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November 1st, 2014
Guys on PoF, what's the deal with the "Meet me" feature
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vastan

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Join Date: 10/13/2010 | Posts: 74

What's the deal with this anyway. I've been getting a few emails over the last 24 hours saying that some girls want to meet me (mostly uggs, but the last one was from a hottie). Why would these girls want to meet me but not send me a message? Most of them I could care less but I wouldn't mind messaging the hottie, don't want to get played though.
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Bloomer

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Join Date: 06/18/2008 | Posts: 69

Just msg her dude. Even a slight pique of interest like clicking Yes on 'meeting him' is a step above the vast pool of neutrality from everyone else. What's the harm?
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Join Date: 11/07/2009 | Posts: 302

Ermmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I use PoF quite a bit and have never noticed a 'meet me' feature
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Join Date: 03/24/2010 | Posts: 726

I'm not familiar with this feature but I'm assuming it's just a button you can press that lets the other person know you're interested but can't be bothered to drop a line, amirite?
You know that women aren't the most logical of creatures.
Most girls are chodes: they don't know what to say, are passive by nature, overthink it, and figure 'meet me' button comes off less slutty and tryhard than putting in effort to type up an personalized message all with the possibility that it might come off wrong and that the guy might think of them in the wrong way but she's really not like that once you get to know her well at least all her friends would say so come meet me mister

Its the same thing in real life, girls won't approach guys much, but they like to do little things like drop hints and signals in hopes that you'll talk to her, a delusional way of thinking she didn't make the first move.
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TableDance

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Join Date: 07/08/2009 | Posts: 1988

It's like a girl giving you proximity.... They are verry open to you and want you to take initiative and hit on them.
So.......  Send them a message. 

And as has been stated in other threads... Move off of pof quickly with your convo.  I usually give out my cell or at lease instant messenger in my second message.  They pretty much always hit me up or just give me their cell.
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