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January 19th, 2017
IMPORTANT TOPIC: ALCOHOL
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#11

kidazia

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Join Date: 09/04/2009 | Posts: 236

Jabbmaster wrote:

kidazia wrote:
Its not about numbing anything.  It's fun and feels good so I choose to drink.
I call: rationalization ^^. Even if you THINK its not about "numbing anything", biologically speaking, you are "turning your brain off". Here's a GREAT clip about this topic: 


I think alot of people are socially conditioned to "drink", because everybody else is doing it.... A caveman 1000s of years ago wouldnt dumb himself down to have fun, or to bang a chick in his tribe....The social conditioning is happening 24/7, friends, commercials, partypictures, attitudes, peoples, etc. )...

Its not like im saying "Hey today I feel like numbing myself so I can talk to girls!"  Its more like "im gonna have some drinks tonight and let loose and have some fun!"  You're making it seem like anyone who drinks has issues.  Stop overanalyzing.
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#12
igoshi

igoshi

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Join Date: 06/30/2010 | Posts: 10

 Classic Ending.
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#13

Corksil

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Join Date: 03/03/2009 | Posts: 1341

good flick. i lol'd.

at which point dude switches poisons to caffiene... which is more socially acceptable than alcohol at 10am in the morning. then continues to bang said honey in the consentual missionary position in some random van for the sole purpose of procreation.
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#14

JohnG

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Join Date: 05/06/2009 | Posts: 748

Here is a great occasion to clarify something: i ve said many times alcohol is great and should be used.
IT is not because we are scared to talk  to girls. I am reallt not. But sometimes you dont feel like  interacting with strangers not because you are scared to talk to them , not because you are scared but because you are not in a social mood. Very different.
I use alcohol to get in a social mood!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Big difference!
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#15

Jabbmaster

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Join Date: 04/01/2008 | Posts: 133

then why are you on a forum where you are meant to learn how to get in a social mood to talk to girls? rationalizations, guys..

The social conditioning runs deeeeeeeep
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#16
C.H.A.O.S

C.H.A.O.S

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Join Date: 05/20/2010 | Posts: 343

EndGame wrote:
Irellavent. Game is not about practicing as much as its a state of being. Like Ozzie said so famously, its 10% knowing what to do and 90% overcomming fear. This means that if u go out 10 nights, practice only on 1 night out. The rest of the other 9 nights u can drink or do w/e to overcome ur fear (i personally recommened right action) and fucking PARTY ON man! Life is already very short, but youth is even shorter. U got what...a couple years left in you n then ur done with college, hit 27, n u could care less about sex by then cuz u just wou'dnt be as horny. Stop practing and start enjoying. 









Hahaha!  Speak for yourself there pal....I'm 28 now and I've NEVER been so jack rabbit horny in my entire life ;)
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CHAOS - typically means a state lacking order or predictability. In ancient Greece, it first meant the initial state of the universe, and, by extension, space, darkness, or an abyss (the antithetical, or possibly complementary, concept was cosmos), but later uses of the term by philosophers varied over time. In modern English, the word is used in classical studies with the original meaning; in mathematics and science to refer to a very specific kind of unpredictability; and informally to mean a state of confusion. In philosophy, and in popular culture, the word can occur with all three meanings.

In pickup, it can be defined as "just get the fuck out of your head and bring her into YOUR reality, with no linear pattern or expected outcomes"

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IF YOU'RE IN NJ HIT ME THE FUCK UP LET'S WING TOGETHER!!!
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#17
C.H.A.O.S

C.H.A.O.S

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JohnG wrote:
Here is a great occasion to clarify something: i ve said many times alcohol is great and should be used.
IT is not because we are scared to talk  to girls. I am reallt not. But sometimes you dont feel like  interacting with strangers not because you are scared to talk to them , not because you are scared but because you are not in a social mood. Very different.
I use alcohol to get in a social mood!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Big difference!

My sentiments exactly John.  A LITTLE bit of alcohol (2-3 beers) let's me forget about what went on at work or the bad conversation with my mother, and just let's me crack a smile and loosten up, thus putting me in the frame of mind to go talk to girls and put out a good vibe.
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CHAOS - typically means a state lacking order or predictability. In ancient Greece, it first meant the initial state of the universe, and, by extension, space, darkness, or an abyss (the antithetical, or possibly complementary, concept was cosmos), but later uses of the term by philosophers varied over time. In modern English, the word is used in classical studies with the original meaning; in mathematics and science to refer to a very specific kind of unpredictability; and informally to mean a state of confusion. In philosophy, and in popular culture, the word can occur with all three meanings.

In pickup, it can be defined as "just get the fuck out of your head and bring her into YOUR reality, with no linear pattern or expected outcomes"

Brad Bootcamp Oct. 22-24th 2010....The Countdown has Begun!!!!

IF YOU'RE IN NJ HIT ME THE FUCK UP LET'S WING TOGETHER!!!
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#18

Jabbmaster

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Join Date: 04/01/2008 | Posts: 133

Well, if u can limit yourself to only 2 or 3 drinks, thats awesome.. But not anybody can do this..
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#19
TableDance

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Join Date: 07/08/2009 | Posts: 1988

Jabbmaster wrote:
then why are you on a forum where you are meant to learn how to get in a social mood to talk to girls? rationalizations, guys..

The social conditioning runs deeeeeeeep


Dude if I had a couple of guys over to hang out and BBQ or go boating or something else and we didn't have any girls involved.  I would still probably drink a bit and get a buz.  I like it puls I enjoy the escape... From social pressure, from stress, from pain (if injured), from whitemans syndrom (Syndrominous Whiteimus-cant dance).  Don't get me wrong, I like my life a lot... However sometimes it's nice to look at things a bit different (shrooms LSD anyone?).  You can't poosibly believe that everyone drinks just to be able to hit on chicks.... that is like thinking guys only dance to hit on chicks.  It's fucking blasphemy!  Sometimes getting ready to go out I will drink and dance around all by myself.  Why?!  Because it's fucking fun, and freeing.  I feel sorry for anyone who needs a reason to enjoy things... Why not just sit back and accept stuff for what it is... let the plain things creat enjoyment themselves.  My 0.2
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#20
Radikal

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Join Date: 01/29/2008 | Posts: 1235

Alchohol eliminates fears so it makes you more open / less closed. I always prefer tackling causes than dealing with symptoms.
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