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#11

Metta

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Join Date: 01/08/2010 | Posts: 78

 Fri Jan 14
Went out to local bar alone. fagged around and then left w/ out opening blaming it on a shitty day. Actually drove 10 mins home and sat in my car pissed at myself. Then I realized I was giving too much of a fuck about how well I would do. Just said fuck everything and gave up all outcome. I was only 11:30 and I didn't feel like sitting at home alone so I drove back to the bar.

It was much easier to open after giving up all effort. I didn't care if I was in low state or what the girls would say I just opened. Ended up talking to a few cute girls.  I wasn't really able to express how I really felt,  but I talked none the less. I ejected myself  without pushing things, but I don't care. 
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#12

Metta

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Sat Jan 15th

*3:30pm to CoffeeGirl*

me: So when are you gona make me a cappuccino? (when we met a week ago she was shocked that I'd never had a cup of coffee in my life, and wanted to make me one)
girl: You'll have to come up to the city
me: I'm in the city now. What are you doing in the next few hours? (lie again, I live 50 mins away)
girl: I'm reading in the park by my house
me: I'm done w yoga in a few hours (more lies) come watch me enjoy my first cup of coffee
girl: Maybe. Although i was planning on going to the gym soon
me: Forget the gym youre already built
girl: Maybe. Text me in an hour when ur done w yoga
me: k. probably wont be done till 5. where do you live? haight?
girl: Divis

Here I drive up to the city and park.

me: meow?
girl: R u cat calling me? i ran into my friend in the park and were having lunch/early dinner right now. Not sure when well be done how long r u gonna b in the city
me: Sometimes i use random animal noises instead of words. I'll try u around 7 before I leave.

Now I have a about an hour to kill so I wander into a Karokke bar and watch people sing, open a few sets, no one hot. I don't have the balls to sing.

me: where are you?
girl: At home getting ready to go out
me: I'm going to a party at x wana come?

Here I'm starting to drive home when she calls me and then her phone cuts out as soon as I answer. I call back about 40 seconds later, but she dont pick up. 


girl: I cant. I'm going to a gallery opening w my friend
me: have fun. hit me up next time youre in x
girl: k

Drive home slightly pissed that I drove all the way up for nothing. Sigh, I gota get better text game... 

Then went out alone again tonight. This time to a frat party. Had a few weak opens, but at least I fucking opened. Thats all that matters to me because I know I will get this shit dialed. Its only a matter of time. 
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#13

Metta

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Fri Jan 21 2011
Wen't to a few warm game social circle parties on campus. Effortless. Not even worth writing about. 

Sat Jan 22
Hit up the Marina solo. Lot of uggs, but opened anyway to warm up. Meet up with a friend at about 1:00am and we start accosting drunk girls on the street.
This hot girl is walking towards me. I open with dominant breaking report tonality, but I feel good and it comes across positive. “Hey.” We make eye contact. “Who are you” she starts to turn I put my hand on her stomach lightly turning her the rest of the way to face me and she does as she tells me her name, and that shes going the opposite direction. I tell her shes cute and ask her why shes going that way and she tells me its to find her purse, but shes drunk as shit almost asking me to help her.
me: “lets go find your purse. Where did you leave it last?”
girl: umm “Paliminos, I think... do you know where that is?”
me: “yeah of course, its this way follow me” (I take her hand and lead her) *I have no idea where Paliminos is*
At one point she has to pee really bad and takes a piss behind a bush while I make sure no one sees.
Basically I just lead her around for awhile until we find it. We talk for a while and she tells me she had an emotional talk with her ex boyfriend blah blah. At one point I stop her and tell her to wait while I get something from my car. Felt really good telling her what to do. Lots of physical contact as we walked around. Walked arm-in-arm, held hands, etc.
Once we find her purse she’s like “we have to find my friends.” This is where things fall apart.
I know that her fucking friends are gona cock block me. Also, my friend wants to double team her, and I’m like OK whatever, but I’ve gota figure out logistics.
I guess I could have taken her phone at this point and tried to take the batteries out, then pull her home.
What ended up happening is she calls her friend and I lead her to this club. The bouncer hates me and I know I can’t get in, plus they are kicking ppl out because its 2am at this point. I should have never let her go in, but she did, and now I’m stuck waiting out on the street w/ my friend.

Eventually I see some guy leading her out of the club, with her friends. I go up to her in front of all her friends ignoring them, tell her I have to go and hug her and then get her number. I usually number close on my iPod touch but I forgot it and only have my shitty phone which is really hard to use. I go for the number close and tell her just to tell me her number and I’ll memorize it. She does.
I text her: Get home safe, nice meeting you -metta
response: wrong #
I suck at memorizing...

Lessons:
*when the girl is drunk and into you never let her out of your sight.
* Even though her friends appeared I should have tried to win them over and go for the pull anyway.
*Don’t try to memorize girls numbers...
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Metta wrote:
 

Drive home slightly pissed that I drove all the way up for nothing. Sigh, I gota get better text game... 

Then went out alone again tonight. This time to a frat party. Had a few weak opens, but at least I fucking opened. Thats all that matters to me because I know I will get this shit dialed. Its only a matter of time. 


It's all good dude, I'm still working on my texts as well. As with everything, the more you do it the easier it gets! It was funny though 'cause I knew the outcome of the convo less than halfway into it. It sucks but hey, there's 3 billion girls on this earth so think of it as practice. ;)

And good for you for going out alone. Most of the time I go with people but I end up talking to girls on my own. Sometimes I introduce my friends just for the hell of it. ; )

Overall, keep up the good work. It's a lengthy process and we're actually about at the same experience level so that's pretty cool. One of my favorite quotes is that the destination isn't the reward, the journey is. And that's what keeps me going. (That and fuckin hot girls but that's something else haha)
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#15

Metta

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 Jan 27 2011
Thursday. day game all day then hit a club. Shitty day. i get rejected by every hot girl in the club. whatever.

Friday.
I text yogertgirl *note she got a speeding ticket last time she drove to LA*

me: hey babe you back in xxx?
girl: yep
me: nice. how was your drive up? hope you were able to keep it under a 100 mph
girl: it was way better cuz it was during the day and was less boring since there were things to look at so i went slow

Campus is dead. I roll up to a random party but there are only a few ppl. I don’t evevn bother going in. 





Saturday.
I text yogert girl back: *note I joked about her being in Hufflepuff on our date*
skipping school to go to LA is pretty gangster. i might have to move you from Hufflepuff to Slitherin

no response. I was going to invite her to a frat party... oh well. her loss. maybe i just should have gone for the invite right there, but i wanted to build a little more report since we havnt seen each other for over a month.

As usush I roll up to the fart party alone. I Hit the dance floor. See a fucking babe in a short skirt dancing with her friends. Shes dancing her ass off and I know its gona be on before i approach. I approach from behind and grab her hand and lift it into the air. She grinds my cock for awhile. I kept feeling her legs and kept pulling up her skirt. put my hand under her skirt. felt her pussy. lace panties. i wonder if i could have pulled her panties aside. legs felt amazing. eventually she tells me shes going to get water.

i walk around trying to find other girls. one flat out says she dosn’t know me and wont dance. whatever. other girl i dance with for a while but shes not that hot and i leave to “go get water” lol

I meander around then I run into some cute girls i know form social circle. we talk for a bit. I should have invited them to dance. both were sober tho.

I go back to dance. grind up against some girl without realizing it. shes the first girl that's as bad at dancing as i am and just moves her hips back and forth. we make out. she moves my hand to her and i rub it as we dance. slipped my hands under her shirt felt her nipples. she kept asking me what year i was. Eventually I said “shut up and dance.” we make out hard and she grabs my cock over my jeans. then the music for stops for about 30 seconds and shes says “I’m gona go.” but the music starts again and i grab her hand pull her back and we make out some more. then she leaves.

Later. The dance floor is emptying out and im about to leave when another girl and her friend come in. I can tell they are gona open because they just got to the party alone and the hotter one is high energy and already dancing. I opened by putting my hand on the hot ones waist. and she turned to look at me and must have liked what she saw because she smiled and said hi and her eyes light up. she starts grinding my cock with her ass immediately. then she grabs a random dude for her friend to dance with. then she grabs my hand and moves it over her so i rub it for her while we grind.

As were dancing i see the first girl i danced with. i want her more than the girl im with so grab her hand as she gets close to me. She lights up seeing me again and doesnt seem to mind that im up on another girl. I pull her into me. now both girls are grinding on me. i grab the hot girls tits and pussy. i get greedy and go for the make out with the hot girl while feeling up both pussys at the same time. I start kissing her neck. then other girl im dancing with gets pissed. Shes like “what the hell is going on” and stops dancing. then this freaks out the hot one and she starts to walk away. I go after the hot one and say “it’s cool I know her.” and “shes cool” a few times. But she walks away.

i’m learning how to tell when girls are ready to dance and want someone to grind up against.
frat parties == way better than clubs. hotter girls, less competition and they are all more willing to experiment.
next time i roll out im wearing PJs (no dress code! fuk clubz) so i can feel girls more w/ my cock.
When I go for the extraction I’ve decided that I’m going to offer an after party at my house. My roommates usually have one or two friends over and are drunk on the weekends so its perfect. If I have to bring the girls friends then my roomies can distract them...

Sunday
still no reply from yogertgirl so I just go for the throat:
me: are you around tonight? theres a cool movie for free on campus
girl: just got done working. i think im gona stay in tonight
me: k have fun

I message some girl on OKCupid that looked at my profile and goes to my school:
I go to xxx too. I'm not very good at this online stuff, but if you're on campus lets meet up at xxx sometime. okcupids a little nerdy for me, give me your number and I'll give you call.
Metta
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Metta

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 Sun Feb 6
Dead weekend. Went to a bar thursday--no hotties. Frat party Friday, almost no girls of any worth. Same thing on Saturday. 

Sunday I go on a double date with my friend and two girls he met. Date went well and I have plans to invite my girl (who is actually cool and hot) to a party on Valentines day.
After dropping the girls off at the cal train my friend and I sarged a few bars. I had a  great conversation with an older Brazillian woman. I ended up getting really close to her face and was able to hold intense eye contact for a lot of the time. I felt very real. Like I was just sort of checking in with how I felt, looking her in the eyes and then expressing whatever came to me. She was really into it. Gona try to do this more. It also helps me have a better feel for how they feel and shows them that I don't give a fuck, especially in silence. I knew I was in when I would stop talking and just look at her, she would feel the social tension and see that I didn't give two fucks about it and start asking me questions. In the past I might have looked away or pretended to lose interest, instead i was just present and able to give her my full attention. 
Gota make sure I have good breath tho because I'm getting super close to their faces and talking right at them. 
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#17

Metta

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 Feb 11-12



spent Friday and Saturday night with the girl from Sunday last week. Pretty much effortless. Didn't fuck her but did everything else. Gota  little LMR and I stopped. Mostly because I'm still a little uncomfortable around her. Going to work on being unstifled all the time basiclly to help me relax. I can't relax when I feel stifled. Still, looks like I got my first girl in rotation. Nice. 
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#18

JLW

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Join Date: 02/13/2011 | Posts: 19

 Hey Metta, you live in San Francisco? So do I. What college do you go to?
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