much respect to him, cause shes all over me at this point. DTF...then she says "i want to be with a bad guy whoo does his own thing on the side"...in my head im lol'ing hard....i dont even reply to his,,,just hold her face and makeout....we are interrupted by this phaggot arab guy thats trying to cockblock, i dont even pay attention to him...but since he woldnt shutp and i already got her number, and I had to take a madd piss, I said I had to go...she held onto my hand for a bit but I left didnt even look back.....came back out the guy was still trying to talk to her but she was just sipping her drink...she saw me and gave me this smirk I smirked back and went back downstairs.....I somewhat regret this because that girl was down, but w.e

We ended up leaving, TSpongT began teaching me the importance of leading, which would have definatley helped in my situation not only with the cockblock but I could have escalated even further possibly even left with the girl (she had her own car)....but not a bad night for my third night out

this coming thursday I will practise everything I;ve done
-opening everything
-escalating
-clawing
-not being to confrontational

and lead at least one appraoch ..

will report back soon....feel free to leave any advice, be direct...
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Yessssssss maa brotherrrrr. Epic times ahead of us. This guy has mad potential, and is going to be a solid wing. Lets do thisss
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Buisness: Tuesday Nov. 24th 2010

One of the most productful days in terms of expanding our buisness. We have organized open meetings every wednesday for people who are interested in joining the buisness, we arrange one guest speaker who has achieved great success in the buisness to share his thoughts, ideas, how the system works to new people or anyone who is just curious about the buisness. Today for some reason a lot of people that I go to school with but do not know personally have inquired about the buisness, it felt great to know that word is going around. and I have a large group of people coming to the open meeting tomorow.

One thing I have learned from talking to a few very sucessful enterpeurners and buisness owners outside my buisness is that they all have one thing in common, it is as though money works for them....and they all tell me this. It was only today what I realised this meant, and it has to do with a book I finished reading.

The difference between having lots of money and wealth, wealth is measured over time in the sense that if you are a manager of a company and go to work 9-5 and earn 100K, you are considered to have a large amount of money, but that money is entireley based upon you going to work 9-5 and the time you put in, meaning you work for money. Whereas every successful entrepeurner and C.E.O do not have to work after a certain time but they still have money coming in, money works for them. There is no one magic formula or defined path on how to achieve wealth, but I notice that they all have many buisness assets, from small buisnesses, large buisnesses, real estate, investments, they all have assets.

Biggest similarity between buisness and game....the need to take calculated risks and not let your own fear prevent you from moving forward. Its like the typical guy who goes to work 9-5 does not even want o hear about any buisness ventures...sure he'll never lose money or have to spend time outside of his 9-5 job, but he will never achieve finanical strength, and will continue to live from pay cheque to pay cheque and always despise or think that the wealthy have achieved their money through cheating or fraud (albeit some do but that is not the point). This is true with game, the guy who never goes out and appraoches anything never gets rejected, at the same time he never develops the ability to talk to women to get over his fear of appraoching and will live his life majority of the time single.

Moral for me: Take calculated risks, be willing to invest time into it and judge my progress over large period of time. Give myself time to grow and develop before I choose wheter to continue or not. Make progress during that time, and surround yourself with people who are headed in the same direction or who have achieved sucess in the field already.


**Will be going out this thursday, and either friday or saturday.**
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Game: Thursday Nov. 25th 2010

Was heading to the club TpsongT worked at, Last couple weeks I have gained some solid momentum so I was looking to continue that tonight.

Got in early, place was kind of dead so just posted up with TspongT for a bit, wamred up my bumping into a few girls, poking them in their stomaches, some were recpetive but I didnt open much.

A bit later I began approaching girls at the bar, nothing too much came out of it....posted up again near TpsongT, saw a chubby girl eyeing me and heading towards my direction, just as she was about to pass I clawed her in and she was into it, I asked her what her name was, regular intro, struck up a small conversation, but the friend began trying to pull her away to the bar, while this was happening I saw another girl eyeing me so I sent the chubby girl along with her friend and clawed girl 2 in as soon as she came near me, I felt a peiercing on  her stomach and told her that girls with a peircings could never be trusted, all her answeres were attempts to qualify herself, once again the friend began pulling her away to the dance floor she held my hand but I let her go...i have no idea why i didnt go with her...i feel retarded as im writing this.....
Immediatley after the chubby girl comes back and ask me what I was doing with that girl...I completely ignored her question and asked her why her friend was soo mad at me...good way to keep both girls occupied since TpsongT couldnt wing me much since he was working, I would comment on something on one girl and as soon as the friend commented I pointed out something on her, they were both laughing and into it....I saw girl 2 watching from the dance floor, I told the chubby girl t get me water and her friend to go with her, since "I didnt trust her with my water cause she might spike it and try and me"..they laughed and went to get me the water...girl 2 a bit later came back and tried striking up a conversation but I ignored her said I couldnt trust her, i told her to get me some water....the girl came back witha vodka ...lmao epic...I didnt really pursue this girl and ended up not seeing her for the  rest of the night

Later on in the night, a singer was performing so there was little chance in trying to approach girls on the dance floor at the time being....but the chubby girl came back and we began having a long ass conversation, she started talking about how shes careful in the guys she dates blah blah blah..

me: "So what do you look for in a guy"
her: "Im not picky, but they have to be trusthworthy, ffunny...*i immediatley interrupted*
me: "Do you trust me?...*laser eyed her, with a smirk*
her: *gigles* "i dont know...i think i can trust you"
me: "appreances are decieving..."

continued to alser eye her, not saying a word, and just as she was about to break eye contact i clawed her in...she right away started talking about where she lives in res (goes to the same univerisyt as me), how her roomate is gone for the weekend, pretty much DTF at this point, but I had almost no sexual attraction to this girl and was just using her to boost my state and image...before she left she took my number and made sure to punch her number in my phone...no plans on pursuing this girl

later on I was posting up in the same spot I was for most of the night, TpsongT was telling me how this is detrimental to my game caus girls see this and it gives them the viusal that Im just trying to pick up girls....so I began moving around....I was going to say hi to one of my boys when this fit lebanese girl came in front of me and said she wanted my number cause shes doing a project ...lmao strong pickupline.....it was a good TspongT was telling me, on our way to the club, how when a girl is already attracted to you and you "game her to hard" how its a mindfuck for them, since they vision you being this cool calm collected guy, but then you're using all this seduction/attraction building material and it completey throws it off.....so I just played it cool, gave her my number, asker for her name, grabber her hand, I told her I feel terrible cause shes married (she had a ring on her hand), kept it very routine, told her I want to go to the other side of the club, grabbed her hand but she began to lead....wtf lol....turns out she came with 4 of her guy cousins, another one was a bouncer that works there, TspongT warned me to be careful...so since she already had my number I let her go...but i definatley want to meet up with this girl at school in the near future.

Came close to leaving with two girls...was dancing with them on the dance floor, one of them began grabbing me downstairs, so I told them im going home with them...but it fell apart when one a guy came by and tried taking one of the girls i let him take one..but he pulled the girl away to the bar and the other girl said she wanted to follow...I didnt want to so I made out with her for a bit and left.

Towards the end of the night I saw this girl in line getting ready to leave, she tied her hair in a braid and I playfully yanked on it, she started laughing with her friends, I walked a bit ahead and called her over, she came over and told her that I knew she was in a rush but I just wanted to introduce myself and that her hair looked cute, she was mad into grabbed my waist and struck up a quick conversation, she grabbed her jacket, came back and gave me her number.

Not a bad night, Im pleased I didnt let the beginning of the night bring down my whole night, i picked it up towards the end...I notice that all my poking and tickling stuff that I do in the beginning was in effective cause I was not in a good vibe, I was too uptight and nervous so this probably came off my early interactions....I'll continue to practise appraoching everything, transitioning from opeing with comfort to escalation, and leading.
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Game: Saturday November 27th 2010

Lets keep this short and sweet....tonight was terrible in terms of making progression and my whole state throughout the night....went to the club TspongT was working at, it was dead once we got in, left for a bit came back, looked like it would start picking up.....didnt really approach much, tried walking around the club but every bar was filled with just guys, all the girs were on the dance floor....posted up near TspongT, he tried getting me warmed up by playing a game where I had to open anything in 30 seconds....there were a few, but nothing more than 10 second conversation and it was done....with this club since I usually get in early theres nothing to approach so I post up with TspongT for a bit, try and warmup by doing quick opening with girls coming my way, once I get into my element then Im feel like I can pretty much do anything....but theres that intial timeline where if I dont warmup early enough it takes me longer to get into stride to where I need to be mentally to approach everything.

I need to find a way to break out of this mental habit, cause It's clear even when Im in a bad state and still trying to open Im not geting blown out, the connection just sorts of dies off, when Im in 100% and my confidence is at its peak I kill it....so thats one positve I can take away from tonight...TspongT said the only way to get to that state is just appraoch as soon as I get in.

There was some pretty goodlooking girls tonight but my bad mental state was definatley evident on everything I did tonight...TspongT had some pretty solid sets going, I learned a few things from his openeings, he's more calm and collected in the beginning and escalates things just as the right time, but quickly goes back to cool/collected mode and lets the girls come back for more and escalte things themselves.

End of the night had this one 6/10 chick thick ass, big tits, butterface come up to me and ask me to go back to her hotel, I acted like I didnt even care, not on purpose but because of the terrible night i had, i didnt really want anything to do with her but she kept begging me to come back....said I would think about it, and the girl called me three times during the night.....said I would text her when im free.

Looking forward to the next time i go out, but Im not going to put any pressure on myself, the last few times I've gone out I've made some very good progress, but this isnt something where I will make new progression every single night, these "failure" types of nights are also stepping stones that will help me move forward also just as long as I learn what I did wrong or need to work on and try and rectify it next time i go out.

The way Im starting to view this and any of my business ventures is if i never try anything i will never fail, but i will never succeed either, sucess is not something that will occur overnight or happen just from reading an epic article, success is postive mentality with concrete action, every defeat is eduaction, i just have to keep an open mind, learn something of value and grow.
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Brotherrrr, on bad nights there is still progression.You approached a fair amount, maybe not such great approaches but atleast you approached. There is much to learn from a night like this... We will beast this coming weekkk
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Game: Thursday Dec. 2nd 2010

First night out after the uneventful saturday night. Headed to our regular thursday spot with TspongT, was in very solid state going in, unfortunatley the music and amount of people were a buzz kill, but I tried my hardest to get this out of my head, posted up TspongT just chilling, talked to a guy form our old high school, I saw some serious IOI's from a few girls but did not captialize.

TspongT and I decided to approach everything that came our way, one of the openers he gave me was "HEY YOOU!.....LOOK AT ME!!!"...lmao so random, didnt think it would be effective  but I was looking to get warmed up and it would be funny....So first girl that walks by i grab her arm and say it to her loud.....the girl actually looks at me and leans in....instant mindfuck/brainfreeze, definately did not expect this kind of a reaction, as a result i told her to leave...lol terrible.

HOWEVER, as bad as that was lesson learned....do not anticipate the outcome of anything said....in my head that opener just conflicted with everything logical in terms of opening a girl, as a result since it did not go as expected and the girl showed interest it completley threw me off and I fked it up.

Another girl who saw this showed interest but I didnt captialize...only regret of the night.

Place wasn't getting much better, so we headed out to the spot where TspongT works......wasnt bad, opened everything at the bar, nothing serious developed....TspongT was with this girl he knew.

Nothing big in terms of numbers or girls to add to the rotation, but I am starting to develop thick skin from these average nights, and Im taking it all in stride. Never got blown out *except for the girl i yelled at and told to leave gave me the finger (understandable)* lmao....but other than that most girls have shown interest it's just my ability to push through the initial "barriers"....Also going out is turning my attention away from the girls that I have met and are showing interest, but me not replying to their calls and ignoring their texts pretty much not giving them my attention seem to draw them in....I'll see how long this lasts.

With exams coming up I wont be going out for the next few weeks, I have to focus on my studying time and habits. I'll post back around new years/christmas time which will be the next time i go out.

Big things on the horizon for me this upcoming year 2011, buisness is experiencing bigg time growth, school is turning around for me (finally), personal fitness is at the highest level I ever been, and the game is doing wonders already for me  even though im still early and raw into it.
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Game: Friday Jan 28th 2011

Wad up boys, its been a while...this was supposed to be the year I went hard but due to some very stupid decisions school wise I have to put beasting and my buisness on hold till the summer...I'll be going out, but not on a regular basis.

Tonight we were heading out to the the spot where TspongT's works, heard it was supposed to be live tonight, with his boy who also wants to improve his game, mad chill guy, and some of his other friends that I know casually.

Got in and it was not bad, walked around for a bit didnt really do much, I knew I was going to be cold tonight since I havent been out in a while so all the good momentum I gained before was gone...but I wanted to push through, me and TspongT's boy warmed up by playing a game where he pointed out a girl for me to approach and I would do the same...it went decently well, the two girls that I opened were very receptive but I wasnt able to escalate, I was running too much things in my head what to say and as a result I remember I just blanked out...fffufuuu

Night goes on, im starting to get into my shittty mood when things arnt going well, im trying to force myself to approach everything and just go in blank without any plan on what Im going to say......but i didnt lol and just posted up in one spot for a bit....i was getting serious IOI's from girls but did not captialize on anything....

Things started to turn around when my boys from school showed up, It definatley lifted my mood as these guys are funny as hell, out of nowhere I felt like I could approach anything and naill it, i think it was due to  the fact that these guys wanted to learn to approach and knew how I have improved with TspongT's help, it wasnt a feeling of trying to show off, more so a feeling "leading" them and teaching them.

Approached one or two girls nothing big......posted up near TspongT and tried approaching every decent girl that went by...one fit, skinny blonde walked by and made eye contact with me and I immediatley clawed her, told her I loved her dress and she was into to it right away, however the friend dragged her away....pulled the exact same maneuover with another, this time I used my classic most effective opener,...
*claw her in and grab her hand, (90% of girls wear rings)*
me: "your hot....too bad you're married"
this line is the best because, it gives me a legtiamate opener, annd we are immediatley touching each other, so escalating is easier because I can just grab her other hand or put my other hand around her waist..

anyways nothing happened with this one, I should have taken one of these two to the dancefloor and locked itt up, but I didnt....I need to learn to lead as soon I see or feel a hint of a dead conversation on the horizon, by just taking them to the bar,just moving them around the club in general.

TspongT's boy and me played the 30 second game where each of us one at a time have 30 seconds to approach anything otherwise we get punched in the stomach lool...very effective to get me going..
we were going back and forth, we were doing pretty well, it was just our rawness and rookie mistakes that held us back but me and him have mad potential, almost  everything we approached  was 7's and above...we would have had a crazy night if we started this in the beginning instead of towards the end of the night..but w.e, we'll remember next time

Then these two solid 7.5's were waiting in the huge line to get their coats, TspongT's boy made a remark how it was funny watching how girls act in a club....one of the girls jumped on it and said...
girl 1: "you guys think we act funny?"
me: " yah I was watching you and you're friend...you guys are looooserss"
girl 1: " *laughs*, thats kind of creepy.."
me: "you're just funny to watch.."

at this point TspongT's boy handles this girl and I turn my attention to her friend...use my go-to opener...grab her hand and ask  her why she married so young..

girl2: "im not married!!!!...this isnt the ring finger *holds up her middle finger with the ring on it*...this is the ring finger *points to the second last finger*.."
me: "why are you giving me the finger? you are rude as fuck"

*I grab her hand take of the ring and put it on the actual wedding finger...

girl2: "did you just propse to me?"
me: "no...you're not my type I was just practising for someone else"

she laughs, punches me playfully, but does not let go of my hand, which i noticed immediatley and knew this one was a lock for the night. I continued to play around with her, picking her up and carrying her around the spot for a bit, finished by asking her for her phone...

me: "give me your phone...Im thinking of putting my number in it"
girl: "ummm...." *she playfully hesisatates*
me: "ok changed my mind I dont want to anymore.."  *I turn my back away from her and attempt to talk to her friend who was eyeing my hard everytime i was carrying her friend around*
girl: grabs my back and neck and turns me around...lmao holy fk this girl had a firm grip..
she tells me to put in her my number I continue to tease her for a bit but give it to her...kiss her and then wait with my boys
definatley looking to meet up with this girl since she told me she  goes to the same school

I was in a such a good mood by the end of the night, enjoyed some heavy lols with one of our boys that was drunk lool soo funny.

Anyways, all in all a good night, approached a good amount, did alright in the beginning terrible for majority of the night, and solid towards the end....I dont want to be too hard on myself, it was my first time out in a while, but Im glad some of the things I learned late year with TspongT haas stuck, it was just the lost momentum that hindered the performance tonight...if i can make some decent progress before end of school its going to be a biblical summer.

Having said that....back to the books......how I despise you education...bastard. lol
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One more thing that just hit me, was the sets that I opened well were the ones where either I was standing still and the girl was coming towards me and we lock eye contact or we were both standing still and I grab her in...but the ones where they were posting up and I was moving towards them seemed to turned of with my agression, one was legit intimated. So somethhing to keep in mind for next time, if Im walking towards a girl I wont grab her waist or something right away, try and use a "softer" opener like a casual hi or regular intro.
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