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Matt281

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The sweet spot is to fall into the rhythm where taking right action isn't something you get yourself to do, it's something that happens naturally because it's who you are: A man of action.


I can really relate to this. It's so cool when this happens because you're finally living your life how you want to, but it doesn't seem like a drag to keep at it day after day. People say "wow you drive 1 1/2 hours every week to go out 3+ nights? You're really motivated". And I'm like "uhhh, well I want hot girls, what else would I do?". It's really just about developing those habits so it becomes a natural part of your routine.
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adjunkie

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Thursday

Went out to this one venue that used to be packed with hot girls; but, it's getting progressively emptier by the week.  Need to find a better thursday night spot.

The main thing that stood out was this one learning situation:

I was walking across the dance floor, when this sexy (10) blonde girl put herself in my way and looked right in my eyes.  I made eye contact, but continued walking.

When I roll up on a girl I've decided to approach, it's all good.  I'm ready for it.  She so obviously wanted met to step up and talk to her, but since I hadn't made the first move, I didn't do it.  

This was a pretty bullshit thing for me to do.  So, a la Tony Robbins, I attached as much pain as possible to that situation, so if it happens again in the future, I will step up.


Friday

It's a short glory night.  I arrive in state.  I don't even need to tell you guys this but I'm going to do it anyway.  Godddammmnnn being in state feels so godddammn good. 

Roll up on the first girl.  Cute blonde, I come in acting kind of weird.  I realize this and immediately calibrate to be normal.  She sees this and is attracted.  Talk for a bit, # close, next.

Next one.  Open this girl, and she says she has a husband, and he's right there.  lol.  Her friend happens to be hot.  I beast on her hard.  The friends leave us in isolation.  Full embrace.  Talking bullshit.  Makeout.  # close.  

Roll right into the next one.  It's the girls birthday.  It's my birthday too!! Instamakeout.  I hear some guy she's with go, "what the fuck just happened!!"  hahahahaha.  He pulls her away and her friend apologizes that he's in love with her.  lol

It starts to get late, and I have to get some sleep because I have some crazy shit going on in the morning!

Saturday

Wake up and drive down to the airfield where I'm learning how to skydive with some friends.  I meet up with my cherish down there.  It's the level 1 aff course, which is 4 hours of instruction, and then a solo jump with two instructors next to you.  

Fucking awesome!  This is my next sport.  Can't wait til the next jump.

I roll out with my cherish that night.  We had talked about trying to pull another girl, but we are both pretty exhausted.  So, we sit there for a little bit and watch the game play out in front of us.  It's kind of cool because I never get to be a spectator like that.  It's interesting to see other guys approaching.

Sunday

I hadn't planned on going out, but my roommate wants to go.  Of course, I can't say no to going out.

Walk in, and hit up the first set.  Messing around.  I'm in pretty good state.  I'm pretty much just going through the motions to stay sharp.  I don't really care about any particular interaction.

Hit up a couple more sets effectively burning the venue down.  Only one of them was hot, and she pulled the bf card.  I used the standard procedures.  (don't care about him, you need a new one, ignore when she talks about him).  But after awhile realized she is either a really good liar or she actually has a bf she loves.

Monday

The usual monday night spot.  I'm feeling more stifled than ever.  Something about my cherish.

There's some struggle taking place inside of me.  Something like what tyler calls the transition from short term mating strategy to long term.  I don't really feel like talking to any other girls because I like mine.  (I know that sounds fucking gay, and realize that).  But, it's some crazy shit going on in me right now.  Not sure how it's gonna play out.  Everything is so good with this one girl that it makes all other girls not seem desirable.

I open a couple half heartedly.  I'm not going to come out and not do anything.  They don't stick, and I honestly don't even care.

The funniest shit that happened was outside when I walked past this thugged out benz.  Some black dude opened the passenger side door and fell face first into the concrete in slow motion like he was laying down in his pillow topped bed.  He didn't even try to move.  He was comfortable.  Another black dude got out of the back door and said in the funniest voice, "my nigger".   I made eye contact with the driver and we both laughed a little at the situation that just unfolded.

----

I have a couple recent numbers that seem solid.  I also ran into a girl on friday night who I had met before, and she remembered me.  I had forgotten how hot she is.  Texted back and forth with her for awhile that night, and then added her on facebook. 

It's funny cause, like I said, my mind is in this struggle between short term and long term.  I really don't even feel like calling any other girls. 

I'm not sure how this is gonna play out for me.  I guess I just have to figure out what I really want and take the lead on it.
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roadrally

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adjunkie wrote:
Thursday

Went out to this one venue that used to be packed with hot girls; but, it's getting progressively emptier by the week.  Need to find a better thursday night spot.

The main thing that stood out was this one learning situation:

I was walking across the dance floor, when this sexy (10) blonde girl put herself in my way and looked right in my eyes.  I made eye contact, but continued walking.

When I roll up on a girl I've decided to approach, it's all good.  I'm ready for it.  She so obviously wanted met to step up and talk to her, but since I hadn't made the first move, I didn't do it.  

This was a pretty bullshit thing for me to do.  So, a la Tony Robbins, I attached as much pain as possible to that situation, so if it happens again in the future, I will step up.


 
Can you elaborate/explain how you do this/what it is.
Makes sense to me conceptually I think I want to learn how to do this.
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adjunkie

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I'd recommend reading Awaken the Giant Within.  It parallels the teachings of RSD, and will really help you out in this journey. 

I started taking notes on it awhile ago, but then finished the book without finishing the notes...  You can find what I did do here:  www.rsdnation.com/node/171261

In response to your question, you probably want to check out chapters 3 and 4. 



roadrally wrote:

adjunkie wrote:
Thursday

Went out to this one venue that used to be packed with hot girls; but, it's getting progressively emptier by the week.  Need to find a better thursday night spot.

The main thing that stood out was this one learning situation:

I was walking across the dance floor, when this sexy (10) blonde girl put herself in my way and looked right in my eyes.  I made eye contact, but continued walking.

When I roll up on a girl I've decided to approach, it's all good.  I'm ready for it.  She so obviously wanted met to step up and talk to her, but since I hadn't made the first move, I didn't do it.  

This was a pretty bullshit thing for me to do.  So, a la Tony Robbins, I attached as much pain as possible to that situation, so if it happens again in the future, I will step up.


 
Can you elaborate/explain how you do this/what it is.
Makes sense to me conceptually I think I want to learn how to do this.
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adjunkie

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Ayyyyyyyyyooooooooooo!!!!

It's been a fucking crazy couple weeks.  I totally fell in love with a girl.  Dudes, love is one of the craziest fucking drugs you can ever tap into.  It has the power to make you feel so fucking good, and bring out the best; but, it also has a dark side that will bring out and amplify your worst.

I found myself on a roller coaster ride of emotions.  Just craving that next high, and suffering through any amount of low to get there.  There were times when I'd have ridiculously needy thoughts.  All it would take was one small thing that would typically be totally inconsequential to bring out insecurity I haven't known in years.

I finally got to a point where I had to take a step back and ask what the fuck is happening to me?  I was losing focus, losing sight of my journey, losing myself to the drug.  

What a total mind fuck.  Everything happened, yet nothing happened.  It was all in my head.

I'm just writing stream of consciousness right now.  Trying to process this shit and get it all out.  So bare with me.  Or don't.  idc

It took a lot of time and thinking to get to the point I'm at right now, as I sit and write this out.

Basically, I'm not ready to settle down.  I'm not ready for everything that comes with a full blown relationship. 

I seriously love "the game."  I have so much more to learn from it, and I see so much more transformation to come from the process,  there's no way I can give it up.  

I'm not going to cut it off with my girl, but I am going to seriously step back emotionally.  I'm at a place where I could end it for good and be ok with it, and that's where I need to stay as far as this one goes.  

-moving forward-

It's the fucking weekend!!! I'm going to go out and pimp it like there's no fucking tomorrow. 

an dats bout all i gotta say bout dat.

backinit mafukkas!
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SexyMachine

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Good choice.

I don't see why you can't have your cake and eat it too.  Keep on seeing your girl, however much you want, even get into a relationship, AND keep going out.  If you can handle the situation, lie to her and string her along.  Nothing wrong with keeping girls in tow by any means necessary.  Though, most of the time, it becomes too much work, so it just falls apart naturally.  And, when you get your game dialed, meeting new girls is so easy, why waste time and effort dragging a girl along.

Obviously, if the girl demands exclusive relationship and too much time, then you'll have to make the decision to cut n run.  But, until then, just enjoy doing what you want. 

Abundance baby.  Freedom to choose.  
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Dude.. holy shit I feel you on your last post man.  Going through very similiar shit right now.. its fucking INSANE TO NAVIGATE THAT STORM when your emotions are fucking BLOWING THE BOAT OVER.  

So hard to know whats right.  I'm glad you're still all about the game but I hope that you and everyone on here doesnt fall too deep into pickup conditioning because man, loving a girl ... can really be amazing, ime.  

Either way man, you have a good head on you and a good heart, total confidence you will come out of this with lessons learned, positive and more dominant than ever.  

See you this weekend killa
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Thursday

Found new thurs night spot=win!

It's one of the coolest venues i've seen out here in seattle.  there's three different areas that all have their own dj and atmosphere.  pretty fuckin cool.

I hooked this hot hot girl early on.  As I was feeling her body, it became apparent to me just how hot she was.  It kinda fucked with me to be honest.  (entitlement needs some work).  I tried leading her away, about five minutes in, but she said she had to stay with her friends.  I should have been more persistent.  She was so compliant with my physicality before I tried to lead her away.  I didn't want to look like a douche and stay after I told her I was leaving... so I left her behind ;(  

Wins
-Found sick new venue
-Hooked hot girl
-Winning
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Friday

Meet up with the crew.

We’re chillin at the first venue, and I’m bullshitin with cat when the dude unknowingly drops a bomb of wisdom; a statement that pervades throughout the rest of my night. He said, “I’m fuckin horny. I wanna get laid tonight.” Coming from some chode, this wouldn’t have meant much. But coming from the man himself, and spoken with that amount of conviction, it hit me like a ton of bricks. True intent. To define intent right quick: intent is clarity in your thoughts, words, and actions.

Anyway, open some sets. Get momentum going. I love being out with the crew. Makes the night infinitely more fun. Every time one of us gets blown out, it’s the funniest shit that has ever happened. NOOOOOOOOO!!!! WHYYYYYY!!! WHY DON’T YOU LOVE ME???? ::epic sadface::

At the last venue, I meet a cute Indian girl on the dance floor. We talk a little and get physical. She says she needs to get drinks with her friend. I say, let’s go to the bar, and lead them over there. We’re talking, and she’s def into it. I try to figure out logistics. She’s there with her sister and best friend. I ask if they all live together. She goes, ok are you ready for it? I raise an eyebrow. I live with my parents. I tease her for it. Then I tell her where I live and that it has an amazing view. I tell her she has to see it and she should come home with me. She’s like, OK, in a cute little voice. I lead her back to the dance floor. She tells me that she has to go home to her parents house tonight because they are really strict. (I was talking to one of my indian friends later, and he told me her parents would disown her if they found out she was going home with a random guy) We dance some more. I make out with her. She’s like, I really do have to go home tonight, I don’t want to mess up the rest of your night. As I’m waiting for the right moment to smoothly eject, her sister comes up and says it’s time to go home. Perfect timing.

The thought enters my mind: I’m fuckin horny. I wanna get laid tonight.

Must find more hotties. Open some, nothing great.

I’m standing on this elevated dance platform when I feel a girl grab me from behind. I turn around and see she’s cute enough. Dance with her for 2 seconds before she starts making out with me. I slam her into a wall and grind hard on her while I make out with her. She tastes like cigarettes, so I let her head hit the wall over and over while we’re making out. Hahaha… She gets me hard and then runs away. Bitch!

Have a couple more to the end of the night. I never run out of energy or motivation because I’m fuckin horny. I wanna get laid tonight.

Lesson:

I’m fuckin horny. I wanna get laid tonight.
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LOL ironic.  Every night lately I've been saying "dur don't want to get laid tonight" and then unfortunately I do and fail to give my body adequate recovery time.  

The funny thing is freedom from outcome is so natural to me now, I don't get it really.  

But I'm with a girl its like "Sure I wouldn't mind having sex, I'd like it but i really dont care i really dont care i really dont care like....AT ALL. We could hang out and fuck or I could go back w my buddies or I could go home and sleep it makes literally no difference."  Its not like a tactic.  

Its more like.  

What is sex?  

If you go deep enough, why do you want sex?

Why do you need sex?  

I realize...its just a moment.  If you're cool wiht ahnging out with the girl without sex, the sex is a bonus.  If you find it funny and amusing to beast up on hos ANYWAY, sex is irrelevant, its just another fucken way to make a feel good, my dick is like a weapon, but I don't have to shoot every badguy, I don't care, let terror reign free lol.  

But yeah...conflicting realities dun dun dun...
adjunkie wrote:
Friday

Meet up with the crew.

We’re chillin at the first venue, and I’m bullshitin with cat when the dude unknowingly drops a bomb of wisdom; a statement that pervades throughout the rest of my night. He said, “I’m fuckin horny. I wanna get laid tonight.” Coming from some chode, this wouldn’t have meant much. But coming from the man himself, and spoken with that amount of conviction, it hit me like a ton of bricks. True intent. To define intent right quick: intent is clarity in your thoughts, words, and actions.

Anyway, open some sets. Get momentum going. I love being out with the crew. Makes the night infinitely more fun. Every time one of us gets blown out, it’s the funniest shit that has ever happened. NOOOOOOOOO!!!! WHYYYYYY!!! WHY DON’T YOU LOVE ME???? ::epic sadface::

At the last venue, I meet a cute Indian girl on the dance floor. We talk a little and get physical. She says she needs to get drinks with her friend. I say, let’s go to the bar, and lead them over there. We’re talking, and she’s def into it. I try to figure out logistics. She’s there with her sister and best friend. I ask if they all live together. She goes, ok are you ready for it? I raise an eyebrow. I live with my parents. I tease her for it. Then I tell her where I live and that it has an amazing view. I tell her she has to see it and she should come home with me. She’s like, OK, in a cute little voice. I lead her back to the dance floor. She tells me that she has to go home to her parents house tonight because they are really strict. (I was talking to one of my indian friends later, and he told me her parents would disown her if they found out she was going home with a random guy) We dance some more. I make out with her. She’s like, I really do have to go home tonight, I don’t want to mess up the rest of your night. As I’m waiting for the right moment to smoothly eject, her sister comes up and says it’s time to go home. Perfect timing.

The thought enters my mind: I’m fuckin horny. I wanna get laid tonight.

Must find more hotties. Open some, nothing great.

I’m standing on this elevated dance platform when I feel a girl grab me from behind. I turn around and see she’s cute enough. Dance with her for 2 seconds before she starts making out with me. I slam her into a wall and grind hard on her while I make out with her. She tastes like cigarettes, so I let her head hit the wall over and over while we’re making out. Hahaha… She gets me hard and then runs away. Bitch!

Have a couple more to the end of the night. I never run out of energy or motivation because I’m fuckin horny. I wanna get laid tonight.

Lesson:

I’m fuckin horny. I wanna get laid tonight.


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