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May 26th, 2013
Why most guys on RSD don't date?
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PlayDate

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 I've noticed this for awhile now, but VERY few guys here date. Like serious LTR style date.

I'm sure lots of guys come onto RSD, find the first girl and " shes the one" and never come back till they break up.

But for the guys that have girls coming in and out of your life monthly,  what motivates you NOT to want to LTR these girls.

How do you keep from getting attached to seemingly solid chicks?
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the modern

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I think a lot of guys stop posting once they get into LTRs
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PlayDate

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the modern wrote:
I think a lot of guys stop posting once they get into LTRs
I figured so, but fuck the more times I go out and the more girls I bang, the less trust I have in dating.

To the point where if I continue down this path, who the fuck knows how jacked my mind set will get on dating
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Manwhore

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You've got nothing to worry about buddy.  You'll still date and have girlfriends no matter how many girlies you bang.
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Sexyasian

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I love dating after sex
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If that's what you want, don't let the community jade you bud.  Maybe .001% of the guys out there have an instructor skill level so you have nothing to worry about ;) 

I think it's just that once someone has these "powers", they figure "Eh, fuck it, why stay with only one girl when I have the buffet to sample from"

My theory..

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At first for me it was important to learn cold approach game and to go for SNLs. It's definitely an awesome aspect of the game and I've had a bit of success there now. I'm now gonna focus on building a stable and enjoying the fruits whilst keeping up to about 3 nights a week to constantly refine my skills (when I'm back at uni - right now it's all out ganster).
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Focusing on SNL is not the proper thing to do IMO. Every girl I've banged I didnt have the intention of being a one night lay. A couple of exceptions when I was wasted out of my ass , but when I was reasonably sober, yes, i dont go into a set thinking OMG i want a SNL with her. I put her as an interesting girl.
TOOBAD wrote:
At first for me it was important to learn cold approach game and to go for SNLs. It's definitely an awesome aspect of the game and I've had a bit of success there now. I'm now gonna focus on building a stable and enjoying the fruits whilst keeping up to about 3 nights a week to constantly refine my skills (when I'm back at uni - right now it's all out ganster).
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TOOBAD

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SexySam wrote:
Focusing on SNL is not the proper thing to do IMO. Every girl I've banged I didnt have the intention of being a one night lay. A couple of exceptions when I was wasted out of my ass , but when I was reasonably sober, yes, i dont go into a set thinking OMG i want a SNL with her. I put her as an interesting girl.


TOOBAD wrote:
At first for me it was important to learn cold approach game and to go for SNLs. It's definitely an awesome aspect of the game and I've had a bit of success there now. I'm now gonna focus on building a stable and enjoying the fruits whilst keeping up to about 3 nights a week to constantly refine my skills (when I'm back at uni - right now it's all out ganster).

Nah I never actually focused on that particular outcome - kinda just ended up happening that way a lot of the time. Just having a good time and letting the chips fall where they may - as well as being too busy to meet up again etc.
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PlayDate wrote:
 I've noticed this for awhile now, but VERY few guys here date. Like serious LTR style date.

I'm sure lots of guys come onto RSD, find the first girl and " shes the one" and never come back till they break up.

But for the guys that have girls coming in and out of your life monthly,  what motivates you NOT to want to LTR these girls.

How do you keep from getting attached to seemingly solid chicks?
I got my GF with no job/money so I didn''t really DATE but I just went casual about it now I'm in 10 month LTR.   Serious LTR style in my opinion.  I will do the dating thing a bit more now but because it makes it more fun.

I still post because learning doesn't end when you're in a relationship, in fact you learn more.

Great post btw.
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