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October 31st, 2014
Approach ONE Girl A Day. Change Your Sex Life In ONE Month.
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VisionsDivine

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Join Date: 03/09/2009 | Posts: 275

Definitely bars and clubs provide the most solid environment to reach abundance, but seriously, even if you live in the suburbs, if all you really have is a fucking Mall, if you don't have money to go to nightclubs more than twice a week, even if you don't even own a car, whatever is your fucked up situation and you really, really want to have vagina in your life, just fucking approach ONE girl a day, that's it.

Make it a rule, from TODAY, ONE, one girl, that should be your bare minimum. You don't even have to go out to approach, just go out for whatever, don't think of this as something you must do, but when you are out and you see one girl that you like (which is inevitable, you will always see a girl that you like), just fucking APPROACH her.

It doesn't matter if she looks like she is with friends, with her boyfriend, with her Mom, with her sister, with her brother, with Bill Clinton, who fucking cares? This is your life yo! Do what you want to do and just talk to her.

Make your bar of success the approach, that should be your standard, it doesn't matter what happens, she can blow you off because you came up super creep, she can friendzone you, she can suck your dick, she can do whatever, the only thing that matters is that you did what you wanted to do and that is talk to her, even if after you talked to her you lost all the attraction, it doesn't matter, if you where attracted before you approached her, you talked to her, you didn't chode out, you acted on your own intentions, on your own reality, on your own time and space.

Why be so lonely when you can have abundance? If you are meeting 0 new girls a month, it's your fucking fault, it is your fault and there is nobody else to blame, it's all you my friend. 1 girl a day = 30 girls a month, think about that, 30 lives with history that would never ever be part of your life if you never decide to talk to them. That's 360 girls in one year (if you didn't do anything for 5.25 days). See how one little twist like this in your life can improve your girls options from 30 to 360 times more than already is, that's almost 40,000.00% better than it is right now.

After you do this for a while, approaching will no longer be something you are doing, it will be something you are. You will just be that guy that approaches naturally without thinking, you will be more socially savy and you will have options my friend, options to meet new people everywhere you go.

Look, it doesn't matter how much you read, how much you write, how much you watch, how much you argue, there is something you want to become and that is being a man of options. You don't want to be the average frustrated chode that allows life past by his eyes. You want to live and enjoy sex, do this.

There is a payoff to everything you do and that is what you become, every action you take has an effect, every single one is the cause of something, if you do or stop doing, it doesn't matter, all those actions will have consequences, the consequences are what you will become, these actions will shape you and will make the you that lives in the future.

Just look the you that lives in the now, that dude is the result of everything you did before. Sure there are things that you didn't have control on, but for the most part, you have taken that path, consciously or unconsciously you have shaped who you are right now, and every moment, every single moment you have the beautiful opportunity to shape yourself again. You can be reborn as many times as you want. You can decide to shape your mindset and hold on to it as many times as you want, you have this beautiful power and you may not even see it, is there, always available for you, it is for you to grab it, to take on it and to make it your own.

There is nothing you need to prove to these girls, there is nothing you need to impress them about, you are you and that's all there is, accept your reality, you are a man, you have a penis, that's your reality, embrace it, it is your natural biology to do it.

When you just accept it, when you just let it be, you will talk to these girls and you will see in their eyes, you will see the depth inside them, you will feel their attention and they will feel yours.

It's you and her in that moment, if you are talking to her in that moment you are already a couple, if you are not saying anything with your mouth, if you are just listening, she is looking at you and you are looking at her, you are a couple, nothing that's going on outside that moment matters because that moment is your life and is hers, connected, joined together in eternity in one single moment. Once the moment is gone, is still there, trapped in eternity, just get a fucking camera and you can prove that moment is still there.

And if you still don't see the depth, it doesn't fucking matter, you are doing what you want to do. Do you like freedom? You have freedom, use it. Pussy is out there for you, it was made for you and they keep making it.

Abundance is your decision.
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Tom!

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+1

I implemented this type of mindset when I first got into all this, and it helped me trendendously.
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RedGlass

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Good stuff.  1 a day is a great idea.
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prince charming_

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Join Date: 09/10/2009 | Posts: 182

this is a great long term thing to implement i just did a 100 aproaches in a week challenge where every day I did 15 plus aproaches. it really skyrocketed my shit where I could do aproaches on some really tough sets without flinching but at the end I was so burned out and stayed inside playing viedeo games for the next week.
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Phillip.K

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Join Date: 08/18/2008 | Posts: -2

Good stuff. 

I LOL at all the newbies that jumps on forums and claim that they're going to do 30 approaches a day.  When in reality, they don't approach ANY girl.

More realistic goal is approaching one girl a day.  That's 30 a month, 365 a year of new girls.
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RedGlass

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When you approach push yourself outside your comfort zone and go for the close.
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MorningWood

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Join Date: 08/20/2009 | Posts: 139

Approaching even isnt half the battle.

Still gotta get the bitch to come out and meet you, and deal with flakes.
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VisionsDivine

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If the conversation started in one spot and ended in another, even if you lead only a few meters, that's the most solid. Also be sincere, girls don't see that often.

However if you are not even approaching at all, don't worry about this, make the opening your criteria for success.
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Join Date: 01/19/2010 | Posts: 133

I read the title and never thought that way but it really makes sense Thanks
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Amen....(to your sig)
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alekzander

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Join Date: 12/26/2009 | Posts: 21

Thanks man.
you got me on track again.

I did this and ended up with a few #.
But choded out again, and here I am - with NOTHING.
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