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#21
Kire

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Join Date: 03/26/2008 | Posts: 262

FUN FACT:  You know how looks with girls are various and vast and every guy has a different taste in women.

Totally assuming looks matter and women only look at looks, unless you look like the kid in mask, there are women SOMEWHERE who like you.

Food for thought.
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#22
im_alexjx_fuckyea

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Join Date: 06/10/2010 | Posts: 181

whos  criteria are you going by for considering yourself ugly...obvious others so fuck them fastest way to get un ugly in my opinion is

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1-dont have bushy eye brows ! cant say how important this is
2-shoes-so many ppl fail at their shoe game
3-and dont smell
4-glasses are iffy but i never seen a bad ass dude with glassing(used for seeing)

so incase you didnt read that correctly=p dont be ode hairy dont stink like ass have fresh breath wear nice shoes have confidence in your looks! aka self esteem
i know ppl say looks dont matter but it does when it looks like you didnt even fucking try.... if you follow my guidelines you will improve your self esteem and looks alot ..... trust in yourself....ppl say i loook like shit sometimes but i know thats not the case=p

and as for acne...proactive or sumshit 

forgot to mention-dont get all superficial and shit having low self esteem when u have bad clothes day u must beleive in yourself...if u need guide line to look good.....look at models or clothe websites tons of examples find what works for u and run for it!
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#23

YaBoiRayDawg

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im_alexjx_fuckyea wrote:
whos  criteria are you going by for considering yourself ugly...obvious others so fuck them fastest way to get un ugly in my opinion is

s

1-dont have bushy eye brows ! cant say how important this is
2-shoes-so many ppl fail at their shoe game
3-and dont smell
4-glasses are iffy but i never seen a bad ass dude with glassing(used for seeing)

so incase you didnt read that correctly=p dont be ode hairy dont stink like ass have fresh breath wear nice shoes have confidence in your looks! aka self esteem
i know ppl say looks dont matter but it does when it looks like you didnt even fucking try.... if you follow my guidelines you will improve your self esteem and looks alot ..... trust in yourself....ppl say i loook like shit sometimes but i know thats not the case=p

and as for acne...proactive or sumshit 

forgot to mention-dont get all superficial and shit having low self esteem when u have bad clothes day u must beleive in yourself...if u need guide line to look good.....look at models or clothe websites tons of examples find what works for u and run for it!
i got bushy eyebrows and glasses. hideous, i know.

a.imageshack.us/img682/5698/190113.jpg

i need to work on my "shoe game". what are your thoughts on skechers?
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#24
RedGlass

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Join Date: 11/14/2009 | Posts: 756

Ive seen a fat alcoholic pull girls before.

He had good game and was a pua.
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#25
Brad

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Join Date: 08/28/2007 | Posts: 3014

YaBoiRayDawg wrote:

im_alexjx_fuckyea wrote:
whos  criteria are you going by for considering yourself ugly...obvious others so fuck them fastest way to get un ugly in my opinion is

s

1-dont have bushy eye brows ! cant say how important this is
2-shoes-so many ppl fail at their shoe game
3-and dont smell
4-glasses are iffy but i never seen a bad ass dude with glassing(used for seeing)

so incase you didnt read that correctly=p dont be ode hairy dont stink like ass have fresh breath wear nice shoes have confidence in your looks! aka self esteem
i know ppl say looks dont matter but it does when it looks like you didnt even fucking try.... if you follow my guidelines you will improve your self esteem and looks alot ..... trust in yourself....ppl say i loook like shit sometimes but i know thats not the case=p

and as for acne...proactive or sumshit 

forgot to mention-dont get all superficial and shit having low self esteem when u have bad clothes day u must beleive in yourself...if u need guide line to look good.....look at models or clothe websites tons of examples find what works for u and run for it!
i got bushy eyebrows and glasses. hideous, i know.

a.imageshack.us/img682/5698/190113.jpg

i need to work on my "shoe game". what are your thoughts on skechers?

I've been looking at some vans, the same one usher rocks in the justin bieber track...

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#26

chell

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Join Date: 07/13/2010 | Posts: 8

 So Brad, you've obviously coached many guys... In your experience, do their looks make a difference in terms of their success?
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#27

Manolara

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Join Date: 06/06/2009 | Posts: 128

YaBoiRayDawg wrote:

im_alexjx_fuckyea wrote:
whos  criteria are you going by for considering yourself ugly...obvious others so fuck them fastest way to get un ugly in my opinion is

s

1-dont have bushy eye brows ! cant say how important this is
2-shoes-so many ppl fail at their shoe game
3-and dont smell
4-glasses are iffy but i never seen a bad ass dude with glassing(used for seeing)

so incase you didnt read that correctly=p dont be ode hairy dont stink like ass have fresh breath wear nice shoes have confidence in your looks! aka self esteem
i know ppl say looks dont matter but it does when it looks like you didnt even fucking try.... if you follow my guidelines you will improve your self esteem and looks alot ..... trust in yourself....ppl say i loook like shit sometimes but i know thats not the case=p

and as for acne...proactive or sumshit 

forgot to mention-dont get all superficial and shit having low self esteem when u have bad clothes day u must beleive in yourself...if u need guide line to look good.....look at models or clothe websites tons of examples find what works for u and run for it!
i got bushy eyebrows and glasses. hideous, i know.

a.imageshack.us/img682/5698/190113.jpg

i need to work on my "shoe game". what are your thoughts on skechers?

Collin Farrell disagrees with  you.
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#28
EazyDoesIt

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Join Date: 02/24/2009 | Posts: 673

Lyle Lovitt
Billy Bob Thornton
Rod Stewart
Marc Anthony

Nuff Said.
if you want to pull the celebrity card. Remember, these guys pulled hot celebrity GF's. I'm just going to assume hot celebrity girls like Nicole Sheridan, Angelina Jolie, Julia Roberts, Jennifer Lopez, etc don't really care as much about celebrity as the average girl because they are themselves celebrities.

And we know for a fact these celebrity women had their choice of 1000's of better looking male celebrities.
So, why these guys?
Lets say these women only date other celebrities.
Out of the 1000's of better looking celebrities.
Why did they settle on these guys? 

Because women don't care about looks nearly as much as Men. Women care about confidence. And in this twisted world where we (Men) are so consumed with physical appearance. We end up becoming our own worst enemies. We cannot fathom that looks don't matter. Therefore, it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Better looking guys have more confidence. Ugly looking guys have less confidence. And you end up seeing better looking guys consistently hooking up with hot girls which only further cements this false idea that looks really fucking matter. When really, confidence was probably a more important factor.
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#29

chell

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Join Date: 07/13/2010 | Posts: 8

 This makes sense. So ultimately even if I'm not good looking or even below-average looking I'll still be able to pull hot ass if I get my confidence going? That would also explain why some good looking guys pull like crazy while other good looking fellas don't pull at all. 
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#30
Loopin <3

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Join Date: 08/13/2009 | Posts: 621

I wrote a lot in tthe other thread about this, but to sum all that up real quick, the way I view this whole looks thing:

All PU is about is triggering pre-selection. And unfortunately for bad-looking dudes, good looks DOES trigger pre-selection. Unfortunately for good looking guys, good looks ALSO trigger a provider-frame in the woman, because she wants a boyfriend she can brag about to her female friends, and women LOVE when other women get jealous of how hot their boyfriend is. This is BAD because you want to be in a Lover-Frame, NOT Provider-Frame. Luckily for bad looking dudes there are a TON of other ways to trigger pre-selection. Luckily for good looking dudes, their problem isn't much of a problem really, and it is almost entirely non existant as soon as you go for attractive women only (9's and 10's). I am concious of the fact that this IS a very simplyfied theory, and reality IS more complex, but I still feel it's accurate enough as a small and simple theory :)

Anyways, if you are outright disgusting, to the point where women are turned off by your looks sexually, then you really have a serious problem, and need to find a way to fix that. This goes for overly fat people and guys where they'r face is just filled with pimples that looks like they are going to explode and infect anything around them any minute. But as long as that is NOT the case, then it's simply different, and it's easy to simply work around it :)

hope this helps
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