THE FORUMS
" Your very aggressive..."
If she stays there and say it "You are very aggressive" means (oohhh damn, you are so dominant guy, it really turns me on)
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Shouldn't really matter what comes out of her mouth when you're on your path and going for what you desire. Silly girls these days always trying to verbalize the stuff they are uncomfortable about because they have to ping their thoughts off other ppl because they can't even agree with themselves and trust what they think without bouncing it off others....
right on man just keep going - its almost as if they need to verbalize it to see if it affects you.
I remember just looking back at her like what is she talking about, but I thought about it later, damn anaylzing.
I remember just looking back at her like what is she talking about, but I thought about it later, damn anaylzing.
I think it's all a shit test...if you back off they will probably think the aggressiveness was all an "act" to try and give yourself false confidence. I think if you just hold firm and be like"so what is it about aggressive guys that turns you on" or "oh you know you like it", you'll pass the test easily. I remain unreactive when I get that
my ten cents
CHAOS
my ten cents
CHAOS
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CHAOS - typically means a state lacking order or predictability. In ancient Greece, it first meant the initial state of the universe, and, by extension, space, darkness, or an abyss (the antithetical, or possibly complementary, concept was cosmos), but later uses of the term by philosophers varied over time. In modern English, the word is used in classical studies with the original meaning; in mathematics and science to refer to a very specific kind of unpredictability; and informally to mean a state of confusion. In philosophy, and in popular culture, the word can occur with all three meanings.
In pickup, it can be defined as "just get the fuck out of your head and bring her into YOUR reality, with no linear pattern or expected outcomes"
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In pickup, it can be defined as "just get the fuck out of your head and bring her into YOUR reality, with no linear pattern or expected outcomes"
Brad Bootcamp Oct. 22-24th 2010....The Countdown has Begun!!!!
IF YOU'RE IN NJ HIT ME THE FUCK UP LET'S WING TOGETHER!!!
Own it. If you´re agressive, you´re aggresive. Period. If they are UNCOMFORTABLE with you being "overly aggressive", then learn to communicate what you want to another way, like, with your body, instead of words.
But for the overall skill, I think it´s great to be able to chill the fuck out, assume it´ll happen cuz you´re just cool, and keep some intrigue once in a while.. it´ll awaken some skills you didn´t know you had.
But for the overall skill, I think it´s great to be able to chill the fuck out, assume it´ll happen cuz you´re just cool, and keep some intrigue once in a while.. it´ll awaken some skills you didn´t know you had.
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"Yes, I am. And that's why you like me."
That's my stock reply to any comment that a girl might make which may hint at something negative - such as this. Always agree - it gives them nothing to fight against.
Girl: "That shirt is so gayyyyy!"
You: "I know, it's the gayest shirt in the world." and so on.
Archie.
That's my stock reply to any comment that a girl might make which may hint at something negative - such as this. Always agree - it gives them nothing to fight against.
Girl: "That shirt is so gayyyyy!"
You: "I know, it's the gayest shirt in the world." and so on.
Archie.
CHAOS is right, it is a shit test. Or sort of a shit test. What it usually means is "I might be attracted to you, but I am not a slut, so you won't get me this easy", which is fine. But it can also mean "you are only interested in me because of my looks!", which is bad.
So my advice is simply to keep on trying. When you get that you usually just have to be persistant, and she will sleep with you, as soon as she don't think it will make her look cheap.
Maybe you can even say something like "I can't help it, because you are just one fine woman!" or something to that extend, because that would basically translate into "I don't view you as a slut, I really like you!" and so would serve to speed up the process.
So my advice is simply to keep on trying. When you get that you usually just have to be persistant, and she will sleep with you, as soon as she don't think it will make her look cheap.
Maybe you can even say something like "I can't help it, because you are just one fine woman!" or something to that extend, because that would basically translate into "I don't view you as a slut, I really like you!" and so would serve to speed up the process.
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I assume its good but then again its scared some of the girls away too. I always hear the industry cliche of "its better to over escalate than to under escalate," and for the most part I do believe this because if you under escalate you'll never go any where. I am just curious if any one has had this kind of experience a lot or has gone through this phase.
I was also thinking I might possibly be physically escalating with out an emotion spike or on a buying temp spike, possibly.
If you have any feedback thatd be great thanks.