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January 20th, 2017
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cag6117

cag6117

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Join Date: 03/26/2009 | Posts: 144

Yo guys,

I am about to hit up some online dating. I am back from Uni att the moment and going out is not really an option due to transport issues.
So yeah i have tried this once before and failed miserably. I tried Zoosk and Match.
Too many fat chicks for a start and did not get hardly no replies- but to be fair i did send out a chodey message. Probably because the hot little naughty's do not need dating sites!!
What advice could you give me anyway? I know one odvious one would be speak from your core like the legend himself Tim says! What good sites are there? I am from the UK by the way.

Thanks.
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Dulak

Dulak

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Join Date: 09/23/2008 | Posts: 1312

Hey whats up ...

I did the OL dating scene for awhile and got mixed results also.  In the beginning I got crap results; would send up tons of messages and get crap for a reply really none would follow up. 
I just kept at it and tried different sites. 

I finally started getting some dates and ie ended up to be quite a few.  Although still didnt really meet anyone that I really fancied.  But still was a great experience.  Interent dates tended not to be as good as when I pulled a solid # on a nite out but still if you are a busy guy; cruising the net for dates at least its still a form of sarging.

I tried all sorts of stuff with my profile and emails - my profile pics were probably average; and to tell you the truth I think 95% of chicks and guys base if they will reply off the pics. 
I used to really try to impress via my emails to the chicks; now I dont do that - like F that ... express is better.  It feels so much better to be whom you are instead of being someone for somebody else.

anyways GL and HF
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cag6117

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Hey Dulak,

Cheers for that mate. I agree with the profile picture thing. Just been on Zoosk- thats the best one i have found so far and i literally base whether i contact a girl on the picture entirely. Sending out messages to like 15 girls at the moment and said the following:

Hey,

Thourght i would contact you on here as you seem pretty cool and quite attractive too.
I have not really wrote a lot about myself on my page- but too lazy with these things!! Using it at the moment though as i am trying to meet a girl on here and am not at Uni so i cannot go out and do it.
Anyway you will have to tell me more about yourself. I can also see you are a Mum... very interesting!

Chris.

Like the girl i sent that message too, theres loads of Mum's on there- like eighteen year old ones or they are fatties usually! Dunno whether the message is that good really but we will see what happens!
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cag6117

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Join Date: 03/26/2009 | Posts: 144

Out of curiosity does anyone know if you need to pay for Zoosk. I have sent a few messages out but dunno whether the girls have recieved them. After all it says the conversation is locked or something.
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Reformation

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Join Date: 08/08/2010 | Posts: 709

try www.plentyoffish.com its comletely free
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TheArcadeFire

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Join Date: 09/04/2009 | Posts: 71

Dude no dating sites man, I tried it and You will only find the girl you don't want.
If you have extreme luck you will find a 6, where you have to work your ass off for.
The good girls won't be there.
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reborn09

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Join Date: 11/04/2009 | Posts: 769

Yes, online is generally shitty, but I signed up on a Ukraine site a while back to rip pics for fake facebook profiles.

After reading a few posts on here, I decided to give PlentyofSluts a try, seems ok so far. My first message has been variations on "who are you?" and my profile is based on one I saw on a blog about sociopaths (extreme narcissism).

I'm off drinking/clubs for the moment, so will be doing this and day game. Still keep going with approaching girls IRL.

Lol, this chick is a match for me: bit.ly/b7hGOU
Full christian and "i am hearing impaired, i wear hearing aids (one in each ear) i can talk AND sign (i was brought up "oral" i.e to speak."
Reminds me of this thread from Jdizzle: www.rsdnation.com/node/161179
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Apemarriott

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Join Date: 07/25/2010 | Posts: 8

I will start by saying: I do live in Denmark and people always tell us Scandinavian girls are the prettiest in the world, BUT:

If you are average at netdating, you will get shit. if you are GOOD at netdating, you will be king. Seriously. If you understand how to create a great profile and use the right messages, you will be able to pull hot ladies. It just requires a skillset, JUST like going out does.

You can learn to spot ugly girls and you learn learn to get a high response rate. With some of my profiles/messages I can get a 90% response rate.

How to do it? Longer story.. To make it short: Experience and keep learning from your experiences!
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manixen

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Join Date: 04/17/2008 | Posts: 59

 Online dating = an excuse not to cold approach.

The approach in online dating?  "Let me wink at this girl so she can blow me off by ignoring me -- that way I don't feel any bad emotions acutely."
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cag6117

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Reformation wrote:
try www.plentyoffish.com its comletely free
Yeah i am on it now cheers mate there are some pretty hot girls on there i cannot believe it!!!

TonyMontana and Manixen i get both your points and do agree. I am only using it as a stopgap until i am back in Cardiff. Better doing that than nothing at all.
Apemarriot any idea how to make that great profile? :) A 90% response rate is awesome.
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Reformation

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Join Date: 08/08/2010 | Posts: 709

You're welcome and yeah theres some quality on there.  But alot of mingers, also theres a super high flake rate for meet ups but thats probably just me ;-)
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