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adjunkie

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Just gonna write this out real quick before I head off to work :/

Saturday

Bunch of sets throughout the night.  None of them went great, but it seems like I'm getting to a place where they are building my momentum more than killing it.  Although, later in the night my state faltered, I was able to push through and get back on it; which got me a pull.

10 minutes past last call.  The crew is heading out to do street sets.  As I'm following them out, I get eyes from this asian girl.  

Open her.  At first she's pretty cold.  I plow through, get physical, and lead her around.

Her breath is kind of fucked up, but not a total deal breaker.  She had a bangin body.

I bounce her for food.  Was kind of indecisive, due to her breath, and my having to work this morning.  I was either going to pull her home or not really care.

She was down to go get food.

I wasn't.  I insisted she come back to make pancakes.  

She wanted to go to her car.  I followed her to hers, but she couldn't find it or something.

Note:  still haven't kissed.  she avoided my attempts earlier. 

I pulled her to my car.  On the way, stopped and went for the make out, but she gave me the cheek.

We made it to my truck, and I kept trying to pull back to my house.

***At some point, I needed to push.***

I didn't, because, like I said before, I didn't really care that much.  Should have given her a fucking altoid, and that might have boosted my intent.

So, we're in my truck, she's not down to go to my house, but she wants to go to the diner.  But, I don't have the motivation to see this into a long night.

I drop her off at her car.


I have a feeling that I'm going to be getting a lot of these until it actually clicks.  The thing that's going to make it click is probably not some new technique or understanding of the mechanics, but a shift within myself.  A further transformation into an icy cold pimp, a motherfuckin gangster who does not give a fuck about the girl and has no fear of losing her.

Off to work. 

Peace.
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Dude.

1)  Congrats on the new depth of your relationship man, and that you guys can say that you love each other meaningfully and its working.  That shit is sooooo cool.  I'm so happy for you man.  At shit is tough, not something that gets touched on in this community, and I love that you're in the thick of it enjoying it deeply.  Life baby, it's good.

2) THE RULE will change your life!!!!

and 3) Cannot believe I missed you guys last night, was downtown.  Shit seems amazing for you man, sounds like you are learing a ton.  And the best part is that you're tweaking the final 20% of the game.  That's the shit man, PROGRESSION.

See you soon g, keep rockin.
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Last night I was scary.  Girls ran away from me.


::shrugs::


Tonight is a new night.  I'm gonna take a quick beauty nap, wake up, hit the city with my homies, and MAKE MOVES >>>Process
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Saturday

Walk towards the club and see a lone cutie on the street waiting to cross.  Open her, and she gives the look like, fuck here's another guy hollerin at me.  I plow through with positivity and tell her about how I took my beauty nap, then woke up and cooked an amazing breakfast with eggs, hash browns, and BACON!!  She hooks, asks my name and we walk to the club together.  Turns out we're going to the same place.  She walks to the back of the line, I say see ya in there as I stop at the front of the line, shake the doormans hand, and stroll in like a G.  Maybe could have tried to pull her in with me, but didn't think about it at the time.

Run some warm up sets.  Have one bomb pretty hard.  It's funny.  Meet up with Matt281, Converse, and Brother.  We pump each other's states up, and proceed to beast the venue.  At some point after that, I walk upstairs and see Matt281 leading a two set around.  I watch for a second and see he's in good with one while her friend kind of hangs back.  Walk up and get intro'ed.  The friend is pretty cute and we have some decent chemistry.  This ends up being a long set.  An hour and a half or two hours maybe??  I was actually a little timid to escalate due to the previous nights episode of creepiness.  The struggle of playing to win vs playing not to lose played out right in front of me.  I'd look over Matt281 and see him  acting like a boss, that shit would inspire me to do the same with my girl.  All in all, I led her around a good bit, escalated physically while remaining calibrated, and overall had a good time being with her.

I had planned to leave early because I had a huuuuge day at work coming up in the morning.  So I stayed until my girl was ready to leave (she had to work early in the morning too), and then I bounced.

As I got to my car, my phone rang.  It was Cat.  dude are you out and about we have two extra girls here.

faaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhk.  really?  why must you tempt me so??  I make the call that work is my priority as much as I would have LOVED to head that direction.  Was a good decision in hindsight as I was getting my ass handed to me pushing through a 14 hour day. 

If you're reading this bro, next time ;] nothin but love homie.  hope your night turned out awesome and can't wait to read about it...

life is good.

peace!!

p.s.  The Lesson:  PLAY TO WIN
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Perfect rhythm

Monday-Wednesday
-Wake up early and work
-Ride my bike, get the adrenaline flowing
-Read from one of my new books
-Hit the gym hard.  Crossfit ftw!
-Go out at night and execute the program

Tuesday, I closed a deal with a new client that literally doubled the size of my business teeth  Was sooo fucking stoked.  That shit was like closing a 10 from the club.  It gave me hope.  Like maybe I can make this business work.  Maybe I can make a shit load of money doing the things I'm doing.  But, like MJ Demarco talks about in his book, The Millionaire Fastlane, that was an event.  People like to look at events with awe.  "Oh, how lucky."  What they don't see is the process.  All the cold calling and lead generation that went into finding that one perfect client.  Day after day of going out and getting nothing.  I guess what I'm getting at here is that its all about the process.  The events are awesome, and should be celebrated (I drank a beer!), but what should really be felt and celebrated every day is the consistent taking of action.

The sweet spot is to fall into the rhythm where taking right action isn't something you get yourself to do, it's something that happens naturally because it's who you are:  A man of action. 

I see people that aren't living their lives to the fullest, and it pains me.  My roommates watching tv while I go out to beast on girls and develop myself.  This girl I met in the club for the second time, and when I asked what she had been up to, she was like, nothing I pretty much just stay at home.  It's like what the fuck!!  Sometimes I want to shake people and quote Tyler Durden, "This is your life, and it's ending one second at a time!"

The thing I find so cool and inspiring about this community is that you guys are taking action.  Just take a look at the FR Section.  I have so much respect for all of you who are out there killing it, living your lives, and progressing as people.  That shit is so fucking cool.

Well, that's about all I got right now.  Hope you're all enjoying your lives and making every day count.  I know I am.  And I can't fucking wait for this weekend!
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Quote:
The sweet spot is to fall into the rhythm where taking right action isn't something you get yourself to do, it's something that happens naturally because it's who you are: A man of action.


I can really relate to this. It's so cool when this happens because you're finally living your life how you want to, but it doesn't seem like a drag to keep at it day after day. People say "wow you drive 1 1/2 hours every week to go out 3+ nights? You're really motivated". And I'm like "uhhh, well I want hot girls, what else would I do?". It's really just about developing those habits so it becomes a natural part of your routine.
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Thursday

Went out to this one venue that used to be packed with hot girls; but, it's getting progressively emptier by the week.  Need to find a better thursday night spot.

The main thing that stood out was this one learning situation:

I was walking across the dance floor, when this sexy (10) blonde girl put herself in my way and looked right in my eyes.  I made eye contact, but continued walking.

When I roll up on a girl I've decided to approach, it's all good.  I'm ready for it.  She so obviously wanted met to step up and talk to her, but since I hadn't made the first move, I didn't do it.  

This was a pretty bullshit thing for me to do.  So, a la Tony Robbins, I attached as much pain as possible to that situation, so if it happens again in the future, I will step up.


Friday

It's a short glory night.  I arrive in state.  I don't even need to tell you guys this but I'm going to do it anyway.  Godddammmnnn being in state feels so godddammn good. 

Roll up on the first girl.  Cute blonde, I come in acting kind of weird.  I realize this and immediately calibrate to be normal.  She sees this and is attracted.  Talk for a bit, # close, next.

Next one.  Open this girl, and she says she has a husband, and he's right there.  lol.  Her friend happens to be hot.  I beast on her hard.  The friends leave us in isolation.  Full embrace.  Talking bullshit.  Makeout.  # close.  

Roll right into the next one.  It's the girls birthday.  It's my birthday too!! Instamakeout.  I hear some guy she's with go, "what the fuck just happened!!"  hahahahaha.  He pulls her away and her friend apologizes that he's in love with her.  lol

It starts to get late, and I have to get some sleep because I have some crazy shit going on in the morning!

Saturday

Wake up and drive down to the airfield where I'm learning how to skydive with some friends.  I meet up with my cherish down there.  It's the level 1 aff course, which is 4 hours of instruction, and then a solo jump with two instructors next to you.  

Fucking awesome!  This is my next sport.  Can't wait til the next jump.

I roll out with my cherish that night.  We had talked about trying to pull another girl, but we are both pretty exhausted.  So, we sit there for a little bit and watch the game play out in front of us.  It's kind of cool because I never get to be a spectator like that.  It's interesting to see other guys approaching.

Sunday

I hadn't planned on going out, but my roommate wants to go.  Of course, I can't say no to going out.

Walk in, and hit up the first set.  Messing around.  I'm in pretty good state.  I'm pretty much just going through the motions to stay sharp.  I don't really care about any particular interaction.

Hit up a couple more sets effectively burning the venue down.  Only one of them was hot, and she pulled the bf card.  I used the standard procedures.  (don't care about him, you need a new one, ignore when she talks about him).  But after awhile realized she is either a really good liar or she actually has a bf she loves.

Monday

The usual monday night spot.  I'm feeling more stifled than ever.  Something about my cherish.

There's some struggle taking place inside of me.  Something like what tyler calls the transition from short term mating strategy to long term.  I don't really feel like talking to any other girls because I like mine.  (I know that sounds fucking gay, and realize that).  But, it's some crazy shit going on in me right now.  Not sure how it's gonna play out.  Everything is so good with this one girl that it makes all other girls not seem desirable.

I open a couple half heartedly.  I'm not going to come out and not do anything.  They don't stick, and I honestly don't even care.

The funniest shit that happened was outside when I walked past this thugged out benz.  Some black dude opened the passenger side door and fell face first into the concrete in slow motion like he was laying down in his pillow topped bed.  He didn't even try to move.  He was comfortable.  Another black dude got out of the back door and said in the funniest voice, "my nigger".   I made eye contact with the driver and we both laughed a little at the situation that just unfolded.

----

I have a couple recent numbers that seem solid.  I also ran into a girl on friday night who I had met before, and she remembered me.  I had forgotten how hot she is.  Texted back and forth with her for awhile that night, and then added her on facebook. 

It's funny cause, like I said, my mind is in this struggle between short term and long term.  I really don't even feel like calling any other girls. 

I'm not sure how this is gonna play out for me.  I guess I just have to figure out what I really want and take the lead on it.
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adjunkie wrote:
Thursday

Went out to this one venue that used to be packed with hot girls; but, it's getting progressively emptier by the week.  Need to find a better thursday night spot.

The main thing that stood out was this one learning situation:

I was walking across the dance floor, when this sexy (10) blonde girl put herself in my way and looked right in my eyes.  I made eye contact, but continued walking.

When I roll up on a girl I've decided to approach, it's all good.  I'm ready for it.  She so obviously wanted met to step up and talk to her, but since I hadn't made the first move, I didn't do it.  

This was a pretty bullshit thing for me to do.  So, a la Tony Robbins, I attached as much pain as possible to that situation, so if it happens again in the future, I will step up.


 
Can you elaborate/explain how you do this/what it is.
Makes sense to me conceptually I think I want to learn how to do this.
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I'd recommend reading Awaken the Giant Within.  It parallels the teachings of RSD, and will really help you out in this journey. 

I started taking notes on it awhile ago, but then finished the book without finishing the notes...  You can find what I did do here:  www.rsdnation.com/node/171261

In response to your question, you probably want to check out chapters 3 and 4. 



roadrally wrote:

adjunkie wrote:
Thursday

Went out to this one venue that used to be packed with hot girls; but, it's getting progressively emptier by the week.  Need to find a better thursday night spot.

The main thing that stood out was this one learning situation:

I was walking across the dance floor, when this sexy (10) blonde girl put herself in my way and looked right in my eyes.  I made eye contact, but continued walking.

When I roll up on a girl I've decided to approach, it's all good.  I'm ready for it.  She so obviously wanted met to step up and talk to her, but since I hadn't made the first move, I didn't do it.  

This was a pretty bullshit thing for me to do.  So, a la Tony Robbins, I attached as much pain as possible to that situation, so if it happens again in the future, I will step up.


 
Can you elaborate/explain how you do this/what it is.
Makes sense to me conceptually I think I want to learn how to do this.
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Ayyyyyyyyyooooooooooo!!!!

It's been a fucking crazy couple weeks.  I totally fell in love with a girl.  Dudes, love is one of the craziest fucking drugs you can ever tap into.  It has the power to make you feel so fucking good, and bring out the best; but, it also has a dark side that will bring out and amplify your worst.

I found myself on a roller coaster ride of emotions.  Just craving that next high, and suffering through any amount of low to get there.  There were times when I'd have ridiculously needy thoughts.  All it would take was one small thing that would typically be totally inconsequential to bring out insecurity I haven't known in years.

I finally got to a point where I had to take a step back and ask what the fuck is happening to me?  I was losing focus, losing sight of my journey, losing myself to the drug.  

What a total mind fuck.  Everything happened, yet nothing happened.  It was all in my head.

I'm just writing stream of consciousness right now.  Trying to process this shit and get it all out.  So bare with me.  Or don't.  idc

It took a lot of time and thinking to get to the point I'm at right now, as I sit and write this out.

Basically, I'm not ready to settle down.  I'm not ready for everything that comes with a full blown relationship. 

I seriously love "the game."  I have so much more to learn from it, and I see so much more transformation to come from the process,  there's no way I can give it up.  

I'm not going to cut it off with my girl, but I am going to seriously step back emotionally.  I'm at a place where I could end it for good and be ok with it, and that's where I need to stay as far as this one goes.  

-moving forward-

It's the fucking weekend!!! I'm going to go out and pimp it like there's no fucking tomorrow. 

an dats bout all i gotta say bout dat.

backinit mafukkas!
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