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December 3rd, 2016
1103rd post: Be a Fucking man about it
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Bayroot

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Seriously, this post is good enough to kill the dating community forever. If understood properly, even RSD would be out of business.

However, since 99% of you wont appreciate it for what it is...it wont.

This is the game.

Whenever you get a question about anything...in life, or in pick up, theres only one universal answer. To every question you could possibly EVER ask.

6 Words.

"Be a fucking man about it"

Thats it.

...

Seriously, thats it.

"How do i approach the girl with 5 guys around her?"

BAFMAI implies going through the pack of chodes and plucking her out.

"What do I do if my gf mentions that other guys are hot?"

BAFMAI implies telling her to either pack her shit and go fuck them or just laughing in her face.

"What if a girl says im ugly"

BAFMAI implies ignoring it (not acting like a little bitch) or saying "so is your mother"


You cant tell me theres a person on this planet (women included) who doesnt know what "be a fucking man" about it means.

If you think any more advanced than this...youre just masturbating.

Stop trying to be a fucking man and be a fucking man.

Chode ass bitches...
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Jaffar

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 HAHAHHAHHAHAHAH,

I was just writing something very similar to this.  Glad this shit has happened.  Seems like people are realizing that they KNOW what it means to be a Man.  I mean we all see them on TV, and it's dramatic, but accurate.  N we see 'em in the clubs if we're going.  N we see 'em in our friends n family.

We fucking know .THe question is are we too to be one.

Love it.  Now I want to see ten more posts, each one SHORTER until the last one is just.

BAFM.  Nuff said

Jaffar.
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Bayroot

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A little more expansion on this and the reasons why...

Anytime you ask a question starting "What if" or "How do I" or "What do you"...youre coming from a frame of "This is what i want" or "I want to be the man".

What youre actually doing (and you do it because society has conditioned you this way) is asking for permisson from others to be who you want to be. Because its easier to do if everyone thinks its ok. Basic group mentality. Thats why noone claps at the end of a movie until someone else starts.

But you're already presenting the problem and the solution in your question.

"How do I get the girl in a group of 5 men"

Youve already presented what you want "The girl" Youve given the situation, shes in a group of 5 men. Your question is how do i get her out of that group....GET HER OUT OF THE GROUP.

Whenever you ask a question, youre basically asking how to go about being a man, withoutt actually having to be a man.

Youre asking someone for the secret way to do it so that you dont actually have to face up to doing it.

SERIOUSLY. UNDERSTAND THAT STATEMENT.

Tim tried to tell everyone this shit years ago. He doesnt even post here anymore coz theres no point. Granted he is busy and he does love you guys, but seriously. How many times can you tell someone to step up before you give up trying?

Tim solved the game already. The game is done. There is no game. The only reason Tyler, Jeffy, Alex, Brad etc are all here is because they are trying to find different ways of getting this simple message into your thick skulls. Theres no more to learn from the game. Its just trying the politest and nicest way to filter through this message to you guys and keep it fresh and interesting.

Dont be fooled because these guys teach bootcamps every weekend and bring out new material. It's not coz theres new stuff you dont know yet. Its coz they know you constantly need permission from them to be the man you want to be. (PS. PLEASE NOTE I AM NOT DOUBTING THE VALUE OF RSD OR BOOTCAMP. AT ALL. I LOVE THIS PLACE. IT SAVED MY LIFE. AND I WILL CONTINUE TO COME HERE.)

Like Jaffar says...the question isn't "how do i" or "what do i"....the question is...
 
ARE YOU TOO MUCH OF A PUSSY TO BE WHO YOU WANNA BE, OR NOT?
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foxy

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 Thanks.
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LearningAboutLife

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simple, but a easy mindset to apply.

Be a Fucking Man About It
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nestea

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hahaha true
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Stinson.

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This is basicly the one thing ive been working towards with this "game" stuff.

the whole not giving a fuck attitude is about listening to your core and doing it regardless of what people think

I believe that every question you can think up, you are also capable of answering it yourself.
but it really just comes down to being a fucking man about it
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Steve-0!

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Bayroot


 I hear ya kid. Everytime I have been told you can't do that. I do it or try to prove it to myself... no more second hand experience.

I am just tired of living for something that is fake. It has taken me a long time to get to this stage. It also came at the end of moving to China by myself for a year. Reading Brad's Blog from start to finish. Taking a bootcamp with Nathan, dating many girls, sleeping with most of them. Going for makeouts, pushing limits day in and day out. Challenging the social you every chance you get. Taking a bootcamp with Ozzie. Traveling to Europe by myself for 6 weeks. Doing stand up comedy for a year. Being socially critcized for 5 minute periods. Putting your balls on the line in front on live audiences. Giving your personality to the world... and some girls says I don't like you. Really? Where the fuck do you fit in.. Not in my world little girl.

Reflecting on my life kinda showed me why I got where I was . Being a man, acepting the good and the bad and mvoing forward. I have endured pain, pleasure but I still felt something that was more than I could before when I was 24 sitting on my couch, watching sports al the time, trying to dull my senses.

So ... I think in one of Presenters notes from the Summit... You insecurity falls away like a scab when you go through enough.

Am I were I want to be in the long run? No... but I will not stop pushing , growingmoving forward in the direction I want my life to head. But the only person that will ever provide me with that opportunity is ..... ME! point blank period! 
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wales

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self help is no help

being a man is something you earn by embracing the silence in your action which comes from your focus
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subx

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victim mentality post:

i wasn't taught how to 'be a man about it' by my father

regards.
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Alejandro!

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Bra-VO! Awesome to see how far you've come. A true inspiration my friend and big fat smiles.

Cheers broheim.
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Bayroot


 I hear ya kid. Everytime I have been told you can't do that. I do it or try to prove it to myself... no more second hand experience.

I am just tired of living for something that is fake. It has taken me a long time to get to this stage. It also came at the end of moving to China by myself for a year. Reading Brad's Blog from start to finish. Taking a bootcamp with Nathan, dating many girls, sleeping with most of them. Going for makeouts, pushing limits day in and day out. Challenging the social you every chance you get. Taking a bootcamp with Ozzie. Traveling to Europe by myself for 6 weeks. Doing stand up comedy for a year. Being socially critcized for 5 minute periods. Putting your balls on the line in front on live audiences. Giving your personality to the world... and some girls says I don't like you. Really? Where the fuck do you fit in.. Not in my world little girl.

Reflecting on my life kinda showed me why I got where I was . Being a man, acepting the good and the bad and mvoing forward. I have endured pain, pleasure but I still felt something that was more than I could before when I was 24 sitting on my couch, watching sports al the time, trying to dull my senses.

So ... I think in one of Presenters notes from the Summit... You insecurity falls away like a scab when you go through enough.

Am I were I want to be in the long run? No... but I will not stop pushing , growingmoving forward in the direction I want my life to head. But the only person that will ever provide me with that opportunity is ..... ME! point blank period! 
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