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Well if she is beatiful for you, then won't you say it?
I mean, it doesn't matter what you say to her, it's how that matters.
I mean, it doesn't matter what you say to her, it's how that matters.
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Girls are cute, not beautiful. Sometimes hot, sexy, slutty or sweet. But mostly cute. Why? Because....well, they are cute.
Honestly, it's pretty much irrelevant. Personally I rarely use beautiful, if ever. Cute a lot. Whatever you think is right, is right.
Main point, only say it if you really feel that way. Not to get anything out of it other than making her feel good.
Honestly, it's pretty much irrelevant. Personally I rarely use beautiful, if ever. Cute a lot. Whatever you think is right, is right.
Main point, only say it if you really feel that way. Not to get anything out of it other than making her feel good.
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“Real niggas do what they wanna do, bitch niggas do what they can.”
-Tupac Shakur-
-Tupac Shakur-
Most guys don't tell beautiful girls that they are beautiful. Most guys don't say shit to beautiful girls. They will tell hot girls they are beautiful to try and get in their pants. Most guys who fuck beautiful women don't call them beautiful. If you do, you will stand the fuck out and they'll probaby wanna date you. Providing you fuck them good. I'm not sure how you could not know what to make of the "good morning :)" response, I certainly hoped you kept the interaction going. Don't think about this, it's stupid. Most attractive girls aren't beautiful, but hot or cute or sexy etc. Tell a girl she's beautiful and she'll melt with pleasure. Providing you're not a pussy. Authenticity. Don't expect anything.
Dude do whatever you want. If you feel like you want to tell her she's beautiful do it. Don't do it because sb said it works really well with girls, do it if you want to.
Personally I can't remember myself having said that though.
Personally I can't remember myself having said that though.
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And you know that imma ride with my motherfuckin niggas,
Most likely imma die with my finger on the trigga,
Don't worry bout mine, imma grind till I get it
And tell all of my niggas that the sky is the limit,
Most likely imma die with my finger on the trigga,
Don't worry bout mine, imma grind till I get it
And tell all of my niggas that the sky is the limit,
Ya I think one of the biggest things RSD is dead on about and something Ryan told me in person is that "DO WHAT YOU WANT".
If inside, you get that feeling that you want to tell her you're beautiful, then do it.
Fakeness will destroy you.
If inside, you get that feeling that you want to tell her you're beautiful, then do it.
Fakeness will destroy you.
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Brutal honesty
lol... this statement is quite ironic because if you think complimenting gives your power away, you never had it to begin with.
When complimenting works, it's because she views you as higher value which validates her and boosts her state. In other words, you give her GOOD EMOTIONS.
When complimenting works, it's because she views you as higher value which validates her and boosts her state. In other words, you give her GOOD EMOTIONS.
If the girl is beautiful it would be chode not to say it. I prefer honesty. It's not really importand during pickup to say it... but now when i think about it, more often than not i say to the girl that she's cute/beautiful or something of that nature ;)
It doesnt "work" when guys say it as a shortcut to her pants. If you mean it, say it - whatever that is.
It doesnt "work" when guys say it as a shortcut to her pants. If you mean it, say it - whatever that is.
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There are risks and costs to action. But they are far less than the long range risks of comfortable inaction. - John F. Kennedy
Way too much thinking..tell her what you want, as long as you mean it...you can call her a dirty slut, as long as you mean it. It's even better coming from a sexy/teasing frame ;)
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I'm in Manchester Bitch! Be real
You are micromanaging a hole in a bout thats already sank to the bottom of the ocean floor.
If you're coming from a place where what you call her is dependent on what people on here say, you already don't get it and a text wont help I'm afraid.
Unbreakable nailed it., or Ryan did.... Do what you want.
The majority, I would say.... 80-90 percent of guys on here are having ZERO to minimum success with women... they come on here and give answers to things they have no place answering.... because they don't have the reference experiences and they're too frightened to go out into the world and get them. They read an answer and they regurgitate it so they feel like they have some knowledge on here.
Why would you want these peoples advice anyway?
"Chode" (the coca cola term of this board) number 1 is giving advice to "chode" number 8.
The simplest way I can give you an answer... which you'll still have to figure out on your own... is this:
A text message, line or piece of clothing does not make a man attractive. It may mask his true self for a while, but it does not make him attractive.
An attractive man can text, say or wear whatever he wants... and he will always be attractive.
The solution is to become an attractive man. You must be comfortable with you, love you and act through your own intentions."
Acting through your own intentions" is one of the true RSD gems.
If you're texting a girl what "chode" number 8 told you (or me, chode number 266), you're really not doing that are you?
If you're coming from a place where what you call her is dependent on what people on here say, you already don't get it and a text wont help I'm afraid.
Unbreakable nailed it., or Ryan did.... Do what you want.
The majority, I would say.... 80-90 percent of guys on here are having ZERO to minimum success with women... they come on here and give answers to things they have no place answering.... because they don't have the reference experiences and they're too frightened to go out into the world and get them. They read an answer and they regurgitate it so they feel like they have some knowledge on here.
Why would you want these peoples advice anyway?
"Chode" (the coca cola term of this board) number 1 is giving advice to "chode" number 8.
The simplest way I can give you an answer... which you'll still have to figure out on your own... is this:
A text message, line or piece of clothing does not make a man attractive. It may mask his true self for a while, but it does not make him attractive.
An attractive man can text, say or wear whatever he wants... and he will always be attractive.
The solution is to become an attractive man. You must be comfortable with you, love you and act through your own intentions."
Acting through your own intentions" is one of the true RSD gems.
If you're texting a girl what "chode" number 8 told you (or me, chode number 266), you're really not doing that are you?
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" the training is nothing.... the will is everything.
the will to act... "
- Ra's Al Ghul
the will to act... "
- Ra's Al Ghul
Do what you want man. I personally don't say beautiful. But ITS ALL ABOUT HOW MUCH VALUE YOU HAVE. My current gf is fucking obsessed with me, she told my friends gf that we are soulmates, and I tried to mabye push her away by going complete fucking chode beta etc. The result? Stage 5 Clinger x10.
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Turd Battalion Eigth Marine Regiment....
I look up to the sky, And now the World is mine, Ive known it all my life, I made it, I made it!
I used to dream about, the life I'm living now, I know that theres no doubt. I made it, I made it!
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I just texted a girl 'Morning gorgeous' more as an experiment than anything else (there was a voice in my head yelling CHODE) and she replied "good morning :)". Not sure what to make of that but whatever.
Also you hear girls say a lot that they love being called beautiful, which is probably why most guys do it loads and why I think it's not actually true. Maybe it's good for their egos but doesn't actually make them more attracted to you. I mean, why would it?
Do you guys do it? What do you think? Does it even matter?