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December 7th, 2016
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Presence__

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Join Date: 11/23/2009 | Posts: 135

I hooked up with this girl last week and we were talking about threesomes and the way she described one of hers going down reminded about my own and how it didn't take much heavy lifting.  It sounds like bs, but getting a threesome going is actually not that hard if you put your mind to it.  I'm going to start this thread with some of my own observations and hopefully some of you guys will add your knowledge to it.  

Threesomes are actually quite normal to girls in a way.  From the ones I've had I've realized more than ever that girls have a harem mentality.  Like if you've ever seen a porno where two girls are sucking a guys dick at the same time that's pretty much the way it goes down (the good ones at least), whereas you would not see two guys trying to eat a girl out at the same time.  Girls very much respond to being with a single alpha male and you become a conductor of sorts during the entire proceedings.

There's two ways threesomes can go down, just like there is two ways a normal pull can happen.  SNL or Day 2,3,4 etc.
Obviously for cold approach SNL to go down you are mostly working with logistics and finding out whether the girls up for a SN threesome.  My experience has been with two sets, and for obvious reasons I think that is the most efficient set you can find. First find out what their relationship is.   Two girls who have been friends since grade school aren't as good a prospect as two girls that have known each other for less than a year.  Why?  Investment.  Friendships can get fucked up by sex, and girls don't want to fuck up their 15 year friendship.  This is not a hard and fast rule because maybe they have been having sex on occasion with each other over the years.  Plus, IME girls do very freaky 'out of character' things with the right guy. Next, at some point in the interaction you want to find out if they would be interested in messing with their friend and you.  This can be through any manner of screening questions, sexual talk, or physical escalation (all three of you).  It can also be done in a totally understated, subtle way where you just have a hunch that it is going to happen.  Obviously that one takes field experience and is not something I can describe.  I even remember an old FR (different forum) where a guy claimed he could look at girls and tell if they were down.  Jedi master.

Normal screening questions apply here as well.  If the girls need to be up for church at 9am I'd move on.  Another thing that I think helps is to have the girls kiss.  It solidifies the reality of what is going down, and amps up the sexual vibe.  You also want to make sure you've kissed each girl individually or had a three way kiss.  The girls might not want to have sex with each other, but they should at least be willing to kiss each other.  Also, I have to say that alcohol does grease the wheels.  You don't have to drink or suggest it but they might need some so don't be surprised if they want some shots.  Having a threesome is a pretty intense experience for most people, and it does help some girls to open up to it.  Does that mean you need to buy the alcohol?  No, not at all.  They likely know exactly how much to buy themselves in order to be able to give themselves permission, and they will do just that.

It's important to have physical rapport with both girls.  Make sure you keep an equal balance, otherwise you are going to make it more difficult.  Also verbal has to be very balanced.  I think some ambiguity helps things along - the trick here is not to express a strong interest in either girl.  The girls will sometimes try to find out who you like more.  It's almost like a shit test to deescalate the situation and put the brakes on.  Don't answer any question in any way that would give one more power.

The SNL is a high risk/ high reward situation.  You are going to have to push it.  That means overt sexual talk possibly, or a strong escalation, whatever the situation calls for.  With threesomes there is less room for error, yet surprisingly once the ball is rolling the "it's on" vibe can be very strong.  The momentum can become incredible to the point where you are 100% convinced it will happen.  Remember that an SNL threesome is an SNL threesome.  You can't take their phone numbers and expect  the girls to call you for a postponed threesome.  That's not the way it works.  You can ratchet down a lone girl emotionally, and maybe get her out on a day 2, but with a SNL threesome the energy has to build to a crescendo, and end with three sweaty bodies on a mattress.  Girls have to be in sexual state IOW, and you aren't going to be able to call them the next day and be like "hey does your friend still want to get together?"  They are thinking more along the lines of "good thing I didn't do that."  Now there are some women with very open lifestyles - think hippies - that you could probably do that with, but I don't like the smell of patchouli.

The second way, the Day 2 will usually be with a girl that you have already slept with or a girl that has expressed a strong desire in that direction, and she will either enlist a friend she knows who is down, or be willing to go out with you and find a girl.  This is an even easier way to get a threesome because she's actually doing all or some of the work.  The SNL threesome is all on you pretty much.  This one you pretty much just sit back and let her do the planning with her friend, or, if you going out in tandem, let her pick the girl she likes, then help her to make it happen.  The girl really has to pick the girl, it can't be any other way.  I don't have anything else to add here, because it's a very easy format for a threesome, and standard PU rules apply.
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Presence__

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Also: be a diplomat in bed as well.  No focusing more attention on one girl.  It gives off a bad vibe.
Threesomes are awesome experiences, and I've slept with some lower numbers, like girls I wouldn't normally have sex with, to make it happen.  Like I will fuck a 6 and a 7 together because 6 + 7 = 13.   Be willing to do that if you want one.
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Cheers dude. 
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This post deserves a resurrection.
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