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Day 6
Anybody have any advice?
I have absolutely no clue how to help you with club game since I never do it. Therefore my advice is to try easier venues like bars, cafes, and daygame in general. I find this to be more efficient in terms of my goals: fucking a chick at least 3 times.Anybody have any advice?
At least in a loud bar or music venue you can get momentum, say 3 minutes of bullshit and get a number. If you are solid off the number you're golden, ground yourself as a normal fun dude blah blah etc, I know you're there in that regard.
I think club game is "cool" and "flashy" (for the same night pull) but in terms of consistency, in my reality (which is very narrow) bars + DG > clubs by virtue of being able to hear.
Clubs make people fucking WEIRD. Me included. I front and do weird inauthentic shit at clubs unconsciously. Maybe if you can cut through that bullshit for yourself and the girl you can make something more solid happen. I really dont know, just throwing out ideas.
It kinda seems to me like club game = same night pull, bars = same night pull or phone #s and then day2, and daygame = phone # and day2.
Do you want to be the guy who does the same night pull? If so, keep working on nightgame, and since bootcamps are all about clubs and bars, then maybe hit one of them if you can get the money. If your goals are different, quality girls, multiple relationships, whatever, maybe bars + dg are best.
I'd say just optimize your hunt for your goals, lols.
Whichever way you go, you're fuckign dope man, you sound like a really cool dude. I think that will carry through a lot and get this shit handled for you.
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adjunkie
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Didn't feel like going out, but did it anyway. Me and my dog at copper. He can come into the bar. There's a lot that can be learned from this dog- bigass doberman. He's a true fuckin player. His style is basically- be chillled as fuck, approach set with gangster swagger, cut the space, get physical right away, eye contact, full assumption he's gonna get petted, persistence to get petted, chill there and get loved on until he gets bored and moves to the next one.
There was a handful of girls out last night, which was a pleasant surprise for a monday night in the miniature town.
I talked to all of them, and had a few long interactions. Really just chilled back and hung out. Noticed I have some issues getting physical at this particular place because its so low key, small, and local. Everyone basically knows everyone, so it's like working social circle when you're barely in it. I only know these people from the bar. They work together and come out together.
Last one, I'm talking to this sexy little girl who came here with about ten guys. It's getting late and I'm tired. So i close out and tell her I'm going home. she seems dissapointed.
Lesson: I should have led, isolated, and then escalated.
Goal for tonight: Use this structure- open, hook, lead, isolate, escalate, pull or # close
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