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Lateralus wrote:
How often are your sets hooking? 
Probably not as often as I'd like. 
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 Sunday December 18, 2011

Did some day game for a little bit with superman. I fucking hate day game these days, I did some approaches but they were pretty dumb.

Went out for a little while for NG, I did a few brief approaches, felt weird. 
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dave7 wrote:

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Anyway I'm wondering about this shit for you because it sounds like you're not having a lot of fun.  It seems like the "fun" you have is dependent on whether you have good opens etc.  Would you say this is true?  If so what are the ways you can almost always go out and have fun regardless of your results?  If its not the case then I'm wondering whats creating these bad nights for you?



I don't know what it is really, maybe pain-body shit? I have some other theories but that's related to nutrition which I don't discuss here. Maybe it's the dip before another new plateau? Hopefully that. I have fun when I feel good, and when I feel anxiety and hurried thinking then it sucks. I usually have good approaches, openers, and interactions when I am feeling decent, and when I feel shitty it usually goes pretty bad. Maybe this is just how it is at my level going out every night. 

I have no idea how to almost guarantee I will always have fun. That's a good question though. I'll think about that, but on one hand this is probably a question I've struggled with for years and years and years. 
Yo Dave,

I was super butthurt today. I got flaked on by this girl I actually liked. My wing came out and said I was super sad and shit and its not fun to hang around me when Im like that. LOL. butthurt sad me (me) did like 5 approaches. Fully destroyed.

This game is not that fun for me alot of times. I talked about that with my wing today, how to have more fun in my life. Didn't figure anything out, I too have been looking at this for a while now.

Oh well I will keep going out everyday!! YA 7 DAYS A WEEK PIMPING
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My adventures in Dallas - 2013
 My adventures in Austin - 2012  
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com 
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Dude has pulled all types of older women.
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 roadrally, 
yes man we have thesame attitude basically. Rage nonetheless regardless despite of for the sake of no matter what in perptuity. 
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Phred! wrote:
Great cheap ebook dating and hooking up with cougars.....www.cougarmanifesto.com

Dude has pulled all types of older women.
Sweet Phred!! 
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Monday December 19, 2011



Ok dudes. First I did day game with superman, we did some mall game, to mix it up b/c normal dupont circle spots get soo soo old. I haven't done mall game since last year basically. We got to the first mall north of DC, it was ok but not really that many hot chicks or that many people. I think I did like 10 approaches, pretty basic ones. Still feeling the dip though but just trying to keep doin it, doin it. We get to another mall which was much better, more people and girls and ladies and elderlies and just a better atmosphere. We did some approaches here and there, I'm still feeling that "daygame fucken sucks cock balls". I do like 10 approaches or something. Then I go into a banana republic I think  and do an approach. I do it quick just to do an approach and I get reminded of how I used to game a year ago, just do an approach which means to just open and that was my only goal. I'm like shit, I'm not feeling like a pimp why don't I just kick it old school for today day game, it doesn't matter if I don't try to get any results right now, it's only one day. Fuck it fuck it fuck it. 

So then I get an idea. I will just go from store to store and do one approach in each store, and move on down the line not missing a store. I am on the second level and this is a very large mall. I don't have all day we were gonna game for another 2 hours or so I think at that point. So I proceed to do my gameplan. These approaches were just standard anything openers. Store clerks do not count, it must be a female stranger non-worker. Doesn't matter how old, young, or hot or ugly. Many approaches were old ladies "hey I like your scarf you have style". It was revealing, I was literally spreading the love, the old ladies loved that shit. And basically every girl felt good because I would say "hey how's it goin" or "i like this store" or "what is your favorite store here". I did this gameplan for like 2 hours until we had to go, I'd say I got about 2/3 of the upper level done, approached female in 2/3 of those stores not including the food court. I felt pretty amazing even though I didn't go for any numbers or insta dates or anything. 

If there were no stranger females in a store I would have to wait outside the entrance of it and approach a girl who walked by, the move on. This was actually very good to do, it has structured rules but is very simple and easy to do. You just go in and out and have to think on your feet, b/c you just want to approach the first female you see to take the opportunity so you can move to the next store. I started getting more witty and sayin shit that I wasn't expecting. It made my brain feel good. I think I did like 50 day game mall approaches. I may or may not do a variation of this game again sometime in the near future if I feel that it is needed. 

We did some more approaches later on in the evening, after we checked out a model shoot/party location that is epic at this girl's apartment complex that superman knows.

Then i went home and ate food and rested, my legs were tired maximum. 

Went to some kind of happy hour at Lima about 9:45pm, did a few approaches. Then almost decided to call it a night but I decided to just do some NG a littler earlier tonight just b/c why not? It wasn't later at all. 

Went to blackjack and waitress recognizes me and basically opens me, I get her name and shit. Holla. 

Go up to marvin's. Lots 'o people on mondays, mostly gangster types. Do some approaches. During NG I still decided to just have only goal to open and then my mission was complete in the interaction. This one girl I met her, and then I was satisfied: she got interested in me, see how that works? I was understanding a different way of looking at interacting with women tonite. I would just open chicks and then I wouldn't try anymore. THis made me see how I would normally just try hard and try to keep the interaction going and try to generate attraction and just kinda be desperate even if it was subtle, and this is actually stressful even if subtle. Make sense? The girl was with a dude, and they went to another part of the bar, I stopped the girl and told her we should hang out later, she was all interested and shit, it didn't work out but it was good. 

Talked to girl/guy combo on street. 

Went back to bar near my place to check out the last chance for love. Just chillin there with some good music, meet a lady say what's up. Then I'm done tryin. She is intrigued. She kinda just keeps coming over. I tell her "ok let's go I live right next door". She does some other shit and I say "ok just come to my roof real fast, see the view". She asks "are you a serial killer?" I say yes I am, nod. She says "so you want to go to the roof real fast and makeout?" I say yes. I pull her to the roof, and makeout for a while feelin her boobs and shit. Then I pull her to my apartment, tell her jsut wanna show her real fast. Makeout in apartment, and she says she HAS to go help her friends pack up the karaoke shit, it's like her job or some shit. I throw my shirt off and this makes her moan a little bit. Try to unzip her jacket but she resists, just has to go.

Get her number. She was a cougar, that's right Phred!. Not really cute, but not that fat, basically thin compared to a fat chick, hell I would fuck her. Probably over 35. At one point she asked my age, and here is where superman came in clutch like a champion (we talked about this earlier today). I told her to guess, and she said I could be 28 or 35 (retarded lady). I said yeah the former is right, you're right (I'm 25 you dumb biotch). THis satisfied her, otherwise I think she would've said I was just too young for her. 

Went to madhatter and lucky bar for a few more approaches. Shazam! 
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 Here's Tyler on just approaching and shit.

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dave7 wrote:

Go up to marvin's. Lots 'o people on mondays, mostly gangster types. Do some approaches. During NG I still decided to just have only goal to open and then my mission was complete in the interaction. This one girl I met her, and then I was satisfied: she got interested in me, see how that works? I was understanding a different way of looking at interacting with women tonite. I would just open chicks and then I wouldn't try anymore. THis made me see how I would normally just try hard and try to keep the interaction going and try to generate attraction and just kinda be desperate even if it was subtle, and this is actually stressful even if subtle. Make sense? The girl was with a dude, and they went to another part of the bar, I stopped the girl and told her we should hang out later, she was all interested and shit, it didn't work out but it was good. 

Talked to girl/guy combo on street. 

Went back to bar near my place to check out the last chance for love. Just chillin there with some good music, meet a lady say what's up. Then I'm done tryin. She is intrigued. She kinda just keeps coming over. I tell her "ok let's go I live right next door". She does some other shit and I say "ok just come to my roof real fast, see the view". She asks "are you a serial killer?" I say yes I am, nod. She says "so you want to go to the roof real fast and makeout?" I say yes. I pull her to the roof, and makeout for a while feelin her boobs and shit. Then I pull her to my apartment, tell her jsut wanna show her real fast. Makeout in apartment, and she says she HAS to go help her friends pack up the karaoke shit, it's like her job or some shit. I throw my shirt off and this makes her moan a little bit. Try to unzip her jacket but she resists, just has to go.

Get her number. She was a cougar, that's right Phred!. Not really cute, but not that fat, basically thin compared to a fat chick, hell I would fuck her. Probably over 35. At one point she asked my age, and here is where superman came in clutch like a champion (we talked about this earlier today). I told her to guess, and she said I could be 28 or 35 (retarded lady). I said yeah the former is right, you're right (I'm 25 you dumb biotch). THis satisfied her, otherwise I think she would've said I was just too young for her. 

Went to madhatter and lucky bar for a few more approaches. Shazam! 
Yo Dave,

This approach sounds RIDICULOUSLY AWESOME TO ME.  I'm going to implement this immediately.  Thank you.

What I like about it is that the PART OF ME THATS GETTING THE GIRL has nothing to do with her, or her reactions to me.  The part of me that's getting the girl is my internal happiness, my playful attitude, my presence, eye contact, voice, my quick wit.  All those attributes are built inside AND outside the court, so to speak --> I am becoming that guy by every action I take in my life.  

I think this is that idea of "trust in your faculties" that Owen brings up.  You KNOW you are solid on and off the court, in and out of social pressue, etc, and that's where your power as a man is coming from.  The little highs and lows of the waves of responses and emotions that you both feel as the night progresses is like 4% of the depth of who you are a solid dude are.  In a very literal way it has very little affect on you.  

So your suggestion makes me think:  I should focus all my attention on the power I have to feel good and be happy in the moment being myself and focus literally ONLY ENOUGH attention to the girl to keep the conversation going.  Zero effort, and very little attention.  The only "trying" I'm doing is self-directed, e.g. I clap my hands and yell in the venue to get in state and I'm trying to get in state and I do but this is only for me.  

I like the idea of chilling back and feeling super fucking good.  Putting very little value on the interaction I'm having with this one girl at this one time and instead putting ALL the value on me feeling good as often as I can.

I think, as you said it did, it will help me reveal how and when I am trying to get my value from her by DOING instead of assuming my own value (and letting her get sucked in if shes cool enough) and BEING that guy.

Awesome.  I love you Dave
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