THE FORUMS
P.P.S. Wanted to write out another thing. Lately on some of my approaches, girls have told me that I am really awkward. I know some people reading this might "cringe". But I love it when girls are telling me this, b/c it's just me being dry humor/witty/straight up type of thing, and the girls are usually giggling EVERY time I say something, so I'm having a blast. So I love that.
Another thing girls have been saying is that I'm really "intense". I think this is good too in terms of my learning, but this is also a reason why I'm trying to do more "push" b/c maybe I'm doing too much "pull" and the girls are overwhelmed. B/c it does get annoying when I roll up on a girl and there is attraction between the both of us and then I escalate too quickly and she gets overwhelmed and basically leaves or runs away.
So many variables to learn how to get girls in our society! I think that shows how out-of-whack it is, how out of balance power relationships are especially between the sexes, so that sexual relationships are skewed and complicated, and so then it is not "common sense" when trying to pick up a girl but rather a lot of illogical and weird subtleties that we have to know, like dealing with anti-slut defense and social conditioning and so much shit that seems to be designed for us guys to not get laid, we have to get around that.
In most parts of society I guess that men have the power over women. But with sex, women seem to have an overwhelming abundance of the power, so coming from a guy's perspective it is really an "uphill battle" if that guy is just a regular dude/chode to begin with. So what we're really learning here is how to function in this unbalanced society, not how to function in a balanced and "equal" society. The bottom line though is that we have no choice.
If anyone reading this wants to give feedback, is this how you view things?
Another thing girls have been saying is that I'm really "intense". I think this is good too in terms of my learning, but this is also a reason why I'm trying to do more "push" b/c maybe I'm doing too much "pull" and the girls are overwhelmed. B/c it does get annoying when I roll up on a girl and there is attraction between the both of us and then I escalate too quickly and she gets overwhelmed and basically leaves or runs away.
So many variables to learn how to get girls in our society! I think that shows how out-of-whack it is, how out of balance power relationships are especially between the sexes, so that sexual relationships are skewed and complicated, and so then it is not "common sense" when trying to pick up a girl but rather a lot of illogical and weird subtleties that we have to know, like dealing with anti-slut defense and social conditioning and so much shit that seems to be designed for us guys to not get laid, we have to get around that.
In most parts of society I guess that men have the power over women. But with sex, women seem to have an overwhelming abundance of the power, so coming from a guy's perspective it is really an "uphill battle" if that guy is just a regular dude/chode to begin with. So what we're really learning here is how to function in this unbalanced society, not how to function in a balanced and "equal" society. The bottom line though is that we have no choice.
If anyone reading this wants to give feedback, is this how you view things?
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Wednesday July 11, 2012
So again I was thinking I'd just go out for about an hour of night game. I ended up staying like midnight-2:30am+.
It's interesting, I'm noticing the process that I go through to get into a good "state" or just get that "focus" going where I can do approaches and stuff and have some fun. The process is a subtle wave, it's a wavy process where I'll do some approaches and feel good and then maybe something will happen or I'll be lazy for a few minutes and I'll go back down, but if I stick to the process consistently through th night then I keep going up along the wave. It's a "night wave" b/c I'm a "night hawk" and I'm also the "black knight".
Anyway did some ok approaches and stuff, pretty normal, went out with the regular crew of sooners, eugene, and roadrally. One time in a bar I talked to a 9 and I was saying crazy shit and she loved it, didn't get phased like those 7's do.
We worked on re-approaching some sets tonite, that's always a good thing to try. Alex's 4 times rule is pretty legit TBH.
Sooners was trying to meet up with this girl who had a friend for a late night snack, but I guess some drama happened so they couldn't make it last minute, would have been cool, I was gonna go for the friend who I met with sooners earlier in the night.
Last set of the night, I opened this girl who was with like 4 guys, but she was just work friends with them, I saw eugene wing one of the guys at a great time which helped me out a lot. I just walked with these people tryin to talk to the girl a bit, she was ok cute, definitely fuckable for a ONS or w/e. Eugene and roadrally left so I walked with these people to their hotel. Just joking around a little bit tryin to stick around. I was hoping it would be simple enough to just go with my girl to her room.
We get to their hotel and they are kinda drunk, we're riding the elevator and they can't decide what to do, all indecisive type thing. One time during this shit, I got my girl isolated for a second and asked her "do you want me to stay?". SHe hesitated for like 10 seconds and just kinda said "i don't know". This was a promising sign IMO.
After a while I felt kinda weird just following them around in the elevator so I left. Went to the lobby and texted the girl hoping she would invite me up, told her that her friends wouldn't know. Ahhhh I felt this almost worked, on my iphone I could see her typing something but then she never sent it. And that was that, I couldn't get her to respond. I feel like I "almost pulled" again, and it was a last second thing too which was cool.
Off to denver tomorrow, for hot seat wknd and stuff. Should be atleast a decent adventure just like all hot seat wknds. It's almost like I'm going back home b/c it's my home state and I have free housing etc b/c my bro lives there.
So again I was thinking I'd just go out for about an hour of night game. I ended up staying like midnight-2:30am+.
It's interesting, I'm noticing the process that I go through to get into a good "state" or just get that "focus" going where I can do approaches and stuff and have some fun. The process is a subtle wave, it's a wavy process where I'll do some approaches and feel good and then maybe something will happen or I'll be lazy for a few minutes and I'll go back down, but if I stick to the process consistently through th night then I keep going up along the wave. It's a "night wave" b/c I'm a "night hawk" and I'm also the "black knight".
Anyway did some ok approaches and stuff, pretty normal, went out with the regular crew of sooners, eugene, and roadrally. One time in a bar I talked to a 9 and I was saying crazy shit and she loved it, didn't get phased like those 7's do.
We worked on re-approaching some sets tonite, that's always a good thing to try. Alex's 4 times rule is pretty legit TBH.
Sooners was trying to meet up with this girl who had a friend for a late night snack, but I guess some drama happened so they couldn't make it last minute, would have been cool, I was gonna go for the friend who I met with sooners earlier in the night.
Last set of the night, I opened this girl who was with like 4 guys, but she was just work friends with them, I saw eugene wing one of the guys at a great time which helped me out a lot. I just walked with these people tryin to talk to the girl a bit, she was ok cute, definitely fuckable for a ONS or w/e. Eugene and roadrally left so I walked with these people to their hotel. Just joking around a little bit tryin to stick around. I was hoping it would be simple enough to just go with my girl to her room.
We get to their hotel and they are kinda drunk, we're riding the elevator and they can't decide what to do, all indecisive type thing. One time during this shit, I got my girl isolated for a second and asked her "do you want me to stay?". SHe hesitated for like 10 seconds and just kinda said "i don't know". This was a promising sign IMO.
After a while I felt kinda weird just following them around in the elevator so I left. Went to the lobby and texted the girl hoping she would invite me up, told her that her friends wouldn't know. Ahhhh I felt this almost worked, on my iphone I could see her typing something but then she never sent it. And that was that, I couldn't get her to respond. I feel like I "almost pulled" again, and it was a last second thing too which was cool.
Off to denver tomorrow, for hot seat wknd and stuff. Should be atleast a decent adventure just like all hot seat wknds. It's almost like I'm going back home b/c it's my home state and I have free housing etc b/c my bro lives there.
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Yo - those complience tests are AWSOME... it's such a solid way to get the close
Idk if you do- but use them in texts as well... it's MONEY..
Like if a girl is like, "Yeah I want to go out after!" don't just assume she means with you- shoot her a complience test back and be like, "Do you want to meet me" and then, right there, she's GOTTA make a decision.. it's either gonna be yes or no...
It sounds like a super needy text, but it's actually VERY dominating in style... like she has to completely let go of everything, let down her guard and just admit... yes... I want to see you.
Basically what you did with the elevator stuff....
Idk if you do- but use them in texts as well... it's MONEY..
Like if a girl is like, "Yeah I want to go out after!" don't just assume she means with you- shoot her a complience test back and be like, "Do you want to meet me" and then, right there, she's GOTTA make a decision.. it's either gonna be yes or no...
It sounds like a super needy text, but it's actually VERY dominating in style... like she has to completely let go of everything, let down her guard and just admit... yes... I want to see you.
Basically what you did with the elevator stuff....
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The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
should've just stayed in the hotel lol to see where it leads lol. Aw dude you're going to denver tomorrow? Have fun man.
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should've just stayed in the hotel lol to see where it leads lol. Aw dude you're going to denver tomorrow? Have fun man.
Girl would have looked too slutty infront of her coworkers. Would not have worked out.
#1 concern for girls (maybe not #1 but a very important concern of theirs) is not looking like a slut.
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I just want to enjoy amazing girls. Crazy what sort of journey ive embarked on pursuing this quest.
My adventures in Dallas - 2013
My adventures in Austin - 2012
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
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My adventures in Dallas - 2013
My adventures in Austin - 2012
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com
I think you are going to get a last minute twilight zone pull real soon.
If I think about it, usually I have to almost accomplish something like 3 times before I actually get it. Power of persistence.
And I guess third times a charm :)
If I think about it, usually I have to almost accomplish something like 3 times before I actually get it. Power of persistence.
And I guess third times a charm :)
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I just want to enjoy amazing girls. Crazy what sort of journey ive embarked on pursuing this quest.
My adventures in Dallas - 2013
My adventures in Austin - 2012
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com
My adventures in Dallas - 2013
My adventures in Austin - 2012
Tyler/Julien, Honolulu Bootcamp July 2011
Tyler hotseat2 x5 (2011-2012)
Alex hotseat x2 (2013)
girlslovepenis.tumblr.com
should've just stayed in the hotel lol to see where it leads lol. Aw dude you're going to denver tomorrow? Have fun man.
Girl would have looked too slutty infront of her coworkers. Would not have worked out.
#1 concern for girls (maybe not #1 but a very important concern of theirs) is not looking like a slut.
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Yeah- +1 FOR SURE
Not looking like a slut- and then ESPECIALLLLY in front of coworkers- I mean, hell... I know a lot of hardcore naturals that even draw the line there (the whole in front of coworkers thing)
Not looking like a slut- and then ESPECIALLLLY in front of coworkers- I mean, hell... I know a lot of hardcore naturals that even draw the line there (the whole in front of coworkers thing)
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http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
Nice one!
I'll shoot you guys a text tonight after my kickball game, I'm feeling the itch to go out!
I'll shoot you guys a text tonight after my kickball game, I'm feeling the itch to go out!
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Or if the girl is leaving I say "yes leave now! Go! Please go away!" And they kinda laugh, and sometimes they come back.
So I'm just experimenting with this type of stuff. This is how I learn. I just do blatant "push" shit so it helps my brain to actually learn and to see how to do something differently. Kinda cool.
I don't learn at all by micromanaging my game and "thinking" about what to say or what to do. I just have these really blatant and obvious ideas of what to "try" and then I do that. That's how I learned physical game for sure. The first time I did handshake to spin my brain was trippin, now it's so simple.
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