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#21
Distant Light

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MorningWood wrote:
I started reading the beginning of the first book of the Big TOE series and Im probably halfway finished, though I havent picked it up in a while (for the ADD-inclined, it's kind of hard to follow) . I've tried doing the lucid dreaming/AP exercises in there a few times, but they don't seem to work for me. I just end up getting really comfortable and falling asleep or something, haha.

Anyway, how does that book relate to PU and success in life in general? Can you go in depth more on this topic? 

Thanks man
The falling asleep aspect is due to lack of focus meaning you probably did it but your awareness wasn't present. This happens to me EVERYTIME I try to play with hemi sync. (Binuaral Beats) I once played around with an 8hr track for lucid dreaming and it felt like I blacked out, didn't remember sleeping and wasn't aware of anything.

It's hard to explain how it relates to PU and success in life because its based on you. I can say you haven't got anywhere yet, the book starts off slow before you get launched into the REAL SHIT. (Books 2 & 3) However, I can say how it related to me or helped me...
-  I'm in control of my emotions 100% (Which is why I'm happy/content regardless of external situations)
-  I have no fear of death, I enjoy the unknown an have no care about how the future unfolds
-  The OP was collected and built based of many MBT concepts such as "Knowledge/Truth MUST come from first hand experience and it must produce an objective measurable result", "Potential Possibilities must remain POTENTIAL POSSIBILITIES until you've gained enough experience to analyze whether its bullshit or knowledge". Anything that requires you to BELIEVE or have FAITH needs to be checked because it might be unprofitable, dogma/beliefs that limits or constrains you. Proof is in the pudding, if there is no consistent objective results then your stuck in a belief-trap and need to check yourself.
-  Learning that all results come to you an that if you make the internal modifications required then you'll have the reality that aligns with that. Which means instead of TRYING or DOING something, you change yourself and BE.
-  I use altered states as a mini learning lab by creating a space an playing out "what if" scenarios and learning from it. You can pause, replay, add things, etc because no one else is in there.
-  I use altered states to check future probablities and I also do this on the fly when out and about
-  All the systsm/processes I've created is setup with understanding of "fractal processes"
-  Life isn't serious to me at all an more and more I become fearless and able to push my lifetime harder and harder without care.
-  Dissolved tons of ego/fear and beliefs, I'm no longer influenced by wants/needs/desires much if at all
-  I'm not attached to ANYTHING, which allows me to enjoy everything I'm aware of and created. People always ASSUME and BELIEVE that you actually become cold hearted, distant and mean. I've actually turned into an emotional who is passionate, genuine and real. The level of enjoyment is at a level that no one can really relate, nor can people understand why I'm hyped about such SMALL things.
-  I use altered states with the intent of facing my fears. I intend to have a random selection of tests to try and scare me. Although I never mention my actual experiences I've had tests where...I made a choice of killing someone an had to deal with it which was deep, chick telling me she doesn't want me and goes for me friend to see if I really am unattached, countless experiences that was purposely setup to see how much I'm willing to persist, experiences that tested whether my intentions were good or not...If you get deeper into this you'll learn that regardless if you learn in another reality or earth, you'll still learn the lessons and as a result change your internal modifcation.

This isn't event 1% of what I learned, its just the book is too much and I'd have to copy and paste a 30pg 10 font worth of notes. I actually have to read the book a 3rd time, but essentially the book is a model of reality that helps you breakdown all aspects of life and also lets you understand what your purpose is here in life. (No it's not some religion dogma type of answer) The reason I'm so vague/abstract is because when you finish the book you'll only be left with tons of tools. It's up to you to decide how you'll use all those tools.

For me I've made it my purpose to see how far this whole lifestyle goes while providing opportunites for people to grow. Thankfully I can write that in one sentence because the actual systems within systems and processes of processes are vast. Just like when you finish the book an ponder different ideas you'll eventualy realize the scope of what your dealing with.

Books 2 & 3 will take you indepth, its a door that you'll never be able to close once you've gained abit of experience because TRUTH can't be denied. Which I love saying that because I joke around saying I'm "fascinating" which most would consider delusional BUT I didn't make that choice it became apart from my experiences of women (people) considering me fascinating. I tried to deny that for a long time in a TRYING TO BE HUMBLE way but it's truth and can't be denied, haha.

At the end of the day the book is called "My Big Theory Of Everything" and that's because it ACTUALLY is the theory of everything, I've spent the first yeaar after reading the book TRYING to find something it couldn't explain...

P.S...Lucid Dreams & Astral Projection are just tools like
everything else, it's not NEEDED but it does help especially if you're
exploring outside of "this" reality.

P.S.S...It's only after reading MBT that I understood how my life went. When I first did lucid dreaming and AP at 16-17 I was getting tested hardcore which I never even knew actually changed me internally. When I take a measurement of one specific kind of tests instead of BITCHING I now persist hardcore until death. Also, for those who never done any of this before and for most who never really become competent at these tools...When I'm in an altered state I have no idea of "earth" so some experiences I've lived days, months and years in another reality only to comeback and have to remember what EARTH is. Certain experiences would make a great film which is why I wished I could draw or started making screenplays.
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#22

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 Awesome.

Ordered MBT from Amazon. Also have Energy Work by Robert Bruce (i think that you also recommended this one).

You said that you are in 100% control of your emotions. How do we get in control?

ChinaBoy
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Distant Light

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ChinaBoy wrote:
 Awesome.

Ordered MBT from Amazon. Also have Energy Work by Robert Bruce (i think that you also recommended this one).

You said that you are in 100% control of your emotions. How do we get in control?

ChinaBoy
It's a hard concept to really grasp but in a nut shell without going through mbt...

As consciousness we perceive the data and interpret the data. As you go through the book you'll realize our biggest threat is the self destructiveness of our minds and that's because were unaware that we self-inflict pain onto ourselves. One of the hardest things in terms of exploring consciousness is getting rid of our assumptions, fears, ego, beliefs, etc because when your aware of another reality you start to try and interpret the data based on the junk we have internally. Which is why slow an steady exploration is best, anything else would just be a meaningless ride to nowhere. I think a biggest factor for me was to just NOT take life too seriously and start being more like myself when in other realities.
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Really top post, read all the comments unall, took over an hour haha
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Amazing post!!
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Distant Light

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NOTE: I decided to go abit more indepth since I remembered someone wanted to know about my past with women before community so I feel this will fit well with what I wanted to present anyway. For those who don't give a fuck about all that shit just scroll to "What If Scenarios"

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This thread wasn't called "Theory Of Everything" for no reason...

I've told my mother about MBT before, one time I broke down certain concepts and showed her how it applies within my life. I'd always laugh at the moment I told her how you measure growth and showed her an example of going back into the past to see the potential possibilities by looking at the women I could've potentially hooked up with THEN and NOW.

NOTE: Most would consider this shallow since they're is a drastic difference in the looks department BUT I've come to the conclusion that variety is present in the world to help you CLEARLY FOCUS bcause focused intent is a natural filter. If you clearly want a blue car, the salesman knows not to show you a yellow car. So when people call me shallow I just point out that I simply know what I'm externally attracted to and it has nothing to do with whether or not someone else agrees or disagrees. My rating system is a TOOL for me and me only to help focus in on the women I'm physically attracted to, that way I don't waste my time nor a random chicks time. This example of using tools to focus intentions is like a shooting range, you don't have to hit dead center BUT you can't be way off target. Nowadays, I no longer have the "Really!? Am I actually doing this" speech anymore because each chick who has the potential already made the "external" pre-requiste of coming close to my ideal.

When I was real young from kindergarden to 7th grade, I was more or less a natural who started super early. Kissing all the girls in kindergarden, getting explored and exploring girls. Had fairly attractive girlfriends, had options (rejected 3 chicks infront of the whole classroom and picked 1) and COLD APPROACHED which wasn't foreign lands for me since my cousin and our friend's used to go to the mall approaching women. (Cousin would go into other movie theater room's, meet a chick and makeout with them)

Before all this though as a little kid I was the natural cool guy since I probably had the earliest start with women. (Two women flashed me in 2nd grade) As a result I was escalating with women MUCH OLDER THAN ME were talking 12-13 while I was about 9. (I remember demanding that chicks kiss me) In 1st grade, I almost got put into special education because my teacher thought I was too active and self amusing. It's only in 3rd grade I first became aware of social conditioning but nonetheless I was still that kid that teachers isolated. (I'd do all my school work real fast and just self-amuse)

6th grade, 1st week got a girlfriend who had DD cups and was STILL cold approaching chicks during lunch. Met chick who probably had DDD cups (Recently, she randomly hand selected me to come to her bday party now that she see's how amazing I currently am) and a tall chick who'd later end up becoming a model contestant on america's next top model. I had lots of potential to continue this momentum BUT I started walking a different path and writing this I realized it's when I decided to HANG WITH DUDES. Prior to that I was always talking/hanging with women and always willing to try and talk to women, heck by age 13 I lost my virginity to a chick in band class. Instantly, my potential to get women slowly declined because...

I NO LONGER TRIED, I just hung out with GUYS and although a few women expressed they're interest in me I ultimately lost the ability to CREATE & PRODUCE what I want in my reality. There was no longer any options of women because I stopped all those processes aka "actually meeting women". As the years went by I got worst and worst because ultimately I stopped GROWING and started gaining disorder/chaos within my systems until eventually I was stuck with women I wasn't even attracted to. High school, came around and it was apparent that I now was a chode because if I was how I was even in 6th grade I would've been with this fairly attractive woman about one month into high school. However, I started hanging with GUYS locked in a room instead of going to lunch causing myself to change (for the worst) even more.

The "What IF" scenarios...
If I had continued being who I was back when I was real young I would've been a normal cool guy who just happened to get women. I'd be similar to my friend's brother who threw the pajama parties, meaning I'd have a range of unattractive to fairly attractive women. Thankfully, I was put into this amazing personal drama where I became chode to the point where I could no longer CREATE nor PRODUCE due to the unprofitable constraints I had put on myself.

If I decided not to grow I would've been stuck with some unattractive women because I no longer MADE SHIT HAPPEN by actually selecting/choosing who I wanted to talk to. Back in 5th grade I had options of 4-5 chicks, I chose one. During chodeland times my ONLY option was women who went for me since I NO LONGER TRIED.

Why am I doing this? Not to joke on the women nor for the validation. It's to show people what the logical consequences are for not growing up, in this case what the consequences would've been for ME if I didn't grow up. For every newbie who thinks its ok to NOT focus on growing beyond your current capability. Realize the more you grow is the more ability you have to actually change your whole external reality. It all comes down to choices...



This is what inspired me to use this example to show my mother measurement of growth and what the past potential possibilites would've been if I didn't grow up. On one hand I was cracking up and on another hand it made me realize how thankful I am for growing up because I know the probability of dealing with such bullshit in that video is almost impossible. Just checking my internal modifications an consistency of my current reality it's NOT probable. Thing is many of the women I was too chode to talk to in high school all have kids now and the thought of me mistakenly having a kid with any of them made me think "Wow, I'm a lucky fucker" because I couldn't imagine them being in my life or having my kid based on how I am now...

NOTE: Once again most of these are personal pictures, I've already jumped the gun posting these on here BUT I know the probablity of them finding these are very slim. These pictures are important to make an impact on the message I'm trying to send. Grow up or suffer the logical consequences aka the same external reality which becomes more or less worst the longer you stay still.



Now, the women that were actually my girlfriend's weren't BAD, when I was a naturally cool kid I actually was going for fairly attractive women. However, it's when I had ZERO CHOICE this was the type of options I had. Imagine if I kept her around and eventually hooked up with her, I'd then meet her social circle...



When I first presented this example to my mother she said it was wrong and fucked up BUT I found it funny because it confirms that personal growth is important and not growing up would lead to a severe consequence. Imagine if I mistakenly had a kid with her, not a bad person BUT when your not even attracted, know what you actually like and understand that thousands of younger, hotter, cooler women turn 18/21 everyday WHY EVEN BOTHER. Remember a focused clear intent naturally filters out things so why would I focus in on a woman who phyiscally comes no where close to my ideal type? It's not shallow, it's a tool to be efficient and focus.

Anywho, if I continued to have no choice or ability to create/produce I would've had to sit on the train ride of life and letting a similar reality manifest all because I refused to grow beyond my capability at that point. NOW, shit changed I have some personal power which gives me the ability to select the type of women I want regardless how she looks externally. Sticking to this example's continuity I used chicks I potentially could've fooled around with...






The irony is that it's only recent that I actually fooled around with a black chick in the past 2-3 years. However, the actual point is that throughout this time and most recently I HAD THE OPTION. In this case, I had the option of being with some of the most gorgeous black women I ever seen from exotic/unique looking to the big booty chick from the hood.

The mere fact that I changed myself and grew made it highly probable that I could choose the type of women in my life. I was no longer just a passenger on this train ride, I was the conductor and also the buidler of the track who can choose/create his own route. I have the personal power to create and have more of an impact/say/input in my reality than ever before. This is why if you don't chase the results, chase the growth you'll get out of the whole journey because then you can produce/create/manifest whatever you like. This is how I understood "All results come to you"

P.S...This example always makes me laugh because I laugh at the irony of me having the potential to get my high school friend's "ideal" type while debunking their limiting beliefs at the sametime. I still remember telling a high school friend about this one chick who's hip to waist ratio was crazy and her ass had so much jut that I bumped into it just walking through the crowd. Chick later randomly slapped my ass as I walked by an so I slapped her ass back. My high school friend thought I was gay because I basically decided not to pull HIS 10.
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#27
gruenfeld

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i'm just skimming through the first post and I must say this is good stuff.

btw , I think OP's username was mentioned by jeffy in the newsletters...
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Distant Light

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This is most likely the end so just linking to my journal for those newbies who somehow stumble onto this thread... Link!!!

The next saga has only begun but each day that goes by it's less about women and more about the larger picture. This was everything I knew/learnt up to this point so there isn't much else for me to really breakdown and I'm not that interested in posting cool stories for the sake of entertainment. Now I just want to dive in an indulge while walking this new path.
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Distant Light wrote:
Ambiguity: If I was coming from the perspective I have now, acting school would've been a huge success for me in terms of career, social life and sex life because back then I got so caught up with "Cold Approach Mastery". However, no regrets since I wouldn't be who I am now if it weren't for the choices I made back then. I know 100% back then I wasn't ready nor capable of producing the things I'm currently aware of now.

[/b]How goes acting school now? Is this still what you want? How is your relationship life with women, female friends, friends, family, employees, etc???

What is your motivational driving force that propells you forward? Where do you see yourself in the next year? couple of years? half decade? decade? quarter of a century? What are you trying to build for yourself or of yourself? For me, right here & now, I am looking to build myself. With that comes life style, women of course of my choosing, world travel, business, further educating myself, more life experience, doubling my income, reaching my goals, and living my dream. Its a tall task and order to to have of yourself but, its very empowering.

I see you understand that importance and the long term effects social dynamics has for propelling you to unimaginable heights. You draw on the right forces and you unlock doors to all new worlds.
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#! Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.


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Distant Light

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Ambiguity: Acting is done for the most part, (Despite doing some work in summer time) I'd only be interested in doing projects for the sake of art. I currently have no cell phone, haven't contacted any fuckbuddy in 2 months, only keep in touch with one chick, all female friend's are scattered around the world, and family doesn't relate to my lifestyle. Only thing that keeps me going is the idea of wanting to help the nightlife industry. In the next year, I should be making more than enough income and in a couple of years I'll be partying around the world on a yearly basis. Beyond that, I want to invest/partner in different restuarants and possibly nightclubs since I love them so much. It's already set that once I get my cell phone back I'll be out almost everyday for the next 10-15 years.

The guy's who I consider my mentor all live a rather lavish lifestyle and are the mover-shakers of nightlife world. I'm no longer focused on just pulling chicks, heck tonight I saw a promoter dude bring out a 9 and pull. Another promoter bumped into a girl he knew an pulled, I could've probably pulled a cutie that came out with another promoter. Another promoter who seen me around many times basically told me about all the german and swiss women he goes for. These dudes have nothing to worry about when it comes to fucking chicks because to them it's normal and there surrounded by women. We talk about these guy's having situational confidence BUT at the
sametime being out 7 days a week is there life so it really doesn't
matter because they'll be there anyway. Honestly, I could probably go in a relationship right now with an amazing chick but that isn't what I want...

Night venues are like home for me I feel very comfortable and love people who go to night venues. I know people see me an crack up at how much I enjoy going out to party because it's not the norm for someone to really love it that much. Tonight I met this chick on the street an she loved me just based off the amount of energy I had since I was hyped to be out. I never get tired of it because each day is a whole new experience.

P.S...If I somehow restarted back to acting school, I would've finished school and fly straight to LA as fast as possible that way I have no support because parents have no clue what my reality is like nor where I'm headed. I can already forsee that I won't be seeing them much in the coming years.

P.S.S...The main thing all this pickup stuff did for me was make socialzing much more easier/comfy to the point where I'd have no problem doing this 24/7. All this wouldn't be possible if I had AA or wasn't able to express my personality. I enjoy being an utter retard who has tons of social pressure on him, it's my way of having fun.
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