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October 24th, 2017
What would I do right now if I was a complete loser
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#81
Adam!

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Join Date: 03/21/2011 | Posts: 183

Just stumbled across this by accident.

This is going to be my mantra from now on. Some of these things I already have ticked off the list - some things I really need to step up and get done.

Certainly plenty of food for thought on offer here.

Fanks Fingerman


 
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#82
Pumba

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 thread's not cool without the original title
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The 3 commandments of rsdn

Thou shall read The Tolle.
Thou shall eat only Paleo approved food.
Thou shall not jerk off to porn. 


My FR Journal:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/201240 

'I'm willing to be happy doing anything, even if it sucks, as long as the overall picture is leading me towards an outcome I believe in.
But if it ain't getting me to where I want to go, I'm willing to do ANYTHING to extract myself from that situation.  If I have to bloody myself and risk KILLING myself I'll get out of that damned situation and into one that I like.'
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#83

AlexV

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Join Date: 11/12/2011 | Posts: 1537

Check list & QUESTION BELOW CHECK LIST FOR FINGERMAN:

1. check. moving in 18 days or so
2. that's going to be easy, got this skill down, already got that here, in the other city it's going to take much less time to get (couchsurfing = win)
3. I don't agree, most progress I've made so far was alone. Though by a NARROW margin. The biggest advantage of alone is that it sticks better in my experience. Not alone has become easy by going out in groups. Went out alone after grouping for a while, was very very hard.. Which is a good learning moment.
4. Converting my non active incomes to passives now, it's great. Check! Great tip! Sometimes hard to get shit done cause it takes months for ANY result and it's soul killing work sometimes. Changed my business model for passive shit and business philosophy... Going better every day now, so well that I decided to move abroad and drop all my non passive stuff.
DONT EAT SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
As for cars, phones, 100% agreed.
5. Ok, check
6. food: check, overall health: not quite, need to do more cardio to get the heart to a healthier level, overall still above average though, thanks for making this clear however.. I like the get better sex bit the most haha. My deep down dream is to get my body to its peak potential by the age of 28 (that's the age guys are at their fucking PEAK, they're winning at tennis, cycling, iron man, etc), i want that actually... The commitment needed for this is as big as the commitment needed for pickup i think... Nothing much to say here than I should commit ASAP with set dates & goals.
7. Working on this, it's basically state, quiet mind, all that shit, hard to get to work this for you all day, trying to achieve that now. Again, awesome tip..
8. Next year most likely, price is a bit steep for me at the moment.. My primary concern is: once you're out of there, you don't have an RSD Superman pushing you back into zone, you're back on your own.. Doubting long term effects here...
9. No masturbation is very hard if you don't get sex every 3 days or more... But I am cutting it down, everything else 100% agreed, would add these: news of any kind (cnn, nbc, Financial shit NONONO!), gossip, anything written by people who are writing it for money only, any advice that's for money only, anything even close to "get it now", ...


QUESTION: what's your passive? Resources appreciated.
Fingerman wrote:
So I've been reading lots of posts about people being complete losers. What I mean by that is, no girls, no money, no lifestyle, no health, no happiness.

You guys are fucking losers. Its time for a change.

If you don't know me, I'm a cool ass African American (Im not actually black).

I fuck tons of girls, I have money working for me (I don't work), I have awesome friends, I'm pretty fit and I travel pretty often which is what I like. I'm also an intern for RSD. Oh and I'm 21, and I used to be a loser just like you.

So if you are a complete loser in all areas of life and want a cool ass life in 1 year from now, 2 years from now, you need to start doing the following:

1. Move to a cheap city with a good wheater, good night life and good working opportunity. Have a place with your own room near the bars and clubs. No suburb BS or shitty city.

2. Make good friends that like to go out and that encourage or pick up girls with you. I don't care if they are faggots with no game. They have to be good friends, you have to love them, and you need to go out with them.

3. Start going out minimum 4 nights a week. All night. You don't count the number of sets you open. Its a marathon, not a sprint. You open all night until you leave, and you leave when the bar closes and there is no more girls on the street. Don't go out alone and do 4 approaches. That shit doesn't work. Make friends. Beast all night.

4. Money: Start working on your money situation. Make money with a job, and invest your money into passive income streams. You will need to learn and specialize in one or a few income streams. Passive income are things like Websites (internet marketing), Buildings, Laundry mats, Vending machines, TVs with ads, Stocks, a business that you own, etc. You need to learn and specialize. And you need a fucking job first to invest your money. Work at Mc Donald's if you don't have education I don't care. Live cheaply. No iphones, no blazers, no cars, nothing. You invest all the money you can and you eat rammens.

5. Read self help books, especially the ones recommended by the pua community. Those books will teach you game alone. Don't hang out on forums the only people giving advice on there don't get laid. Don't read pua ebooks, they only want to make money and they don't know shit. You want to be reading at least 10 books a year.

6. Work out and eat healthy. Do crossfit or P90X or anything you want. You need to get in shape. Getting laid isn't fun unless you are in shape. You don't want to die young. You want to be healthy. Its so important. Work out at least 3 times a week and more depending on what you do. If you need to lose weight, eat healthy and stop over eating and drinking (alchool and coke) you fat fuck.

7. Start meditating. At least 20 minutes a day. Meditation will make your game 1000 times better. Brad does it. I don't know why it works. It just does. It's magical.

8. At some point take an RSD bootcamp. It will fix some of your game problem and make you get laid more.

9. Forget about TV, computer games, masturbating, eating donuts and all the things you think are fun. They are not fun. They are making you more of a loser every single day.

That's all. That's my life. Do that for a couple of years and you'll be a very rich, very successful and very happy man.
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#84
MikeNY

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Join Date: 04/30/2011 | Posts: 79

 Masturbating isn't fun?
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#85
youngbulker

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Join Date: 07/29/2010 | Posts: 137

you cant fukin be healthy off ramen....
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#86

dirtysexybandit

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Join Date: 01/03/2011 | Posts: 380

 nice post fingerman. Opened my eyes to some stuff. 
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#87
Cam

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2. Make good friends that like to go out and that encourage or pick up girls with you. I don't care if they are faggots with no game. They have to be good friends, you have to love them, and you need to go out with them.

This is the best advice.  Whole post is good though.
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#88
Ryan

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Join Date: 11/13/2011 | Posts: 923

bump for a real post
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#89

NothingToLose

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lol what.. durr
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#90
hkmt

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Durrrrrr lol
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