THE FORUMS
Bumping this thread, it's been a while...school and accounting recruiting are killing me right now, I feel like there's been no time to hone this...
But today I had a convo with some chick I met at the club a long ass time ago. And now I am revived. I am GOING to find time.
But today I had a convo with some chick I met at the club a long ass time ago. And now I am revived. I am GOING to find time.
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Just an update on what I've been doing the past...damn 3 weeks?
After two weeks of awesome school, reality hit. I was hit with a four class load and accounting recruiting. But the recruiting is somewhat helpful - especially if it all pays off in the end.
This thursday is going to be the first time I've gone clubbing in a long ass time - it's time to get this shit flowing again. I feel like every time I start making progress I get bogged down with school, making it an excuse. Fuck that, never again.
EDIT: In other news, I've DJ'd more times this quarter than ever before. Going to buy a sound system soon.
After two weeks of awesome school, reality hit. I was hit with a four class load and accounting recruiting. But the recruiting is somewhat helpful - especially if it all pays off in the end.
This thursday is going to be the first time I've gone clubbing in a long ass time - it's time to get this shit flowing again. I feel like every time I start making progress I get bogged down with school, making it an excuse. Fuck that, never again.
EDIT: In other news, I've DJ'd more times this quarter than ever before. Going to buy a sound system soon.
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Note to self: She called me when hanging out with somebody, i need to make sure I specifically say "call me when you can devote 100% of your attention to me" instead of sorta half assing it and being nice and shit.
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Just an update on what I've been doing the past...damn 3 weeks?
After two weeks of awesome school, reality hit. I was hit with a four class load and accounting recruiting. But the recruiting is somewhat helpful - especially if it all pays off in the end.
This thursday is going to be the first time I've gone clubbing in a long ass time - it's time to get this shit flowing again. I feel like every time I start making progress I get bogged down with school, making it an excuse. Fuck that, never again.
EDIT: In other news, I've DJ'd more times this quarter than ever before. Going to buy a sound system soon.
esculate from the beggining untill they threaten to call the bouncers, you'll eaither suceed BIG or fail BIG After two weeks of awesome school, reality hit. I was hit with a four class load and accounting recruiting. But the recruiting is somewhat helpful - especially if it all pays off in the end.
This thursday is going to be the first time I've gone clubbing in a long ass time - it's time to get this shit flowing again. I feel like every time I start making progress I get bogged down with school, making it an excuse. Fuck that, never again.
EDIT: In other news, I've DJ'd more times this quarter than ever before. Going to buy a sound system soon.
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New field report 2.0:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/315808?#comment-1018656
LA dudes hit me up for wings.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/315808?#comment-1018656
LA dudes hit me up for wings.
Good point on the IOI. I sort of lost her on the next phone conversation, phone is such a sticking point.
Turns out I didn't go clubbing on thursday because I had another bullshit accounting recruiting event.
Last night is worthy enough to post a FR for though. There was a party at another school for our fraternity, so we ended up going. It turns out it was a shitty party (almost nobody there) but I told them I'd at least DJ a bit for them.
BUT BEFORE THAT I went on a Day 2 from this girl that called me saying she's bored. I wish I had more time. I ended up going to the grocery store and baked cookies. There needed to be more time for me to build attraction, I think me trying to kiss her came at a somewhat awkward time. She'll still hang around I bet, so I'm not too worried; honestly it's nice to see that I've progressed to a day two with somebody - it's been a long time.
First girl opened turned out to be friends of some girl that I fucked in my car last year. LOLOOLLL OPS . I'm surprised they still remember that; that's a funny story in itself. Bailed on that.
I go back into the (empty) dance floor area and some girl comes up to me "hey I used to DJ". She sticks around, she isn't extremely hot or anything but she's dressed up like a full on slut so I'm at least digging that. She's somewhat sober (but offering me drinks to try and get me drunk).
It's here where I have decided to start finally using some of the tools RSD has given me. I decided to talk with my face really close to hersand physically escalate a bit. Rub the side of her leg, constant arm around her etc. She's extremely responsive, it's just too bad she's not extremely hot. She leaves then comes back, I try to grind on her (the only person in the room grinding LOOL) and we talk about how she's a dancer first DJ second. Text later that night and she responds.
BUT OMG BEST STORY OF THE NIGHT came from the girl after this one. She's cute, Asianhb8. But man, this girl lies like none other. Anything I'm saying she's bouncing off of her shit field, where I'm just calling her out on it. Of course it's a running joke but it's interesting - I'm not the one initiating any of the physical escalation anymore. She keeps asking me to play "a certains song which I've already decided that it's simply not happening. I dont' number close her yet, but then someone I drove comes and tells me he can get a hot girl's number. My friend who is wearing some huge hairy chewbaca costume apparantly started gaming her earlier when she literally came up and started feeling his hair. She licked his fingers or some shit while he tried to feed her food. Too bad, he didn't get her number (AA?) but I did. I ended up cutting off the song she wanted right when the first lyric came.
I think the huge moral of the story tonight is push/pull. I feel like I have a legitimate example under my belt of not giving a girl something she wants, therefore DESTROYING her world as she knows it.
Looking back, I should have probably tried to bathroom pull her. WHYYY DIDN'T I DAMN IT. I'm not used to pulling - maybe there's something I should strive for.
Also, important to note that I achieved success at a house party, something also new to me. Slowly making progress.
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EDIT: Forgot to mention that I also had my first PURE wing last night. There was some white girl ( I don't do white girls) sorta hovering around me and my friends, so I gave my friend the most hardcore introduction possible. She was all over him. I like how when I think about my game that I only think about the successes; slowly starting to rewire myself.
Turns out I didn't go clubbing on thursday because I had another bullshit accounting recruiting event.
Last night is worthy enough to post a FR for though. There was a party at another school for our fraternity, so we ended up going. It turns out it was a shitty party (almost nobody there) but I told them I'd at least DJ a bit for them.
BUT BEFORE THAT I went on a Day 2 from this girl that called me saying she's bored. I wish I had more time. I ended up going to the grocery store and baked cookies. There needed to be more time for me to build attraction, I think me trying to kiss her came at a somewhat awkward time. She'll still hang around I bet, so I'm not too worried; honestly it's nice to see that I've progressed to a day two with somebody - it's been a long time.
First girl opened turned out to be friends of some girl that I fucked in my car last year. LOLOOLLL OPS . I'm surprised they still remember that; that's a funny story in itself. Bailed on that.
I go back into the (empty) dance floor area and some girl comes up to me "hey I used to DJ". She sticks around, she isn't extremely hot or anything but she's dressed up like a full on slut so I'm at least digging that. She's somewhat sober (but offering me drinks to try and get me drunk).
It's here where I have decided to start finally using some of the tools RSD has given me. I decided to talk with my face really close to hersand physically escalate a bit. Rub the side of her leg, constant arm around her etc. She's extremely responsive, it's just too bad she's not extremely hot. She leaves then comes back, I try to grind on her (the only person in the room grinding LOOL) and we talk about how she's a dancer first DJ second. Text later that night and she responds.
BUT OMG BEST STORY OF THE NIGHT came from the girl after this one. She's cute, Asianhb8. But man, this girl lies like none other. Anything I'm saying she's bouncing off of her shit field, where I'm just calling her out on it. Of course it's a running joke but it's interesting - I'm not the one initiating any of the physical escalation anymore. She keeps asking me to play "a certains song which I've already decided that it's simply not happening. I dont' number close her yet, but then someone I drove comes and tells me he can get a hot girl's number. My friend who is wearing some huge hairy chewbaca costume apparantly started gaming her earlier when she literally came up and started feeling his hair. She licked his fingers or some shit while he tried to feed her food. Too bad, he didn't get her number (AA?) but I did. I ended up cutting off the song she wanted right when the first lyric came.
I think the huge moral of the story tonight is push/pull. I feel like I have a legitimate example under my belt of not giving a girl something she wants, therefore DESTROYING her world as she knows it.
Looking back, I should have probably tried to bathroom pull her. WHYYY DIDN'T I DAMN IT. I'm not used to pulling - maybe there's something I should strive for.
Also, important to note that I achieved success at a house party, something also new to me. Slowly making progress.
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EDIT: Forgot to mention that I also had my first PURE wing last night. There was some white girl ( I don't do white girls) sorta hovering around me and my friends, so I gave my friend the most hardcore introduction possible. She was all over him. I like how when I think about my game that I only think about the successes; slowly starting to rewire myself.
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Wednesday: Club party, I sucked ass at any sets I tried to do. There was this one girl that it was her first time clubbing and we held a decent conversation before I guess I wasn't exciting enough and she ran off with her friends. Did get her number, maybe i'll try calling it tomorrow.
Thursday: FUCK ACCOUNTING. TAKING AWAY MY PARTY NIGHTS.
Friday: Day 2 with a girl from class. After fucking up some day 2's from earlier in the week I decide to sort of go slow, not really making any moves. I felt that this was bad, I could tell that it didn't really get anywhere. There was physical escalation, I'm going to try and nail her sometime this upcoming week. Also we had a Social with the frat, some girl came up and opened me that was pledging for an org and we talked. Pretty responsive, I'll probably call her tonight. She was pretty cute.
Saturday: One of the girls I met at this party last week (see last entry) I ended up hooking up with, and we would have fucked if her ROOMATE DIDN'T COME INTO THE ROOM TWICE WTFFFF. It was the first time in a long time, but it shows drastic improvement in a quarter that is extremely, extremely busy. After I realized that all this shit really is a game, what do I have to be worried about? I sort of see it clearly for the first time - but the only way that I am going to be able to instill this into me is to get to this point more times. Whatever I'm doing though, I am improving - no doubt about that.
TONIGHT: Called transfer girl I met at bruin bash, she NEVER picks up her phone though so we'll see what happens. After trying to kiss her on two day 2's we had and not really getting responsive, I wonder if she'll actually call back. If she doesn't call, I'll call her again monday. Need to call pledging girl tonight also.
Monday I need to call class girl and girl with ridic annoying roomate. Also call pledging girl?
Wednesday need to call random girl that texted me last week out of nowhere. Possible ioi?
Thursday call hella old school friend that I was hooking up with during winter quarter of first year. She wants to hang out, but it would be funny if I could actually k close her again. I forget the reason why we stopped.
EDIT: Called pledging girl, 5 minute-ish call and talked about how awesome I am and my amazingly great cooking. Got her laughing, I'll call her tomorrow as well to ask about what she's doing for the rest of the week. Most of the talking was done by me, which I don't particularly mind...shouldn't it be 90-10 anyway for the first bit?
Also called class girl, left message. Wow girls are terrible at answering their phones.
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I have now decided that all girls I ever get phone numbers of I am going to first go and try to program my name into their phone as something random. Also, I will call them the day after I get their number. I don't remember where I've heard this, but literally more than a day after a cold approach number is too long. Now more than ever, I understand and FEEL that.
Thursday: FUCK ACCOUNTING. TAKING AWAY MY PARTY NIGHTS.
Friday: Day 2 with a girl from class. After fucking up some day 2's from earlier in the week I decide to sort of go slow, not really making any moves. I felt that this was bad, I could tell that it didn't really get anywhere. There was physical escalation, I'm going to try and nail her sometime this upcoming week. Also we had a Social with the frat, some girl came up and opened me that was pledging for an org and we talked. Pretty responsive, I'll probably call her tonight. She was pretty cute.
Saturday: One of the girls I met at this party last week (see last entry) I ended up hooking up with, and we would have fucked if her ROOMATE DIDN'T COME INTO THE ROOM TWICE WTFFFF. It was the first time in a long time, but it shows drastic improvement in a quarter that is extremely, extremely busy. After I realized that all this shit really is a game, what do I have to be worried about? I sort of see it clearly for the first time - but the only way that I am going to be able to instill this into me is to get to this point more times. Whatever I'm doing though, I am improving - no doubt about that.
TONIGHT: Called transfer girl I met at bruin bash, she NEVER picks up her phone though so we'll see what happens. After trying to kiss her on two day 2's we had and not really getting responsive, I wonder if she'll actually call back. If she doesn't call, I'll call her again monday. Need to call pledging girl tonight also.
Monday I need to call class girl and girl with ridic annoying roomate. Also call pledging girl?
Wednesday need to call random girl that texted me last week out of nowhere. Possible ioi?
Thursday call hella old school friend that I was hooking up with during winter quarter of first year. She wants to hang out, but it would be funny if I could actually k close her again. I forget the reason why we stopped.
EDIT: Called pledging girl, 5 minute-ish call and talked about how awesome I am and my amazingly great cooking. Got her laughing, I'll call her tomorrow as well to ask about what she's doing for the rest of the week. Most of the talking was done by me, which I don't particularly mind...shouldn't it be 90-10 anyway for the first bit?
Also called class girl, left message. Wow girls are terrible at answering their phones.
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I have now decided that all girls I ever get phone numbers of I am going to first go and try to program my name into their phone as something random. Also, I will call them the day after I get their number. I don't remember where I've heard this, but literally more than a day after a cold approach number is too long. Now more than ever, I understand and FEEL that.
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A good point that I've started to notice: whenever I have pretty "successful" nights, it's always because my core confidence is extremely strong. I need to make this solid, but that will only come with experience.
When I turn 21, I'm going to do a 30 day challenge. Hopefully next quarter I'll have more time to devote to this stuff. In other news, interview hell week for public accounting is this upcoming week...but at least I'm DONE after Thursday........
When I turn 21, I'm going to do a 30 day challenge. Hopefully next quarter I'll have more time to devote to this stuff. In other news, interview hell week for public accounting is this upcoming week...but at least I'm DONE after Thursday........
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New field report 2.0:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/315808?#comment-1018656
LA dudes hit me up for wings.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/315808?#comment-1018656
LA dudes hit me up for wings.
see you guys next week. and this time we can actually tear shit up
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New field report 2.0:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/315808?#comment-1018656
LA dudes hit me up for wings.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/315808?#comment-1018656
LA dudes hit me up for wings.
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