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May 18th, 2013
Girl says she has a boyfriend (Texting)
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furyx

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Join Date: 04/05/2010 | Posts: 272

I met this girl at a party and I gamed her while her boyfriend was at the same party (he's a chode) there and she seemed really into me. (She never knew that I knew who her BF was)

I teased her hella and eventually got her #

We have been texting each other a lot. I'd flirt with her and stuff.. Role play her in random funny shit. Send her random text messages all the time.

She replies back saying "hella random" "what?? -___-" "LOL wtf?? " but I ignore it and flirt with her more.

She has said stupid stuff before to change the topic when I tried to plan to get a day2 with her but I know she's
still interested in me. She would text sometimes how she's hella bored at work and stuff and I would just flirt with her more...

Then I tried to arrange a day2 with her again but FINALLY she tells me she has a BF...

What should I text her back?
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TableDance

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"So 8:00 then?"  Or whatever time you were planning.  Pretty much ignore that she has a boyfriend... Not to ignore it, but to show it is a non-issue to you (assuming that it is).  Personally if she persists I would say something like "Well let me know when he lets you off of your leash and you are allowed to come play"  Then I wouldn't respond again until she is going to go out.  Yeah it's a little abrasive and kinda risky, but it also shows it's no big deal to you and that you think she should be free to have fun (good to get her thinking this way too).  Also if you spend more than 30 sec coming up with your text you are taking to long and trying to hard.
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TableDance wrote:
"So 8:00 then?"  Or whatever time you were planning.  Pretty much ignore that she has a boyfriend... Not to ignore it, but to show it is a non-issue to you (assuming that it is).  Personally if she persists I would say something like "Well let me know when he lets you off of your leash and you are allowed to come play"  Then I wouldn't respond again until she is going to go out.  Yeah it's a little abrasive and kinda risky, but it also shows it's no big deal to you and that you think she should be free to have fun (good to get her thinking this way too).  Also if you spend more than 30 sec coming up with your text you are taking to long and trying to hard.
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nestea

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TableDance wrote:
"So 8:00 then?"  Or whatever time you were planning.  Pretty much ignore that she has a boyfriend... Not to ignore it, but to show it is a non-issue to you (assuming that it is).  Personally if she persists I would say something like "Well let me know when he lets you off of your leash and you are allowed to come play"  Then I wouldn't respond again until she is going to go out.  Yeah it's a little abrasive and kinda risky, but it also shows it's no big deal to you and that you think she should be free to have fun (good to get her thinking this way too).  Also if you spend more than 30 sec coming up with your text you are taking to long and trying to hard.
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nerdmack

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Join Date: 09/10/2010 | Posts: 846

She's interested enough or she would have shut down the interaction/not given you her number.
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Madison*

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Join Date: 07/07/2008 | Posts: 3168

im sorry . i jsut have to say all this advice sucks.
why are you chasing a girl with a BF
i get neumbers of girls that have BF's every night i go out. seriously
get of her... she sue text back when she is board. she likes the attention
but its gonna be to much owrk for what its worth.
unless she actuly comes to meet up. cause you already flirt, so she knows you will fuck her
i say just move on . less energy
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