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I just want to enjoy amazing girls. Crazy what sort of journey ive embarked on pursuing this quest.
My adventures in Dallas - 2013
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My adventures in Dallas - 2013
My adventures in Austin - 2012
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com
Anyway I'm wondering about this shit for you because it sounds like you're not having a lot of fun. It seems like the "fun" you have is dependent on whether you have good opens etc. Would you say this is true? If so what are the ways you can almost always go out and have fun regardless of your results? If its not the case then I'm wondering whats creating these bad nights for you?
I have no idea how to almost guarantee I will always have fun. That's a good question though. I'll think about that, but on one hand this is probably a question I've struggled with for years and years and years.
I was super butthurt today. I got flaked on by this girl I actually liked. My wing came out and said I was super sad and shit and its not fun to hang around me when Im like that. LOL. butthurt sad me (me) did like 5 approaches. Fully destroyed.
This game is not that fun for me alot of times. I talked about that with my wing today, how to have more fun in my life. Didn't figure anything out, I too have been looking at this for a while now.
Oh well I will keep going out everyday!! YA 7 DAYS A WEEK PIMPING
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I just want to enjoy amazing girls. Crazy what sort of journey ive embarked on pursuing this quest.
My adventures in Dallas - 2013
My adventures in Austin - 2012
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com
My adventures in Dallas - 2013
My adventures in Austin - 2012
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com
Great cheap ebook dating and hooking up with cougars.....www.cougarmanifesto.com
Dude has pulled all types of older women.
Dude has pulled all types of older women.
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Go up to marvin's. Lots 'o people on mondays, mostly gangster types. Do some approaches. During NG I still decided to just have only goal to open and then my mission was complete in the interaction. This one girl I met her, and then I was satisfied: she got interested in me, see how that works? I was understanding a different way of looking at interacting with women tonite. I would just open chicks and then I wouldn't try anymore. THis made me see how I would normally just try hard and try to keep the interaction going and try to generate attraction and just kinda be desperate even if it was subtle, and this is actually stressful even if subtle. Make sense? The girl was with a dude, and they went to another part of the bar, I stopped the girl and told her we should hang out later, she was all interested and shit, it didn't work out but it was good.
Talked to girl/guy combo on street.
Went back to bar near my place to check out the last chance for love. Just chillin there with some good music, meet a lady say what's up. Then I'm done tryin. She is intrigued. She kinda just keeps coming over. I tell her "ok let's go I live right next door". She does some other shit and I say "ok just come to my roof real fast, see the view". She asks "are you a serial killer?" I say yes I am, nod. She says "so you want to go to the roof real fast and makeout?" I say yes. I pull her to the roof, and makeout for a while feelin her boobs and shit. Then I pull her to my apartment, tell her jsut wanna show her real fast. Makeout in apartment, and she says she HAS to go help her friends pack up the karaoke shit, it's like her job or some shit. I throw my shirt off and this makes her moan a little bit. Try to unzip her jacket but she resists, just has to go.
Get her number. She was a cougar, that's right Phred!. Not really cute, but not that fat, basically thin compared to a fat chick, hell I would fuck her. Probably over 35. At one point she asked my age, and here is where superman came in clutch like a champion (we talked about this earlier today). I told her to guess, and she said I could be 28 or 35 (retarded lady). I said yeah the former is right, you're right (I'm 25 you dumb biotch). THis satisfied her, otherwise I think she would've said I was just too young for her.
Went to madhatter and lucky bar for a few more approaches. Shazam!
This approach sounds RIDICULOUSLY AWESOME TO ME. I'm going to implement this immediately. Thank you.
What I like about it is that the PART OF ME THATS GETTING THE GIRL has nothing to do with her, or her reactions to me. The part of me that's getting the girl is my internal happiness, my playful attitude, my presence, eye contact, voice, my quick wit. All those attributes are built inside AND outside the court, so to speak --> I am becoming that guy by every action I take in my life.
I think this is that idea of "trust in your faculties" that Owen brings up. You KNOW you are solid on and off the court, in and out of social pressue, etc, and that's where your power as a man is coming from. The little highs and lows of the waves of responses and emotions that you both feel as the night progresses is like 4% of the depth of who you are a solid dude are. In a very literal way it has very little affect on you.
So your suggestion makes me think: I should focus all my attention on the power I have to feel good and be happy in the moment being myself and focus literally ONLY ENOUGH attention to the girl to keep the conversation going. Zero effort, and very little attention. The only "trying" I'm doing is self-directed, e.g. I clap my hands and yell in the venue to get in state and I'm trying to get in state and I do but this is only for me.
I like the idea of chilling back and feeling super fucking good. Putting very little value on the interaction I'm having with this one girl at this one time and instead putting ALL the value on me feeling good as often as I can.
I think, as you said it did, it will help me reveal how and when I am trying to get my value from her by DOING instead of assuming my own value (and letting her get sucked in if shes cool enough) and BEING that guy.
Awesome. I love you Dave
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