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dont build rapport over the phone. Use it at first to get her used to receiving messages from you and then use it to schedule meet ups. If you talk to much your gonna say someting wrong eventually, and if there if she isnt that invested, bye.
dont talk to her anymore and learn
dont talk to her anymore and learn
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Thanks for all the advice guys. Solid shit. You just laught it off, learn and move on.
Good for you, sounds like you needed a good smack in the face, what a crybaby you are.
Who gives a shit, dude, you care way to much about one interaction too early on.
Who gives a shit, dude, you care way to much about one interaction too early on.
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Thanks for all the advice guys. Solid shit. You just laught it off, learn and move on.
I don't get it. What did you LEARN?You didn't learn anything really, because noone gave you a solid answer.
Do you just continue forever not caring about making mistakes? Doesn't Jeffy say that you shouldn't be out there "banging your head against the wall" over and over again, but that you should be analysing your mistakes and correcting them? He said that recently.
Def not. Mistake is dif from fucking it up.
There's no such thing as a perfect pick up.
Frankly, if that was the best yet, there's still tons to dial in internally, but u're well underway.
I remember this pilates instructor whom I banged after a series of "fuck ups". She had lost her lifetime BF in war and had been celibate for a year since, in fact I think their anniversary was that month.
There were SO many emotional-nerves I pinched and it would've destroyed it all, but girls' perception can be so malleable if u truly believe things aren't really a big deal, they follow ur lead. I honestly thought a year was long enough, though in hindsight maybe not. Regardless, all my behaviors and words pointed to "it's cool to move on and enjoy ur life".
U probs lingered too much, were on a "great pickup ego" high and dragged it out, or she just had to take a shit.
U can't blame girls for being bored and hang up either. Even to this day my GF is like: "ok I'ma get off the phone I'm bored" cuz I'm watching my Tennis matches and paying little attention. They're emotional junkies and if u don't move things forward they get disappointed ure not the guy u portrayed urself to be at the club.
Oh and also how much u react to that one or two or three mistakes u make, is FAR more important than the mistake itself. Accept ur fuckups, be a man about them, humble enough to admit them and correct them and.... NEXT.
There's no such thing as a perfect pick up.
Frankly, if that was the best yet, there's still tons to dial in internally, but u're well underway.
I remember this pilates instructor whom I banged after a series of "fuck ups". She had lost her lifetime BF in war and had been celibate for a year since, in fact I think their anniversary was that month.
There were SO many emotional-nerves I pinched and it would've destroyed it all, but girls' perception can be so malleable if u truly believe things aren't really a big deal, they follow ur lead. I honestly thought a year was long enough, though in hindsight maybe not. Regardless, all my behaviors and words pointed to "it's cool to move on and enjoy ur life".
U probs lingered too much, were on a "great pickup ego" high and dragged it out, or she just had to take a shit.
U can't blame girls for being bored and hang up either. Even to this day my GF is like: "ok I'ma get off the phone I'm bored" cuz I'm watching my Tennis matches and paying little attention. They're emotional junkies and if u don't move things forward they get disappointed ure not the guy u portrayed urself to be at the club.
Oh and also how much u react to that one or two or three mistakes u make, is FAR more important than the mistake itself. Accept ur fuckups, be a man about them, humble enough to admit them and correct them and.... NEXT.
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The only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved, desirous of everything
at the same time, the ones who never yawn
or say a commonplace thing, but
burn, burn, burn,
like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding
like spiders ac r o s s the stars.
-Kerouac
The only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved, desirous of everything
at the same time, the ones who never yawn
or say a commonplace thing, but
burn, burn, burn,
like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding
like spiders ac r o s s the stars.
-Kerouac
Yes. This is like a videogame where you have one life, and no continues.
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Game is the utilization of external events, people and circumstances (that life presents you with), by expressing yourself in a way that (re)frames the social context in such a way that it confirms (is congruent with) your sense of reality and anticipated responses. This roughly means you only think, interpret, feel and behave in a way that supports your reality and expectations.
FREE BOOK ON SELF-CHANGE DROPPING AT JANUARY 1ST, 2012
At my website: www.identityisdynamic.com
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