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July 30th, 2014
Seriously, help me with this girl
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nebuR

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Join Date: 10/07/2010 | Posts: 266

God damnit, Ive already made a thread about this girl, but anyway. HOT, 18 years old (soon 19), boyfriend from 3 years back, big tits, superduper hot.

Been messing and calling eachother for like 3-4weeks now, she's sending me pictures of her breasts in bra, of her body etc, telling me Im sexy, she wanna have sex, she wanna meet up and all that shit.

However, so this weekend we should go to the same club, so decided to meet up. At 10 she sms me with "where you at?" Im like "Im at the club", she "Ok, we're on our way now". At 23 I send her "Come to the dancefloor", no answer, I wait like 30min and send her "where ya at?" no answer, wait another hour, call her, no answer, so I say fuck it.

Next morning she sms me with some shit like "Its snowing!! :)" I dont answer, she PM me on facebook with "I lost my phone yesterday :S" I like ok cool.

So we continue sms this day, send alot of shit to eachother, so later on she's like "Come here baby ;)" Im like "oh yeah?" shes like "Yes, I want kisses", Im like "Ok, meet me halfway then", shes like "Ok Im going to town soon get something to eat", Im like "Yes, Im going get a tan soon at XXXX, meet me there and u'll get your kisses", shes like "At least 5 kisses!", so Im "Ye, come there and Ill give ya many", now she's "At least 10!" Im "wtf 10? No, 8, I cant promise you more", shes like ":(", however, Im like "Oh well, going there soon, u going to town or not?" she answer with "Yes I am... why dont you shoot me a sms or call when you are there and Ill come!" Im like "yea sure".

So I go get a tan, then sms her with "Ok Im tanned, going take a shower here so Ill be here for like 20min then going home, tell me if you have time", take a shower, no answer, call her up, no answer.

When I come home shes like "I fell asleep :S" Im like... yeah ok (right).

Anyway, how to proceed with this? Yeah yeah I know, abundance or whatever, but this is not some kind of one itis, I dont care that much really, but I just want to fucking bone her, because she is damn hot, I want to learn something out of this shit, and Ive invested 3 fucking weeks shooting her sms's, haha.

So what do you think is the problem here? Err how to fix it? thanks
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Leonmujmar

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Join Date: 03/04/2010 | Posts: 134

hello man
I'm not the best but I have been there, and failed miserably... and also succeed one time
I believe that 9's in general, are always in a very comfortable position, they just don't give a damn about anything. look, she has a boyfriend and probably a lot of other guys who wants to fuck her, and she knows it, and even if she doesn't have, she can go to a club and get some.
the good news is that she likes you, between all the chodes (no ofense), for some reason she likes you. at first you may think "I'm the shit, a 9's likes me and send my sms and says want to have sex" but soon you realize that this doesn't mean anything. in my experience 9's and 10's are very whimsical and impulsive. and dificult to catch if you are not centered and sure. you have to be a 9 also, but in personality.
I think the problem is you want a strategy to bang her, and you think if you do this you will be better and greater than you are now, in other words you are seeking validation. maybe she doesn´t know it jet, because you talk just in sms.
I believe that in order to get her, you have to be willing to lose her. in other words, call on her flakiness. "ok meet me in x at x o'clock, wanna go yes or no?" "stop fucking around, you want your kisses or not?, I have some other things to do, I need to know now to organice my day" hahaha maybe a little rough... don't know man, make your own, ask her if she is afraid, and insist. if she is indecisive offer to go te her place. push it, push through her obstacles.
I believe she wants to fuck you, but doesn't want to do anything about it, no responsability. she just want to say later in her mind "I couldn't resist he was so persistant, I didn't know what to do" etc...
your chances of losing her increases a lot, but also your chances of banging her.
you want to play to win or you want to play to not lose?
that's the final question
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lottery

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Join Date: 09/15/2010 | Posts: 242

Nebur i can tell that you dont have much experience...what country do you live btw? Anyway she is definetely playing with you, i think she is just immature and wants some attention..delete her number and find another girls,..matterfact go to your town centre and approach every girl you..you will at least get one bitch..this girl is just wasting your time..we all have been there
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Jaffar

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 Leon is spot on.  Don't be negative, but dominate.

Positive domination.

Jaffar.
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TableDance

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She is going to be cheating if she does this which explains her flakyness.

So an intelligent approach would be to get her to hang out for another reason than to hook up.  By going about this like you are, you are putting too much pressure on her to decide if she want's to cheat or not.  However if you meet her to do something fun and "It just sorta happens" well... then.... atleast she can deny the intent to do it.  The reality is that she likes that attention, and probably even wants to fuck you.  However you keep inacting her logical brain by forcing her to make the decision to fuck you while she is not in a situation where she can be over run by emotions.

You should invite her to a party or something else fun were there ARE OTHER PEOPLE.  Maybe even drope a joking comment like "But no funny business...  I don't want these people know about us"  Or something that just implies it's going to be for funzies and she doesn't have to worry about cheating.  Then you man up, escalate when no one's looking (us against the world... or secret lovers vibe) and get her isolated somehow.  Then as you lead and follow your emotions.... "It just sorta happenes".

I don't understand guys on here's obsession with verbalizing what's going to happen.  She shouldn't be talkinga bout kissing you before you do it... She should be wondering if you are going to kiss her while she is doing her hair and picking our her sexy underwear.  Girls love stuff that seems spontanious, and genuine.  They love to be swept up in the moment and have thier breath taken away.  If you tell her you are only going to give her 8 kisses, then where is the spontinaity and the intrigue?
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nebuR

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Join Date: 10/07/2010 | Posts: 266

TableDance wrote:
She is going to be cheating if she does this which explains her flakyness.

So an intelligent approach would be to get her to hang out for another reason than to hook up.  By going about this like you are, you are putting too much pressure on her to decide if she want's to cheat or not.  However if you meet her to do something fun and "It just sorta happens" well... then.... atleast she can deny the intent to do it.  The reality is that she likes that attention, and probably even wants to fuck you.  However you keep inacting her logical brain by forcing her to make the decision to fuck you while she is not in a situation where she can be over run by emotions.

You should invite her to a party or something else fun were there ARE OTHER PEOPLE.  Maybe even drope a joking comment like "But no funny business...  I don't want these people know about us"  Or something that just implies it's going to be for funzies and she doesn't have to worry about cheating.  Then you man up, escalate when no one's looking (us against the world... or secret lovers vibe) and get her isolated somehow.  Then as you lead and follow your emotions.... "It just sorta happenes".

I don't understand guys on here's obsession with verbalizing what's going to happen.  She shouldn't be talkinga bout kissing you before you do it... She should be wondering if you are going to kiss her while she is doing her hair and picking our her sexy underwear.  Girls love stuff that seems spontanious, and genuine.  They love to be swept up in the moment and have thier breath taken away.  If you tell her you are only going to give her 8 kisses, then where is the spontinaity and the intrigue?

Now thats some quality reponse right there! Just what I was thinking myself but wasnt sure of.

Yeah, all that verbalising shit is very VERY overrated in my little experience. Guys think its "Intent" and "alpha" but its not.
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TableDance

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Yeah... I mean it can be "Intent" and "alpha", but it is how you do it... and phone game kills most of that.

Like think about doing the "You have no idea what I'm thinking about doing to you" whispered in to her ear while you slowly stroke her back and butt.  That can be lethal.  However, there is no reason to verbalize that it is on.  That only adds pressure to the situation.  It makes a lot more sense to just have faith that it is on, and let the sexual tension be there.
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scottsdale

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Join Date: 10/23/2007 | Posts: 1524

fuck you OP...

why didnt you just stay in the original thread? fuck. Go back and read the advice there. nothing has changed.
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