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Swingers, Unicorns and Lesbians - Oh My
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Day 1

Quick Background:


- Finished a bootcamp in Austin about 1 month ago with Nathan!
- Took a bootcamp with Brad a little over a year ago
- I have a bisexual girlfriend that encourages me to step up and get better with women. She loves the idea of a guy that's into self improvement and finds it hot when chicks are into me
- I'm 35 and traditionally date girls much younger, always had this limiting belief that girls close to my own age were never into me. My g/f is 31, one of the oldest I've ever dated

Swinger:

I've been in and out of the 'swinger' community for about 7 years. Some people refer to it as a lifestyle, and hey, I'm not one to criticize but that idea is a little creepy for me. I like going to the parties, I like hanging with the chill interesting people you meet and railing unicorns (single females in this lifestyle).  Whether it's a party of 30 people or 1300 people, there's a huge social aspect to the scene. Everyone seems to know someone that knows someone else. For everything I do wrong, managing the social dynamic has been my strength. I've been invited to so many chill 'vanilla' (non lifestyle) parties, bbqs, night out on the town from just networking with everyone at the events. This is where I've always shined.

My biggest problem was intention. Looking back, I realize I was always very energetic and entertaining. I'd get makeouts from cute girls but not the success I wanted. Sure, I'd stumple into a situation that would lead to some type of 3some or railing some girl in a closet / dark corner / backseat (thinking back, always avoided the bathrooms), but those were FEW and FAR between.  It's interesting, after bootcamp, I started talking to a few girls I've met at different parties. Here's something that'll shake your reality:

Girls: You were always so much fun to party with, I just couldn't ever tell if you were really interested

Now, let's rewind to my last bootcamp.

Nathan!: You need to show MORE intention


***** DING DING DING ****  I think we're seeing a pattern here.  So with girlfriend in hand, we decide to attend an 800 person swinger Halloween party in KC.

-=> Halloween Party <=-

The white stretch limo rolls up, I'm dressed as an out of work musician (so yeah, basically my normal clothes with a little 80s glam eyeliner) and she's dressed as this dope ass lady bug. The ride to the venue was extremely chill, there were already a few people already in there going to party. We were all cracking jokes, vibing.. it was a good time. I could tell my girl was still really nervous, this would be here first party. The expression 'What you feel, she feels' is amplied 3-fold when it comes to events like this... people know that the comfort level of the girl almost ALWAYS dictates the action that can take place. I get her laughing, start tickling her in the limo.. the guys are telling her how sexy she looks (thanks guys!), she starts to relax as we finally roll up the party.

Call me a dick, but I have certain standards I won't bend on. If she wants to makeout with some dude on the dance floor, fine. However, that's as far as it goes, we're here to get our full creep on and molest hot chicks. I've had this standard since the first g/f I've introduced to this scene 7 years ago and it's worked out great. Of course some couples will always give you crap about that decision, I guess I just never really cared.. it was always background noise to me.  You hop on board my reality or not, no big deal. There's soooo many other girls at these parties (I think this is where my abundance mindset was developed).

We enter the party. I'd like to sit here and tell you with all the progress I've made since bootcamp, I went in like the man. This was not the case, not one bit. The venue was bumping... there were topless girls grinding on each other in the corners, huge dance floor with jumbo tron type screens showing what was going on through the venue, crazy lights and packed. I felt paralyzed... then I felt even worse. Within 20 seconds of entering the party, I remember the feelings and thoughts:

- WOW, there's a lot going on
- I don't know a soul here
- I'm going to look like such a chode in front of my girl
- Everyone knows I'm out of my comfort zone

I haven't been to a party this large in years, I forgot how overwhelming it can feel. It felt like an enternity, but it couldn't have been more than 15 seconds. I remember MAKING the decision to work past it... so I yell out 'FUCK IT, Adventure wooooooooooooooooooooo'  (I wooo a lot, that's just what's usually going on in my head woooooooooooo fun wooooooooooo girls woooooooooooo). I throw my hands up, start high fiving as I walk through the crowd. I'm starting to feel better, and my girl mirrors the energy getting much more comfortable.. giggling, talking to girls about their cute outfits etc..   I'm still in my head a bit but it's starting to fade away. We end up at a tent area.. the music is not as loud, the vibe is much more chill and everyone is sitting around like death row. We start taking a few drinks and then the sheer madness begins.

Guys that are new to 3somes, 4somes and moresomes usually make the mistake of trying to force it. Huge beginner mistake, huge. It's about the girls, period. You get the girls comfortable, show a little intent (which is something I finally demonstrated at this party), don't freak the girl or possibly her husband out and you're golden. Anyway, we decided to do a couple tequila shots and enjoy each others company. I've been traveling so much lately, I've only seen her a few days over the last 3 weeks. We're laughing, just doing our thing... people walk by, and we pull them in. Another couple walks by 'Eh, join the party'... they come in. I'm getting better at names, so everytime a new couple is pulled in, I introduce them to the circle as if I already know them. This wasn't a tactic, it's just what I like to do. I hate awkward silences, I like introducing people like. 'Yeah, this is Jenn, she's somewhat of a tiger in bed' or whatever story I want to make up.. it's different everytime. Usually, they'll play along with whatever observation I make. Soooo... my girl keeps the circle entertained.. guys are hitting on her, girls are hitting on her (awesome) I want more people. I start isolating some of the girls, getting physical and asking who they know here. So it usually goes like this:

Girl: Blah Blah Blah (giggle)

John: (Hug) yeah, you're awesome.. hey, who else do you know here... let's meet them.

Girl: *Brings me over to her friends*

John: Me and Girl were just chatting about you freaks, what's up?

Boooom... new friends. Sometimes bringing some of them back to the circle, sometimes just chilling with them for awhile. I'd often isolate one or two of the girls from the new group and do the same thing. Now granted, the social circle is expanding/contracting all through the night. People come in, leave, come in again etc... but wow, it was getting huge.  All night long girls are coming up to me asking 'Who are you?' 'Is this your party' 'How do you know so many people'. I had an AH-HA moment.... this is what it's like to have a celebrity mindset. Going in, offering value, people seeing you with a ton of different people assuming you must be someone known.  It was soooo amazing. Meanwhile, my girl is getting freaking hot.  She keeps dragging me into corners, jumping on my cock telling me how every girl wants to fuck me. Look, I'm realist.... she's building me up, but freaking let her... I bask in the validation. ha

Lot of amazing things went down, one of the hottest was watching my girl finger blast this 9 on the dancefloor.  I was hanging with her in a corner and these group of girls came by.. introduced themselves and dragged her to the dancefloor. I didn't follow... this was her jam. I so many guys being lead by their girls at these events, and to me, it just says all the wrong things. (Funny, makes perfect sense to me here and yet I'm still a wanker when it comes to leading in non lifestyle clubs... lessons to be learned!) Anyway, about 3 songs go by, I'm chilling with new friends and decide to pull this chick to the dancefloor. I ABSOLUTELY HATE the dancefloor... I avoid it like the plague because I feel like an idiot. Ok, that was my old minset, tonight was 'Woooo... let's dance'. So we're dancing, I mean.. this chick is dancing, I'm basically bouncing left and right (just enough to look like I kinda get the jam). She was hot. Solid 8, little miss muffet costume, freaking loving it. At the corner of my eye, I see my girl on the dance floor making out with this gorgeous chick in a punky brewester looking outfit. Both girls tits are exposed, my girl's hands are up this girls skirt. So freaking amazing. Now both girls notice me and they start putting on a little show. I'm getting turned on, the chick I'm grinding with has her hands down my pants, I'm pulling on her hair... hell yeah.

I did get blown out now and then, but

1. I can't really remember
2. It's usually just the chicks running off (people are usually cautious because of the social circle aspect.. you might be friends with their good friends and that could affect they're chances to hookup later)
3. See #1. I don't remember.. it was like 'That's cool, I'm sure I'll bump into them later'.  Running away just means they had to pee in my mind...  

There were a lot of off the wall crazy things going down, but I want to focus on the decision I made. We got really hot and heavy with 3 different girls. I could tell my girl was into it but was also grabbing on to me... more than usual. This is expected, I haven't seen her ass that much in the past month. So after we played around with the first girl that said something like 'Hey, find me in awhile, there's a few private rooms up front', I told my girl 'This is fun, but it's you and me tonight'. She jumped in my arms (wasn't ready, almost knocked me over) starting kissing me and whispered thank you. I could she didn't mind all playing but ultimately, she wanted me alone at the end of the night. I completely understand and happy to do it.   I've learned over the years in this scene (almost second nature) if you don't pay attention to the signals your girl gives you, it's ultimately just going to hurt you.

We hop in the limo and head back to the hotel. We're underwinding a bit, cuddling, looking through my cellphone. I have so many freaking numbers from the party, there's no way I'm going to remember most of them. No worries. Thanks to Two Step's field report for the 'put it in (as he hands the girl the cellphone'). That is my new default for numbers, it's so congruent with my personality. I know they want to hang, so just put it in.  On the ride home, my girl mentions if I want to invite one of the girls back with us, she wouldn't mind. I told her 'nope, I told you already, it's you and me tonight'. She tackles me in the limo and fade to black.

On the ride home yesterday, she couldn't stop talking about how she never had this much fun in her life going out.   So basically I got to party with a lot of chill dudes, get molested all night by chicks in hot costumes and my gf feels closer to me because I pounded the hell out of her only. Does life get any better? We'll find out.

-End-

Upcoming: We start hitting lesbian clubs and trying to work on more 3somes.
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Pro material. A rough blueprint of how I like to go out.  Doin' me proud brotha.
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<< Note: Shell is from my 30 day challenge if you're interested in the background >>

Event 2 - Fri November 5th


Sorry for the delay guys. Ever since I got back from TN, I've been putting in 14-18 hours a day of work. I'm by no means complaining, the ability to set your own schedule and do whatever the #@$#@$ you want is amazing, but it doesn't come without sacrifice. I'm either partying or busting my butt doing whatever is necessary to have the freedom to party. :)  My girl tells me I'm 'all or nothing, not much grey area'. I tend to agree.

First and foremost, huge shout out to Nathan! The development I've seen over the last month and half is nothing short of scary. Even my girl is riding my jock about 'another bootcamp'. She can't get over how I've stepped up in so many areas of my life. I feel like I've made 'some' improvement, but to have someone you care about tell you 'you are the man, look at these girls, everyone wants to fk you and you're with me' is priceless. Ok, onto the adventure at hand.

So I drove 12 hours to see my friend Shelly again. This is an interesting situation because she's just this incredibly dope ass girl who I have amazing chemistry with... I mean, we are like a crazy perverted comic book when we're together. So I arrive at her place about 5pm... she jumps into my arms, we kiss a bit and we chat a bit. Props to Hotseat for showing me how natural it is to not only pick chicks up, but hold a conversation like it's not even happening. I love girls eyes when you talk to them as you hold them off the floor, it's addicting. She tells me she still can't get over how I can drive all day and be ready to party. Again, Hotseat helped in this regard. Tyler said something about how we convince ourselves we're tired... it's almost patterned. I've always been really energetic, but now it's going through the roof. Before I pulled into her driveway, I cranked up some old school Bon Jovi. Hells yeah!! Started with the hands flying in the air, belting out the lyrics... I felt the energy level rise again and BOOOM, ready to party. I'm a machine... I'm out there for less than 2 days, I'm making every moment count.

So about an hour later, one of her best friends arrive, we'll call this chick SluttyTopanga (( Drama: This is the bathroom chick ))


Before Shell could introduce us, I gave her a big hug and started tickling her. Until recently, I wasn't sure why I did things like this right off the bat. Nathan! gave me a bit of insight into my actions. I screen for playfulness and bisexuality receptiveness almost immediately. So after tickling her for a few minutes, I ask how they met etc.. I remember saying like 'Doesn't Shell look freaking smoking in that tight black dress' and she responded with 'Oh yeah, I like'. Booom... I like her from the start.


So we head out to this bar which is basically full of 30 dudes and 5 girls. Oh yeah!! That's 5 girls that haven't met my ass yet, let's make the best of it. So I grab Shell's hand, she grabs SluttyTopanga and we make a quick walk around the bar doing quick hellos. I'll introduce the girls or just high-five... whatever. In my mind I'm thinking 'It's going to be an amazing night, so many new friends to drag into the party'. This has been a huge shift in my thinking, something Drama and I were talking about just the other day. I use to absolutely hate bars/clubs (social circle and swinger scene has always been my bread and butter) but now, not so much. It's like
a large social circle.. everyone just doesn't know it. I'm going to make it happen... that's my fun. I like introducing people, I like making new friends and laughing my ass off. The girls are really secondary at this point. I'm getting laid regardless, no stress.


After making rounds, we finally find a table. I order a pitcher of beer and here we go. SluttyT is giving me the eyes while Shell is a bit distant. She's smiling, flirting with the guys next to us, but I can tell that SluttyT's attention on me bothers her a bit. Screw it.. I'm not here to babysit. So I start talking to S.T. about the most random topics.. but making great eye contact. Nathan! told me that there's so much that's overlooked with eye contact, I get it now. At least I get the basic idea behind it. As I moved in closer, she get saying 'Alright, stop with the bedroom eyes' and 'You're not going to kiss me'. I smiled and get yapping about (trying to remember) yodles and hohos.. complete random until I'm about 2 inches from her mouth. I look in her eyes, she's slightly giggling and then we start to make out. Shell looks over and goes "WOE!!!!!". I look at her and say 'I'm sorry'. I pull her in and start kissing on her while holding S.T's hand.


What I forgot to mention is we had 3 guys sitting at the table with us that I pulled from our initial rounds. Maybe this isn't 'good' game, but I like low energy dudes at the table with me. If I get bored with the girls, I have some guys to shoot the shit with... Guys, girls... whatever, it's a party.. it's always a party. So anyway, these guys faces drop as I'm molesting both girls. I stop... pour myself a beer and start some conversation about music. Completely ignored the girls (wasn't a tactic, I was just ready to move on). So as I'm talking Shell is whispering in my ear how hot that was... and S.T. is starting to grab my cock under the table. Ok, time to meet new people.


First girl walks by, I grab her to pull her in (I really suck at this, but working on it) and she says 'Fuck you'. I think I grabbed her wrist too weak... it wasn't 100 percent belief and maybe she knew it. I didn't care.. not in the least. I said 'But I lovvvvve you' (Thanks Drama). She still walked away but looked back and was smiling shaking her head. It was funny.. the table is giving me crap and I'm taking it with a smile.. I can be humble. I get up, grab Shell's hand and we approach a mixed set. 2 guys and 1 girl. I immediately introduce the guys to 'Hot Shell' and I start chatting with the chick. I hugged on her a bit, tickled her .. moved her a few feet away from the guys. So yeah! Improvement. It didn't go anywhere, but it was fun.


So I get back to the table, stand on my chair and say 'eh eh eh... a toast to new friends and loose (cough) I mean fun women.. Cheers'. Dudes throw their glasses up... people around us are laughing and we start meeting a ton of people. I swear, as I sit there trying to enjoy my beer people are stopping by to say hi. So I pull them into the circle, tell them to drag their friends over... and we move some tables and chairs. Fun freaking times...


S.T. is now pulling on me constantly trying to get my attention, Shell is playing her normal 'I'm into you but not going to show it' jam. I like that about her. Wait, I don't know.. on one hand, I respect it and on the other I want my freaking validation. She's not one to give a lot of that... at all. No worries... Day 2 (next report) I had her jumping on me all night. So both girls are starting to get liquored up and I decide it's time to go home. This is where it got crazy. We're on the porch and I'm flirting with both of them.. it's going so natural and run off to take a piss. When I come back outside SluttyTopanga is like 'Shell and I have been talking, and we both know the situation, you're going to fuck both of us. So who's first?'. She doesn't appear to be drunk but definitely lit up a bit. Before I can say a word Shell says 'We have NOT been talking about that'. So I'm at a loss here. New situation, I'm in my head. I say something like 'You girls figure it out, and go grab a beer from the kitchen'. Looking back, maybe not the best thing to say.. I should have maybe grabbed them both and tried to pull to the bedroom. I don't know... feedback would be appreciated.


The night goes on and then it takes a turn for the crazy. SluttyT starts getting really drunk and really handsy with me. It's too much, I'm getting annoyed. I know what she's doing, she's being a cockblock... saying crap like 'You two are so cute together, I bet you can't wait to fuck her huh?'. I don't remember what I said but it wasn't smooth... I could tell Shell is getting uncomfortable and I'm losing state quickly. I head into the house, S.T. comes in and throws me into the bathroom. She starts kissing on me and grabbing my crotch. She looked good, but I was annoyed and wasn't feeling it. She jumps in front of the bathroom door and says 'No, this is going down right now... drop your pants'. I'm kissing her trying to get out of the bathroom and she's whipped out her tits (very nice!) and putting my hand up her skirt. I'm telling her, I have to go, I have to go. I want to fk Shell tonight and I can tell this was not going to help matters, plus she annoyed me earlier (I know, I'm being a bitch) and rather go chill with my friend. So this goes on for what seemed like forever and then she busts out in tears. WTF. She's like 'Just fuck me, real quick...'. I hold her a bit, we talk and then we get out of the bathroom.


I tell Shell I'm not feeling it and said I was headed home early. I pack up my crap, and tossed it in the car. She jumps in the car, tells me not to go.. she'll get rid of her friend and it'll be us. Fade to black.


Night 2 we go out without Topanga and drag along her chodey neighbor 66Mustang (his car is mint condition). This is where I learned a ton. To be continued.


What I worked on that night:

- Standards
- Coming in high energy but moving more to a chill state
- Slowing my speech down
- Eye piercing eye contacgt
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How do you get into the swinger circle? Is it filled with old peoplelike in bruno? It sounds fun
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Hey bro, thanks for reading. In the next few days, I plan to do a write-up on this exact topic. There's a mix of chicks ages 21 - 60. It's an interesting dynamic... can't wait to write about it!
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How do you get into the swinger circle? Is it filled with old peoplelike in bruno? It sounds fun
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Overall Goals

1. Working Out

I'm at Day 5 of my new workout and I'm freaking loving every minute of it. Ever since I stopped MMA last summer, I let myself go. I'm back babieee. I want to start mma training again, but I know I'm still 2 months away from intense workout/diet before I can even handle the sessions. Awesome, I'm counting down.. 55 days left and I'm back on the punching bags!

2. Diet

I'm not sure what happened here. Up until last summer, I've always ate healthy. It doesn't matter, what matters is what I do today. I've started cooking meals for the next day and it's working out great. I live a really hectic life and if I don't plan for eatting right, it's not going to happen. I'm sitting here at San Fran Oven munching on a chicken breast, strawberry, oranage, walnut salad right now. In just the last week, my energy has been going through the roof.

3. Speech

I'm making an effort to slow it down. I already talk at a New Yorker pace, when I start getting excited, double that speed. I've noticed a huge difference just this weekend at the bars. Not only slowing it down in general, but REALLY slowing it down when making that piercing eye contact with a unicorn. I have a LONG WAY to go, but I'm seeing the improvement.

4. Romance Novel

Yeah bitches, it's a Nathan! challange and I'm really enjoying it. Blows my mind the kind of details that really gets chicks going... I put some of it to the test last night. I was texting SluttyTopanga last night, and trying to be much more vivid and detailed. She was loving it, saying things like 'Why don't other guys talk like this'. haha Ok, there's obviously something here. The novel also has some bondage/domination tones which I dig in my everyday life anyway.

5. Dancing

After hitting St. Louis with Drama a few weeks ago, I realize how much I'm missing out not being able to dance. I'm spending 30 minutes a day learning club dancing. It's fun and also adds to my cardio.. hell yeah, it's on.

6. Tan/Teeth Whiting

While I'm not that white to begin with, a nice tan and teeth whitening never hurts.

7. Loving Life

It's just getting better and better. I'm enjoying the process and look forward to seeing where I end up tomorrow.
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Event 3 - November 6th - TN

[ Midway through the night I noticed this stunning readhead talking to this dude at the bar. Shell turns at me and says something like 'Wow, she's cute'. Before she can finish the word cute, I say bye and I'm approaching the set. As I walk up I hear the girl say, 'I'm 100% irish' so I roll up to the guy, while looking at the girl and say 'She's full of shit, she's 1/2 Italian'. She starts getting playful upset saying she's 100% Irish, she's 100% Irish. So I pick her up, look her in the eye (smiling) and tell her she's about to have some Italian in her. I carry her off, I look up to see her waving at the dude. WOWWWWWW, I don't know what came over me that night. The interaction didn't go far after some making out, but still... that one made my night. Anyway, let's start at the beginning ]

Sat Night... here we go

**** To be continued - Off on another roadtirp ****
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I'm sure I'm beating Nathan! to the punch here, but check out the Paleo Diet. This diet is so awesome...as you're only eating the food that our early early ancestors ate, and what our body is primatively designed to eat. I lost a bunch of weight from it, and also have much more mental clarity.
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Thanks bro, checking into it right now.
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I'm sure I'm beating Nathan! to the punch here, but check out the Paleo Diet. This diet is so awesome...as you're only eating the food that our early early ancestors ate, and what our body is primatively designed to eat. I lost a bunch of weight from it, and also have much more mental clarity.
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My Life is about to change... again.

I received an interesting email this morning. There's this exclusive (yeah, hate using the word but it is what it is) swinger/lifestyle group within an hour from where I'm staying. Basically, it's a group of the hottest couples in the 4 state area. I've known about the group for awhile but could never seem to make the right contacts. It's a weird deal... 2 couples need to refer you, one couple needs to sponsor you and then there's a committee that has to vote you in. Yeah, sounds lame but I understand why it's like that. Spend a month in this scene and you'll learn real quickly there's a huge social dynamic at play. The last thing hot girls want is old couples perving on them at 'dances'. Anyway.. here's the kick. Apparently, I met all these guys on the committee at the Kansas City Halloween Party I mentioned to start this thread. I vaguely remember them... we met a lot of people that night. 

So from the email I JUST got, I approached their table with Colee on my back. I said something like 'New friends, Colee, meet new friends, I'm off to find more people'. So I toss her off my back into the booth and run off. haha That sounds about right, it was an insane night. Anyway, they were interested and asked some mutual friends about us... Boom, we get fast tracked and approved. There's at least 8 chicks that I personally know of that I want (and will) to rail.  This is a major part to my game that's now just blown the fk up since bootcamp. I like being social, I like meeting interesting people and good things happen. Anyway, I'm still stunned this all went down.

The group just met last week. A few of girls are strippers (don't judge ha) so they rented out 2 rooms and have their private party. I can't wait to find out more details about how this all goes down.. there's really not a lot known publicy. Adventure babiee, I'm so ready. My girl is also pumped, she likes the idea of better venues and hotter girls. I'd be lying if I didn't say I was a little nervous. These girls are MUCH hotter than what I'm use to... still trying to internalize I deserve this level. Anyway, Pics will follow... :)
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Join Date: 03/31/2009 | Posts: 442

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Nathan! "Get out of your own way, let the training work"

So much is happening so fast, apparently my belief system hasn't caught up to the results. I think I put up a 'decent' front but if I get to the core of it, I still believe a lot of my results have been lucky, situational or some combination of the two. Ugh, it's a complete mindfuck.

Ive literally spent the last 8 hours running this through my mind. It's all in my head, I'm fighting the urge to self sabotage. Anyone go through this? What I realize and apparently need to remind myself daily is one unmistakeable truth. This is not luck, this is by deliberate design.

I've spent the last few years traveling the world on a shoestring budget, sleeping on dirt floors, working on confidence, being engaged in different social groups, public speaking, developing small businesses that would allow me to have control, putting myself in tough situations to see what adventure can come of it, not giving a fk what people think, getting rid of my tv, taking bootcamps and implementing what is taught... blah blah I need to stop being a an realize this is me now. I'm not secretly tricking people, I am a guy on his path and loving the journey.
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