THE FORUMS

Yes. I fully understand the power of texts. I'm well versed in all the textual routines, the 5 minute gilfriend, the "gastro-intestinal jihad", all the phoney quirky shit, of which i have TONS saved in a word document on my D:/ arranged in ways that they are arranged alphabetically and situationally with flow charts and venn diagrams and audio clips as examples. etc...

But there comes a point where you are a MAN OF ACTION.

You know my favourite texts of late? "Are you home?" "yeah, why?", "i'm coming over" DONE (obviously context specific). But the point is THERE IS NO MESSING AROUND.

Shit, a week in bitch don't even rememebr you, except your inane texts. So call her, remind her what a cool fucking chill guy you are - demonstrate your personality directly, with the rhythm and tonality that can only be conveyed through speaking.


True story, came home recently from a night bingin on methylone and mephedrone and a cocktail of phenylethylamines, horny as fuck, call up a phone sex thing, which is US-based cos its like 5am and after 15mins whacking off with this chick she's all like

"god, you sound hot" "if we were doing it for real, it would be the hottest sex" - within 15 minutes we exchange our email addresses FOR REAL, she gives me a live webcam on MSN FOR FREE, we spend 4 hours (i consume copiously more stimulants) - her name is Vanessa, she is 21 years old, she works as a stripper in Philadelphia, studying psychology, she gave me the name to her strip club (which i've verified), and she insists that i come over as a mystery guest and get a VIP dance off of her when i'm over there in a couple of months with work - she's all like "you HAVE to come over, i'm gonna miss you... keep emailing me! i'll send you pics!" etc...

Every opportunity, doesn't matter, i'm lethal.

My only point in using the text messages on my phone is to get the girl to meet up. I get straight to the mine ... "Let's grab a bite or drink tomorrow at X around Y...[followed by over-hype about X]". If I don't get her out solo, I add her to a group text and invite her to the hot parties I go to or mass-text whenever I go out. I usually get girls out for a bite or drink and sometimes meet up earlier at a nearby hotel lounge, spa, or lobby if I am going for a solo day 2. Other than that, I often invite girls out to the hot after-partiers late-night since every girl is looking for something really fun after the bars close. I also used to organized weekly get togethers with lots of girls at friends' houses, movie studios events, dinner parties at restaurants, cocktail parties at local wine/martini bars, and summer pool parties. I'd mass-text 1000-2000 girls and get 10%of them to showup for every event that I threw. For smaller events, I'd text less people so it wouldn't be overcrowded. Also, I would rent hotel suites and have after-parties in the hotel suite, which is great because at the end of the night, you can kick out everyone except the 1-2 girls that you want to keep there.

Solid stuff. It needs to go some where. If they got a hotel, leave with them. I personally see a 7day window. She could come around after that but, I cut the number and repeat the cycle. I don't believe in holding onto numbers. She has 7days. A lot of times, women can be busy - legit busy. I could give a fuck. She texts later on and I am like "WHO IS THIS/" another words... yEAH, I forgot who you are... Too many other girls. If you can't get her out solo - like Papa said, have a group invite. Its like another excuse to hang out but, gives you the opp to bring your best game. This doesn't mean you go and be try hard. Just portray an attractive self. Like I said earlier, analyze her situation. A parapraxis happens where - she will have a slip of the tongue. She will reveal something about her current life situation - BF cheated one me = looking to fuck.

It is then my job to push for fucking. I invite her to come grab food with me. Again, I am pushing to fuck.
My buddy and I were talking about pulling. No tactics or bullshit. Just pulling.
His way is just texting the girl - send out a massive group of texts with the women you aREN'T getting out. Extend an invite where ever. Remember dominance. No - :"oh you want to come to my party?" .... Instead, "I will see you at my party." /end texting -
She can then call me for directions. Texting is done from here on.

Now, you might be thinking, "what if she still doesn't come?" Well brah, your already in that predicament now. Still keep a strong frame. The party isn't based upon her coming or not. Your having fun. She has been extended an invite. I am gonna have a blast with or without her. Hold a leading frame. Don't be asking, begging or co-dependent in any way.
Lastly, remember you only get 1 first impression. Make the most of it.

Fuck yeah, good word.  Yeah I noticed that IF you are attractive, and IF you aren't try hard, and IF you are paying attention, a girl will drop these verbally, as well as physically.  Physical parapraxes include brushing you with her tits, touching you, longer-than-usual glances, proximity, various other small openings that if you're paying attention to, you can jump on.  If she's drinking, they become more and more exaggerated.  Remember Kuz's story about being crotch-grabbed at a club in Baghdad.  I've been "womanhandled," such as a girl grabbing my bicep or chest as I walk by, an occasional hand on the ass.  It's fuckin funny.  Like a free game on a pinball machine.