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Took some good old right action and went out for a bit in this ridiculously small town that I'm temporarily staying in. Flirted with the two girls who work there. So awesome.

Funny thing did happen today.

I walked into home depot and immediately locked eyes with a cute girl who was standing at the entrance with a clipboard. A fear hit me like I'd never approached before. I'm like wtf. This is the pain I used to feel before approaching.

I walk off.

See her later hiding in the back corner of the store so I open her.

She says she got a job where she has to approach people and it's so scary she can't handle it.

At this moment I realize that when I first saw her, I had felt her intense anxiety. A reverse of the what you feel she feels rule.
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Day 2

Met up with this cutie at a little dive in Portland.

Started with a one armed gangsta hug. had a beer and some boring conversation.

Venue changed.

Held hands. Clawed.

Next venue. Make her buy me a beer. Lead her to a booth. Get right up close so were touching. More boring conversation. I realize I have to do something. So I ask her if she's a good kisser.

Make out for awhile. Get slightly turned on.

Try to move it forward by seeding for extraction. She's not having it.

We bounce. As were leaving the venue, some chode guy approaches her. I let him say his stupid shit for a few seconds. Then give him a pat on the back say good luck with that and physically cut him out.

Walk her to her car. Keep trying to get back to her place. She's still not having it. I realize there's pretty much nothing I can do to push it all the way. Make out some more and bounce.

Fun meetup all in all.

Lesson: When she showed strong opposition to heading back to her place the first time i brought it up, I probably could have taken it as a sign that she wasn't emotionally ready yet. From there I should have focused on changing the vibe from boring logical to sexual. And of course physically escalated way more to get her super turned on. "Change her mood not her mind."

Bootcamp tomorrow!!!! Unbelievably stoked.
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Night 1 Debrief

-Self amuse between sets
           -Instead of being ‘wandering guy’ looking for the next girl to talk to, be the party!!
                   -But I’m out to meet girls, so how come girls aren’t the party?
                   -No doesn't work that way.  You have to be it. They will then be drawn into it.
-Be the coolest. Be cooler than the girl. Be cooler than her friends. ACTUALLY BE IT.  It’s your party. Bring them into it.
-When Owen is talking, all he thinks is, ‘I love myself.’ This is because he is expressing himself from the core. That’s when solid gold flows outta da mouth.
-Communicate man to woman
         -Ex. I was talking to a girl for ten minutes. It’s obviously going no where. Owen comes in and steals the set in a second by looking at the girl in her eyes grabbing her hand, pulling her in, and slow      dancing with her. She looks at me and says ‘I have no idea what’s happening.’ (Owen is seducing you ho). He asks me afterwards what he did differently than I did. He got her attracted. Straight up. Man to woman communication.
-No boy meets girl ‘I’m meeting you’ bullshit. It’s your party, you’re just having fun.
          -You don’t want to fall into the trap of the typical boy meeting girl scenario.  Be the party. 
-I’m going to cut your head off and put it on a pike (Owen’s default opener for the night).
-Fucking kill yourself bitch. Be icy!
-Be more dynamic in set. More self amused.
-Be more emotionally sympathetic to the girls. Watch the Tyler/Jeffy boston video.
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She looks at me and says ‘I have no idea what’s happening.’ (Owen is seducing you ho).


rofl, I'm trying to figure out who you were lol. I was the tall guy who was at most of the bars with you and was standing outside with the two girls when you guys all got a cab at the end.
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Damn,  been slacking off on this journal a bit... been out a lot lately... gotten lots of #'s.  game is 10x what is was prior to bootcamp.

here's a quick LR:

Boston girl comes out…

I met this girl in copper mountain sometime near February. We talked for a couple hours. Then I went home with her and her friends. At some point, she disappeared. Then her other friend came out and told me they were all tired. So, I went home. She seemed like an awesome girl- intelligent, hot, and witty; but, I pretty much just wrote her off. She was leaving town in a couple days.

Then she started texting me. I’d respond. I didn’t really think too much about it. But she started saying she wanted to come out to see me for her vacation. I was open to it.

So, 6 months after meeting her, she flew 3500 miles to come out and see me.

I picked her up at the airport. When I got out, I gave her a hug. She hugged me back noncommittally with one arm.

That night, I took her out to Hood River, which has a bar scene that’s good for bringing a girl to.

We had a shit load of friend to friend conversation. I knew I was spinning my wheels. She was countering all my attempts at physical escalation. She wouldn’t even hold my hand. I withdrew validation with my body language. She sought physical rapport by turning to face me directly for the first time. I remained turned away. 

We had been talking for something like 5 hours since I picked her up at the airport and brought her out to the hood river bars. I knew something had to happen, or I’d fall into the fucking friend zone.

So, as we were walking to a new venue, I pushed her into a closed store’s doorway and said, “what would you do if I pushed you in here and molested you.” She grabbed at the sides of the doorway to stop me, but I pushed her hands down and continued to push her into the nook. Then I went for the kiss. She turned her head away, so I grabbed her face and made her kiss me. She kissed me back.

This seemed to do the trick cause as we walked to the venue, she held onto my arm.

We kicked it at the next venue for awhile, and then I told her it was time to go.

Back at my place, she got ready for bed. She sat down on the edge of it, so I sat down next to her. I went for the kiss, and she bent her body away to avoid it. I just followed her with my body, and finally she kissed me back. Then it was fade to black.

Man to woman communication ftw.

Notch numero dias, and the hottest girl I’ve been with so far. Cool cool.

Spent the next 4 days with her, did some cool stuff, and then dropped her back off at the airport. Was glad to be rid of her, but slightly sad at the same time. Not sure if I care to ever see her again or not.

Whos gonna be chica 11??
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Work got fuckin crazy lately. Just went out for the first time in nearly two weeks last night...

I knew I'd be slightly off calibration and I was but it was all good.

Started off the night hittin up street sets solo before my friends got out. One girl I had an interaction with was goig downhill so I said I'm a really nice guy. She goes- you don't look like a nice guy! Haha. Next was a couple brazilians. I walked with them to the door of a club when they got up to the bouncer, one of them said 'this guy is bothering us'. Then her friend goes 'no hes not'. I ended up walking away.

Inside the club I self amused with a bachelorette party that had a giant blow up penis. Started feeling some micro momentum...

Opened a tall sexy girl and she started grinding on me like I was her strippr pole. Went fir the kiss a bunch of times but never got it...

Saw two cute girls blow out some chose who said some shit and opened the hot one by holding out my hand then pulling her in and putting her arms on my shoulders. Solid eye contact. She goes 'who are you?'. Got the digits. Then the interaction bgan to fizzle out. I should have led her around somewhere. So anyway I didnt. She stopped talking to me, turned her back, but stayed right there. I tried to get a solid day 2 set up but she wasn't too into it.

Then 1:30 came around and I left the club to go to work. Blah. Tis a long fuckin day. Hopefully get out again tonight now that i have some momentum built up.

Can't wait to move up to Seattle and live in the city!!!

Lessons: lead more. Don't lean in. Be more emotionally attuned to the girls subjective view of reality. Also should have gotten my friend to occupy the ug friend so I could have isolated the hottie. I introduced there group to mine but they didn't really even talk... Could also use some wings that know what's going on too...

Wrote this on my iPhone so it's prob fuckered up.
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Ha got home at 3pm. "slept" for a few hours, woke up to a red bull, and headed out.

All my friends were staying in this small town but it sounded like a lot going on. Since we were in small town, I wore some tore up jeans and a t shirt.

First "venue" is this camping party thing we crash. Everyone is in their small groups, and my friends are not about to go socialize. I go in. Meet some decent looking hawaiin chick. Think her name was Bimba or some shit. She's seated, so I sit next to her and make some conversation while I alternate between holding her hand and stroking her back. She bores the shit out of me so I move on. Start beasting on some girl and the. Her posse of Samoan dudes comes up and begins to display signs of territorial aggressiveness. Time to go.

Next "venue" is a lodge that happens to be hosting a wedding. We walk in and notice we are somewhat overdressed. Everyone else is wearing these corny 3 piece suits. Hit up the open bar and get a glass of wine. I notice the bride has stopped dancing and is staring straight at me, scowling. I smile, wave a little, and shrug. She smiles back, shrugs, and continues dancing. We open a 2 set, it's going decent, then the father of the bride approaches us. Uh oh. "what are you guys doing!". He's pissed. We tell him we know people and congratulate him. He asks us where our collared shirts and ties are. Ummmm. "we just came to congratulate the bride and groom." "WHERE ARE YOUR SHIRTS AND TIES!". Time to go.

Next venue is the local pub. My friend pours me some order of lemon/tequila/vodka thing. I thank her by assaulting her with flying coasters. She brings me wings.

Pretty busted night. I feel like such a towny writing that shit up. Good times :0
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The other day, I was out biking with my friend.  He crashed pretty hard.  I told him, "sometimes you gotta crash, it means you're pushing it, and you find out that you're not made of glass."

 Sunday Night

Had to go out cause I could... 

I drive around scoping the venues, and see a huge crowd of people outside.  Yess!! I park, walk up, and approach the first cute girls I see.  Poke her.  Vibe.  Hugs.  She's with her sister.  They are waiting in line to get dougnuts.  wtf.  haha.  There's like a  hundred fucking people in this line.  I silently lol to myself as I realize I could creep hard on every girl in this line and they wouldn't be able to go anywhere.  Anyway, it's going good with the two sisters.  The cuter one is now hanging on me.  I tell her,  fuck her dougnuts, let's go party somewhere.  She asks where?  I tell her it looked ok at boiler room.  She gets this embarassed look on her face and says she's not old enough.  I'm like no way.  She's 19, and her sister is 17.  Hahaha.  They live together.  I wish them well and bounce.  In hindsight, i shoulda at least number closed the 19 year old.  Or been beast and fucked them both!

Next, get to Barrel Room.  There's a cutie outside who I open for an easy throw away set.  This venue has a really cool outdoor area.  The only issue is that there's only five groups of people loosely interspersed around the area.  It seems kind of weird to me to be solo here.  Oh well.  Fuck it.

First one, go in hard physical.  She opens very well for the first minute, then I overescalate, and she runs over to her friends, leaving me standing there.  I think, fuck this isn't going to be good. Oh well.  I came out for a reason, and I'll burn this place to the ground without the anonymity of a packed venue if I have to.  

Icyness.  Solid.  Centered.  See the next one.  Problem is I'm not really having too much fun.  I find it's really hard to bring the party when out solo.  Also feeling low energy.  I try to be congruent with it.

Sexy girl with 2 other girls and one dude.  Poke her.  Say something.  She runs off to her friend.  I stand there and try to open her other friend.  She straight up ignores me.  I stay in for an awkward second.  The dude introduces himself.  We chat for 2 seconds before the girls grab him and walk off, leaving me standing there like a lonely weird creeper guy. 

Creep creep.

Onto the next one.

A seated set.  Open with some shit.  Sit down.  Talk shit.  She asks me where my friends are at.  I tell her I'm a douchebag and I don't have any friends.  She laughs, pokes me, and says playfully, you're funny, of course you have friends, where are they.  She realizes I wasn't joking.  Pretty sure she said something like ewww he came here by himself.  The group gets up and leaves, leaving me sitting there like a lonely douchebag.

State is plummeting.  There's one group of people I haven't creeped out yet...    Can't have that!  Walk up to this bachelorette party of all ugs but one.  Open the ugs.  They turn their backs.  Reach out to the hot one, she shakes her head.  I find one ug who is receptive and have a stupid little conversation for the next 10 minutes.  Then I end up in set with the hot one.  She tells me she's always mean to people at bars.  "If I had met her at a coffee shop I wouldn't be hugging her right away."  hahaha that's what you think.  She resists all attempts at physical escalation.  So I plow.  Then the pull her away.

Venue burnt the fuck down.  Mission accomplished.  yay!


 

-----2 week no masterbation challenge-----

No jerkin it for 2 weeks starting today. an experiment to ignite what Tim calls "the fury" and what Napolean Hill refers to as "sex energy transmutation".

Posted here for accountability.
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Fr 7/29

Finally got a night out. Been working a shitload to get ready for my move up to Seattle. But I digress. 

Start out at the first bar. My friend is ordering drinks. Some girl opens him. So, I talk to her friend. About 2 minutes of awkward stilted conversation and she runs off. I'm thinking fuck that was harsh I'm not on it. Oh well just the first set. I wonder off like a blown out chode. 

I head to the bathroom to regroup. I remind myself of the basics- intent, freedom from outcome, and momentum. Intent- clarity in my thoughts words and actions... Horniness. Love for women. 

Walk out and spot a two set sitting down. One of them is gorgeous. I open with a hug and tell them I love them. Vibe really well while making sure to include the friend. At one point I pull the hottie up out of her chair and spin her to get a better look at her. After awhile, her friend walks off isolating us. She force feeds me a sip of her margarita and I get a ton of salt. Blah. I pull her in from behind her neck and makeout. Get her number. Vibe some more. Try to figure out logistics. She came with her friend who is a coworker and they both have to work in the morning. I push for the pull. It's not happening, so I dont want to push anymore. I experienced a little while ago that you can lose a lot of value and come off as desperate...  Anyway, she was a really cool sexy girl. She takes off after making out some more and biting my lip! Pretty sure this is a solid number.  I texted her to get home safe and she replied when she got home. 

Open some random girls more for my friends amusement than anything. They think it's funny to send me into strange sets. Whatev. I'm always down. 

We get to the next venue and it's alright. I spot a very sexy girl about to leave. I open with, you can't leave you're my last shot at love!  Vibe for a little bit. Amog some dude. Number close. 

We leave for a better spot. On the street, I see two hotties hugging each other intensely. I open with none other than hugging them and telling them I love them. They say we don't know you but we love you too!  It's now a tight 3 way hug. One of them says it's her 21st bday. I immediately make out with her. When I stop, I make out with her friend.  Then I tell them I'm going to Dixie. They try holding on to me but I can't be held down yo!

In Dixie, my friend sends me into a six on the dance floor. I open her and find out she's a Victorias secret worker. I ask if she's wearing a sexy bra, then pull her shirt down exposing her breasts to me. I then lift up her dress to see what kind of underwear she's wearing. She says she isn't wearing any. Then she shows me her panties she is keeping in her purse for some reason. I steal them. She isn't really that hot, so I go back to my friends. 

We all live an hours drive away so I'm not to motivated to make anything happen. Fun night but I can't wait to be in Seattle where I can go out regularly and have a close by place to pull to. Then it'll be on motherfuckers!!
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Friday

Not too much interesting.  I went out, but left early cause I had to wake up at 4:30am for work the next day.... 

Had some crash and burns at this weird club called dante's inferno.  I realized it wasn't because of me, it was because the crowd is a bunch of socially awkward people.  Note: never go back to dantes inferno. At least I snuck in past the doorman and bouncer skipping the stupid cover charge.

Saturday

In Seattle for the weekend.  This is soon to be my new stomping ground.  :)

First venue is packed.  I do a oouple throw away sets to get started.  

Open one sexy cowgirl.  She opens well.  Her ug friend sees this, comes up and tells me her friend is about to get married, but as a part of her bachelorette party challenge, she needs a guy to give her a lap dance.  I say, "what if i just make out with her instead."  she's all nooooo thats not allowed!!  I consider this, and think it sounds like fun.  So, I push cowgirl into the booth and lap dance her.  I pull up my shirt as I pull her head towards my cock.  Then turn around and grind my ass on her.  I pull her up and say into her ear, "this is your last night as a single woman!"  Then I make out with her.  She loves it.  After a minute, her friends are like nooooo that's enough.  I tell them it doesn't count if she doesn't remember.  The one tucks a wad of cash into my pants! lol

Lots of opening hotties on the dance floor.  There's one really short girl, so I crouch down to her level and pick her up.  We dance, but it doesn't really go anywhere.  I see a train of girls walking off the floor.  The last one in the line is cute, so I block her way.  Vibe for a bit and get physical, then she says she has to catch her friends.  I reframe it like, 'let's go find your friends!"  and then lead her off the dance floor.  She see's her friends.  it's the bachelorette party from earlier.  They're like, "we like him!! he's cool!"  yay.  theyre all leaving.  I go for the number closed and get denied.

See a hottie with her friend, being gamed up by two other dudes.  Cut in and open her.  Lead her away.  Vibe for two minutes.  My friends tell me they're leaving.  I go for the number close. denied.

Next venue.  Open lots of girls and have a couple run ins with boyfriends.  Like dudes getting seriously territorial and defensive.  I call one guy out cause I'm pissed.  I don't think he was even her boyfrind, but he came up and said, You can go NOW!  I don't remember what I said, but I wasnt very nice.  He's pretty big, but I hold my ground.  I see him lower his defenses, and I tell him that shit he did was rude.  He offers to buy me a shot.  I make friends with him and it's all good.  No shot necesarry.

Nothing is really hooking, but I'm in state and open everything. 

Last call. 

and onto the streets. 

Open sets.  Nothing very solid.  Almost get one girl to come to the "afterparty." but her friend is not down.  My friends are no help.  Street sets at night will be a valuable skill to have once I get it down a little better.

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It was like something was a bit off all night.  Maybe it was the fact that I was running off 3 hours of sleep and a thermogenic.  Maybe my intent was off.  Not enough clarity in my thoughts words and actions.  Maybe my tonality was off.  Maybe I was communicating too much man to it, rather than man to person (woman).

So, Lessons:
-Intent.  Be very clear in your thoughts, words, and actions
-BR tonality and volume.
-The girl is not a meat sock to jerk off into.  She is a person.  Remember this, and communicate in kind.

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I seriously can't wait to be in close proximity to this night life.  I'll be out a lot and get this shit dialed. 

Like when I wanted to take my skiing to the highest level, I lived at a fucking ski resort and rode 6 or 7 days a week.  

Must find a place close to downtown....

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I love women.  

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Peace.
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