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Fuck a few 6's to keep your dick wet vs. not compromising and going for the big game?
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#21
Holland

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easternwolf wrote:
Dude, I opened this set and she was kind of like green with yellow eyes and complained about how she doesnt like men who cold approach because some douche from SF tattooed a pentagram on her.




jlaix wrote:
"practicing on the hotter ones?" lol

you get better at fucking girls by FUCKING GIRLS. Period. There is no difference except maybe you have to qualify the hotts less and step harder.

They're not fucking aliens, they're girls dude. 



Nominated for the lamest post ever.


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#22
IvánPérez

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jlaix wrote:
Who cares.

I've met a LOT of guys into this shit all around the world, and the ones who talk most about "10s" and "standards bro" are typically the guys who AREN'T GETTING LAID. 

Every serious motherfucker I know (and again I know many, guys who are slaying for real here, both "naturals" and "community") is not afraid to take the occasional trip to Scallywag Village. These are guys who are fucking new girls EVERY DAY, sometimes multiples, and yeah, they bang out a fatty from time to time, but they get turbos as well. They just don't give a fuck. They love women.  
OK, I admit I only get laid sporadically because I'm only willing to walk the distance with girls that will boost my ego. So, what's the cure? Closing a few 6s to realize they are not that different?
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- When I'm out: it's me-time. I focus on expressing myself and doing what's fun for me, I don't care about girls. Self-absorbedness.
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- Focus on finding a girl DTF vs. trying to game/arouse/whatever girl after girl.

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#23

Leisure Suit Larry

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ambiguity, how many nines and tens have you actually laid? Like what pseicif number of 9's and 10's have you laid? per month, per year, ever? With all this tough guy talk. You sound like a KJ mate cos anyone I know, like jeffy says, who gets laid regular has had their share of lower level girls. People who say they ONLY get 9's and 10's is indicative of IVORY TOWER PHILOSPHIZING.

Similar to how if someone posts, like Jeffy did once about how a guy punched him and he walked away; every internet tough guy responds enthusiatically- I WOULD HAVE DROPPED THAT MOTHERFUCKER when they've probs never had a real fight in their life.

Also those who really do lay the hotter girls usually aren't so quick to rail against those who aren't laying them cos they couldn't give a shit. They would be like 'sure if that's what you wanna do bro'. The reasons you rallied against the possiblity is prob cos you're in the same position, or worse no sex at all, as myself yet don't want to admit it and are just projecting. angel

So specifically what number of these hallowed 9's and 10's have you actually put your dick into?
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Koolaid

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I believe you should fuck as many girls that turn you on as possible, to practice pulling the girl out of the club which I think is the hardest thing to do.

So if a 6 turns you on fuck her even if its 9pm. Don't give a fuck about the socially conditioned objective rating scale.

If a 6 doesn't turn you on, then dont do it.
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#25
ambiguity

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besserwisser wrote:
You gotta understand that Jeffy argues that way because his average customer will probably not approach and come up with reasons like "she is not pretty enough" though secretly that guy would piss into his pants for kissing the girl.

If you are disgusted by a girl, what's the point in trying to get her? Go for girls you find attractive and don't have excuses.
That is bang on. Too many guys make Excuses. Settling for the 6s or some guys, hitting up a fatty just to wheel and not feel like a fraud in the community? Where is the work in that? I only get at girls who I find are attractive. 6s don't do it for me. I am not shitting on anyone. I am pointing out the obvious being that, your pulling a lower caliber girl when you could be pulling something better but, THAT WOULD MEAN ACTUALLY CHALLENGING YOURSELF.  This is where a lot of guys have problems. Its either - not getting laid cause one makes too many excuses or gets laid with a busted girl deemed as being a 6.

We already had that thread about - "ugly girls with brod shoulders & wide chins" & posting pics on a public internet forum. Unlike M M lounge - one that was private, you just can post pics, vids, etc

Like I've mention, a fellow on TAF i spoke to got bit with an FR. The girl tagged it to myspace, twitter, facebook, youtube, etc -

The man is fucked. He isn't getting laid. He is lucky to be pulling a fatty now cause of how tarnished his rep is in his city. No girl wants to be hung out to dry. The fellows who I actually talk with & know, I can share with. I seriously caution anyone who puts up FRs - to skew the time line, change the venue, add in other elements or unnecessary dribble - change even the wording of the interaction or better yet, don't bother in the first place. Its pretty easy to track.
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#26

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C.H.A.O.S

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Mayhem wrote:
Guys who go months without getting laid because they have such high standards are only hurting themselves.

The thing is, most NEWBIES are like this. They have REALLY high standards for girls.

Chances are, their sex game sucks, and have little abundance.

The ideal situation is if you aren't getting the quality yet that you want, keep trying, but get a girl you can hookup with regularly who might be a point or two below what you're looking for. Keep fucking her, and then look for a girl who you are more attracted to.

You gotta build yourself up. This is why guys who get a hott girl interested usually flub it up because they get all oneitis over her because it's a BIG DEAL. + they might be a let down in bed.
BINGO!!!!!!!!!   All that "Oh I ONLY fuck 7.5 and above" is all ego bullshit.  I personally can fuck about 1 or 2     8's per month if I go out 4 nights per week, but you know what, I'm not going to wait for that.  I'm going to fill those gaps with 6's as I damn well see fit.  My "slam dunk" doesn't always have to be fancy.
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C.H.A.O.S

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If a guy feels that he needs to ONLY pull 8's and higher, he is trying to convince himself that he is a certain value, and that is coming from a position of weakness and insecurity.  I've had 8's that just layed there like roadkill or were just terrible in bed with everything they tried, and 6's that fucked me so good I almost started to hallucinate, and I came so hard I thought I was losing a fucking intestine!
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CHAOS - typically means a state lacking order or predictability. In ancient Greece, it first meant the initial state of the universe, and, by extension, space, darkness, or an abyss (the antithetical, or possibly complementary, concept was cosmos), but later uses of the term by philosophers varied over time. In modern English, the word is used in classical studies with the original meaning; in mathematics and science to refer to a very specific kind of unpredictability; and informally to mean a state of confusion. In philosophy, and in popular culture, the word can occur with all three meanings.

In pickup, it can be defined as "just get the fuck out of your head and bring her into YOUR reality, with no linear pattern or expected outcomes"

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#29
TapArtist

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C.H.A.O.S wrote:
If a guy feels that he needs to ONLY pull 8's and higher, he is trying to convince himself that he is a certain value, and that is coming from a position of weakness and insecurity.  I've had 8's that just layed there like roadkill or were just terrible in bed with everything they tried, and 6's that fucked me so good I almost started to hallucinate, and I came so hard I thought I was losing a fucking intestine!

This is so true. The 7 I was banging made me cum so hard every time. The 8 I TRIED fucking the other night couldnt get me hard so I coudlnt fuck her. Maybe it had something to do with me as well, probably. But point is, if she turns you on, FUCK HER. Fuck standards, fuck everything else.
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#30

Leisure Suit Larry

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ye I think this is the easy conclusion- Go for whateer girl turns you on.

In terms of following ones core I bet the guys who are saying they would never go below X calibre are indeed NOT following their core in some instances cos I bet there is some sexy ass 6's who turn them on and would probs give them amazing sex but they disqualify them cos they are afraid of what others will say and being inconsistent with their 'scale'.

Also I think this has important implications for not automatically putting the hotter girls on a pedestal. I remmeber some hippyies in the community used to talk about how you should appreciate all girls equally regardless of looks- in these cases I thought it was absolute feelgood bullshit but with along this idea follows on those lines sort of. The lower ones may indeed likely give the best sex (imagine a 6 who doesn't have the hangups a ten might about 'being choosy' and so has fucked many many guys and got really good at it in the process. True I've been told alot of hot girls also rack up the numbers but you gotta take it  on a case by case basis and my point still stands) whereas the hottest girls could well be starfish fucks so that will definately hlep the frame for not automatically putting the hotter ones on a pedestal.

Rather than thinking 'she might not have a great personality (which the hippy guys told us to do and we knew we were just trying to trick our brains into believeing we really care) we can genuine think to ourselves going in 'This girl could be a CRAP shag and have absolutely no sense of being in touch with her sexuality'.
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