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December 6th, 2016
THE COLLEGE SHIT (PICS INCLUDED)
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TheCollegeDude

TheCollegeDude

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Join Date: 10/27/2010 | Posts: 12

 Into 2nd year now. 

1ST YEAR SUCKED. yes, it sucked. I formed a social circle which had no girls, which wasn't mixed, and all the guys were serious chodes who didn't know how to talk to girls.

i am a month into 2nd year now, but i still haven't met one girl who'd id rank as hot, as classy, as the one i want to know and want to have fun with. i know what to do, but knowing and doing are 2 different things. i want to post everything i do in here daily so that i get that sense of motivation to post some good news in here. 

i won't really talk about my 1st year, because it seriously sucked.

i am a month into 2nd year, and to be honest its only gone a little bit better, i know i can do so much better, my uni IS HUGE, really fucking huge, i get so many opportunities to meet new people everyday, yet i just stare at them in the eye, and walk away. 

you know what? my goal aint event to get laid, its just to meet and hang out with hot bitches, fun guys, and also people who study, because i want to study with them and get my gpa up this year (yeah, my gpa sucked too in freshman).

So now, as i write this up, Im gonna hit the shower, get ready and hit the library. I do want to study a bit because i have nothing better to do, but i will see how it goes with social interactions. 

FUCK YEAH, LETS DO THIS SHIT, IT STARTS NOW :D 

will post when im done through the day.
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TheCollegeDude

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IN THE LIBRARY: MET 1 HB - GOT HER NUMBER AND FACEBOOK

Didn't do much today, went to the library like i said but i did approach a girl who was sitting by herself :) My friend had pointed to her before and told me she was cute, so I told him I'll go sit beside her and fuckin do this. I approached, I talked to her for a while, it was a normal convo though, nothing too fancy, I told her I am promoting events this halloween so she should come, and then asked for her contact info, she was chill-studying. (not really focussed, just studying less and looking around more). 

I would call her an undercover slut, because she said she drinks and parties a lot. wait, an undercover doesnt mean she sleeps everywhere, its a term I use to call girls who dress like normal girls but once you open them up you find out they are just as dtf as you are. 

So yeah, day ended with 1 approach, I felt good though, it feels good to get it going :) Will post events tomorrow, got a halloween college party tomorrow!
HB LIBRARY




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TheCollegeDude

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 Haven't posted lately because it was Halloween and it was my Birthday :D 

I've become a Club promoter ... thats some sick shit, helps me meet and interact with people all the time :)

I have a huge f*ckin issue atm: I can't build comfort/rapport/blah blah whatever u wanna call it. i meet girls, i cant close well enough, i cant keep it interesting. 

Is there some good article/read/video/tip around here thatll help me sound more interesting/fun?
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Connor

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Hey dude, I love the journal so far. I'm a freshman in college myself in a higher population university. Glory times await! 

" I can't build comfort/rapport/blah blah whatever u wanna call it. i meet girls, i cant close well enough, i cant keep it interesting."

I had a similar problem. It's not that you aren't keeping it interesting. Basically by trying to "keep it interesting" you unnecessarily put too much importance in the interaction. In other words: By TRYING to "keep it interesting" you fuck up the interaction. You don't try when you talk to girls.

At least the way I think of it, it's like: do you REALLY want to have a conversation about the weather/politics/schoolwork with the cute girl you just met? No, you want to make out with her or lead her to a place where you can hook up with her. The girl can detect that you are on some level being inauthentic when you communicate by not acting like you would naturally act.

Read these articles, they helped me out a lot:
http://www.rsdnation.com/brad/blog/million-dollar-mouthpiece-never-run-o...
http://www.bradbranson.com/how-to-talk-to-a-girl/

Also know you don't need articles to sound more interesting/fun. If you are 19-20 years old, you ARE INTERESTING/FUN. I can just tell that you think you need "more comfort/rapport" with the girl. To be honest, most girls I've hooked up with need a lot less comfort/rapport than you think. Thinking you need more comfort-rapport seems like it's coming from the place of "this girl is higher value than me; I need to show her that I'm a cool enough person for her."

Also: LEAD. If you are not leading the interaction at all moments, the interaction is going to be SHIT.

Good luck man!
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TheCollegeDude

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lol
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TheCollegeDude

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 had a jokes day today. 

went grocery shopping and studied all day, flirted with the cashier, she was pretty interested. 

me: I hope you take debit, i dont really like holding cash on me, feels heavy you know? 
her: *big lol* haha yeah ... i understand ... yes we do have debit 
me: how much do you think my totals gonna be? i eat a lot these days 
her: haha it should be around blah blah 

i keep talking, ask her if she goes to college shit, and if she wanted to be something else what would she wanna be etc etc ... 

got her number 
me: btw im college dude
her: im hb grocery 
me: so if theres a huge line here i can just jump to you and checkout fast yeah? 
her: ofcourse, just let me know your coming haha *oh yeah* 
me: great, give me your number, i also promote parties around here, you look like youd party on weekends haha
her: ofcourse! *fucking receptive* hopefully you can sneak me in or buy me shots eh haha
me: only if you say please haha ... ofcourse ... see you around ... ill text you about this party next week 
her: byes :) 

so yeah, she was really cute though, i mean shes one of those adorable girls who youd like to chill with all day :D

going to uni tomorrow, lets see how shit goes 

oh and btw golden tip:  if ur one of those who needs a part time job in college, needs help socialising then become a fucking promoter, ive seen major changes in my life since i became one, i get numbers in and out, im forced to socialise because if i didnt i wouldnt get paid, so in the beginning you gotta force yourself to socialise and then it become a natural thing. trust me, getting paid to party is a great way to go. lataa 
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HPRJ

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TheCollegeDude wrote:
 Haven't posted lately because it was Halloween and it was my Birthday :D 

I've become a Club promoter ... thats some sick shit, helps me meet and interact with people all the time :)

I have a huge f*ckin issue atm: I can't build comfort/rapport/blah blah whatever u wanna call it. i meet girls, i cant close well enough, i cant keep it interesting. 

Is there some good article/read/video/tip around here thatll help me sound more interesting/fun?
In regards to the whole "can't build comfort/rapport/blah blah comment.

The only point in building comfort is to let the girl know she's just not some girl you want to fuck. Women want to receive validation from having sex with you and the only way they will is if they know/feel that you chosen them because they are a special snowflake/most interesting girl at the venue/fucking awesome. With this, most LMR issues go out of the window along with shit tests throughout the process of the pull. Men get validation from fucking hott girls all the time, why? Because she's a hott girl and could have fucked ANY guy at the venue but chose to fuck you. See the parallel's?

Look at your past interactions with women and ask yourself if you've made her feel like you chose her for reasons other then her looks and the fact that she has a vagina. 

I'll try to help more if you go into detail about this sticking point.

Hope this helped somewhat! Keep it up, you're moving in the right direction

P.S. What an original thread name. Hahaha I keep thinking its mine at first glance
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TheCollegeDude

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Quote:
P.S. What an original thread name. Hahaha I keep thinking its mine at first glance


I could swear I didn't think of your threads title when writing mine haha. But yeah I did read your shit buddy, thats some really good college game, will keep reading 

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HPRJ wrote:

TheCollegeDude wrote:
 Haven't posted lately because it was Halloween and it was my Birthday :D 

I've become a Club promoter ... thats some sick shit, helps me meet and interact with people all the time :)

I have a huge f*ckin issue atm: I can't build comfort/rapport/blah blah whatever u wanna call it. i meet girls, i cant close well enough, i cant keep it interesting. 

Is there some good article/read/video/tip around here thatll help me sound more interesting/fun?
In regards to the whole "can't build comfort/rapport/blah blah comment.

The only point in building comfort is to let the girl know she's just not some girl you want to fuck. Women want to receive validation from having sex with you and the only way they will is if they know/feel that you chosen them because they are a special snowflake/most interesting girl at the venue/fucking awesome. With this, most LMR issues go out of the window along with shit tests throughout the process of the pull. Men get validation from fucking hott girls all the time, why? Because she's a hott girl and could have fucked ANY guy at the venue but chose to fuck you. See the parallel's?

Look at your past interactions with women and ask yourself if you've made her feel like you chose her for reasons other then her looks and the fact that she has a vagina. 

I'll try to help more if you go into detail about this sticking point.

Hope this helped somewhat! Keep it up, you're moving in the right direction



The basic idea of my weakness is the lack of comfort/validation which would want women calling me back. What I've been doing for a while now is approaching --> closing ---> fucking ---> NO CALL BACK, NO CONTACT AT ALL.

There are some girls I'd like to chill with at college, and I wouldnt blame them for not calling me back, I just have this sense of *Meet-Fuck-ByeBye* in me, it CLEARLY shows somehow, girls can easily pick that shit up. 

UPDATE: will post an update now, to one of the most out-of-comfort approaches ive done, literally, felt so fucking weird doing it, but it somehow worked. ill post that shit up now
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TheCollegeDude

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 HB Street Walk (First Attempt)

Chilling outdoors on a busy afternoon in campus. People walking up and down all around. 

Im walking towards my building, I see this really beautiful hb walking in the opposite direction (towards me) but on a different path, I've never done this before (stop a girl walking towards me and talk)

But i'm like fuck it, this girl seems really friendly, and wtf do i have to lose? (but i still don't stop her lol, she passes by). But I follow behind. 

*up close behind her*

me: heyy
her: *turns around and gives me the wtf face, at this point im really tense cuz i havent done this shit before and the pressures mounting* 
me: i like your heels where'd you get em from? *lol heels, i did like her heels though, i dont bullshit-compliment, im always honest when it comes to complimenting*
her: hah *serious wtf face, now i feel really fucked* thanks :) i got them from blah blah
me: haha you know its not that im weird i just noticed you're wearing heels when every girl out here is in boots!! hahaha *i believe i pulled this off well, i noticed no ones wearing heels, so i throw some fun at her*
her: *BIG LOL, yes, now i feel good* naahh i just love wearing heels hahah
me: yeah you're already telling everyone that you're gonna party hard after class is over eh?? *i kinda ignored her love for heels, but whatever, i kept going smooth*
her: noo what party its like only 2 pm right now haha 
me: so you just wanna stand out yeah tell everyone your the shit !!! hahaha
her: *ANOTHER BIG LOL, i like this girl she knows im a chill guy now* yeahh well i kinda amm
me: you dont sound like one haha im only joking mrs. stilleto
her: haha no my names hb street 
me: and you are the shit !!! :D *didnt say my name*
her: hahahahaha ... whats yours? 
me: im college dude, you're prolly never gonna forget me hahah 
her: yeah prolly not ... so you headed to class? *lol shes asking me, i feel like i own thiis convo now* 
me: nah im just here checking on peoples feet, other than that if i ever have time ill hit the gym soon, you look like you workout or are you one of those who just doesnt need to.
her: i am the shit i dont need to hahaha !! but yeah i do haha *oh yeah, she keeps going to our main convo points and i like that*
me: oh yeah ofcourse, anyways, ima bounce now ... i live quite close to campus, let me know if your around well chill and share more awesome stories on how we are the shit yeah haha. 
her: haha
me: so yeah shud i .. *take my phone out* ... ta
her: yeahh ofcourse! *ahhh that just gave me chills lol, shes too nice, i didnt even have to ask. 

she puts her number in. i text her immediately saying *hey Hb McHeely, see ya around* and she replied with *hahaha enjoy gym :)* i didn't reply yet but will soon and update. I don't mind if i dont bang this girl shes so chill ;).

One thing i've seriously realized today is that COLLEGE IS GOD DAMN EASY. Some of us don't even notice how easy it is. 
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BROner

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Good shit up in here. I can't wait to get to college, where most of the social limits are OFF! I know chicks that in high school were the more upkept and unrevealing kind, and now that they're in college, I say pics of them in fucking panties, corsets, and bunny ears.

Enjoy the college years, a lot of people say they're the best years of your life- make it come true! :-)
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TheCollegeDude

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 not much hapenning these days just been busy like shit with studies :/

starting p90x tomorrow, need a sexy body for college. yeah its a good bonus with girls but it also helps you feel good, trust me. the days i dont gym i feel kinda low and down, but the days i gym i feel like opening every damn set/approaching every living thing. 

i dont know about you, but yeah, a golden tip from me personally is HIT THE DAMN GYM, for girls if thats your motivation. 
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