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I don't know about the whole boyfriend thing, but why be so nervous about what she thinks?
She'll feel what you feel. So call her up, chat, meet her if you want.
Go from there.
Jaffar.
She'll feel what you feel. So call her up, chat, meet her if you want.
Go from there.
Jaffar.
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ABL - always be leading. Yes, don't worry about her response, just tell her to do what you want to do (hey come over, let's hang out). If she says no, then wait a couple of days and throw out something else out. Know what you want, always... don't expect her to.
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"Oh yeah but to be specific, no you don't learn how to pull and fuck hotties by just chilling out." - Tyler
"Oh yeah but to be specific, no you don't learn how to pull and fuck hotties by just chilling out." - Tyler
Okey thankyou but is that really the best way to go about this if I want to fuck her? I know all this abundance mentality and all that shit, sure, but I do not have abundance, and Im on my way building that shit up, and this chick is one piece of that, so It would be great to fuck her, lol. So I dont want to mess things up right now.
Shouldnt it be better to get her to contact me? More investing and all that?
Shouldnt it be better to get her to contact me? More investing and all that?
Yes I do understand that, and that is probably a good frame in the club. But bare in mind, this is over the phone/txt, the girl is HOT, modeling, probably have like 200 chodes giving her validation. If Im just like "hey lets fuck" (Like I WANT) she will probably deny it, I will trigger ASD since she is in a relationship, and it will be done.
There must be like some smarter gameplan to go about this.
There must be like some smarter gameplan to go about this.
...blah blah blah...
So, what should I do now? Should I just wait her out? Should I take initiative? What should you do?
Instead of asking what should I do, ask what do I want. Then, simply do what you want.
However, the last 2 days have been dead quiet from her, until tonight when I got a sms with "Hey babe!" Im like "Heey " So she's like "wzup?" Im like "Im perfect, u?" and she's like "same same " to which I responded "Sounds great " then it was nothing more.
and when you guys setup a meet up to "watch movies" you do know that it means you should be fucking her that night right? just checkin.
for one thing I would stop stressin about this girl. She wants you, its easy, have fun....who cares about who is investing what. Just lead. Be more exciting/sexual at times, be cool, and close that shit.
Setup a meet up soon. She might be getting bored of you depending on how you been working it. She may even be hittin up some other guy so she can get her cheating rocks off... or maybe she is just busy. Either way, lead this to where you want it to go. text her "I'm coming to see you tonight"... magic.
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Yes I do understand that, and that is probably a good frame in the club. But bare in mind, this is over the phone/txt, the girl is HOT, modeling, probably have like 200 chodes giving her validation. If Im just like "hey lets fuck" (Like I WANT) she will probably deny it, I will trigger ASD since she is in a relationship, and it will be done.
There must be like some smarter gameplan to go about this.
uhh she may be a hot model with 200 orbital chodes around her... but she is into you and even sending you naughty pics, dude!There must be like some smarter gameplan to go about this.
I wouldn't say "hey lets fuck". But I might say "I want you".... You're investing too much into ONE girl, which basically means you're probably gonna fuck this up anyhow. But so what. Just chill and seriously do what you want... however being cool about it of course. Its no mystery that you both want to fuck each other - BOOM easy!
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Yes I do understand that, and that is probably a good frame in the club. But bare in mind, this is over the phone/txt, the girl is HOT, modeling, probably have like 200 chodes giving her validation. If Im just like "hey lets fuck" (Like I WANT) she will probably deny it, I will trigger ASD since she is in a relationship, and it will be done.
There must be like some smarter gameplan to go about this.
uhh she may be a hot model with 200 orbital chodes around her... but she is into you and even sending you naughty pics, dude!There must be like some smarter gameplan to go about this.
I wouldn't say "hey lets fuck". But I might say "I want you".... You're investing too much into ONE girl, which basically means you're probably gonna fuck this up anyhow. But so what. Just chill and seriously do what you want... however being cool about it of course. Its no mystery that you both want to fuck each other - BOOM easy!
Don't send 'hey let's fuck,' I don't know why it works rarely and only on high self esteem girls that know what they want. Usually, 'come over, let's hang out' is best.
The whole goal is to act as if you did have aboudance, but you still want to take action. The second you start 'wanting things from her,' instead of 'giving her an awesome experience,' she's going to start distancing herself.
If I'm putting too much importance on one girl, I wait for the weekend and go grab bunch of numbers and hopefully an ONS that I can turn into FB if I want... you need aboudance to get really good at this.
The whole goal is to act as if you did have aboudance, but you still want to take action. The second you start 'wanting things from her,' instead of 'giving her an awesome experience,' she's going to start distancing herself.
If I'm putting too much importance on one girl, I wait for the weekend and go grab bunch of numbers and hopefully an ONS that I can turn into FB if I want... you need aboudance to get really good at this.
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"Cowards don't deserve women that's just how life works. " - Manwhore
"Oh yeah but to be specific, no you don't learn how to pull and fuck hotties by just chilling out." - Tyler
"Oh yeah but to be specific, no you don't learn how to pull and fuck hotties by just chilling out." - Tyler
Thanks man. Yeah, she just send me a text, now she is flirting fucking hardcore again. Probably meet her tomorrow at the club.
Its just me with probably low self esteem thinking too much and almost fucking it up myself. Time to fuck
Its just me with probably low self esteem thinking too much and almost fucking it up myself. Time to fuck
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However, the last 2 days have been dead quiet from her, until tonight when I got a sms with "Hey babe!" Im like "Heey " So she's like "wzup?" Im like "Im perfect, u?" and she's like "same same " to which I responded "Sounds great " then it was nothing more.
Now Im kinda trying to find out whats wrong, because this is not common from her, being this quiet for 2 days and then very .. "cold", compared to what she has been for like 2-3 weeks.
So, what should I do now? Should I just wait her out? Should I take initiative? What should you do?
thanks