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Fingerman

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Join Date: 04/14/2008 | Posts: 775

In the last month I've been a fucking gay man and been taking lots of numbers and going on lots of dates.

Guess what those dates are a fucking waste of life

maybe 20% of the number I get will go on a date
maybe 50% of dates will fuck me on the first date

approximate real stats from dates last  1,5 month

4 girl with my dick in them
about 8 dates
20+ phone numbers

it takes a long time to text all those bitches and go on dates with them

a pull takes 30min to 90mins
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jlaix

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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 8243

True, but you must also take into account the fact that your phone game is likely not as strong as it could be and you lack depth overall (you yourself have mentioned this). My stats are significantly higher than this. I convert almost every number I get on the weekends within two weeks if I want to. This saves me the wear and tear of having to beast every fucking night at the club. I'd say my breakdown is like this:

50% of numbers will go on dates with me
85% of the dates fuck on the first date

Overall however I do agree with the sentiment. Same night should be the general focus always, going out at least 3 times a week, dates maybe 2 days and cherishing 2 days. 
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do you like the date-fuck girls the exact same amount as the pull-fucks? less/more? I.e. quality assessment
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Fingerman

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FoodBuddha~ wrote:
do you like the date-fuck girls the exact same amount as the pull-fucks? less/more? I.e. quality assessment
good point. Usually I go on dates only with girls I like, whereas with pulls I sometimes pull just cause I can, not really from love
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RedGlass

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jRad wrote:
Guys that aren't getting results from numbers usually have no idea how to work them.

It takes a little bit of time and patience, which clearly you don't have - time to re-assess, perhaps ONS and pulls are your forte instead.

Every time I get a number, I work it - text them a few times one day, then call them the next, text them lightly for the next 2 or 3 days, then throw them another call. By that point, she's invested & by that point, she'll often times ask to hang, which is a great indication that she's down to fuck.

You have to invest in that number before you get a solid result.

Im not this good, got any advice for me?
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Kirra

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Join Date: 10/01/2009 | Posts: 739

Fingerman wrote:


a pull takes 30min to 90mins


Nooo, but that's not solid game! 7 hour rule!

Hahah
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Raian

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Join Date: 09/26/2009 | Posts: 117

Fingerman wrote:

FoodBuddha~ wrote:
do you like the date-fuck girls the exact same amount as the pull-fucks? less/more? I.e. quality assessment
good point. Usually I go on dates only with girls I like, whereas with pulls I sometimes pull just cause I can, not really from love
Do you treat girls you like in a slightly different way? Do you go on dates as a last resort because you can't pull right away? 
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jlaix

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Just to clarify, Fingerman isn't some random forum fag, the dude has fucked 30+ girls since April, I'm pretty sure he knows HOW to work the phone. He is just saying it is too much effort for the return compared to same-night beasting. My stats are only higher because I've been doing this shit for 8 years compared to his 3. 

It's funny, these days I view the phone game the same way people used to think about online game: BONUS ROUND ONLY. Not the main focus. 
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ambiguity

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jlaix wrote:
True, but you must also take into account the fact that your phone game is likely not as strong as it could be and you lack depth overall (you yourself have mentioned this). My stats are significantly higher than this. I convert almost every number I get on the weekends within two weeks if I want to. This saves me the wear and tear of having to beast every fucking night at the club. I'd say my breakdown is like this:

50% of numbers will go on dates with me
85% of the dates fuck on the first date

Overall however I do agree with the sentiment. Same night should be the general focus always, going out at least 3 times a week, dates maybe 2 days and cherishing 2 days. 
I agree. I wont commit to the girl I pull that night or fuck on first date/time out. I don't look to "game" on my nights out. I am pulling. I don't even think about it. I know it with absolute certainty. Why search for it? It is coming. I just mingle it up. I plant seeds every where. My philosophy: give love; get love. I have too much love to be giving. Like I said, pulling that night. Being a good looking chap, pulls come pretty easy. I like the challenge. Its a waste to be a stud pulling 6s. I want the Megan Fox, sex icon types. I want the SMOKE SHOWs, the BOMB SHELLs, I want it now.

I take numbers if for whatever reason, I can't get it done then and there. For instance, we had a VIP booth. I found two babes bumping me. Stumbling near me. It took me seconds to turn away from the two blonds my boy & I were chatting up & acknowledge the others. Go figure, she sits beside me. I get complimented by the friends in a few moments (celebrity look alike: went on about me being hot). I don't even think twice about it. I STACK. Turns out, it was a great move. Over the duration of the event, my boy is texting me to move quick. A friend had gotten sick. THEY WERE LEAVING. Even worse, two couples were fucking in each of their rooms. I get numbers & being a wise guy, I initiate a late night meet up for food. It happens. As I have said before, the girl has 7days to meet up or else she is cut. A lot of times, they respond with a "hey, whats up?" My only response is "WHO IS THIS? Another words, I HAVE AN ABUNDANCE OF GIRLS, I DELTED YOUR NUMBER, I'M GOOD LOOKING, I DON'T CHASE GIRLS, I DON'T WAIT ON ANYONE. If we meet up again the night of, I know I wont have to do much get her out again. It was quite a night. Multiple numbers and a bathroom pull. Ironically enough, I didn't feel on that night?

Like I've said countless times, I go out to PULL. The girls I pull the night of are always not the girl I want to bring home to meet mom usually. I usually pull the wild child, party girl, bar stars. Not looking to find that "special" girl. I'm just in it for the fun and adventure of it all. She wants an adventure. I bring it. I want one myself.

For the life of me, I cannot understand being in top form; watching say a super star like David Villa be in top form; lighting it up for Spain. Another game, the stars don't align precisely. He is lucky to hit the post nevermind the inside of the net. I've experienced both personally. I try not to rationalize it and just "plow" regardless. I find you just hit a wall but, you keep going. A horrible night can turn into a great night and vise versa.
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Matt281

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jRad wrote:
Guys that aren't getting results from numbers usually have no idea how to work them.

It takes a little bit of time and patience, which clearly you don't have - time to re-assess, perhaps ONS and pulls are your forte instead.

Every time I get a number, I work it - text them a few times one day, then call them the next, text them lightly for the next 2 or 3 days, then throw them another call. By that point, she's invested & by that point, she'll often times ask to hang, which is a great indication that she's down to fuck.

You have to invest in that number before you get a solid result.
I think it has much more to do with the initial interaction than "working the number". If you almost fucked the girl when you met, and couldn't because of logistics, it'll be pretty easy on the phone. If the interaction was shitty, no amount of phone game is going to save it.
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RedBeard

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Every day I am improving my game, and I seem to have come to a point in my life where I really, really know where you're coming from. fuck the phone. phone is only for etremely high quality girls that are possibly worth the trouble. same night is where it's at.
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