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Jaguar

Jaguar

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Join Date: 08/10/2010 | Posts: 229

 Hey guys 

I'm 18 years old and never had a girlfriend. Never have hold hands with a girl. I've had 5 girls interested in me, but I've always managed to fuck up.
So i'm now sick of it and going to take charge of my life. I will first focus on inner game, because I know my inner game is very weak. 
I'm going to start monday to get in the field.
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Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless. - Ciaran
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore." - Ciaran
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Jaguar

Jaguar

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Join Date: 08/10/2010 | Posts: 229

 16-08-2010

So today my plan was to approach women and ask for the time. I only managed to ask 2 and the were old.
I felt really tired after that and went home. Tommorow my plan is to approach 3 hot women and ask for the time. 
For now I'm going to work on my voice with a program called: Voicing it from Nancy Daniels
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Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless. - Ciaran
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore." - Ciaran
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MovingForward

MovingForward

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Join Date: 07/12/2010 | Posts: 308

IMO if you're starting out, find 18+ clubs and go there, so you can approach a lot of women very quickly and get on a roll. Experience indifference threshold and what happens after you cross it. This will also help you quickly realize that rejection is not a big deal.
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High self-esteem (and resulting beliefs and vocal projection from that)  = the single MOST important piece of the game, from which everything else stems. Draw the good feelings from within, feel brave enough to experience happiness and awesomeness about yourself on an ongoing and consistent basis, feel truely ENTITLED to 10's, make yourself validated internally (approval or rejection by other people does not alter your awesomness), bring the party and be loud as fuck (borderline obnoxious vocal projection at clubs). It is your birthright to feel entitled to and to expect all the best life has to offer. It doesn't matter what everyone else thinks about you. http://www.rsdnation.com/node/186628/forum Ryan Bootcamp, Nov 19-21, 2010, Washington DC
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Jaguar

Jaguar

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Join Date: 08/10/2010 | Posts: 229

 I know that going to clubs is better, but right now I don't think I have the balls to go alone to such places.
So I will keep it with daygame for the moment.
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Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless. - Ciaran
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore." - Ciaran
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Jaguar

Jaguar

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Join Date: 08/10/2010 | Posts: 229

 17-08-2010

So today the weather is really bad, so i'm staying home. 
Thursday the weather will be better and I will go to Amsterdam to try to cross the indifference threshold with daygame. 
If you guys have any ideas on how to cross it the best way, I would like to hear it. 
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Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless. - Ciaran
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore." - Ciaran
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Jaguar

Jaguar

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 19-08-2010

I'm back from Amsterdam. I approached 12 women with asking the time or for directions. I mostly felt AA when the girl was hot. 
I have this weird belief that girls will know i'm hitting on them and they won't be nice. 
There was one ugly woman I asked for directions and she seemed like saying: WTF do you want from me, than I turned to her girlfriend to ask if she knew the direction and I was like O shit she's hot like a HB 8.5 and she was nice. Kinda weird. 

But still after today I still feel i'm not totally confident in approaching girls. 
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Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless. - Ciaran
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore." - Ciaran
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Jaguar

Jaguar

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 30-08-2010

Today I went infield. I was walking and a HB8 asks me where the apple store is, so I answer. I know I should have tried to continue the conversation. 
Then I saw group of 6 girl walking in front of me. I asked the ugly girl, a HB5 where the H&M is. She was like WTF, she seemed scared. The Alpha HB8 said to me they're looking for the same store and that she's from germany.
Now I was the one that thought WTFwhat chu talking about. This girl seemed wanting to have a conversation, but I was blank, I couldn't vomit anything. So I walked away, they said bye and so did I. I'm a fucking I know. I  could have number closed, she was interested as hell.
Then I asked an ugly women where the store is. After that I saw a HB8 and asked her where the store is she smiled and answered. I was like WTF she sounds retarded. You know you meet some girls once in a wile that just sound really dumb. This was one of them.
Really guys why are we having AA? Some hot girls are really dumb. 
Finally I approached 2 black girls, I don't really find black girls attractive but who cares. I asked them where the apple store is, they said there is no one there. They were just lying to meomg.

Lesson for today: Girls are nice. So stop being afraid of them dude!!!
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Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless. - Ciaran
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore." - Ciaran
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Jaguar

Jaguar

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Join Date: 08/10/2010 | Posts: 229

 Today I approached 5 HB's  asking them where the apple store is. 
I'm still afraid of the approach, I hate it.
Two of the HB's ignored meomg, i know it was because I approached them like a with a low voice. 
One HB was really receptive she stood really close to me and was smilingshades. I didn't continue the conversation, stupid me. 
Sticking points: 
-still afraid of the approach
-speaking to quiet
-not using breaking rapport tone

This is a cool video about life I found today:
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Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless. - Ciaran
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore." - Ciaran
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#8

PaintByNumbers

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Join Date: 08/20/2009 | Posts: 45

Don't be so hard on yourself man.

It doesn't matter how the set goes just know that they're always giving value.  Even if the girls are repulsed by you and practically ignore you, then you're still giving them a story to tell other people later.  That's value.
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Jaguar

Jaguar

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Join Date: 08/10/2010 | Posts: 229

 I have my break at work, so I go to eat at the McDonaldstounge
While standing in line there are two women left from me laughing. 
So I face them and ask: is there something?
One of them says: you were just working. 
Me: yeah and I have a break now. 
They continue laughing.
Hmmm weird shit. Women are weird 
I know I'm too much watching for IOI's when Ozzie says to always assume attraction. 

I must say after last monday and wednesday after just 9 approaches I feel a difference, I feel more confident. 
This week will be the introduction of my college, so I won't post the upcoming days. 

My recent plans are:
-really getting rid of AA
-eating healthy
-exercise 

I want a body like this in 1 year:
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And then this after 4/5 years:null
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Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless. - Ciaran
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore." - Ciaran
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Jaguar

Jaguar

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Join Date: 08/10/2010 | Posts: 229

 So today was the introduction of my university. In one word: CHODE.
I was a fucking chode. And I couldn't hide it. Shit Tyler has right, the real self always comes through. 
So I guess I must cut the bullshit and go hardcore. No more going to ask 5 girls for the time, thats too easy.

At the moment the worst is that every day just seems bullshit, I can't enjoy it, because I know I'm not who I'm meant to be.
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Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless. - Ciaran
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore." - Ciaran
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