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Cat

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Sick insights man, thank you (and your girl)
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Matt281

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I think I give off that vibe too, especially in the first half of the night. One of the big things I noticed on saturday was how different it was when I transitioned from being fun/normal to being icy.
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Thanksgiving 2011

It's been a crazy journey so far.  There's times where I've felt like I'm stuck in an endless repitition of the same old game over and over, not making any progress towards my goals, and not developing as a person.

Recently, I felt like that.  Am I getting any better?  Am I just weird and not able to "get" this?  Why do I even keep trying?

Luckily, I came home for the holiday and hung out with some old friends who I've known for a very long time.  These are great people who are extremely soically adept.  From the minute I saw them, they reacted differently towards me.  They made comments like holy shit man, you've really changed.  You're looking really good.  You look like an entrepreneur the way you carry yourself.  You're a pimp now. 

Coming from these people who I have a lot of respect for, it meant a lot.  But more, it showed me that I am making progress

Personal transformations are not made over night.  Tyler was not built in a day ;) 

What's next?  Keep going out consistently and taking right action.  Be a man, and take the journey. 

"Don't stop believin"

Happy turkey day everyone
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Future Me reports from the past!


Dear FutureMe,

Right now i'm sitting in bed getting over a cold. I've been going out religiously the past couple months to exorcise the inner chode. just started reading "awaken the giant within", finishing 9ball for about the 4th time, and taking notes on flawless natural.

ski season is starting off pretty badass. lots of pow days so far. hopefully i can ride out the season without injury because i don't have health insurance.

Not sure exactly where i'm going, but i need to make changes. mainly in the career field. i am sick of being perpetually poor. i went to college as a way out, and now, i'm worse off than before.

oh, and future me, you just finished fucking nicole. what a wild ass freak that was. remember when she texted you "so my ribs are bruised after last night's kitchen sesh" hahaha



Well, one year later. 

-Yes, that was a freak. 
-I know where I'm going, have a definite path, and am working towards large goals.
-Ski season?  wtf is that?  jk.  went up wednesday, and it was alright, but not the same as living in vail.  that was an awesome time of my life.
-Still going out "religiously."
-The inner chode was killed with the help of tyler himself.
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12.4  FR

Had a pretty solid weekend.  Feels really good to see some results.  Pulled on saturday but couldn't close it.

Friday

I head out and I'm feeling really chodely.  I actually have aa.  wtf.  I never have aa.  I'm just not feeling it and don't want to talk to anyone.  I force myself to open the first set.  It blows out quick.  A smile creeps across my face.  I remember the plane flying analogy Tyler talks about to describe the momentum building process.  Basically it goes like this.  If you were to be flying a plane, and your brain had the manual but didn't want to give it to you, you would just start flying.  After your brain realized you weren't going to stop, it would give you the manual.  Anyway, I remember this and internally tell my brain to give me the fucking manual as I laugh.

It does.  I begin to do well.

I open a ton of sets.  Then switch venues.  I run into Matt281 for a bit and we all head back to another venue.

As we're walking there, a sexy sexy girl walks by.  I stop her and try to get her to go to the venue we're going to.  She invites me to go to a different one with her.  We get there and there's a cover.  She know everyone there.  I pull her in and tell her to tell the cashier girl to let me in.  She goes to the bouncer and has him let me in free.  In the bar, she brings me a drink, and we have a fun little interaction, but it's hard to keep going because we are constantly being interrupted by people she knows.  she goes off for a bit, and i open some new girls. 

after that, i couldn't find her again.  but I got the digits. 

Great reference experience cause she was soo fucking hot to me.

Saturday

It was a really interesting night because I started out in good state, and then had some really solid interactions that shot my state through the roof.  After that, it was really something else.  Like I almost didn't have to even say anything to open girls.  Brad says that he thinks verbals are pretty much completely meaningless.  I experienced that.

The momentum building process went something like this:

-1st throwaway set.  2 girls.  One hot.  Doesn't go anywhere, but gets me going.

-Black girl with her friends for a bday party.  We're talking and she sits down.  I ask her straight up if she sat down to get away from me.  She says no and invites me to sit with her.  We have a pretty typical interaction.  I get her number and then tell her i'm going to find my friends and she should kick it with bday girl.  She asks if im actually going to call her.  I tell her I will and set up logistics for a day 2.

-3 different 3 sets that don't really go anywhere, but hook pretty well and build my state.

-Hot spanish girl.  Hooks hard.  Vibe it out, get the digits.  Try to set up logistics, but she's like just call me.  Ok.  Probably not that solid, but I'll def give it a shot.

At this point, my state is UP

-I see girls stop their conversations to look at me when I walk by.  I feel like I'm surrounded by an aura of positive energy.  It's fucking awesome.

-Walk up to these two cute girls dressed in strange outfits.  I don't even say anything.  I just gesture like what are dressed like that for.  The hotter one says, "im naughty".  In my mind, I think O RLY.  I grab her behind her neck and make out with her.  She's all about it.  We talk for a minute, and I get her digits so i can text her later because i'm looking for my friends.

-Walk up to this group of 3 girls and I don't remember what I said or if I even said anything, but they started taking my clothes off.  It was ridiculous.  The one who was most intense about unbuttoning my shirt said, you think you're stylish?  you have no style.  the other one is taking my jacket off. the other one is buttoning my shirt back up saying she doesn't want me to get kicked out. at some point i ask them WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU?  the one that loved my style is like oh, i'm really drunk.  they all run off.  wtf?

The Pull

At this stage in my game, I haven't pulled that often (just a handful of times in this entire journal); so when I do, it's fairly new ground.  If any more experienced guys that have pulled and closed a lot happen to be reading this and have any input, it would be great to hear. 

Saturday night is coming to a close, and who do I run into but insta makeout girl.  She loves me.  We dance.  I talk to her like im about to fuck her, and establish logistics. 

She drove and then took a cab to the bar we're at.  She lives on the opposite end of town as me.  Her friend that came with her is going with two large well dressed black dudes.  The better looking one keeps coming over and trying to steal my girl away.

At one point, she talks to him.  Then comes back to me, kisses me, and tells me he bought her a drink so she's going to go drink it, but she wants to stay with me.

I just stay calm, keep my intent up, but also disassociate from any outcome.

I find her after a couple minutes and help her drink the drink.  The black dude is trying to spit his game while she grinds her ass into my cock. 

She stays with me, and the black dudes leave.  (fuck ya son)

I pull her out of the club and to my truck.  

During the walk she loses state.  She doesn't want to come back to west seattle, because she lives across town.

We get to my truck and she doesn't want to get in.

I say some shit and she gets in.

I'm driving and she's like where are we going?

I say adventure.

She says she wants to know.

I say to my place.

She says no.

I say, ok let's get food.

She wants taco bell.

I turn onto the highway towards my house and reassure her it's ok.

she is very very unhappy with this.  pissed.  threatens to jump out.

I turn off and suggest food.

she gets happier.

nothing other than the old Hurricane (for the sake of bootcamp memories ;)

We get there and eat breakfast.  sit next to each other. Talk. Get to know each other more.  I laugh when she reminds me of how I met her by making out with her.  She's a really cute german chick with blonde hair and blue eyes, with a slight accent.  she's taller than me.  for some reason, this makes me feel extra pimpin.  she tries to makeout with me.  I only give her a little.  I work my hand up between her legs.  she pushes it away.

we're done with breakfast and it's fucking late.  im tired as shit.  I  wall slam makeout on the side of the building, and lead her back to my car.  

I drive her back to her car, and she tells me to call her. 

It was a pretty solid night, but I feel like I could have fucked her if I could have kept her more in state on the walk to the car. 

thoughts? advice?
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Cat

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My thoughts are that you are a fucking pimp you little slut

WE HAS TO MEET IN THE IRL BOY

Man, seriously.  Sick shit.  Blows my mind

Cheers 
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Awesome.  Good to see another dude in Seattle taking action. 

Did Julien/Tyler go over SNL pulling during BC?

I'm curious, why didn't you just fuck her in your truck?  Some girls will fuck in cars/bathrooms/alleys but they won't go home with you the same nite, because they think only sluts go home with guys, or something like that.  some girls are weird like that.

Another thing is to screen girls out by getting really physical and sexual during the pull, wallslam makeout, fingering her on the street, lifting her and carrying her to the car, jack up her buying temperature, have that good balace between fun and creepy times.
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Congrats man, sorry I missed that. I'd probably be able to give you better advice if I'd seen you guys haha.

Weird that she would do a 180 after that if telling her you were gonna fuck her didn't scare her away. I guess that sometimes they get caught up in the moment and then once they lose state, the reality hits and they know they're getting fucked, so that kind of weirds them out. In my experience leaving it "unspoken" tends to work better. It can be really hard to keep a girl in state when she hops in your car and starts driving toward your place.

Also, don't feel like it's SNL or nothing. The girl likes you, she wants to fuck you, so there's no problem waiting until next time.

Cheers :)
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I must have still been "in state" on sunday cause I got this bartenders number, and when I called today she said, "i probably shouldn't have given you my number because i have a boyfriend, but we should be friends, i make a really good wing man, and youd probably like my boyfriend too!"

ok sure thing.  she also said she'd hook me up with her friends.  i guess it's not all bad ;)

but, anyway

Cat-  Ya, let's kick it sometime.  If everything goes according to plan, I have a date tomorrow and another on wednesday, but I'll most likely be going out thurs-sunday.  my schedule is pretty flexible during the day too. 

Sexymachine- The text book process is to baby step it.  First to the door of the club, then out, then to the car, etc...  Your suggestion of picking her up and carrying her could be fun.  I'll remember that for next time.

Matt281- Your'e right on with that.  She was totally into it while in the club atmosphere, but then we emerged into  "reality," and her state dropped.  And ya, it's day 2 times for sure with this one.... I'll prob see you soon bro.
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Just pulled this girl back to my place and found out she's a virgin.  totally blew my mind.  like i didn't even know virgins existed anymore.

She had been at my place for at least 30 minutes before she told me she "hadn't really ever had sex before" and "hadn't really ever kissed anyone before"... 

...Hearing that blew my mind.  Really?  Never kissed a man before?

So, I kicked it with her on my bed, let her know I was cool with it, and just tried to make her feel comfortable. 

Then, I taught her how to kiss.  Literally- this is what you do with your lips and your tongue. 

We hung out some more before she went home.

It should go without saying, but you never know what a girl has or hasn't been through until you actually find out.  Never assume anything.
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