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What beliefs did you change in order to be good with girls? Chode/Pimp
All you really need to do is stop listening to what other people tell you and listen to your intincts and go do it.
Stop masturbating and start working out more, get the masculine juices flowing and get into some kind of
adrenaline producing sports...face whatever you fear right away and head on and bitch slap yourself across
the face if you fail and try again until you get it right.
Stop masturbating and start working out more, get the masculine juices flowing and get into some kind of
adrenaline producing sports...face whatever you fear right away and head on and bitch slap yourself across
the face if you fail and try again until you get it right.
yeah it really is as easy as yohoeismines said at top. U dont really even need to do all this self help crap to be honest. Its just nerd things we enjoy doing.
Example: In high school and college, who gets all the girls? Whos fucking all the hottest girls on campus?? Thats right, its the sport guys. The guys who dont spend all day at home masturbating and watching the blueprint. U wana get laid, get in shape (not because of looks, but because of the way it makes you feel which is more masculine) and that is pretty much it. Yohoeismines said it best.
Example: In high school and college, who gets all the girls? Whos fucking all the hottest girls on campus?? Thats right, its the sport guys. The guys who dont spend all day at home masturbating and watching the blueprint. U wana get laid, get in shape (not because of looks, but because of the way it makes you feel which is more masculine) and that is pretty much it. Yohoeismines said it best.
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"There is nothing a girl can tell me that i can not already find within myself."
I think it wasnt the beliefs but the experience it self, you can not make it a belief, it has to be a knowing, for example, from fucking different types of girls, the ones that are socially hot to the ones that are not the hottest ones but you have a good time also I learned that some of the hottest girls are really insecure and just cant open up when fucking it was like Whoah all that pressure It was just me and my fantasies about them.
I realised they all want it baaadly, and that they go through faces of wanting to fuck , I can tell which girls are the horny ones and which are virgins, and which do crazy shit in bed.
More crazy shit regarding energy that I have found that I can not put into words but it has to come with experience. I have learned that "the self allways come through" its the most powerful shit you can understand, its fuckingg strong man, I can act really insecure with bad vocal tonality, bad posture, bad mental thought loops and still be the "center of attention" to girls.
Im what else......Oh yeah, I have found that people comunicate to other groups of people at the same time that you are talking with one gorup of people, that is a mindfuck but is real fun when you can talk to the hot girl in the next group while talking to your buddies and having a blast (invisible game).
Fuck it feels good to talk about what I have learned in field since I can not talk to my friends about this weird shit I have found.
MMM....Being emotionally available is one of the pieces of the puzzle that is the hardest for me to incorporate since when Im emotionally there I become very loving and make hardcore connections but after I have fucked her and know I wont see her again I feel like shit.
Mmm from experience I can tell you that the community people that I have met, are not as "good with women" as the chodiest of my real friends, no joke, but they are really positive and can help you.
Expending time around women is going to make you understand them more, and more....and make you realise that they are retarded for doing the work right (I say this out of love) and having them to rely on is nooot good.....
The RAS, or as I like to call it "being the center of attention" is one of the funniest things you can work on.
Emotions are like crack to girls, FUN, SAD; SILLY; SERIOUS; CUTE; TIMID; OUT GOING; RETARDED; ADVENTUROUS; MISTIC; HORNY BASTARD; PIG; NERD; SICK; GROSS; POLITE; DISRESPECTFUL; LOVING; PEACEFUL; WINNER.... these are all emotions you can work with, theres millions more but those are the ones I use regulary to amuse me and to amuse others.
Mmm im just mentally farting right now but hope it helps, beliefs make help you at first but experience is where its at
I realised they all want it baaadly, and that they go through faces of wanting to fuck , I can tell which girls are the horny ones and which are virgins, and which do crazy shit in bed.
More crazy shit regarding energy that I have found that I can not put into words but it has to come with experience. I have learned that "the self allways come through" its the most powerful shit you can understand, its fuckingg strong man, I can act really insecure with bad vocal tonality, bad posture, bad mental thought loops and still be the "center of attention" to girls.
Im what else......Oh yeah, I have found that people comunicate to other groups of people at the same time that you are talking with one gorup of people, that is a mindfuck but is real fun when you can talk to the hot girl in the next group while talking to your buddies and having a blast (invisible game).
Fuck it feels good to talk about what I have learned in field since I can not talk to my friends about this weird shit I have found.
MMM....Being emotionally available is one of the pieces of the puzzle that is the hardest for me to incorporate since when Im emotionally there I become very loving and make hardcore connections but after I have fucked her and know I wont see her again I feel like shit.
Mmm from experience I can tell you that the community people that I have met, are not as "good with women" as the chodiest of my real friends, no joke, but they are really positive and can help you.
Expending time around women is going to make you understand them more, and more....and make you realise that they are retarded for doing the work right (I say this out of love) and having them to rely on is nooot good.....
The RAS, or as I like to call it "being the center of attention" is one of the funniest things you can work on.
Emotions are like crack to girls, FUN, SAD; SILLY; SERIOUS; CUTE; TIMID; OUT GOING; RETARDED; ADVENTUROUS; MISTIC; HORNY BASTARD; PIG; NERD; SICK; GROSS; POLITE; DISRESPECTFUL; LOVING; PEACEFUL; WINNER.... these are all emotions you can work with, theres millions more but those are the ones I use regulary to amuse me and to amuse others.
Mmm im just mentally farting right now but hope it helps, beliefs make help you at first but experience is where its at
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My youtube channell.
My favorite comedians.
Embracing your dark side.
Deft´s Guitar Covers Extravaganza.
The biggest one was figuring out that flaws in my looks had anything whatsoever to do with my getting or not getting girls. Some early, positive experiences showed me that looks issues such as baldness or hairiness or fitness or lack thereof had basically nothing to do with the hotness of the girls I was scoring. I realized I could be my quirky weird self and score. I realized I had no flaw too big that would prevent me from getting laid. I remember the exact day I realized this: Saturday January 15th, 2005. Because I got laid that day, the first time in a loooooong time.
Second, after that, was some weird complicated shit that prevented me from having fun. I can't even really describe this one, because I still don't know what the fuck I was doing, but I wasn't having fun. I was too dark, too deep, too in my head. I still kick myself over fucking AWFUL missed experiences because I was too brooding and turned the chick off. Oh well. I learned my fucken lesson. Once I got that figured out, there wasn't too much else that was huge. A few things, but those two were the biggest ones.
Some things were not epiphanies. Such as faith in myself - that's always been here. Never once doubted I'd do good if not great things. I'm still working on that, LOL, but the FAITH is unshakeable.
Lately, I've been recalibrating back into self-control and being master of my own emotional domain, kinds of issues. Read the people suck thread - you can see what I'm doing in that thread. I'm realigning my values back into myself, rather than letting myself be so distracted and misled by the world. I'm re-taking my personal power back. If you do ANYTHING, you have to do that for yourself. Take your power back for yourself and never give it away again.
Second, after that, was some weird complicated shit that prevented me from having fun. I can't even really describe this one, because I still don't know what the fuck I was doing, but I wasn't having fun. I was too dark, too deep, too in my head. I still kick myself over fucking AWFUL missed experiences because I was too brooding and turned the chick off. Oh well. I learned my fucken lesson. Once I got that figured out, there wasn't too much else that was huge. A few things, but those two were the biggest ones.
Some things were not epiphanies. Such as faith in myself - that's always been here. Never once doubted I'd do good if not great things. I'm still working on that, LOL, but the FAITH is unshakeable.
Lately, I've been recalibrating back into self-control and being master of my own emotional domain, kinds of issues. Read the people suck thread - you can see what I'm doing in that thread. I'm realigning my values back into myself, rather than letting myself be so distracted and misled by the world. I'm re-taking my personal power back. If you do ANYTHING, you have to do that for yourself. Take your power back for yourself and never give it away again.
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The only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved, desirous of everything
at the same time, the ones who never yawn
or say a commonplace thing, but
burn, burn, burn,
like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding
like spiders ac r o s s the stars.
-Kerouac
The only people for me are the mad ones,
the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk,
mad to be saved, desirous of everything
at the same time, the ones who never yawn
or say a commonplace thing, but
burn, burn, burn,
like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding
like spiders ac r o s s the stars.
-Kerouac
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Example:
"Kissing on the first date is disrespectful to women."
becomes..
"Kissing is something that girls enjoy just as much as you do, they're just waiting for you to make the first move."
You get the idea, post away.