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Resaj

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Last night WAS OUT NIGHT. Let's write these V:s, L:s and WN:s. Inspired by Alex from RSD. Thanks!

Thursday, August 19, 2010

Victories
I went out and had a blast. I had intimate fun at the end of the night in the basement. Built my own cave of fuck. Got tons of eye fucking going on from girlies. And alot of proximity from honeys. Was very social, talked with alot of people. Fluff talk. Two places, one cozy chilled bar and one classic club.Haven't jerked of in a long time to get that sexual intent up so I get motivated to approach.

Lessons
Keep up the social vibe where you talk. And you gotta capitalize on those EYE FUCKS and PROXIMITY. And don't depend on them. Stop being lazy and go hit it hard. What am I waiting for. And also, minimize on the FB, makes you de motivated. Take initiative and do it. Or else you'll end up with just eye fucking, nothing else.

What's next?
Keep going on. I am doing good man. At least 3 nights a week. Approach those proximity honeys and eye fuck honeys. Keep on being social and approach people from left to right. Take initiative and approach even without proximity and eye fuckings.

PEACE
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Thursday, August 19, 2010

So I am getting this approach thing handled baby...
This is for the approach lessons I have from last V, L, and WN:s. Get this handled at least here.

No value/victim/girl/fun- scanning. There is really no perfect outcome. Jump in the river and see where it takes you. I miss 100% of the shots I don't take. It's true. So no more thinking/planning etc. Train the thought process to be like this: “Girl…Hot Girl…Get Hot Girl.”. As a man of action you go for what you want. Thinking and planning doesn't help. You are not a mind reader either. Stop being a gay shiny vampire that waits for an invitation. Assume it's on. Re-frame baby. So do not even go in with all this theory. Go in with...like a kids mindset. 'Ohh a shiny lamp...*touch*...Aooo...it hurts...ohh a butterfly...*chasing butterfly*..."Basically the girl....hotgirl...gethotgirl..."


Also. Go in like a fucking straight sniper bullet of pure intent. No orbiting alright. And what to say comes up maybe. You say what's on your mind..."Awwh shit, your so hot".
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Sunday, August 22, 2010

Friday
V:
Was very positive and social the whole day. The attraction at the venue was space-rocket high all over the place. Eye fucking and proximity going on everywhere, I approached a lot too. Thanks to the removal of value scanning and implantation of "Girl...hot girl....GET HOT GIRL". I remember that 4 approached went superb. I got 2 numbers. I befriended the girls friends easy. I got touchy and physical right of the bat. I was in stable state. And I did my goals. I approached like a bullet. Straight line bitch.
L:
Good job mate. The approached were insane. But we need to tweak it more. You are never above the process and there is nothing wrong with you but you forget key principles. We need to go in HARDER. Push things HARDER. Go in with more intent. Lazer eyes, sex eyes. You showed intent but we want MOAR. MOAR IS ALWAYS GOOD. And also stay in set until you get a FUCK OFF. And yeah keep running the train you did good. Don't leave the set even if you have closed. Even if you have number closed KEEP GOING until it's really over for the night. Glad you got kissed and makeouts and even a girl stuck to you like glue.
What's next?:
Keep it up bro. You rock. Keep up the minimum of 3 nights out a week. Keep up the approach momentum you got now. Now run the train on your numbers. Add maybe some BR tonality and and go in harder with intent. Keep up the mindset. Stay ACTION!

Saturday:
V:
I went out. I did like one approach on the dancefloor. No, actually more, but they were indirect. More social circle style. I did hang out with 1 fbs and her friends. This was a social circle night out. Chilled out with 6 chicks alone. Was very social. Make out. Venue changed 3 clubs. Lead alot. Got a handjob behind a church. I spiked tons of emotions. Massive negative emotions but whatever.
L:
I got my first big LMR. Haha. Didn't break through it though. Easy lesson learned, Keep going baby. I think it came because there were zero comfort. Qualify more baby. You are never above the process. And leading more would also have done it. Take it easy on the drinking too. Makes you exhausted around 1-3 AM. which sucks because you can't think then to take care of these kind of logistics. Btw this girl I #closed last weekend and yeah little fluff talk and yeah met her this weekend. So...lesson learned baby.
What's next?:
Keep going out man. No value scanning. Girl...hot girl...get hot girl.. Run the numbers. And never forget that you are never above the process. Lead, qualify baby. Overall it looks good. The snowball is rolling. Stay action bro.

ALSO I'M GLAD I TOOK CARE SUM OF THE APPROACH PROBLEM ;)

PS: To clear thjings up. I went out with my fb...but then met up with the #close girl who gave me only a handjob and lmr.
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Just got a text message from a girl saying: "You can be a REAL ASS SOMETIMES...you know that?"
I didn't know that...so now I know what people mean by saying that you learn more about yourself when you are interacting with other people. Now it all makes sense.


Anyway. some texting of my # girls.

Got the number and then sent: "Get home safe girl -name".
NO ANSWER
Another number: "Get home safe girl -name".
Girl: "answers".

2days later...
"It's so fucking sweet to watch south park at my job on a sunday :)"
"I fucking hate south park...what do you work with."
No response from  me.

Next day.
I call her...no answer.
10 minutes and some fruits munching later:
I call...no answer.

10 minutes and a conversation with family later
I send "I heart you x"
to both girls.
Girl that can't say "thanks" to get home safe= NO ANSWER.
Girl that hates southpark "Are you sure you sent this to the right one haha".
Me: "yes dork, now call me I got a secret"
Girl: "I'll call you later, im with a girlfriend right now walking :)"
No response from me, let's see what happens.

I'm planing on telling her the secret. And that is fellas....a SECRET so don't even bother asking.
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Is this normal?

You call a girl...you kinda pause alot and talk to her. And since I am working I have to put the phone down and take care of customers.

But she like sounded like a chode really. Like so inside of her head and kinda shy when I called. And then she were like "Oh I gotta go..uh go..to a fotball game..I call you later...".

First time happening here. I might have to qualify her more so she feel entitled to have me. Might have come across as to cool.

Anyone experienced the same thing?
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Mhm yeah. So the work I am currently working is kinda exhausting and boring now. It used to be super fun when I worked at it at first. But now about 6 months later. I am kinda done here. So waiting for the store to be sold. The selling is taking place right now. Will last probably a week or two.

But now it's time to go to grow land baby. To grow even more. To harvest more and enjoy more experiences. New experiences. GROW baby GROW.



So I have to make clear of this boundary. I want to grow. And everybody should respect my desires especially as much as I respect them. Indeed huh? Maybe it's all just in my head, anyway. So NO is a no. I am sorry, but I have other plans. I want to try a new job. I want to harvest the experiences that comes from seeking/looking for a (new) job.

This current job I got from social circle. It was offered to me. And they have been kind to me. I think? Because from what I've heard the job competition here is TOUGH. So be it. I want to take it on baby. This job right now. I've grown enough. It has become normal. Need more challenge. GROW GROW.

1) I have grown enough here.
2) It's not the job for me now. Other out there waiting for me.
3) I want to grow more, get more experiences.
4) I want a more challenging job. (This one was challenging in the beginning but not now.)
5) I want to work in a new environment.
6) And I want a job that is more aligned with my purpose.
7) This place has become dull and static. I want more FUN. Which leads:
8) VARIETY, I want variety now.
9) Because my core says it's enough. (In The Core We Trust).
10) Once again, over and over again. I choose between Growth and Dying. I choose growth.

I choose between Challenge and Comfort. I choose challenge.
I choose between Uncertain and Safety, I choose uncertain. It's funny because in a way I am certain it will work out if I just take action and stay positive about it. Nothing can hurt me. But still, it's unfamiliar ground.

Stay action bro!
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Today is party tiem night.

EXPECTATIONS:
1. It's party tiem ok?
2. Approachinator
3. Call up my #closes and bring them to the party.

Blow shit up baby. wink
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So I went out yesterday. Wednesday. So I said earlier I don't remember so much of the night most of the times but this time I did write down stuff on my phone and record sometimes. So I am going to try and write it now. Enjoy and if you can give me feedback brothers.

I went to this club slash bar slash concert thing. It's crazy here. A 7 floor building.
I first talked to the doormen.
Resaj: Hey guys I'm back.. (they don't recognize me lol)
DOORMEN1: ignore, like they just wanted me to show ID and get it.
Resaj: Alot of people here tonight huh?
DOORMEN1: Erm well
DOORMEN2: (cuts in) Well go up and see for yourself.
Resaj: Well I saw alot of people walking out so thought this place is probably packed.
Doormen2: Go up and see.

Went up saw the first floor, packed. Some band performing. Went upstair to the party floor. But it kinda looked closed so I vibed with other guys close by.
Resaj: Wtf guys is the party floor closed?
Mr5: Uh well it shouldnt be. I was just there:
MrIlikeMen: Yeah we were just there.
Resaj: Well it looked close show me man show me.

I did lead them. Attraction spike BOOM! Found out that it wasn't closed. I had gone to the wrong floor. Duh! lol Said have a nice night and see you around fellas.

Went to the party floor, vibed with the bartender. Recurring theme from the vibe: They always say "what?" And I have to repeat myself. Wtf. Tonality.
Looked around just listened to the music. There was a girl giving me proximity but I was thinking to much. Right there and then I remembered: NO SCAN MAN.

Headed down fast. Just looking at stuff with a purpose. Happened to hear loud music. So I told the guy next to me how he could hear shit in here. He said well yeah the drummer plays it hard.
Then looked at 2 girls standing in front of me. Girl...fat girl...doesnt matter...talk to fat girl"
BOOM
Hands on her shoulders, turn around.
Resaj: How the hell can you guys talk in here, the music is obnoxious!
Girl1: Well we just try but uh --friend cuts in
Girl2: We talk louder so we can hear.
So they turn around and say something to eachother, then they bail.
Ah well got momentum (:

Headed to the bar ordered a beer. Cutie next to me we call her WhoreBeaver. I looked at her in the eyes while waiting for my turn at the bar. And I saw strawberries.

Resaj: Oh wow strawberries (as I look at them and then turn to her.)
Whorebeaver: DID you guys say WHOREBEAVERS?
Resaj: Wtf no, you're a pervert haha..i said strawberries damn (turn around)
Resaj: Oh look other berries..

Whorebeaver: Take on.
Resaj: No, anyway who the hell plays this loud
Whorebeaver: The whorebeavers are playing..haha
Resaj: You are sick, (grab my beer and eject)

I could see that her friend wanted us to keep talking. And she kept looking at me smiling. But what is done is done. I just ejected.
LESSON: STAY IN SET UNTIL IT GOES NUKE AND SHIT BOY!

Went to look for a place to hang my jacket. I went to the room next to the band stage. And what do I find there? Well besides a place to put my jacket. I saw MrIlikeMen and Mr5.
Hanged my jacked and sat at their table. Said something like :WTF dudes, I thought I was the only one sitting here away from the loud fucking music.

We talked talked. Mr5 was a chinese looking dude and he knew 5 languages. His girl came. So I talked with ILikemMen. How I found out he liked men is that I was talking about why I was out alone. Told him about that I went to Iraq and that I was a beast approach machine guy with my friends. And that when I came up I changed and all of them changed. They all got girlfriends. Then talked about that. That lead to if he have a girlfriend. He told me he was gay. Awkward moment? No, I played unreactive.

Then we went on about femine energy and masucline energy. And HE told me that the masculine guy in every relationship should have free time for his friends etc. Yeah I told him it seems like they are both femine. My friends and their girls. He said they would probably break up soon since they never go out anymore. Blablahblah. Then I bailed.

Well the whole night was like this. Talk to people, find them later with their friends. They see me and we wave then they either make way for me or I make my own way haha. Like Hannibal. And I chitchat etc. Nothing much. Either way good night for being my first night alone.

Oh yeah at the end I met my #close girl. Let's call her HBGlue. Cuz she was stuck to me like glue when I met her.

Well long story short. I was on super sexual intent. I know I said I should have more intent in the club I was at. But I had. SOO MUCH. But I didn't show it see. There is a difference.
But with this one I showed it. I like grabbed her hard several times. She said she had to go home. Like she screamed. And few times I thought I had gone overbroad. But when I released her she just like walked away slowly while sexually gazing at me. Well so I went at it several times. Caveman style. But I guess she really had a valid reason to go. because my moves got ACCEPTED. Even though I got mad in the end because she left. 

HBGLUE: Arent you going to give me a kiss goodbye.
Resaj: No because you are not leaving girl.
HBGLUE: I have to take this train babe... (as she walks away slowly as a snail).

NO response from me. Ah. Got a text 5 minutes later as I was walking home.
HBGlue: Sorry, I really don't want to miss that train.

So that was my wednesday. Hehe just wait for FRIDAY AND SATURDAY!!!

Victories:
- Approached and socialized with people alone.
- I went out alone. First time to a club. Wasn't bad at all. Was even more fun because usually buddies chode out and I have to sit with them because I feel bad for them.
- Met up with HBGlue. Makeouts, touching, so basically I did make moves. Thats the important thing.
- I didnt call my friends. I was going to many times to see if they were to come. But I kept a strong will. *pat pat*
- Broke another comfort zone so.
- Went out even though I was sick.
The approach thing is basically handled. I got it down.

Lessons:
- Approaching alot is always good. But then again quality over quantity. Stay in set until you hear something like 'POLICE POLICE'. lol
- The intent is high from not jacking off. Good. But now SHOW IT baby. MOAR MOAR!
- Stay longer in the field and approach more. Don't go to your #closes. Either meet up with them later or let them come to you.
- Speak louder. Many people said "what?". Probably because your sick and the music is loud but still. LOUDER IS BETTER.

What's next?:
Keep going. 3 out nights minimum a week. Stay in the club until it closes. Quality of quantity baby. Glad you got the approach down. But sitll quality over quantity now. Keep at it. I love you

So thats it. Hmm. Thanks to the guys who told me to record my field time. But it's kinda messed up right now. But I learn how to do it better and better. Thanks.

Also feedback is always welcome. 1love, peace!
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Hey guys. Went out on Friday and had a blast.

Victories:
Had fun, met alot of people. I went out alone. Met two dudes there and became homeboys. Talked nonsense about my constipation problems etc etc. So another step out of the comfortzone. Out alone. Chatted up girls randomly and naturally around us. Did approaches. Well I like to call it chatted up a few chicks. Phone closed one girl who just wasn't hooking at first. Then at the end I just went in and dragged her out and she was full face eating mode. Was both in flow mode and had a intent to close. :)

Lessons:
You are never above the process. Learned to rely on my dick and not IOIs. Intent is good. I said to the #close girl: "wtf are you doing to me...you look at me...dance then leave...*pull her out of the dancefloor*...put her hands on my boner..see girl...I like you". After that the makeout came. The boner move of glory I did after she said "I don't know why, why are you looking at me then?" I thought that making her feel my cock and the I like you...was enough qualifying haha. Because I did like her and obviously. And the boner wow. Thanks cock.

What's next:
Keep it up. Keep going out. Having fun. Stepping up and outside of the comfortzones. Let the reference points add up. Remember the process, trust the process. Understand the process. Stay action. Oh and don't forget your purpose and intentions. :)

Stay action man!
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Something that is on my mind all the time is that "when thing are going well you only remember the well, and things are going bad you remember the bad.".

2 days left at my work. I'm already starting to feel "aww I am going to miss this place". Learned alot but it's time to move on.

Current plans:

- Start working out again. I lost too much weight. Need to get some gangstah physique now so building muscle mass is the goal. :)
- Do a 30 day challenge. Where I will go out 30 days in a row instead of 3 times a week. Stepping outside of the comfortzone. Never tried it before. :)
- Search another job. But the priority is as this list. Getting a new job in a new environment is the goal. :)

Stay action!
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Yeah went out last night. BIG fucking epiphany last couples of days.

This is how the thoughts go.

Like what the hell, I am already good at the game. I am not super PUA but what the hell man...this shit is fun. It´s just a fun game. I am, I am not doing. BEING.

All this feelings, all these mistakes/lessons, all this autopilot emotions and thought processes. Their part of the game.

I got this shit. I am a 10. (then I stop doing and being, I just am, its not even logical). Wow now the anxiety is gone.

Like Like I am a 10. If IM FEELING THIS AND GETTING THIS LESSONS then I know for sure the RSD instructors do too. So fuck it...if IM feeling this then everybody is. So Im just gonna be. We are all the same. I dont care...I know for sure they are the same. And its funny that I say THEY. It´s WE haha.

So my nights out have been awesome. Like I see the upside. Was out last night too...friends birthday. Just shooting the shit. No thoughts. BEAST MODE/LORD MODE/Pussy monster MODE.

Oh yeah I quit the job. Joined the gym. Now researching a schedule for my mass muscle gain program. If you guys got tips...tip me.

and i read the article about beast mode. Lets go baby. This is my life, I breath this shit day n nite...watch out...30 day challenge soon.
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