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March 30th, 2017
IMPORTANT TOPIC: ALCOHOL
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Jabbmaster

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Everytime you drink and go out to pick up women (trying to bed them), you reinforce the reality in your head that she is of higher value than you, don't you? Because you have to numb your brain (to make it stop thinking)...

So in a sense, drinking and sarging, is a reactive solution, and thus, reinforcing the hot girls reality that you dont deserve her, therefore you must drink to gain  a sense of fake courage..

Thats f-ed up?

Why do you drink?!! And be honest.

But I think it is absolutly a bad idea to drink, because as previously mentioned, you only feed the hot girls reality that you must numb your brain to gain the girl. Do you understand what I mean here?
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Symphony

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I drink because I like to, and it's funny.
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Jabbmaster

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Symphony wrote:
I drink because I like to, and it's funny.
Yeah, I would think someone would post something like this, but I think you are fooling your self here,  by rationalising why you drink.... Why do you like to drink? Really? Do you love the hangovers?
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 TBH unless I get stupidly, dumbass drunk I don't really get hungover. I think the big difference here is I don't go out specifically to pick up women.
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Symphony wrote:
 TBH unless I get stupidly, dumbass drunk I don't really get hungover. I think the big difference here is I don't go out specifically to pick up women.

What?!?! Blasphemy! 

LOL... Yeah.  Drinking can be a part of going out to have fun.  I drink on nights that I am hanging out with friends at my house too.  It's something that I do for fun so why would I not do it when I'm going out to have fun?  That said the added bonus of killing some anxiety and loosening up my vocabulary is nice :D
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Jabbmaster wrote:
Everytime you drink and go out to pick up women (trying to bed them), you reinforce the reality in your head that she is of higher value than you, don't you? Because you have to numb your brain (to make it stop thinking)...

So in a sense, drinking and sarging, is a reactive solution, and thus, reinforcing the hot girls reality that you dont deserve her, therefore you must drink to gain  a sense of fake courage..

Thats f-ed up?

Why do you drink?!! And be honest.

But I think it is absolutly a bad idea to drink, because as previously mentioned, you only feed the hot girls reality that you must numb your brain to gain the girl. Do you understand what I mean here?


Well for me its like I numb my brain because of a social hesitancey I may experience at times ...
then again I dont give a bleep - I enjoy my wine and enjoy women ... Ill drink both
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Irellavent. Game is not about practicing as much as its a state of being. Like Ozzie said so famously, its 10% knowing what to do and 90% overcomming fear. This means that if u go out 10 nights, practice only on 1 night out. The rest of the other 9 nights u can drink or do w/e to overcome ur fear (i personally recommened right action) and fucking PARTY ON man! Life is already very short, but youth is even shorter. U got what...a couple years left in you n then ur done with college, hit 27, n u could care less about sex by then cuz u just wou'dnt be as horny. Stop practing and start enjoying. 
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EndGame wrote:
Irellavent. Game is not about practicing as much as its a state of being. Like Ozzie said so famously, its 10% knowing what to do and 90% overcomming fear. This means that if u go out 10 nights, practice only on 1 night out. The rest of the other 9 nights u can drink or do w/e to overcome ur fear (i personally recommened right action) and fucking PARTY ON man! Life is already very short, but youth is even shorter. U got what...a couple years left in you n then ur done with college, hit 27, n u could care less about sex by then cuz u just wou'dnt be as horny. Stop practing and start enjoying.

True man. `^^ I agree, but I tend to get so fucked up after drinking, that I cannot do any thing the day after, and I find my brain being slow the rest of the week... I know I may be the only one, but I cannot live with the side-effects.. (I get good results when drinking and sarging). But starting now, and being dry, Idunno how thats going to be (and all my friends drink), so its going to be a challenge, but I'll know I will grow.. besides, there where plenty times I went out completley sober and without any approach anxiety at all -- (Ì need to get to that level again), but back then I also went sarging with sober friends (which I dont do now). And all the "anchors" are there to tempt me to start drinking... !!

And I also get a feeling of low self esteem, and a bit anxiety after a night out drinking sometimes-- Basically I dont think it works well with my internal value system to drink (because of the feelings of remorse the day after)... SO I don't even think its a question. I have to dry up again and live up to my own integrity
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Misinterpretation IMO. It's about facing fear, pushing comfort zones, learning etc., but not about removing the fear (numbing it with drugs).
EndGame wrote:
Irellavent. Game is not about practicing as much as its a state of being. Like Ozzie said so famously, its 10% knowing what to do and 90% overcomming fear. This means that if u go out 10 nights, practice only on 1 night out. The rest of the other 9 nights u can drink or do w/e to overcome ur fear
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Its not about numbing anything.  It's fun and feels good so I choose to drink.
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kidazia wrote:
Its not about numbing anything.  It's fun and feels good so I choose to drink.
I call: rationalization ^^. Even if you THINK its not about "numbing anything", biologically speaking, you are "turning your brain off". Here's a GREAT clip about this topic: 


I think alot of people are socially conditioned to "drink", because everybody else is doing it.... A caveman 1000s of years ago wouldnt dumb himself down to have fun, or to bang a chick in his tribe....The social conditioning is happening 24/7, friends, commercials, partypictures, attitudes, peoples, etc. )...
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